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Consumed by you (aspects)

From doing plenty of research and indulging into my own knowledge, from what I’ve learned and have experienced, and what others have experienced, I’ve unraveled a list of aspects, overlays, and connections that show the birth of sizzling attraction between two people. Some of these can be based off feminine energy and masculine. You also have to keep in point some of these are based off aspects, so you don’t need to know their rising sign (but in some you may), but the degree. You also have to remember that some of these aspects don’t all mean a promise to a long-lasting relationship or that they’ll always manifest healthily, it’s all about attraction in some form. It shows what makes the heart fonder, the mind cloudier, the air denser, the tension steamer, and the love tethered. Mind over matter? No. Body, heart, and/or soul wins in this case:

Eros/Psyche & other sexually based asteroids

As you know, or can find from my directory, Eros and Psyche are my favorite asteroids. These aspects or connections have a “mean’t to be” feel to them, it’s a potent place to look at in synastry. In mythology they were married and soul mates but went through a lot to be together…

- His Eros conjuncts her Psyche

-Eros and Eros are the same; due to my reasoning, I think this would be highly favorable and steamy. If you think about it, you guys would have the same sexuality that speaks for a deeper side of you than Mars does, and then your mars sign adds more flavor.

-Eros conjunct their personal planets ( Sun,Moon,Venus, Mars etc.). You find them sexually attractive.

-From research I’ve found other asteroids such as ( Lust, Sappho, Galatea, Adonis, Apollo, Aphrodite, or Vesta) conjunct Mars that show strong sexual attraction and a romantic admiration. I’ve noticed this is really potent with Lust.

- Sappho conjunct Venus, Mars, and/or Sun shows a deep bond but how the person of the asteroid messes with the mind of the person with the personal planet. Yet, the Sappho person will want you and will pursue you.

-Apollo conjunct Personal planets. You can’t help but to love the Apollo person and almost “worship them,” basically your admiration for them is perhaps strong. They favor you in return.

I will be doing a post about asteroid compatibility soon**************

The Planets

-His sun and her moon conjunct/opposition/trine. For the conjunction, they seem to balance the masculine and feminine energies of these inner planets. These usually have a “long-lasting” feel to them and is very common amongst a “soulmate feel.” It’s not blazing hot with sexual energy but it’s for a long-lasting relationship and a romantic feel, it gives satisfying sex along with love.

-Venus conjunct/opposite Mars. Mostly works as the girl’s Venus and the guy’s Mars. It’s pretty famous in astrology and a pretty famous indication of attraction, but some find it a little overrated which shows just how strong it can be at times. I feel like this can happen even if they truly don’t conjunct by degree but it won’t be as strong, I’ve seen how this aspect can be so addictive towards the two of them. It can be so strong that no matter how much you try, you can’t resist.

- Venus/Moon aspects. Completely underrated in my opinion. The harmonious aspects such as conjunction and trine are way better. It shows a strong emotional and romantic link. It shows romantic affection and adoration in synastry, it’s a extremely strong thing to look at in both charts. It’s one of the most romantic aspects.

-Venus/Saturn aspects. Extremely beautiful, strong, but hard to build up to. Therefore it builds endurance but becomes the glue that can hold two together. More so in a square or opposition, If there’s an attraction sizzling at first, the Saturn person will pursue the Venus person but they’ll also try to change and perhaps control them. Tension can grow a lot over time and can be overwhelming and too much for the Venus person, which is strong if you have lots of air or water in your chart. It’s more easier with a Trine or conjunction. Regardless, if these two planets make an aspect, it’s a karmic lesson that can aid you, or test you and break you.

- Venus/Uranus aspects. Quick, exciting, zestful, and exhilarating, but only long-lasting if other aspects help. You guys are fascinated with each other, as it creates lots of excitement, adventure, and fascination. If you know the nature of Uranus, it’s about no restrictions and freedom. and if you apply that to love then I think it shows why you also need other aspects to balance that. It can be over-stimulating so look at other aspects.

- Venus/Pluto aspects! Much, much, much stronger and steamier than the Venus/Mars aspects. The harmonious aspects make it easier, but this aspect isn’t for the faint-hearted. It’s something you have to also work through. This almost works like the Taurus (Proserpina) and Scorpio (Hades) relationship, so indulge in it but get ready for the roller coaster. It will be deep, intense, erotic, sexually charged, but deeply emotional nonetheless. It makes the relationship stronger. Much stronger if it’s looking at his Pluto and her Venus.

