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I did an accidental social experiment about trans in bathrooms. It was very revealing.
I was recently in Stansted Airport (UK) and they've got this snail-shaped entrance to the bathrooms so as you come out of the ladies you have to turn left to leave or right to the men's. And there was A LOT of people so I got confused and as I came out I accidentally HEADED for the men's. Let me be clear I didn't even reach their door.
I was wearing a hoodie and a long coat plus face covering so I could've perfectly been a trans man, but immediately, not one, not two, but about five men all around me began shouting things like "wrong way!" "Men only!" "You're a girl!" So I immediately realised I'd turn the wrong way and left.
But then I sat thinking. Mine was a completely innocent mistake. It was only my second time in that airport, incredibly early morning, I was tired and turned the wrong way. But what if I HAD actually been trans, heading for the bathroom I felt most comfortable in? The men wouldn't have allowed. There were dozens there (peak time plus is right next to a rest area, drinking water fountain and near a bar) and no one shouted "shut up perhaps he's a boy!". On the contrary, even with how covered I was, I was correctly identified as a woman and multiple people made it very clear very loudly that the men's isn't my place, and that telling me so wasn't a bad thing. Even as I left some people kindly said "yours is right next, darling".
So it's not OK for women to enter the men's. Even if I had felt like a man. Men have a right to decide I don't belong there, let me know, and I must respect it.
So why isn't the same with women? Why can't women just as easily and naturally decide who they don't want there with no negative consequences?
Clue: misogyny.
#misogyny#sexism#women#women's bathrooms#women's rights#men#men's bathrooms#women vs men#transgender#queer#lgbt
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[ ID: screenshot of a post by sara -
an adventuring party that forms in the women's bathroom of the tavern because someone is crying and random drunk girls at a bar will do anything for you /ID ]
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What a great way to prove that men don't belong in women's bathrooms
#Nancy Mace#No men in women's bathrooms#women's soccer#Women's bathrooms#Women's safety#violence against women#News#Politics
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I've seen people say terf rhetoric is any hatred of men and I've seen people say terf rhetoric is anything transphobic said by anyone. the refusal to actually engage with the reality that terfism is primarily focused on oppressing trans women is in itself a form of transmisogyny. yes they hate all trans people, but it is quite easy to see who they primarily target with their words, actions and policies, you just don't want to care about trans women. claiming someone is a man hater doesn't mean you get to call them a terf or a radfem, thats an obvious, willfull dilution and denial of what terfs are.
#rewatching shauns video on kelly jay and the neo nazis and realizing how bullshit it is to claim terfs hate men#the most popular terfs either dont care or outright court any men who agree with them#idk if people have just fallen for their facade or more likely dont care abt trans women#even real intracommunity transphobia isnt terfism not is intracommunity transmisogyny#though both tend to slide into terfism over time#like yall realise when terfs say they want men out of women's spaces they're not talking abt cis men. they're talking abt trans women.#theres a moment shaun shows in his video where kelly jay explicitly says that she wants cis men to go into womens bathrooms#to 'protect cis women' from trans women
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Preferred Bathrooms
This is just my opinion of the gender bathrooms I've gone in.
Men: Honestly, it's ok. Some places don't have stall doors and sometimes the urinals don't have those little side thingys (I can't remember what they're called) and it's just uncomfy to look over and see that.
Women: It's not as common, but some places also don't have stall doors. Also, they have those baby changing stations (which are sometimes in the men's) and the little dispensers (which are always empty for some reason) which is nice. Also, from what I've seen, in sleazy places, women's bathrooms are dirtier and men's are cleaner, and in nicer places women's bathrooms are cleaner and men's bathrooms are dirtier.
Family: I like family bathrooms because there's an actual door and you aren't sharing stalls. It's really nice.
Gender Neutral: Idk. Never been in one.
