#xenic positivity

[lgbtqtext]

Requested by analog-autistic

[sirenium]

Hey, if you're an adult who identifies with xenogenders, please know that you're not being immature or childish. It's not childish to feel like your gender is better represented by a constellation, feels more like an abandoned house, and sounds like that one specific song you've been listening to. It's not immature to see your gender as a dinosaur, or a neon radioactive cat.

The 'hey that person who's catgender is 15 years old and neurodivergent!' argument, while made with the intention of legitimizing xenogenders, doesn't do justice to ALL xenic experiences. I know multiple xenic adults. Hell, I knew someone who was, like, 26 at the time I was in contact with them. You're never too old to identify with one, two, or THOUSANDS of xenogenders. Please remember that.

-a xenic adult

[Banner ID: DNI system/queer exclusionists, TERFs/SWERFs, truscum/transmeds, anti recovery for harmful paraphilia, anti otherkin, anti self dx, pro cringe culture, pro-lifers, anti xenogender. A more detailed DNI is in my pinned post. End ID]

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

Btw shoutout to enbies, genderqueers, and xenics who are straight. I feel like y’all are always left out of the conversation, even in queerhet posts. You don’t have to be a binary gender in order to be straight. Keep being awesome <33

[lgbtq-userboxes]

[pplatonic]

Hey, for everyone saying xenogenders are chronically online: Today in psych class we talked about gender dysphoria and I got to illustrate my view of gender graphically. It looked like a venn diagram with four heavily overlapping circles - one of them was xenogender.

My class was ENTIRELY receptive to it. This receptiveness included a straight, cis, white, christian male who had never heard of it before. And he was totally cool with it! We even took two minutes going on about what our gender would be if we described it in xenic terms. My teacher said he'd be the point of a mountain that intersects with clouds in the sky. Another said a ball of lint. I said the ocean. Not one of us said it was "impossible" or "cringe" or any of that xenogender-phobic shit.

If you're xenogender you're valid. The world, the real, offline world thinks so too. What's "chronically online" and "cringe" is being full of hate.

[squidedibles]

ʚїɞ · IDONTFUCKINGKNOWgendee

𖧧... a gender related to when you DON'T KNOW what you are and you DON'T KNOW what everyone is doing and NOT UNDERSTANDING anything and WTF IS GOING ON

✿⊱ tagging · @accessmogai & @the-polysulfur-collective

[xxcalicofemmexx]

aldernic wallpapers!

Aldernic: An umbrella term for someone who has or wishes to have a body that deviates from societal expectations or typical human notions, or may even be impossible by human standards. The specifics of the identity depend heavily on the individual, and range from combining male and female sex characteristics, to complete bodily ambiguity, to desiring a nonhuman body. The term may even refer to someone's "true" body, as a result of alterhumanity, gender nonconformity, xenic identity, etc. It may also define someone's physical body, internal identity, or both. Not to be connected to or conflated with intersex.

[your-rutherfurr]

NEUROXENINE

When one's neurotype, mental illness, or neurological conditions affect how they view their gender so they use xenogenders, or one's neurogender(s) is intertwined with their xenogender(s), or its the reason why one may be xenic. There is no wrong or right way to use this label!

[bunnymuffinz]

. ݁₊ Chamelegender . ݁₊ : Chamelegender is a gender identity that changes with the vibes of those around you. It mirrors the emotions and energies people project, becoming darker and more intense in negative environments, and lighter and playful in positive, kind surroundings.

FLAG AND TERM COINED BY ME !

[stimmingandstruggling]

trans men i love you trans mascs i love you nonbinary men i love you xenic men i love you male or masc aligned people of all genders i love you i love you I LOVE YOU

[kitkore]

I know its kinda silly but could you do a gender based on uh

worm on a string, clowns, or like slinkies? please? I understand if you cant ^^

wormslinkyclownic

a gender based on worm on a string, clowns, and slinkies!

with symbols:

(no spoons for ID)

without symbols:

(no spoons for ID)

coined by newt44444, flags by toby from the HORROR system

the colours r colour-picked from images of clowns, slinkies, and worm on a string!

if you wanted individual genders there is already squirmgender (link) and clowngender (link) but, i cant find a slinkygender

let me know if u want me to change anything! i havent made flags in a while so ive kinda forgotten how to 😭

[noahizslay]

omg!! i'm so happy!!!

i was scrolling through instagram and i saw a post about xenogenders(it was really good and they explained it well). as i was curious to see the comments, i did it and i had a surprise...

among the 145 comments only 2 were hateful! i saw so much positivity about xenogenders in the comments! and what surprises me the most is that most of people in the comments were adults and cis! like i've never seen cis and adult people being so positive about xenogenders!

like damn people ain't that shitty after all!

[sirenium]

The moment I discovered xenogenders the possibility of having a normal identity was shattered

[shk0lstun-flagz]

T4TLovexenic

A xenogender related to loving being trans and loving other trans people (could be any type of love like platonic love too)

[lgbtq-userboxes]

[ghostz-mogaiblog]

Soupsoupgamic

A xenogender related to the game "Soup Soup"