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Hi, these are just some thoughts regarding your post about non-binary people. There are several biological factors behind biological sex and gender development, which include sex chromosomes which code for sex hormones. Different exposure affects some aspects of brain development which affects our gender identity. Within a population there is going to be variation which is not categorical but linear. This not only leads to intersex and trams individuals but also people who are 'non-binary'

Thank you for the information :)

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I wrote "FOR NOW I only believe (...)". But okay, I don't want any negativity here.

People need to ask in order to learn new things, and I explicitly wrote that I do not want to invalidate anybody. It has nothing to do with spreading negative opinions, because I stated that I don't know any better and want to learn more about it.

That's why I am very careful sharing my thoughts online.

I have a Question: Nonbinary

Hello to whoever reads this :)

I am a quite logical thinking person, and I haven’t found a logical and scientific explanation about Nonbinary people existing jet. Could you guys help and tell me about this if you know more than me? I don’t want to upset anybody who identifies as such.

For now I only believe that female, male, ftm trans, mtf trans and intersex people exist.

I respect other opinions, so please share yours. :)

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A guide to washing machine / laundry symbols.

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You didn't understood my question. I consider myself to be an open minded person, and after reading through your post, k-con, I think I might have got a better perspective on this topic than before.

What I wrote was not ignorant. I wanted others to help me to broaden my knowledge. How is ignorant or biggoted, if I am simply asking for other peoples input?

Why can't other people just answer without hatred? We don't even know each other.

But thank you for the information, I will do my research. Because I do not judge without knowing about what or who I am talking about /to.

I have a Question: Nonbinary

Hello to whoever reads this :)

I am a quite logical thinking person, and I haven’t found a logical and scientific explanation about Nonbinary people existing jet. Could you guys help and tell me about this if you know more than me? I don’t want to upset anybody who identifies as such.

For now I only believe that female, male, ftm trans, mtf trans and intersex people exist.

I respect other opinions, so please share yours. :)

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What happens once you kill yourself? Because I'm ready to go.

You wanna know what happens once you kill yourself? Your mother comes home from work and finds her baby dead and she screams and runs over to you and tries to get you to wake up but you won’t and she keeps screaming and shaking you and her tears are dripping onto your face and your dad hears all the screaming and runs into the room and he can’t even speak because the child that he loved and the child that he watched grow up is gone forever and finally your little sister runs into the room to see what all the fuss is about and she sees you dead. The person she looked up to and loved. The person she bragged about to  her friends, the person she wanted to be just like when she grew up, the person that made her feel safe. But she’s never really going to get to grow up and smile and laugh and love because she’ll always be consumed with this feeling of missing you. And now there’s something missing from your family and they can barely look at each other anymore because everything reminds them of you but you’re gone and hurts more than anything. and you think that your mom never cared because she was always busy and yelling at you to finish your homework and clean your room and forgot to say I love you sometimes but really, she loved you more than anything and she doesn’t leave the house anymore, she can’t even get out of bed and she’s getting thinner and thinner because it’s too hard to eat. Your father had to quit his job and he doesn’t sleep anymore, every time he closes his eyes he sees his baby dead, and the image never goes away no matter how much alcohol he drinks. And at school your best friend sees that your seat is empty and she gets this sick feeling in her stomach and that’s when she hears the announcement. You killed yourself. And suddenly she’s screaming and crying in the middle of class and no one even bothers comforting because they’re all  busy sitting there staring at your empty seat with tears dripping down their cheeks and all she wants is for you to hug her and tell her it’s gonna be okay like you always did, but this time, you’re not there to do it, everything is dark now that you’re gone and her grades are slipping, she barely goes to school anymore and she ended up in hospital after taking too many pills because she wanted to see you again. the girls who used to make fun of the way you dressed feel their throats get tight, they don’t talk to each other anymore, they don’t talk to anyone, they’re all in therapy trying so hard not to blame themselves but nothing works. and your teacher who always gave you a hard time stares blankly at the wall, she quits her job a few days later. And then your boyfriend hears the news and he can’t breathe, he still calls you a lot just to hear your voice and he talks to you on facebook but you never message him back, he can’t fall in love again because every girl he meets reminds him of you, he’s never going to get over you, he loved you and he cries himself to sleep every night, hating himself and slicing his skin because he couldn’t save you and he’s never going to hold you in his arms or hear you laugh again. Now everyone who knew you, whether they were a big part of your life or someone you passed in the hallway a few times a week, they carry this aching feeling around inside them because you’re gone, and they miss you, and they don’t know why you left but it must’ve been their fault and they should’ve stopped you and they should’ve told you they loved you more and that feeling is never going to go away. And so you killed yourself

but you killed everyone else around you too. 

