#you're the biphobe btw

[ducksbuttocks]

oh i just read some new tags (from the few people i hadn't blocked yet) under the let buck fuck interview and literally from the bottom of my heart i wanna say i hate you people so much and you're all so fucking stupid. character who canonically likes casual sex can sleep around all he wants bc he's our poor little meow meow but as soon as he comes out as bisexual he's not allowed to anymore :) bc it looks bad :) and that's your woke progressive take. you're reinventing the hays code as we speak and patting yourself on the back bc of it you're literally soooo fucking dumb it's insane. "it was inevitable, what did you expect from a straight actor playing a queer character" did he personally tell you that? are you in his head? do you want all queer artists to go around wearing a pink triangle next so you can feel more comfortable? all the while btw your precious fave is saying things like "yeah it obviously hurts when your bisexual partner has functioning eyes and uses them to look at someone who isn't you". and to be absolutely clear this isn't about ship wars bc i'm not 15 anymore this is about you people repackaging conservative takes in nice buzzwords and calling it activism and using it to harass someone bc of it. literally grow up and grow a fucking brain. imagine how tired i am of reading biphobic rants written by actual bisexual people too

[redtail-lol]

bitch putting 'die now' in the tags automatically disqualifies you from being better than anybody, esp if it's for being an mspec lesbian. You're literally on the same level as homophobes if not worse. If you can't accept that bi and lesbian can't be mutually exclusive because genderfuckery exists then you're misunderstanding queerness entirely.

Oh, and gotta love you pulling the race card. Ain't nothing in this thread had anything to do with race so I don't see a point in you saying anything about white people for any reason other than to look better.

Anyways, stop hating all enbyspec people, stop hating bisexuality that doesn't include men, stop treating lesbian like it's always exclusive when that's literally solely because of TERFs, stop telling queer people to die for being queerer than you, and stop accusing actual lesbians of lesbophobia for realizing that bi and lesbian have overlapping definitions and complex history. You're literally more toxic than Chernobyl. Just interacting with you will probably give me radiation poisoning and I'm surprised you're still alive.

FI HAVE NEVER SEEN YOU BEFORE OTHER THAN THIS 1 TIME WTF DID FI DO TO YOU MAN 😭

[v-arbellanaris]

i need people to know that headcanon-ing queer characters as a different Flavour of queer is not the hashtag progressive hot take you think it is.

[impmansloot]

it's interesting how no one complains when people refer to astarion romancing tavs/people in general as girls yet I've seen so many posts rn literally in a row complaining about how bad bad gays don't wanna see het ships/dynamics on their feed

[renemesis]

"wow this person is so cool!"

(finds out you're panphobic)

*SpongeBob bwomp sound effect*

come on man we're all in this together. discourse in our own community isn't what any of us are striving for. i hope you grow to be a better person.

Hey anon give me a definition of pansexuality that isn't biphobic, transphobic, or holds any meaningful difference from bisexuality other than "being the more accepting/open/inclusive" version of it. Quickly anon.

Also "our own community-" do you mean the community that hates bisexual people? That's rife with biphobia? That can't go one day without treating bi women like evil witches who deserve to be abused and hate-crimed? The community that makes every effort possible to oversexualize, dehumanize and exclude bisexual people solely because they're... attracted to more than one gender? Grow the fuck up and stop assuming bisexual people need to all be fucking doormats when we're consistently and without remorse treated as lesser than those "of our own community." Ridiculous.