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in the real world, women DO interact in restrooms. all the time. this is such an "awkward loser" description of using the restroom. I'm sorry, truly not TRYING to be mean, just calling it like I see it. I've made lasting friendships in bathrooms while partying downtown. I've exchanged numbers with well over 100 women in restrooms in my lifetime, and I'm not even 30.
& there's a reason women fought for separate restrooms. there's a reason women's restrooms in the airport are wallpapered with human trafficking warning posters.
and as said & reiterated in the tags before, mutual aid in women's restrooms is very very real and common. I made a post like just a couple weeks ago giving advice on how to handle encountering a potential abuse situation in public, and using the women's restroom to get even a second's interaction with her was a CRUCIAL part of my advice. and something I've done multiple times.
women's restrooms are not and never have been JUST a "toilet's space," and you are either male, a child, or laughably privileged if you truly think that 🤷
the idea of public restrooms as "women's spaces" continues to confound me. you know who I hope is in a public bathroom when I go in?? no one. I would prefer no one else be in the bathroom. and if someone else is in the bathroom I am going to ignore them as much as possible. I did not go into the bathroom to connect with other women. I went into the bathroom to piss and/or shit. it's a toilet's space, not a women's space. shut the fuck up and let trans people piss and shit in peace. let's all continue to avoid eye contact with each other and any and all interaction in the toilet's space.
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#heard#in the music festival venue’s bathroom stall#(in the women’s room fyi)#(this was a sapphic post)#mine#bangers
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#black tumblr#black girl moodboard#black girl fitspo#picture#black girls of tumblr#black women#black beauty#black woman appreciation#bathroom
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Intimacy
#bathroom#restroom#nudemodel#art nude#sexy pose#beautiful women#nude art#ai model#ai girl#ai generated#ai nude
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remembering the time I came across a radfem blog that shared links to articles that supported radfem beliefs, and one of them was literally about how gender and sex is different. like yes ???? that's what we've been saying the entire time ???? you guys are soooo close 😭
#scottie speaks#anti terf#anti gender critical#anti radfem#in case youre wondering i think the rest were opinion articles or were about rare instances of trans people attacking#cis women in the bathroom
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Not a huge fan of how gay men think they are separate from ‘men’ as a group. Yes, when we criticize men, you are included in that. You are not your own separate sex.
#remember when a bunch of gay men were defending going into the female bathroom because they’re not the ‘men women are scared of’#feminism#radblr#radical feminism#radical feminist community#radical feminist safe#radical feminists do interact#radical feminists do touch
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"it's so embarrassing you like that popular thing" "oh ew that geeky/strange thing is so cringe lol" "oh it's kind of weird you get excited about that harmless shit"
dude i love how ironic and jaded you are and that's so cool and sexy of you. and i am so so glad to tell you - you won!! we all had a meeting and we decided that you won, and we are writing your name on the inside of a burger king crown. the marker smeared, sorry, but we knew any form of real effort is ugly to you. but anyway. congrats! you are officially the coolest, most ironic, most jaded person in-the-world-right-now. we would throw you a party but you would think it was totally boring - and besides, we're weird so we wouldn't have been coming. we would have brought our love of beetles and of baking and of little canapes. we would have brought our artsy videogames and pages of writing. we would have written a poem with you, our hands covered in ink, and spread out a canvas to dance on, the night so lurid and pink.
but do not worry. we will not throw the party. we will just get you a ringlight and that crown i mentioned. it is a nice crown, except for where one of us dropped it.
the vote was a really hard one because we had so many cool ironic people to pick off the shelves. all of you have hands that rot fruit, how strange is that - you can't look at something without destroying it for other people. you like it when you can squeeze a person into a pinpoint - all us small ones scampering our little feet around our ugly joys. the vote was also a hard one because we kept our voices down because you don't like it when we talk too loud. you were on your phone at the time, talking to people other than us. you are a ghoul of every moment - half in, half out, you resent us for being here without shame or embarrassment.
