#yall dont wanna talk about the nitty gritty of what it fucking means to deal with npd folks | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

acrookedvulture · 5 months ago

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Genuinely i cant stand npd people on here because they will literally ALWAYS say some shit like "well *I* wasnt the one who abused you so why should I be thrown under the bus because of your personal experience with npd abuse"

(ironic that this always happens to be on posts of others talking about their own abusive experiences with npd people, unprompted)

Like yknow you *could* say that if someone just happened to meet one or two awful npd people

But ive dealt with like 13+ npd people in my life, extensively and its just a LITTLE WEIRD

how they all ended up being the most god awful people ive ever met. I WISH i could say there was One who wasn't but i literally can't. These bitches were all walking black holes thatd take over your life the moment you let your fucking guard down. My quality of life literally improved by wide margins every time i disconnected from these friends/relatives 🤣

#i cant even talk to my dad more than once in a long while because hes the same fucking way and still does the same bullshit with my younger #sibling #if i talked to him more than that id forget why the fuck i even bothered to try in the first place #never good enough unless im exactly like him/actually him kinda bullshit #its gotten fucking old #it wasnt even until getting extensive therapy myself that i finally realized what the hell the link was between the specific type of abuse #i went through and what kind of people i was stuck being around growing up #anyways yeah do i wish my abusers would die? no #but i wish they went to therapy instead of keeping that npd unchecked and taking it out on me LMFAO #yall dont even get it. its one thing to have a friend thats like self centered or obtuse when handling others feelings or just being #generally not a good friend #its ANOTHER SPECIFIC KIND OF HELL WHEN A NPD PERSON DECIDES ITS GONNA BE *YOUUUUUUUU*#you can try to confront them about it but its going fucking nowhere theyre not even gonna say sorry #YOU COULD RECORD THEM AND ITS GONNA BE AN ARGUMENT ABOUT HOW YOURE TREATING THEM RATHER THAN THE ACTUAL OFFENSE YOU CAPTURED ON CAMERA #yall dont wanna talk about the nitty gritty of what it fucking means to deal with npd folks #it means putting in SO MUCH MORE than you'll ever fucking get back

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