[pulsingvoid]

at this point it'll be beyond strange if they don't see the bi/comphet storyline through with deborah considering her story arc (so far) in somewhat chronological order has been as follows:

asshole husband ruins your life -> your sister marries him and gives you a bias against other women -> you let this define you for 40+ years -> your closest friends are gay men on your payroll -> one day a whiny 25 year old redhead walks in and she's all big hands and clunky boots (she's bi) -> she insults you makes you laugh -> you decide to keep her around and play mind games until she's psychosexually obsessed with you -> you like that she's bi and psychosexually obsessed with you -> she explains bisexuality to you over and over -> because you are the one who keeps bringing it up -> lesbians frighten you so you alienate them by making fun of them in your standup -> yet you also joke that you're one mediocre man away from joining them -> meanwhile every straight man/man in power in your life is actively sabotaging you or the people you care about -> you keep playing their games anyway -> but whenever you play by your own rules the results and dopamine rush are x1000 more rewarding -> hearing the men you admire be biphobic gives you a panic attack -> you run away and lash out at your writing partner for "getting inside your head" about bisexuality -> you admit you're terrified of getting old because there are many things you haven't gotten to experience yet -> you lose your dream job to a man again -> you have miserable sex with yet another man who betrayed you -> you feel ashamed the next day -> but it's okay because the annoying bisexual with the big hands will sit on your suitcase so you can zip it up -> and btw you cradled her chin and held her big hand on the back of a dirtbike in the woods the other day

[deepseasmetro]

The way that you bisexual transmascs lower yourselves just to get some tgirl dick is pathetic btw, everyone can see it, they're fucking mean to you and make fun of you all the time and you humiliate yourself by just taking it because you're a fucking sellout. I tried saving you from this circle of misery but there's no hope for you, I'm done here.

"childish", anon? do you mean horrifically transmisogynistic? hell, just straight up misogynistic? biphobic? pathetic? awful? disgusting?

don't come crying and groveling to me about how regretful you are. how immature you are. how sorry you are. what could possibly fucking compel you to say this? think this? immaturity? bullshit. you're a bigot. an obvious and undeniable fucking bigot.

i only care about trans women cus i wanna fuck them, huh? is that the only reason you care about other people? is that the only way you can even think about trans women? petty mean girls who other people only keep around to fuck? who mock their friends behind their backs? untrustworthy sex toys? it sounds like you're projecting, and projecting hard, anon, and i'm not here to baby you or forgive you or tell you good job for regretting your nasty fucking messages an hour later.

you're pathetic. exceptionally pathetic. no wonder you don't have any transfem friends! hell, i'd bet money you hardly have any friends at all! what are you so mad about? women standing up for themselves? people like me standing up for them too? people like me loving transfems, protecting them, speaking out for them, being their friend and lover and community member? does it piss you off that i'm better than you? that they actually like me?

i'm a fucking sellout???? for loving and respecting my sisters? my loved ones? my girlfriend, my lovers, my best friends, my mutuals, my mentors?????? are you serious? are you fucking serious? do you hear yourself? do you understand how miserable and pathetic you are? how disgusted i am with you?

what a fucking joke. you're the scum of the earth. bottom of the barrel. you're the reason i never call myself transmasc, the reason i despise being in spaces dominated by tme people - the disdain, the hate, the resentment, the disgust you people have for the people i love and admire does nothing but piss me off beyond belief. you don't deserve to be in this community. you do not deserve the love and support this community gives people. you are a worm. a tiny, meaningless, disgusting, rotten, worthless fucking worm.

i hate you, anon. i truly and utterly despise you with every fiber of my fucking being. if i wasn't worried about getting my account terminated again, i would say much, much unkinder things to you. you can use your imagination.

take your fucking sorries and leave. transfems, indeed, will never forgive you. not because you're transmasc, or tme, or whatever - but because you are blatantly dangerous for them to be around. you are a slimy, two faced mother fucker. you are a total and utter piece of shit. fuck you. don't you ever fucking send me shit like this again. fuck you.

