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Let’s Talk About Sex

I use to think of sex as just that. Sex. I would use it as a coping mechanism. If I was upset, I’d distract myself by having sex with whoever I was in a relationship with. Even in the beginning of the relationship I’m in now, I’d find myself wanting to have sex when I was upset. I remember when my grandpa was in the hospital, after getting the news, my (then girlfriend, now fiancé) and I went…

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Welcome back!

It’s 6:11 am, I wake up before my alarm goes off. I’d been tossing and turning all night and didn’t actually fall asleep until sometime after one. I get up and grab my clothes from the closet that is laid out the night before. I head to the bathroom to get dress, brush my teeth and freshen up my face. Time is ticking and before I know it, it’s already 6:25 am and I still haven’t let the pup out.…

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The Golden Age

I started this blog about 3 years ago. I was at the golden age in life…21. I was finally legal to say, “Hey bartender, could you make me a drink? Something that’s sweet but not too sweet.” Now, only 3 years later, I can go into a bar and tell the bartender exactly what I want. “Could I have Cuba Libre?” (Otherwise known as a rum and coke), or “Could I have an AngryBalls?” (Angry orchards with a…

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Hello You...

Hello You…

It’s been a long time since I’ve written anything on here, I think now it’s time for me to brush off the layer of dust that’s been building up and update you on what’s happened these past few months. For those of you who chose to finish reading this, brace yourself.. Let me take you back to the end of April 2016, when things were good in life… I think I told you all that my girlfriend and I moved…

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UPDATE STARTING IN 3, 2, 1...

UPDATE STARTING IN 3, 2, 1…

So it’s been a while…Okay it’s been a LONGGGGG while..since I’ve blogged and I feel horrible about that. I told myself I’d use this as an outlet, sort of an online “journal” and I haven’t been! A few new (and exciting) things are happening in my life, so its time for an update! First, I started a new job in December and while I was super excited to get it because I’d been out of work for 3…

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Time Alone...

Time Alone…

This will probably be all over the place but bare with me!! This weekend my girlfriend and I went down to the shore for her job, they have an event she’s working down here. For about a month she’s be asking me to make sure I have off of work so that I could go and again and again I told her I had off. Fast forward to the week that we’re leaving….Monday I find out that her best friend is coming…

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You shouldn’t have to be taught this. 😒 But some are ignorant . So..

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AfroPunk Festival in Brooklyn on August 23 😍

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'Can I touch your hair?'

‘Can I touch your hair?’

Two weeks ago while I was at work, a woman commented on how nice my hair was. This was before I did my big chop when I had straw curls. She then asked if I had locs and I smiled and said, “No, my hair is just curled.” Then she walked over to me and asked if she could touch it but before I could even finish saying sure, her hands were in my hair and she was saying how soft it was and how she loved…

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So true… 😢

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Hair!!!!!

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IG: breakingdawnb

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I think I prefer day two of my twist out. I need my hair to be a little messy.

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Great balls of fire.

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Being online I get compliments daily, & it’s truly a blessing but Ive also come to see the downside of the social world. I’ve said this before but doesn’t hurt to remind you. I’ll say to you all what I’ll say to my future daughter: “SEE YOUR BEAUTY, WITHOUT A COMPLIMENT, OR A MIRROR. MIRRORS ONLY SHOW US WHAT WE LOOK LIKE, NOT WHO WE ARE.” As women & sometimes men, we focus a lot on our exterior & compare our behind the scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel on social media. Many of us don’t stop to see the reality. Reality is… You only see my good pictures, good days, my smiles, my good looking model husband & beautiful child. You cant compare what you’re experiencing daily, with an online world of perfection. Celebrities online, makeup gurus, online personalities, myself and others… We all go through crappy moments you never witness. Be a realist, ask yourself “when do you ever feel like 💩 then post it for the world to see”? NEVER. Who wants to takes a picture when their sad and going through personal issues? Not me. Just remember that. ————————————————- Estando en el Internet/Social yo recibo muchas palabras de alabanza y amor diario, y es una bendición, pero también me he dado cuenta de la baja en el mundo social. voy a decirle a ustedes lo que le dire a mi propia futura hija: “TIENES QUE VER TU BELLEZA, SIN COMENTARIOS FISICOS O UN ESPEJO. LOS ESPEJOS SOLAMENTE NOS MUÉSTRAN COMO NOS VEMOS, NO QUIENES SOMOS “. Aveces, nos concentramos mucho en nuestro exterior y comparamos nuestra vida adentro de las escenas de nuestra propia vida, con las escenas social en photos/Internet de todos los demás más. La realidad es que en el Internet/social ustedes sólo ven los buenos días, mis sonrisas, mi bello modelo/esposo y mi hermoso niño. Ustedes no son testigos en los malos momentos en no vida. Las celebridades, gurús de maquillaje, personalidades en internet, yo misma y otros… pasamos por momentos dificiles y malos también. Sea realista y pregunta “¿cuándo te sientes como💩 quien puede publicarlo para que el mundo vea”… NADIE. ¿Quién quiere publicar una imagen, cuando esta triste o pasando por problemas personales? Yo no. Recuerden esto. (at Youtube.com/SunKissAlba)

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