#you are 100000000% correct anon

[rosicheeks]

I assume that you want to do something wild and crazy but you just need that one special person to hold your hand and do it with you.

CORRECT

[nectardaddy]

It was hilarious how you corrected the ask about you being a bad teacher lol

I genuinely have a question for ppl though-

Do they not understand that how you act on your social media or outside of your work doesn’t mean that’s how you act when you’re doing your job???? Like my blog is full of comments abt my fictional men 🥴🥴🥴 but do I act like that at work?? No. Do I act like that around kids (namely my little brother bcs he’s fr the only kid I interact with) no. So like it doesn’t make sense to me

To me that’s similar to the “Oh they have dyed hair so they’re incompetent!” Or “They have piercings and tattoos so they obviously do drugs!” Kinda of people but that’s just my two cents.

You seem like a really fun teacher and I think if I had a teacher like you when I was in school I wouldn’t have hated it nearly as much as I did. You’re making the day fun for the kids based off the stories you tell and treat them like humans which is really important and something easily overlooked by some other teachers and parents. Anyways…that was my ramblings. Have a good day Dodger and I would love to hear more teacher rambles 🥰🫶🏻

-sincerely bakery anon 🍪 <3

I popped off in this I'm sorry lol, I just had A LOT to say about this topic.

I dropped everything to answer this because I love to speak on this topic, despite it being frustrating. But ahhh thank you for enjoying my reply lol!

A lot of people (and I say a lot because it truly is, I have at least 4 parents every year that think similarly to this) think that social media IS REAL. The whole "what you see is what you get" thought process really rings true for a lot of people and it is genuinely concerning. With that though, a lot of people ALSO think how you act OUTSIDE of work describes who you are as a worker as well which is SO STUPID!

I mean, I get it, I am teaching children at the end of the day. I understand there are some things I shouldn't post on a PUBLIC platform with my name attached to it (and I don't) because my students may see it. That being said though, everything I do post that's even a little risqué, especially anything thirst related to fictional characters, is under LOCK AND KEY and completely under a different name (see "nectardaddy" with the pseudonym dodger lol).

As for the kinds of people you brought up, you are 100000000% correct. In my four years of teaching, the parents (and I bring up parents a lot bc they are the adults here, children genuinely don't care and are 9/10 beyond kind and accepting) that give me the most grief about MY behavior think like this. I have tattoos (lots of them), I have many piercings, I have a blue mullet for christ sake lol and there is always someone (an adult parent) who COMPLAINS ABOUT IT??? I have had calls to my principle before that a parent SAW ME AT A BAR AFTER SCHOOL. AFTER SCHOOL!!! Apparently I'm not allowed to do that?? Because apparently to them it was "inappropriate to do that because I'm a teacher." Thank god I have a good principle, she laughed right in that woman's face.

I've also had nasty, heinous comments about my preferences (which isn't any of their business #1 and doesn't pertain to school AT ALL #2) and disgusting assumptions made about me, my past, my husband, and who I am as a person BY ADULTS all because I didn't let little timmy talk to his friend while I was trying to teach him math. (But then when he fails math because I let him talk that's my fault too.) I truly think this mindset comes from simple entitlement and need for control, amongst some other things but I'm not one to delve into politics too hard here.

But, it warms my heart to know that a lot of people, including yourself, think I'm a good teacher! At the end of the day though, I do this (teaching) for THEM. I wouldn't want to sit there for 7 seven hours either so we don't! We go outside, move around, work in groups, we talk to our friends, we're loud, WE'RE LEARNING! I think the worst thing a teacher can do is treat students less than, because they are, although small, HUMAN! As well as many other things, it's my job to teach them HOW to human! How to express emotions healthily, show compassion, learn empathy, know one's self worth, and know that failing isn't an end - it's a step forward in the right direction.