[vanmarkus]

I wish people would stop insisting that Buck/Oliver is "great bi rep" when so many of us have outlined really clear, well argued points about the biphobic aspects of this break-up. I mean, if you're bi you're welcome to disagree with them (post counter-points if you want), but when people just keep insisting that what we're feeling and seeing isn't real or is dumb it leaves a real bad taste.

first of all, Oliver is not bad or good bi rep, cuz he isn't one, period.

and second of all, are you telling me that people who are offended that Oliver wants Buck to have sex and thinks that he should have it both with men and women, since he is attracted to both are now saying that Buck, the masculine firefighter who came to realise his own sexuality later in life and continues to live his life exploring who he is, is now bad rep because of what the actor said?

can we be done with this now?

just cuz i don't find the notion of bi people having causal sex, beyond that, a character who has been shown to enjoy sex, having sex offensive... idk man, like, genuinely don't know where to go with this

ps: being promiscuous is not inherently a harmful stereotype of bi people, that's a stereotype of men in general, compulsive cheating is the harmful stereotype you're confusing it with, i feel. which was a whole thing in this fandom btw.

and again, Buck likes sex in canon, so.

[tirfpikachu]

i think so many wrongly trans-identified people - which obvs isn't all trans folks, just ppl like me as a detrans dyke - are just gender criminals. they're made to think that means they need to separate themselves from their agab entirely instead of just seeing themselves as a post-gender sexed creature, like a female rabbit or male dog, just a neutral body type while messing around with gender roles.

i fought all the gender off my body like it was a plague taking over me from my sexist misogynistic upbringing and Society tm. you can be cis/non-trans and still be post-gender. you can be gnc as hell and not be trans or dysphoric about your sex, or disassociating from your sex category, and instead just be anti-gender. you don't need to be trans or nonbinary to be post-gender and gnc. it can even be a political thing, a protest against the patriarchy. you just can't assume that every cis person has stereotypical cis privilege. you just can't assume that anyone who isn't trans-identified or nonbinary-identified doesn't face gncphobia that can be just as horrific as transphobia, or be uncomfortable with the gender roles forced on them. anyone visibly gnc or transitioned, or both, faces bigotry in society. this should be a better indicator of oppression than simple label terms. it should be about real, tangible experiences of gncphobia, misogyny, sexism etc.

this is why nonbinary used to not be a trans-exclusive term, btw. some people truly were like "i'm cis, i'm not trans, but i'm agender." but then people jumped in and yelled that no, that couldn't be true, they must all be trans and they must all be dysphoric, even when the person was straight up openly like no, i'm not trans, i'm fine with my sex, i just think gender roles are dumb and i think being nonconforming is cool. but that's not the case anymore; you say anything about gender being stupid, hating gender roles, hating how you're treated for being female or being male and feminine, and boom! people say you're a repressed trans person and you need to accept your "true self" away from the category of your birth sex, instead of expanding what it means to be a man/woman. you can't say you're male/female and just fooling around with presentation. unless you're a gay male drag queen of course, but even then many get pressured nowadays to identify one way or another. this helps nobody. literally nobody. just like telling a bi person they're a repressed lesbian, or telling someone straight that they "look gay" is shitty and unhelpful, and honestly often gncphobic, sexist & biphobic/homophobic... you can't simply say that someone is looking or acting trans. the feeling of not belonging to your sex category to an extreme extent, of being dysphoric, is not something you can tell from the person's appearance or behavior, right? that's not just gncphobic but also lowkey transphobic to say that you can always "just tell" unless they straight up visibly transitioned (and aren't detrans). it's shitty rhetoric. you can't get all creepily giddy at the thought of someone you know being trans too, just like it's gross when straight girls fetishize their male friend coming out as gay bc they have the classic gay bestie fantasy stuck in their head. with dysphoria there's also an ableist fetishization aspect to it as well, bc it's a disorder but its suffering and treatment is often romanticized even outside the trans community and seen as a fun little glowup. we cannot keep enabling this kind of behavior. it's simply unhealthy and actually reinforces gender roles. we should ALL be post-gender. we should ALL throw away stupid gender roles and instead be ourselves and do what we want, no matter what the patriarchy wants us to do.

it's okay to use the trans label, or to be dysphoric. it's okay to be nonbinary. but it's also okay to not be trans, yet still feel post-gender. this goes doubly for people affected by misogyny and homophobia!

