#will be giving surgery updates

[cloudy-skyes]

Hello everyone!! Just a fair warning that I will be going into surgery tomorrow (nothing really bad, just wisdom teeth removal), but because of this I’m focusing on my college work before I become a useless blob for the next week.

Because of this, updates will probably be slow for the next week, but I’ll still do my best to work on your requests! Thank you all so much for supporting me, it means a lot <3

[boytransmission]

little pout

$app + top surgery fund + wishlist

[stil-lindigo]

DONATE THROUGH PAYPAL

DONATE THROUGH VENMO

Safebow, led by raindovemodel over on instagram, is a grassroots team currently doing their best to evacuate almost 200 Palestinian individuals from Gaza.

To do this, they had to raise over $300,000 in a very short amount of time. Amazingly, they not only raised that amount, but surpassed it to the point that they'll now be able to buy prosthetics for the hospitals they work with.

However, Gofundme has thrown a spanner into the work by going completely silent and holding up over half of their funds.

They are on a time crunch as they desperately try to recoup their money before the border closes. Please donate to their Paypal, Venmo or Zelle. Their window of success is genuinely a matter of days.

[sorren-sews]

life update: had to leave my job thanks to long covid. i'll most likely have a job again by late november, just one that doesn't pay as well.

i don't need to open commissions yet, but requests are open. i'll take as many as i can get- especially since i'll have a lot more free time starting in two weeks.

while i don't need additional financial support right now, many others do. i'd like to nudge anyone reading this towards gaza funds and world vision. gaza funds hosts fundraisers for palestinian families. world vision provides hurricane relief to the southern united states.

[sketchehm]

I've read every bottle in my bathroom and stared at the Christmas tree lights for so long. I'm utterly fascinated by being able to see lmao

[againstcrayon]

My narinder design+ a bunch of dorky redraws of him

[tsnbrainrot]

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[opens-up-4-nobody]

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[jettison-my-gift]

It came to my attention that I’d archived a bunch of chats on WhatsApp because I thought archiving meant deleting old messages to save memory and assumed that if a new message came in I’d get a notification and see it!

NOPE! That’s not what happens

And I went into my archived chats and I had a message from my (cishet Christian) aunt from early December asking me if I could donate any items for an art exhibition her university is doing for queer history month (which is February)

I did not see this message.

So she didn’t get a response.

She then sent me another message worried that she had offended me, apologising, and saying that she wants to be a good supportive aunt and asking if there’s anyway she can do that.

I did not see this message.

So she didn’t get a response.

She then sent me another message saying she was upset she didn’t get to see me round Christmas and hopes I’m well. (She visited the family but I had to work that day)

Again. Did not see it

Did not respond

…

I’m so devastated! I want to help her with this queer art exhibition but it’s probably too late now. And this poor woman was trying to reach out to me in a loving manner, accepting me as a queer trans person (the whole family is very religious so it was a little bit rocky to begin with but this particular aunt has always been lovely) and from her point of view I just ignored her! For over a month! Just said nothing. And she was worrying that she’d offended me by asking to be involved in art!! I love art! I always wanna be involved in art!

Ive just sent her a bunch of messages apologising and suggesting things I can donate if it’s not too late but she hasn’t responded yet (she’s probably asleep cos it’s quite late) and I’m stressing cos I’ve probably ruined her chance to be involved in this exhibition because I’m a fool who doesn’t know how WhatsApp works 😭

I need to sleep but I’m so upset about this situation I can’t. I just want her to message me back like:

“oh don’t worry! It’s not too late! I can create a work of art in 3 days and the exhibition still has lots of space and is taking pieces literally the day before it opens! It’s all good!”

*Edit*

Update!

Oh thank funk.

[coochiequeens]

When redditors are admitting that the accusation of transphobia is thrown around too much I get more hope that people are seeing through the rampant narcissism in the TQ+ community .

[greyias]

I've literally never interacted with anyone on here (heavy social anxiety turned me into a lurker before I could even post) but I went through what you're going through with your mom right now with my dad as a kid and it sucks. So. Much. I know there's probably nothing I can say that'll help or make you feel better, but for what it's worth, I'm sorry, and you're not alone. I'd say I'd pray for you guys but I don't want to overstep any religious boundries, so I'll just say good luck. ❤

Thank you for the kind words, Nonny, I'm sorry to hear about your dad and hope things are a little better/easier now. It has definitely been a Week™ (or week+ at this point) on this side of things, and I appreciate the support ♥

The situation seems to be an ever evolving beast, but at least as of this moment I'm writing things seem to be back on an upswing? It's definitely one of those situations that has to be taken one day/one moment at a time because it gets to be a little much otherwise.

[jimothystu]

um?????

also fucking finally a Monahan update

[hardtchill]

“an MCL, meniscus, scar tissue etc”

I’m getting the vibe it wasn’t any of these. But I also think Christen flat out would’ve said she’d be out the whole season if that was the case so idk

Yeah, i'm just hoping here tbh. I feel like the 2nd surgery would have dealt with scar tissue. Really the only thing that could have happened is her tearing an MCL in training but if it was lingering they would have dealt with it during the second surgery.

As i said, to me it feels like they tried to avoid the revision with the 2nd surgery but it didn't work.

[awkwardexxodus]

AND YOUR GLASSES NEED A NEW PRESCRIPTION

girlie that's not a random headache u are dehydrated malnourished over caffeinated over stressed and sleep deprived

[leatherbookmark]

I love tiktok edits of videos from fansigns and such because they subtitle everything. Not just what the idols are saying -- though it's more of a "*praises him*" than "wow that was so cool!" kind of subtitles -- but also every single thing they do. So you have a video of a guy talking quietly to another guy, and in case you didn't know what you're looking at, the subtitles helpfully inform you that the guy who's smiling is smiling, or that the guy who's taking his jacket off is taking his jacket off, etc, etc. Fascinating.