So bakery anon, I want you to know, from a teacher that would've loved to have you in class, YOU ARE WORTHY. YOU ARE AMAZING. YOU ARE SO GREAT. YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU PUT YOUR MIND TO AND YOU WILL ACHIEVE GREATNESS. DO WHAT YOU LOVE, DON'T LET ANYONE TELL YOU YOUR DREAMS ARE SHIT. DREAMS ARE WHAT KEEP YOU HUMAN! NEVER, EVER, EVER STOP DREAMING!

[darlin-djarin]

anon opinion: you're like the discourse mutual, but in the speaks the truth and is always correct way (instead of some worse way) also youre great

LMFAOOOO i keep claiming i don’t enjoy discourse and then hop on every opportunity to bring it to the table 😭 and yes my opinions are 100000000% correct every time 🥱🥱 and thank you!

[pjotvshownews]

anon with the super long texts about not assuming. you are correct. 100000000% correct. but please remember these are kids and young teens you’re talking about. the oldest person who’s auditioned that i heard about was 16, and god knows how old is the youngest. while i know you’re correct, we are kids auditioning for a book series we love, many of us neurodivergent who cling onto this due to being one of the only neurodivergent rep we know and grew up with (as you saw many times in the #whyPJOmatters hastag ashlee started). i feel like i have to clarify throughout the text that i know you’re right and agree with you because it really seems like i don’t but expecting maturity coming from a group of literal kids when grown adults who have been in the industry for longer and decades sometimes do the exact same thing isn’t realistic and won’t happen. we know the chances of callbacks and mainly getting the role are extremely slim and we know this can be slightly unhealthy, but we all want the role and we all know we’re competing against each other and we all know that people are getting callbacks and we are not and that is deeply upsetting for us, but for the most part we see the callback anons and think ok this can happen still. this is happening to someone else why not me too. and as long as we aren’t attacking callback anons and the people they know and as long as we aren’t completely loosing our minds, it’s not that deep as long as we are self aware we will be ok. but i really feel like we should also be making sure callback people don’t loose their minds and don’t obsess over it because they are the ones who really have a reason to be stressed and i’m not speaking evil into you but i’ve seen friends go into madness because of a role and we’ve all seen what goes on with disney actors so callback people take care of yourselves, your mental health, if you don’t get the role that’s okay, if you do, congratulations, but please take care

yes i auditioned yes i haven’t gotten a callback and i know this probably won’t happen so yes i am partly biased on this so fellow auditioners, don’t loose hope but also don’t loose your mind obsessing. sorry for length and this not making sense and callback anons i’m so happy and proud of you give your best and i can’t wait to see y’all on my screen next year

(cont):

"but i also really agree with long text anon because you, who auditioned in december, may be a perfect fit with actor b, who auditioned in march, and they call you in to read with actor c, who auditioned in january. or you could be a perfect clarisse and they will call you in to read for her. if you’re young enough they could hold your name for bianca. we don’t know what’s going on there. they could have a giant whiteboard and coming up with trios there for all we know. you could be in a little circle with one other name waiting to finish the trio. our names (yours and mine) could be in the little circle waiting for a third actor. we don’t know"

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[relatablepicsofmista]

ur blog....... t thank you. mmm. m is ta. pr. prett y .

You are 100000000% correct anon, my son is beautiful and I love him. I'm glad I could supply you with high quality images of our beautiful boy

[kewltie]

quick question- are your works only posted on ao3? (except the samples on tumblr) Have you also posted the fox's bride? I feel like i'm always behind on reading your works!

Hi anon!

yea you’re completely correct on the first question! except for all my kpop stuff, everything else that is COMPLETED or ya know postable is up on AO3. on to your second question i’m finish touching up on the last part of the fox’s bride so it should be up in a couple of hours depending how much editing is going to kill me lol but yea it’s going to go up before work 100000000% (NO LIE OR BULLSHIT THIS TIMEEEEE) which btw is at 6pm and four hours away. 

so technically i think you’re all caught up ish??? i mean i think the reason you feel that you’re behind bc this blog is uh really heavy with writing and i’m always constantly complaining five diff projects im working on at the same time or ya know ideas that bug me so much i want to write it so it always feel like there’s more stuff posted when it’s just me whinning about the writing process. i think it’s also bc i tend to write random scene of a bigger story that i have in mind like yakuza & mermaid or the abo medieval warring states au that i uh haven’t posted on ao3 yet (they’re not done!!!) so it’s distracting???? BUT i think beside that you should be all caught up. 

thanks for asking anon!

