#yall both just have the same hair or skin or smth you are still YOU hello

[thevirgodoll]

to all of my dolls finding themselves:

originality is the "aesthetic" you are looking for. individuality is the "it factor" you are looking for. from your personality, pieces, hair, cadence of voice...even down to your favorite foods or special interests. you aren't supposed to change every aspect about yourself to be more palatable for everyone you meet. that actually makes you BORING!!!

"but so and so is doing this" "but what if people don't like it" ... so??? don't take people disliking your aesthetic as a sign that you need to do something different. like, of course they don't like it or have second thoughts - it's because THEY wouldn't do it themselves because it wouldn't go with THEIR given aesthetic. HELLOO??????

unless they are like minded, stop asking other people to weigh in on the things you CLEARLY like about yourself. especially if it's a core personality trait or interest. your LIFE isn't a group project. your LIFE is not a co-op game.

and yes... people will try to force you to assimilate and follow the crowd by speaking misfortune on your rebrand, your expression, your hobbies, your chosen path out of jealousy. however, that jealousy is lowkey unspoken respect for the fact you have the candor to go against homogeneity.

your authentic dedication to everything that makes you YOU is what will bring you the illustrious life you so fervently seek in the end...not some book a celebrity wrote or a youtube video. it's in YOUR DNA to be a star already in anything you want to do.

there isn't one tutorial on this world wide web that will help you if you don't realize you have the components within you first. there is NOTHING wrong with you!!! you are EVERYTHING that is right already!!!

NEVER conform to the way they think you should shine.

[haikyuuphilia]

I'd like a match up if you're still doing those! I prefer to be matched up with the dudes with a romantic match. Appearance wise I'm a 5'3 with wavy-ish long black hair, brown eyes, and tan skin. I'm an ENTJ Leo sun/Leo rising/Aquarius moon. Type A personality, but with also the ability to chill out. Reserved but also likes to party. Super invested in doing well in school (study dates will be common). I would want the first date to be going from a museum to dinner.

of course! thank you so much for requesting <3

i match you with...

akaashi keiji

he’s a sagittarius, which matches with the fire signs you have in your chart

a pretty chill person, too, so yall get along well

you have the rare distinction of being even prettier than he is :O and i bet you two look amazing together

he LOVES that you want to do study dates often

just vibing in the library and doing work in each other’s company, occasionally asking one another questions or leaning over to write a “you got this” or “i love you” in tiny handwriting on each other’s papers? yeah

anyway

of course he loves more conventional dates, too! and he’s always there to take care of you if you’re stressed about an essay or test or smth

just like you, he’s a very analytical person who thinks first with his head, not his heart

so you two are always on the same wavelength

if you go to see his games and cheer for him, he’ll love you forever. seriously.

if you went to an art museum, he’d say something cheesy like “you’re art” or “will i get punished for touching the masterpiece” when you hold hands alsdfjsdlkfj

pretty tall, and he’s the kind of boyfriend to lean down to hear you say something so you can speak it close to his ear

you guys are still match made in heaven

kuroo tetsurou

he’s a water sun sign but i headcanon that he’s quite fiery, so you two would be great!

your personalities mesh PERFECTLY as fellow entjs

but you’re not exactly the same, which makes your relationship even better

just like you, he’s pretty on top of things in school

would totally study chemistry with you on study dates

if you need help with chem, even better! he’d love to show off his knowledge to you while helping out

really likes the height difference between you two and rubs it in your face often

loves loves loves threading his fingers through your hair

it calms him down, plus he thinks it’s soft and smells good <3

down to party with you (he’ll bring you as his plus one everywhere)

but whenever you want a night in, he’s happy to do that, too!

at your first date at the museum, he’d be super nervous but try not to show it lmao

both of you would have a blast, and dinner would lead to even more dates!

the best boyfriend. congrats you won :D