[zestylemonsz]

i havent interacted with the dazai anon directly but honestly they're fucking halarious from an outside perspective

someone: yeah Chuuya's cool

dazai anon: *insert weirdly long rant that's 90% insults*

someone: yeah ssk is cool / ssk is ok

dazai anon: that's toxic you're toxic fuck you

someone: Dazai's cool

dazai anon: you're not an actual dazai stan he's not your favorite character go fuck yourself

there's literally mo rhyme or reason to it 😭😭

also i fr saw them say Dazai's not someone's favorite character like. buddy. pal. how's that your decision??

also if i remember correctly aren't "stans" those really weird extreme fans. and therefore not even something fans should want to be

Yep. Their insults are all the same, too. It's normally "cunt" "pathetic loser" "seethe and cope" or something like that. They've recently been using "low media literacy" too.

Basically if you love chuuya you're not a dazai stan (even if you like dazai)

If you like dazai you're not a dazai stan

And if you like skk you're shipping a toxic and abusive relationship. This, however, isn't true. Skk may have some toxicity in it from when they were 15, but it isn't abusive. This is a fictional relationship so my opinions are different than if it was real.

Chuuya slapping Dazai wasn't abusive. It was pretty deserved. Considered Dazai basically said to Chuuya that his friends (now dead) deserved death. Chuuya acted on emotion. That's normally how he is.

Also this is Bungo Stray Dogs. Everyone has something negative about them. And the world isn't perfect in bsd either.

Also they're biphobic. Me being bisexual got them to call me disgusting and they told me they're "disowning" me from the community. (Hey. Btw. Bisexual is the third letter in LGBTQIA+)

And yes, stan is a way of calling someone an extreme fan. It actually comes from Eminem's song Stan, which is basically about a crazy obsessed fan. It actually is the combined word of "stalker" and "fan".

So no, you don't want to be a stan technically speaking. Being a stan of a group can be seen as different though. (Stan is typically used for celebrities or people.)

[youlooklikeasixtiesqueen]

hey btw if you're not bisexual you do not get a vote on whether or not something is biphobic

[watermelinoe]

"let bisexuals complain about biphobia without making it about lesbians" ohhh my god get a real problem. when a bisexual claims that lesbians can like men, then yes that actually is primarily about lesbians. no one's "making it about lesbians" it is about us already, you're just annoyed that we're not being good little doormats and quietly accepting bisexuals' homophobia.

and btw the biphobe in question is literally bisexual, just like 90% of biphobes are. stop hitting yourselves and then blaming dykes for the bruises. yeah no shit gays don't want anything to do with you, keep your self loathing, projection, and homophobia away from us. bisexual separatism when

that wasn't what that post was even about so i'm not reading the rest of this sorry

[mieczyhale]

in the theme of Minorities Interconnecting-

the "if you don't support and defend all Jews you are not really an ally" thought (which is 100% correct btw) lines up exactly with "if you don't support and defend all LGBTQA+ identities you are not really an ally" thought (also correct btw)

you cannot cherry pick out of the group what flavors you will and won't fight for

this applies even if you're in one of the groups btw, @ transphobic queers, biphobic lesbians, gay allo anti-ace discourse-ers, anti-left jews, anti-orthodox jews, anti-convert jews, etc.

you are not immune to being a bad ally within your own community

[bilesproblems]

Common mistakes made when arguing with exclus (and how to respond properly)

Hi mspec lesbians today I'm gonna talk about some things that exclus say often, the common responses that get nowhere, and how to properly respond (all joking btw)

#1: "Lesbians can't be attracted to men. If you're attracted to men in any capacity, you can't be a lesbian"

Incorrect reply ❌: Actually, I'm not attracted to men, I just recognize my attraction to multiple feminine and neutrally aligned genders as mspec

Correct reply ✅: (HEARTS, DIAMONDS,) I CAN DO ANYTHING!