[dykespreads]

Literally this whole conversation stemmed from the context of some lesbians (and anons who may not be lesbians) coming onto my blog and calling me a lesbophobe for having experiences they decided are only for lesbians like the point is continually going over your head. That is the comment. That is the context. It's absurd to claim that there are experiences that are 100000000% factually only for lesbians and anyone who doesn't personally identify as a lesbian can not have that experience. Including but not limited to: reclaiming a homophobic slur, being butch/femme, experiencing comphet, being gnc, suffering from corrective r*pe, etc there's many many other things I've seen people argue but those are the big ones. Just because YOU can't understand how a bi woman could be impacted by it doesn't mean it doesn't happen and i've tried explaining it to you several different ways and you just deflect with "I just don't see how a nonlesbian could be impacted by this". I'm not saying lesbians don't have their own experiences or experiences with certain nuances, just that you literally can not stand on a soap box and get mad at bi women who also have those experiences and claim that they are liars or trying to steal things from lesbians. (Which again, not saying you are doing this but people factual do do that on this website quite frequently and with much enthusiasm, which is again the context of the original post that you are acting like doesn't exist) You can't twist my words and then pretend like you have the moral highground because I have a less than nice tone because people have literally told me to kill myself in great gorey details for saying I'm a dyke with experiences that heavily line up with lesbians and many experiences that fall under what people FALSELY say is the "lesbian only" category.

People who share this kind of opinion are factually repeating rhetoric that can be dated back all the way to the terfs of second wave feminism and lesbian separatism and most of these arguements I see literally are just puritanical "lesbians do not suck dick and bi women oppress us" puritanical terf bullshit. Sometimes its actual terfs that say these things, sometimes it's people with "no terfs" in their bio that happen to agree with the arguement. If you'd like I would be more than happy to screenshot as many biphobic lesbian terf posts as you'd like, and people who reblog similar if not identical arguements but also aren't terfs, if you aren't sure that this actually happens. I have in my inbox and some asks lying around of anons who claim to be lesbians that are very adamant about my position to privilege as a dick sucker and that I can't be a dyke or experience targeted misogynistic homophobia or comphet because those things are only for lesbians.

Also this conversation was never about bi or gay men, not sure what the relevance is. I can talk about lateral aggression between the lesbian and bi communities without implying that problems don't exist for gay and bi men.

And conversely I do in fact think its wrong to say "this is something only bi women experience. no lesbian will ever experience this" any bi woman who thinks that they have no community with lesbians and their experiences are incomprehensible to all lesbians on the planet as a broad sweeping statement is a dumbass and a liar, which is the point im trying to fucking make with the inverse. I don't know why you keep trying to bring this up as a gotcha.

you’re the one getting your information from wikipedia.. i’ve spoken about comphet with hundreds of other lesbians- it’s false attraction to men we have forced upon us. you as a non lesbian, as a bi woman- have attraction to men. Even though you call yourself a lesbian 24/7 by calling yourself a dyke which dyke=lesbian by definition

Wikipedia has this amazing thing called sources. The things I screenshooted are literally from the essay where Adrienne Rich coins the term. Adrienne Rich is also a #lesbian queen that people love to quote here, because tumblr is obsessed with white lesbians that posit lesbianism as the only morally superior sexuality for feminists. I'm glad your dozens of lesbian sources also don't know what comphet means. Have you tried asking a bi woman how coercive heteronormativity impacts them? Or done literally any research into the term at all beyond your own insular hugbox? Or even once talked to a bi women in a non demeaning anon ask?

[azrielstarsand]

uhhhhh yeah hi um i'm actually the one who's lucky to have you so that anon was 100000000% correct

Ok but consider: I'm actually garbage and I love you and you're too good for me