#wich I have to mention in some way because those positive sentiments for trans women is what I have to base my assumptions of trans
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I'm gonna stop engaging with a bunch of stuff starting next year, including any form of 'discourse' and the last thing I wanna say on this is: these bigots, gatekeepers and transphobes are all fucking stupid. Just remember that whenever one opens their mouth.
And them being hurt doesnt excuse or justify them causing further hurt. Never.
They are not worth your energy. I'm gonna start practicing that now.
I am pretty new to being active on the internet but tumblr did what a lifetime of irl idiots could not: kill that neurodivergent part of me that belived that if I just showed someone the flaws in their thinking and gave them all info they needed, they'd ajust their belive system and grow as a human being.
But it's like most people like this are hydrophobic but instead of repelling water they repell everything they don't wanna hear and doesn't fit into their fixed worldview or simply makes them uncomfortable.
Meanwhile I feel like a tissue, obsorbing everything first and then attempting to sort things out after (nervous system dysregulation goes brr).
Now post so I commit to not engaging in 'discource'.
#A while back I commented on their post because they were trying to push some identity-purism and using leslie feinberg to justify themselves#anyways#their opinions became personal attacks real fast#but calling me “bitch” was just a full on mask off moment#also#wlw exists. its the “woman only” term you can use when you want to communicare women only.#and women only safe spaces exist too#terf unsafe#like#they literally said 'men are invading our sacred woman spaces' and couln't understand the parallel to terf rethoric? bruh#malgendering#misgendering#transandrophobia#genderqueer#last thing I'm gonna say is how insane the active esasure of transmasc voices are right now. I recently posted my experience recently#just a short thing saying that recently#theres a trend that keeps happening of entering a page or space that claims to be queer friendly in some capacity and usually seeing some#pro trans woman and protect trans women sentiments#and in the past I assumed that meant other trans people also but this post is focused on trans women. But then#I increasingly encounter misandrist#trandandrophobic (&therefore transphobic) and anti-masculine sentiments. that was the post. but I was asked to take it down because some#people decided that it had a fundamentally flawed premise?#and factual inaccuracies?#the premise of 'that is happening at an increasing rate right now' and the fact of my experience?#i assume they saw the frist part#wich I have to mention in some way because those positive sentiments for trans women is what I have to base my assumptions of trans#friendlieness on because most people don't think about trans mascs (symptom of hypoinvisibility) I am not saying anything about trans women#or their experiences with these spaces because how could I I am not trans. but because I mentioned them#people automatically read it as centering around them I have to assume.#like; I just want to be able to talk about whatever I wanna talk about without having to write an essay about trans women
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