Exclus don't care about reason. Make deltarune references instead. Especially if you are an mspec lesbian attracted to men

#2: "I just don't get it though how does that work"

Incorrect reply ❌: *An actual detailed response explaining mspec lesbians*

Correct reply ✅: The FitnessGram™ Pacer Test is a Multistage Aerobic Capacity Test...

There are dozens of resources on mspec lesbians. This reply is especially helpful for when you've already tried explaining. They just won't get it if they don't wanna.

#3: "Maybe lesbian USED to include nonexclusive attraction, but that's in the past now!"

Incorrect reply ❌: While some bi people did choose to leave themselves, a lot of us were forced out by Gold Star lesbians instead of just by natural language progression. If you guys wanted or needed your own spaces, you should have made your own. I have a right to be here.

Correct reply ✅: When single shines the triple sun, what was sundered and undone, shall be whole, the two made one, by Gelfling hand, or else by none.

When you explain things to exclusuonists, they plug their ears and ignore what you said. When you say cryptic shit, they have to think.

#4: "Why do you have to make everything so complicated with your identity?"

Incorrect reply ❌: I do not feel a single label properly explains my identity, and I feel all these labels fit my experience.

Correct reply ✅: Gotta catch 'em all

"Abro lesbian, I choose you!" *throws PokeLGBallT*

#5: "Just pick one!"

Incorrect response ❌: I can't just pick one. These labels all have a meaning to me and picking one feels like I'm picking between parts of myself.

Correct reply ✅: I don't have to. I don't have to do anything I don't want to do. Vice Principal Nero likes me best and there's a special beef and bean burrito with a little ribbon on it just for me.

You don't have to just pick a single label. No one fits neatly into one little box, and those of us who like boxes anyway are building our box forts. You don't owe an explanation to exclus beyond "I don't want to."

#6: "Liking women and nonbinary people doesn't count as mspec!"

Incorrect reply ❌: Yeah it does. Way to be transphobic and biphobic in one sentence.

Correct reply ✅: I consider that a dignified argument. Not really, it was actually quite pathetic. *aggressive banjo sounds*

Self explanatory why this reason sucks. 2+ genders = mspec. Even if those 2 genders are girl and demigirl, you can consider yourself mspec.

#7: "Mspec lesbians harm real lesbians and erase the meaning of the word lesbian"

Incorrect reply ❌: I am literally just existing

Correct reply ✅: Oogalie boogalie bitch

You can't fix stupid and convince them we don't hurt anyone. Embrace being the destroyer of lesbianism.

#8: "Just say homosexual/homoromantic if you use the SAM instead of lesbian, because lesbian is exclusive to people not attracted to men in any way"

Incorrect reply ❌: Not only do you not really mean that, because you actually only draw the line at sexual and romantic attraction, but that's the most ridiculous level of gatekeeping. No other lgbt label in the world has a requirement on both sexual AND romantic attraction except aroace and other -rose labels, but those are specifically combos FOR romantic and sexual attraction. No one should have to call themselves homo- instead of lesbian just because their romantic orientation is different than their sexual orientation. Plus that definition means every aroace woman and nonbinary person is a lesbian.

Correct reply ✅: How about no. *then you waddle away, waddle waddle waddle.*

Again, you owe nobody an explanation. You don't have to. Just say no.

#9: "Mspec lesbian labels contribute to real lesbians being harassed, assaulted, and (r-word that I won't type until I learn how to censor)"

Incorrect reply ❌: You're beyond hope. Someone who would assault someone either doesn't care about their orientation or is doing it specifically because they think the person isn't attracted to them and needs to be fixed. It is their own entitlement, ego, and lack of care for other people that leads to that happening, not teens identifying as bi lesbians. Let's pretend all straight men think all lesbians will like men. Not even straight women like every man they see. No one will claim "well because I am a lesbian who likes men, you now have to date men." That's the single stupidest thing a person could ever think. You'd be smarter unironically believing 2 + 2 = 5, the Earth is flat, and MH370 was hijacked by Russians than believing unironically that a single lesbian who doesn't like men at all would be forced to date men because a different lesbian did. Some lesbians like nonbinary people and some only like women, and the ones who only like women aren't forced to date nonbinary people. You single handedly bring down the average intelligence of all humanity by a significant margin.

