#you can suggest someone to evaluate their gender if you rlly think they could benefit from it but dont misgender them in the process ??? | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

torchiiko · 2 months ago

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is it just me or is it Weird that ppl will see someone being gnc or doing smth atypical for their gender & immediately jump to assuming theyll be trans & misgendering them by using their "future pronouns"

eg a guy talking abt how much he likes wearing feminine clothes & the comments being stuff like "give her time, shell figure it out <3" like ok. sure they Could transition later on but for now youre just misgendering them for no reason. not everyone is an egg & sometimes you do more harm than good by assuming they are

#idk i just think ppl automatically equating being gnc to being trans is. not helpful. to anyone #you can suggest someone to evaluate their gender if you rlly think they could benefit from it but dont misgender them in the process ???#if they do change pronouns later thats cool but you still have to respect their Current ones :|#ppl dont all have the same experiences! maybe smth that was a sign of You being trans is just personal choice for someone else #maybe you liked certain clothes for gender reasons but someone else just likes wearing those clothes for fun. nothing is universal #ok thats my rant 4 the day #torch chatter #me when i complain

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