-Venus/Neptune aspects. Indicator of finding your soulmate once again, and if you don’t believe in that (which is fine), it’ll give you that feeling. It feels like a fairytale and is extremely romantic, along with spiritual.It feels very ethereal and dreamy, but remember Mr/Miss Venus, don’t put the Neptune person on a pedestal.

-Mars conjunct (or even trine) Uranus. Two words: Kinky Sex. There’s a instant attraction and a promise for…interesting but explorative sex. I think this kind of speaks for itself when you combine the nature of both of these planets.

- Moon/ Pluto aspects. Extremely powerful when they Conjunct, second strongest aspect is Trine. The Pluto person will really want every part of the Moon, and will want to know every soulful thing about them. It’s a strong aspect but not easy to deal with that, it gives a Scorpio taste to your relationship, and it’s not always easy when it comes to the extremes.

-Mars/Pluto aspects. Makes for strong sexual chemistry but not emotional like the above aspect. This is all about the physical arena in the relationship. It can be dangerous and competitive, so you have to be careful of this aspect when it comes to anger and fights.

- Her Moon conjunct his Mars. I feel like this is more emotional then the Venus/Mars aspect, but it may cause so much attraction that you can have lots of sex. It’s very passionate but his Mars needs to be wary of her emotions, because Mars is assertive and won’t think twice. So as passionate it is, you have to be wary.

The Aspects (Midheaven, Ic, Ascendant, Descendant)

**look for a Double Whammy, meaning it occurs to both of your charts and is a really evident theme in your relationship

-Cross aspects between one person’s personal planets and/or angles (angles are what I’ve parenthesized in the title) and the second person’s lunar node. The conjunction is seen as the most intense, as some astrologers only count this aspect (do what you feel is evident). It has a Karmic feel to it.

- Similar sense as to above, but your personal planets conjunct one of their angles. This is stronger for the Ascendant/rising and/or Descendant.

- Neptune conjunct their luminaries (Sun and/or Moon), other personal planets, and Ascendant or Descendant. This gives a sense of giving into a partner or surrendering your heart to them

-Your/their Mars conjuncts their/yours Midheaven or Ic angle, surprisingly it pulls out strong desires but of course this isn’t always the case. I was surprised when doing research and found this one, but after indulging in to the topic and what I’ve experienced along with others, it does hold very true.

Juno

-Aspects made, by degree, to the other person’s personal planets are really good and in fact common amongst married couples. This can even be evident for the angles of the MC/IC

Lilith

First of all Lilith is for females and not the male, it’s not strongly evident in a males chart unless of course they connect to it.

-Lilith aspects to their/your personal planets (including ascendant/rising). Magnetization is strong and there’s bountiful amounts of obsessive qualities to the relationship and strong sexual attraction. Lilith is dangerous though, so be careful. It can leave men obsessive or heartbroken as it can break relationships too, it has no logic to it. It acts just like Pluto, so handle with caution.

Vertex

Vertex is like the second descendant

-Your/their Vertex conjuncts or is at opposition of any personal planets, angles, or their/your Vertex. It shows a fated relationship that can affect you greatly.

North Nodes

- I talked a little about this for the angles but any connections to the North Nodes do have a karmic and “meant to be” feel for them. Not all are positive and easy but you should really look there because it’s very soulful.

Overlays

-Any of their Planets falling in your 5th,8th, and even 12th house can feel very strong, spiritual, romantic, or intense. It depends on the house. My overlay series should help with that.

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the-cosmic-kitty · 2 years ago

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idkw but I’m pretty sure they spend a lot of time just staring at each other

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the-cosmic-kitty · 2 years ago

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One of the things that really gets me when it comes to online witchcraft and magic spaces is how hard people push the narrative that beginner magic is dangerous. It really isn't. No demon is going to show up and suck out your soul because you accidentally summoned it. No deity is going to go out of their way to harm you. Most spirits can be dealt with using a basic banishing spell. It is extremely uncommon for witches to hex each other, but you wouldn't guess it from the fear mongering that goes around about it.

What IS important for beginner witches is learning mundane skills like discernment and critical thinking. Because when you're just getting started, the most dangerous thing you are going to encounter is other practitioners preying on newbies. Know how to spot grooming. Know how to spot cult-like behavior. Know how to read books critically. Know how to spot bullshit when you see it.

Have fun with beginner magic. Get messy. Make mistakes. Fuck around and find out. There's no need to be afraid of it. No one ever cultivated a craft or skill by being too afraid to DO.