Correct reply ✅: For a clownfish, you really aren't that funny.

Anyone stupid enough to believe this can't be reasoned with and they will hopefully never be in charge of anything. Don't waste your energy.

I can't think of a 10th so that's all folks

[t4tdestiel]

My amvs / My edits

Hiii everyone I'm Dali Dean Andrea, I'm 29 and I'm a white tme transmasc butch lesbian. My pronouns are he/they.

This is my supernatural blog. Yes in 2024. I follow from dalisawthetvglow. I also have a queeernatural discord server drop me a dm or an ask for the link!

Dni if transmisogynistic, racist, if you're a zionist, if you're lesbophobic, biphobic, antisemitic or islamophobic.

Im a grown adult and I'll post nsft content every now and then. If you're under 18 and wanna follow blacklist the tag nsft & minors dni please.

Please know that I don't want incest or pedo shippers on my blog. Fetishization of those topics is really gross to me so be ready to get blocked.

Btw I know this show is deeply misogynistic and racist and homophobic. I'll try to be critical of it as much as possible.

Some things about me: I'm deancoded as hell, I'm a dean + Claire person and I'm super into sapphicnatural & transnatural

Ok that's pretty much it. Enjoy your stay and let the supernatural brain worms consume you

[idiotsonlyevent]

it actually drives me SO insane crazy how similar chie and yosuke('s problems) are.

anyone who says they aren't friends or that they genuinely don't like each other don't Get It. they just haven't had a weird high school friendship where you're so similar you sort of hate each other, but also you can't Actually hate each other, because that would mean that you hate yourself (you do) and that you want to see yourself fail (you don't). yes, they wanna punch each other; yes, they're besties; yes, we EXIST!!!

they're both... kinda outcasts? iirc chie is somewhat popular, but she def gets shit for not being "feminine enough" esp in inaba. yosuke is yosuke. junes exists.

chie is labeled as a tomboy/masculine but she doesn't really want to be; yosuke isn't "feminine" per se, but he does generally lack more stereotypically masculine interests, even his role as a "bro character" is missing junpei/ryuji's specific type of 'masculine goofiness'(??), and he is disliked enough that i wouldn't be surprised if he was seen as a (im so sorry) "beta male."

they're both jealous of their best friends, Especially as paragons of femininity and masculinity. chie because it feels like something she can't have (esp as it relates to her sexuality); yosuke because he feels that he needs to attain masculinity for social capital (and to prove that he's straight and therefore 'normal').

and they know this about each other. they have one conversation in their first year and chie has his closeted ass clocked before yosuke knows what bi people are. yosuke sees the way chie looks at yukiko and is like "i've BEEN there" < doesn't even know its gay yet

but also yosuke loves running away from his problems and denying his feelings, meanwhile chie is one of like. three emotionally intelligent people in the investigation team. but also yosuke is smarter than her. this means they are the BEST people to torment each other. they commit gendered homo/biphobic psychological violence against each other at least three times a day. but if one of them hears someone talking shit about the other?? that clown won't see the light of day. only chie can shittalk yosuke. only yosuke can shittalk chie. the rest of the investigation team is on THIN fucking ice.

this is also why theyre not allowed to date btw (to Me). besides the fact that chie is Absolutely Not At All Interested in yosuke, and he'd only be interested in "dating" her to try to prove to himself that he's straight, the only ppl ive seen ship yosuchie are straight homophobic guys who hate their wives/gfs and misconstrue their entire dynamic as "they don't even like each other, they should date" which. die. if youre a yosuchie shipper and a normal person, i salute you, you ARE gods strongest soldier.