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bro im fr so sick of my dad crawling up my ass like come ON MAN. he gets so pissy if i dont immediately stop what im doing to do what He Wants. its ridiculous

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my worst fear came true last night. its terminal boys B,) /neg (not calling you a boy op sorry idk your gender- )

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My dad is cancer free!

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my friend said i wasnt “trans enough” ???? despite me literally being on hormones and having had surgery ???????? im one part baffled, one part confused, one part upset

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Anon that was really fucking upset about their friend having a partner here. They broke up! My friend didn’t actually like them that much and has a hard time saying no. Also they learned like some crazy info on the person they went on a date with and got scared.

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A friend that I’ve known for 7 years recently started going on dates with somebody they just met last week and I’m really scared that means we won’t spend as much time together or be as close since romantic relationships are typically seen as much more important than platonic relationships for some dumbass reason. I think I’m jealous or upset or something too because I’m the one that’s known them longer, I actually know their interests, I get upset when I think about how we’ll stop being friends one day, I appreciate and love practically everything about them, I think about them so often even though they might never think of me outside of school, their partner or whatever they are just thought they were cute, they don’t truly know anything about my friend. I thought I might actually tell them how much I love them on monday before they told me how they were nervous for a date they were going on. They might be the only one where the lines between platonic and romantic love blur for me. I don’t know how they’d ever love me but it’s so fucking dumb to look for somebody specifically for the purpose of romance, fall in love with your friends. I truly hope that my friend is happy with their partner but I also desperately hope they break up.

PLEASE DON’T ANSWER THIS IF I ACCIDENTALLY WENT OFF ANON!!! Sorry for the giant block of text, I just needed to write about why I’ve cried for the first time in a while.

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my mom killed herself today last year. none of my friends know.

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ok im in theatre in hs, and me and my bf always audition together (to support eachother and also cause we love theatre!) but we got a new director this year; and she FUCKING loves my boyfriend. she does not hide that he's her favorite. he got cast in our play this year, and he did great! but we just finished musical auditions, and he's admitted himself that he is NOT a good singer. i AM a good singer, i've taken lessons and i did chorus for 4 years. guess who got cast! (p.s. it wasn't me.) i didnt even get an ensemble role. not only was he not a good singer; he didn't even remember his audition song or his lines!

i am proud of him and happy for him, its just frustrating since its so obviously favoritism. i don't wanna take out this frustration on my bf, but its hard not too when he's the "teachers pet" that i would make fun of.

anyway i'll just die ig

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...new submissions blog?

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CONFESSION BOX IS CURRENTLY: OPEN

are you looking for a place to submit your tea and/or secrets WITHOUT op getting judgy? are you looking to be able to submit what you want, instead of following arbitrary guidelines that arent enforced evenly? are you looking to get that burden off your chest? do you want to share some hot goss, or break down about a traumatic event? look no further than teaandsecrets2, the spiritual successor that nobody asked for!

the rules for submissions are simple -

1. dont be a dipshit

2. dont send duplicates

everything else is a-ok! i truly do not give a shit what you submit here, so go buck wild!

FAQ

Q: op, why did you make this blog? doesnt tea-and-secrets already exist?

i made this blog 1) because the current mod of tea and secrets can be judgemental and unfair to submissions, and i was tired of seeing it. and 2) i love gossip and drama, and love being a messy bitch. if you want to support the og, go for it! idgaf.

Q: are there any submissions you wont publish?

the only asks i wont publish are stupid ones, like if youre just sending a slur over and over again in my inbox. anything else WILL be published, so dont submit it if you dont want it published. i believe in pure free speech, so if you want to talk about a heavier/more serious topic, go for it.

Q: do you interact with submissions in any way?

nope! i answer with a “.” so i can publish the ask, but there will be no response in tags, in replies, nothing. if you want to start a fight in replies? go for it, idgaf. you want to be an asshole in your ask? do it, i dont care. im not your dad lol.

Q: when will you publish my tea and/or secret?

when i get around to it! i work a full time job + manage multiple other projects ontop of this blog, so sometimes posts can end up delayed if im busy that day. ill try to publish things as soon as i receive them though!

Q: do you do trigger/content warnings?

yes, but only major ones. im not tagging “tw onceler” and “tw tomatos” and “tw scrub daddies” here, im tagging sexual assault, domestic violence, etc etc.

Q: why are you so aggressive?

i love problems. this post is likely the only time youll ever see my personality though, so enjoy it while it lasts!

Q: will you delete my submission?

no. i dont have the time nor the energy to go through every ask searching for one thing in particular, so if you submit something, be prepared for it to be submitted.

Q: how do we refer to you op?

it/its exclusively.