so good news! we have invented an island for people like you. you get to go there and speak into the air things like if you still like watching harmless twitch streamers in 2023 you're fucking boring. you will say things like liveplay podcasts are fucking ugly and it's kind of awkward they try to make everything gay. on the island we made you, all of your words will have weight. they will form in the air like icicles, large white behemoth letters that will crumple in anvils around your feet. maybe we will send someone there once in a while to sweep, but honestly you might be there for a while, alone, waiting. we are busy being outside looking for mushrooms and flapping our hands and humming. we are busy kicking our little heels while we watch cringey tv. we are busy - sorry! as an apology, we have pre-filled the island with every bland, mediocre, unscented thing we could find. the island has the texture of american cheese. the island has an ocean that never gets angry. the island is perfect for you, trust me. you will be so happy there - as happy as you can be, ironically.
we want to say we are sorry for doing harmless things that you find annoying, childish, or unappealing - but we are not sorry. we thought we could help you, because we don't mind laughing at ourselves, but it turns out you are allergic to color and noise and atmosphere, so this is the best that we can do for now. we are all making a big shirt that says i voted in the ironic monarchy. we got you one that is just a fast fashion buttondown. i am so excited for you and this island and the big life you have won. you have a cool jaded grey life and miles of irony to roam. i love you! be well.
now leave us alone.
#spilled ink#writeblr#slam poetry#i started this as a joke and ended up taking after#the poem about all the women in the world meeting in the bathroom#i can't find it to link it directly i've been googling for like 15 minutes if someone can remember#turns out frantically googling the only lines like ''women meeting in the bathroom''#''secret womens meeting you always believed happened" is not useful for . to search??? help :(#also the reason this says harmless so many times is bc like#this is 100% about like#yeah man when ppl are mean about ppl enjoying things like. fuckin lady gaga#like this is so obviously about ppl who steal ur joy for no reason (i WILL steal ur joy if ur a bigot btw)#also yes it's bc someone was like ''liking the mcelroys in 2023 is cringe''#and im like. dude what the fuck literally just let people like things it's LITERALLY not that deep.#like i dont like centipedes theyre one of like the 2 bugs im squicked out by ... but like.#if u really like centipedes. im like so happy for you. i hope you can put socks on ur centipedes#so they can speedclean ur floors. that would be fun and cool!!!#i love u i hope all of you have a weird passion i love you i hope that passion fills your life like soap bubbles
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genuinely fucking furious about reactions to Mcbride, especially seeing this shit coming from fellow trans ppl…. like have you lost the fucking plot????
#🧿#like u do realize we are damned if we do/damned if we don’t w regards to cis ppl passing laws on our bodies#like if she pushed back can u realize how that would feed into the narrative of 'trans ppl invading womens spaces' and just inflame shit#more???#WHY ARE YOU MORE OUTRAGED W A TRANS PERSON MAKING PERSONAL DECISIONS ABOUT THEIR SAFETY THAN THE CIS PPL MAKING THESE RULES IN THE FIRST PLA#E????????#they all have private bathrooms anyway like this is just more cis bullying & y‘all continue to blame trans ppl for it#the bar is so fucking low and yet i‘m still fucking disappointed
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#black tumblr#black girl moodboard#black girl fitspo#black girls of tumblr#black girl luxury#luxury#bathroom#black beauty#black women#bubbles#black woman appreciation#melanin
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#cheekybottoms#subreddit#sexy pictures#thick and curvy#sexy#beautiful#bum cheeks#thick girls#beautiful women#thick girl#bounce that ass#shaking ass#bathroom
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This is the level of organized I want to be.
#soft life#soft girl#soft black girls#soft black women#bathroom#clean aesthetic#clean girl#luxury lifestyle#luxury#level up#level up journey#glow up#glowing up#glow up journey#self love journey#self love#self care journey#self care#self improvement#girly moodboard#girly things#girly stuff#soft girl era#soft girl energy#feminine energy
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