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I have a Question: Nonbinary

Hello to whoever reads this :) I am a quite logical thinking person, and I haven't found a logical and scientific explanation about Nonbinary people existing jet. Could you guys help and tell me about this if you know more than me? I don't want to upset anybody who identifies as such. For now I only believe that female, male, ftm trans, mtf trans and intersex people exist. I respect other opinions, so please share yours. :)

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My Dysphoria.

Dysphoria to me is like being born with a tattoo. You hate this tattoo, but it is permanent and it’s never going to go away. You wake up every morning and see the tattoo, when you shower you are forced to wash the tattoo, stare at the skin. Your parents love the tattoo though, they say that you’re lucky to have it and that other people would kill to have a tattoo like yours. You try to hide your tattoo under multiple layers of clothing, but sometimes the clothing shifts around and everyone realizes you have a tattoo. Maybe you start talking to someone and they have no idea you have a tattoo. You’re forced to tell them eventually, it’s apart of you. Yeah, sure, you can spend loads of money to get the tattoo removed, but not until you’re old enough to leave the house. Your parents don’t want you to get rid of the tattoo. Your significant other doesn’t care about your tattoo, they claim that they’ll love you no matter what you look like, but you’re still not convinced. The pain, the suffering, that horrible tattoo causes you is unbearable. You can’t help, but imagine your body tattoo free, get jealous when you see other people with tattoos they love. But you’re stuck with your tattoo.

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i dont like calling myself trans when someone asks my gender i just say male i love the word trans its beautiful but people say it like as if trans guy is something different than cis guy its subcategorizing, boys are boys trans or cis arent they the same gender BOY. of course the difference is our assigned gender(which is just a bunch of letters that is written in our ID). i just dont get it. people are getting mad just bc i dont say the word trans they're saying im pretending to be a cis dude

hi im the anon who doesnt like calling himself trans i have one more question(500 character thing didn’t let me write it) are trans boy and cis boy are the same genders? trans boys and cis boys identify as the same thing, so they _are_ the same thing. A MALE isn’t it?

Yes, trans boys and cis boys are the same gender. Boys. Guys. Male.

You don’t need to specify whether you’re a trans boy or a cis boy if you don’t want to.

But calling yourself a trans guy doesn’t take away your guy-ness. Trans is an adjective. Like, Swedish guys, Autistic guys, white guys, etc. are all guys. Their Swedishness, Autisticness, whiteness etc. does not change that. And neither does a trans guy’s transness.

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Ich habe mich endlich getraut, mir die Haare schneiden zu lassen. Es ist echt kurz geworden und ist sowas von ungewohnt :D

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Reblog if you utterly and without hesitation support gay rights

It’ll mean a lot to my friend, who’s having a tough time with bullies lately.

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Holy shit that real life experience things is terrifying. I have to make people treat me as male while I do not "look it"? In my area I would be safer "acting male" once I have a couple changes that would in cis people's view make them think I was a cis man. I don't want to and it scares me! But it also looks like that's what I have to do. O heavens I'm scared. Nothing to do about but follow the rules I suppose 😔

Yeah it really is a shitty thing to require from you and I’m very sorry you’re going to have to go through with that. I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you to hope that it goes well, that you will be safe and that the time will pass quickly.

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Das Thema betreffend der Toilettennutzung von Transidenten Personen wegen dem Gesetz aus North Carolina hat wohl jetzt auch die deutschen Medien erreicht. Die Auswirkungen sind größer als ich gedacht hätte.

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There is no "right time" to discover your identity. You can't be "too old" or "too young" to experience self-discovery. You are always valid, no matter when you find yourself.

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u know what fucking bless trans kids. bless trans kids who aren’t out and have to deal with being misgendered and misnamed at school all day and bless trans kids out are out and have to deal with transphobia at school and at home. bless trans kids who have to use the wrong locker room/bathroom and bless nonbinary kids who hate doing those gendered activities (ex. “all boys on one side all girls on the other we’re gonna play a game!!”) like fucking bless all of u u kiddos are so strong and i love u all it’ll get better

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friends, lemme share this little gem with you

FIRST! The inner flap:

oh dear indeed… 

some people crayons are jerks.

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:D

:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :’’’’) :’’’’’’’’)))))))))))

i just have a lot of feelings about this book and think everyone should own it