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the-cosmic-kitty · 2 years ago

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Divine Love Jar

This spell can be used either to attract love to you, or help you better love yourself. Set your intent and focus on it while filling your jar.

You will need:

Rose petals

Lavender buds

Rosemary

Mistletoe

Basil

Rose quartz shards

Clear quartz shards

A jar

After cleansing yourself, the area, and all the items you'll be using, layer your herbs in the jar in whatever order you please, leaving the crystals for last. While filling your jar, chants the words:

"I am worthy of love."

If you don't have these herbs, feel free to make the spell your own! I create all my own spells through research and intuition. If it feels right, I simply let my instinct guide me. Would love to see how others make a jar with similar intent!

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the-cosmic-kitty · 2 years ago

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Halloween is coming 🎃 🍁👻

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the-cosmic-kitty · 2 years ago

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Resources for Aphrodite Devotees

I figured it would be easier to have a post with the links to all my Aphrodite posts. I’m going to link this in my bio and whenever I make new posts I’ll update this!

List of Aphrodite Devotees

Introducing Yourself to Aphrodite

Offerings/Devotional Acts for Aphrodite

Offerings After the Ritual

Orgasms as Offerings

Starting Your Relationship

Tips/Advice

Creating a Deeper Bond

Setting Up Your Altar to Aphrodite

Becoming an Aphrodite Devotee

Misconceptions of Aphrodite

Devotional Journal

Communicating With Deities

My Favorite Epithets and Why

Crystals for Aphrodite

Festivals I Celebrate

Aphrodisia

Example of How I Celebrate Aphrodisia

When Asking a Deity For Favors

30 Days of Aphrodite

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the-cosmic-kitty · 2 years ago

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On Worshipping Hades

There are a ton of posts out there for signs and symbols, offerings and all that. Regardless, I’m making this post because Hades is the God I receive the most asks about, and this post was highly requested.

The Basics

Offerings:

Coins & other money (traditionally gold or brass, but all money works)

Stones, especially dark, jagged stones

Alcohol, especially wine

Honey

Milk or Water

Tobacco

Herbs: cypress, mint, myrrh, patchouli, bay, pumpkin, yew, wormwood, cinnamon, lavender, willow, oak

Flowers: marigold, dandelion, rose, lily, daisies, rowan, poppy, daffodils, calendulas

Oils, especially olive oils and vinegars

Salts and spices

Shells or bones of the earth

Teas, especially blacks and oolongs

Breads or cakes

Fruits, such as apples and pomegranates

Meat (especially lamb)

Incenses: frankincense, myrrh, wormwood, sandalwood, cinnamon, rose, pomegranate

Candles: black, grey or silver

Symbols:

Dogs (Cerberus, specifically), black lambs, serpents and screech owls

Precious jewels, money, metals

Cypress, white asphodel, mint, narcissus

Drinking horn

Sceptre

Key

Helm of darkness

Black, grey, silver, gold

Nighttime

Autumn and Winter

Cemeteries, crossroads, forests, caves and mines

Ideas for the Altar:

Black mirror

Black cloth

Dark stones, such as hematite, onyx, obsidian, jet and the like

Shells

Dirt from outside, or graveyard dirt

Black, grey or silver candles

Flowers (dried works well too)

Bones (ethically sourced)

Representations of any of His symbols, listed above

Money, especially rare coins

Silver, or other precious metals

Family heirlooms

Active Practice

Worship Etiquette:

As with all chthonic deities, offerings are usually poured down. Offerings that float up (such as incense) are less common, but can be used.

Food offerings are usually buried instead of eaten. However, if need be, you may eat them.

Offerings are often buried, poured down the drain, or into the trash. This is done to ‘complete’ the offering.

This is very traditional, but I want to include it for extra information. In a temple with a roof, offerings would often be left by His feet all day and then during at night. Also, since the Mycenaean period, priests of Άδης would rhythmically pound their hands on the ground whilst praying to Him. I will sometimes tap (not pound) my head to the floor while praying in honor of this tradition.

As always, be polite. Hades will forgive any mistakes with a forgiveness offerings and continued respect.

Ideas for Active Worship:

Saving money, and spending it wisely

Cleaning litter from cemeteries, and tending to old graves

Offerings to the dead, as well as money to the spirits of the dead to let them pass on, and donating the physical change

Collecting crystals and stones

Making an altar to tend dead spirits

Studying other cultures’ burial methods and cemetery rites

Donating to burial, mortuary or funeral services

If you communicate to spirits, treat them kindly and help them move on

Ancestral worship

Praying