#yes i am vagueposting

[osmanthusoolong]

I know it’s like, the fundamental rule of tumblr where if you make a post clearly describing an analyzing a topic or personal experience and the post gets traction, someone will inevitably repeat your point back to you, condescendingly. Like you weren’t aware of that when you made the fucking post. Good job baby! You read what I said about my own experiences and how they’re situated in the world! That’s not really as impressive as you think!

[stupidjewishwhiteboy]

“I know that I’m usually always promoting nuance and looking at stuff through its historical context, but this situation is actually quite simple”

May I humbly suggest that if you’re having this thought process, you take it as a sign that you need to reassess? Methinks your belief in yourself as an unbiased nuanced thinker is allowing you to hide your own biases from yourself

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

GCs will be like “All kink is misogynistic and rape!” and then you bring up like piss kink or hair kink or voice kink or leather kink or literally any kink and then they’re like “Ok well I think it’s weird so therefore it’s bad and you shouldn’t like it.”

And then they’re confused when people assume they’re homophobic. Girl you are literally parroting conservative talking points word for word…

[little-escapist]

Fuck being 30 and a teenager at the same time.

I am too old for this. I should know better. And yet...

[my-past-disgusts-me]

Keeping track of my fandom in-laws (or something) is fun. Oh that's my old mutual who migrated accounts I just saw on the creator's patreon! Oh look! That other person follows me on tumblr.com! They're friends?? Good for them!

[lizziebobizzie]

Godspeed beloved mutual, it is for the best o7

[the-deli-delicatessen]

ok but why are tired <30 y/os in fandom who are actually chill and have very specific typing patterns genuinely The nicest people on earth and objectively superior to blood relatives (fight me) (and also how the hell have i synced my period with all three of them despite having never encountered them in the physical space ever)

[goingnearlyinsane]

if we had a "find Tumblr from email contacts" feature y'all would be dead dead

[peachesnbees]

Full offense, some people take fandom way too seriously and it bothers me so much. I want to have a good time and then you have people who are like “you don’t understand the character the way I do, you are stupid and blah blah blah…”. As if interpretation doesn’t exist?

Look… I am here to interact with people who want to have a good time. Do I disagree with people? Absolutely! But I don’t try to act like I’m a better person because I think my headcanon and interpretation is better. It’s a fictional thing not a fucking contest.

Curate your own experiences and enjoy it. I think to keep in mind is that if you constantly berate fandom and the people in it, it probably isn’t for you…. For me personally, I love all types of interpretations of characters, ships, etc. Seeing people happy about something I enjoy is so awesome!

[vamp-moment]

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with discovering new music through an artist you already like and I think it’s super weird to be judgy about. Also so many of these blogs I keep seeing on my dash have a very clear superiority complex and its really making the whole tumblr band thing a lot less enjoyable. btw.

[ququoquaw]

I get where ur coming from but I don’t think ppl interested in coding watch long videos on coding ad entertainment, more likely they probably just… code

I mean it’s totally possible that they watch something in the background, but just the way u phrased it is vry off

[transmasc-totoro]

Oh my god I’m so afraid what if I fuck it up what if I’m lying what if I’m fooling her into believing I’m someone I’m not what if I get annoying what if she wants more of me than I can give what if I’m not capable of being what she wants or needs what if my fear turns her away maybe I’m just afraid that she does love me and I have to find a way to deal with that, with someone wanting me

[princessefemmelesbian]

Maybe I’m just being dramatic but it does legitimately scare and sadden me to see that a lot of transandrophobia truthers are literally just…young boys. Like, actual children. Like you’re not even old enough to vote yet and you have your whole life ahead of you and yet you are being manipulated into joining an mra group that hates trans women with a passion and thinks that men are oppressed in society for being men, and constantly uses Black men as their talking point in order to sound diverse and inclusive, meanwhile they’re also appropriating and misusing terminology specifically created by Black women to talk about our own oppression in order to get their misandry point across…to say nothing of the fact that the largest people in this group(including but not limited to its creator!) have misogynistic rape/detrans kinks centered specifically around preying on lesbians and trans women and this is something that is normalized and defended by the vast majority of transandrophobia truthers, or at least defended viciously by every single transandrodork that I’ve ever encountered who argued with me(a lesbian!!!) that actually there’s nothing wrong with getting off to the corrective rape of women because two consenting adults can do whatever they want in the bedroom(yeah right)! Not to mention I have yet to come across a transandrophobia truther who wasn’t also a raging die-hard Zionist.

And that’s why it disturbs me so much to see young trans boys jumping onto this transmisogynistic hate train like you guys realize these men don’t have your best interests at heart, right? They’re only going to manipulate you into being a sexist entitled asshat who shuns and bullies the trans women in your community and sees them as oppressing you. Like I know you’re still in middle/high school but you can still think for yourselves, you can choose to be better than this, you can choose to actually learn about feminism and realize that it’s not actually misandry that oppresses you, it’s transphobia. Misandry doesn’t suddenly become real because you slap a trans paint over it that’s not how it works that’s not how intersectionality works that’s not how any of this shit works. There are better trans men to talk to about trans issues who know that the patriarchy is real and don’t shit on trans women in order to speak out about trans topics, so go seek them out, okay? You absolutely do not have to listen to shit that the “male supremacists but trans” group of lowlives has to say. Hell, tell them to fuck off instead! Please, I promise you that there are much better options, there are ALWAYS better options, and you still have time to escape before they fully radicalize you into basically being an incel. There will ALWAYS be another way. ❤️

[cannibal-nightmares]

let's make trouble in the dream world, we'll hijack heaven with another memory now; i make the most of the turning tide, it just split what's left of the burning silence

[mono-socke]

this is how 'the squip enters' actually went, because @shadowspirez and I say so

look at them gays, they're such idiots <33

[jewfrogs]

it’s wild to me that people act like the bad kids were baselessly paranoid and rude to the rat grinders as if kipperlilly wasn’t weird and hostile in her introduction. and as if the girl who had a baseless one-sided grudge against them before she was infected with preternatural rage was gonna go ‘nevermind’ and give up her evil plot if the bad kids were perfectly niceys. Okay