#within 24 hours of talking every time im like oh. yep. that ones autistic. probably not gay but some form for sure
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#personal#but being so fr why are the only people i care to match with undiscovered undiagnosed eggs#like its tiring swiping past so many dudes calles jason or jaxon or matt or mitch with the same haircut and moustache#but why every time theres finally a decent looking match does the conversation within a goddamn day#within 24 hours of talking every time im like oh. yep. that ones autistic. probably not gay but some form for sure#of trans or nb or genderfluid or some such. and like im too polite? cause its all men that have been raised cis and straight#they dont even know anything about anything queer and im usually the first person to ever tell them#that you can do whatever you want forever and why not start out trying this small fashion or stim thing to see if it feels good#i cant dump that on them then be like kbye lol. but i dont have time to guide you through your journey friend!#and wheres the point of me saying. i dont think i wanna keep talking as a potential datemate bc im looking for something specific#and i have strong feelings that what youll offer me now will not match what i need you to offer in the future#so we can be friendly but this is no longer a potential relationship to me because your own tism is stronger than mine#and i need a partner whos also able to be a carer and also one biologically equipped with certain parts#that i fully support you removing for ur journey im glad i could open that doorway for you friend but this simply isnt how my lifeplan goes#whens the good time to say that. i dont wanna upset any of these sheltered weirdos but i also dont have the time!!#but why does it happen every time! every! time!!!
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