#when she worked witj me we were quick friends like bffs in fact although we never hung out outsidr of work we saw each other everyday and
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ratbastard0 · 5 years ago
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i just feel like if i was that important to you, you’d make an effort....
#someone please explain this to me#so this girl i used to work with (for over a year) quit like 4 months ago#when she worked witj me we were quick friends like bffs in fact although we never hung out outsidr of work we saw each other everyday and#would text off and on and send funny stuff to each other#but when she quit that basically ceased to be a thing like she would never respond and it was always me sending her stuff so eventually#i just quit sending stuff bc why do i need to keep putting the effort (also she’s like 2 years younger than me and is way more immature)#so i had been thinking ‘thats okay bc we wouldnt have got on in the long run anyways’#also she has been in a bad place mentally and so we bonded over that bc well ya know sad bitches be sad together#i really thought we could be friends irl but the only time we hung out was like a month after she quit when we wemt to that khalid concert#but that whole day it was so awkward bc at that point we hadnt spoken in like weeks and then all of a sudden we’re together irl by ourselves#so after that concert i started back trying to talk to her but again same thing#she would take days to respond and wouldnt even answer the questions or topics i had been talking to her about#so finally i got to the point of ‘okay thats it im not sending anything else’ and we didnt speak for i think over a month#i posted a selfie on insta and she replied and then texted me sayinh she missed me and ofc i said the same bc i’m a nice bitch but all#i could think was ‘wtf then why didnt you respond to my texts?!?’#so again we talked for a few days and then she disappeared for a month and half and out of the blue she texts me#‘post malone is coming to the city’#trying to invite me out i’m guessing but the thing is i really couldnt go and not to mention i’m pissed bc shes ignored me up until this#so i just said ‘i know but i cant go’ with some sad emojis i think and to that she replies.........#‘dang i thought itd be another chance for us to hang out’ 😐😐😐😐#i have been here the whole time....trying to emgage with you and got nothing.....at this point its been 3 months....and im tired#well i didnt respond to her text bc that shit was wack and im pissed and thinking whatever fuck off you cant do that to me#well this story is coming to end but here’s the kicker......she came into work yesterday and i saw her...😑#she says hey i miss you ​and i faked it (but also not bc i did really like her) and said i miss you too and then we caught up for a lil#but i had to get back to work so it was like 10 minutes at most but it was good and i felt bad bc she talkef about being sad and missing me#and that she talked about me in therapy ‘as one of her only friends’ and that her therapist tolf her to invite me out but she thought id say#no so she never did but this whole time i’m just feeling like shit bc shes been sad and i really havent given her two thoughts tbh#but anyways the cherry on top is that when we parted she said ‘well text me later and we can catch up’ ......#so i did...yesterday...and you know what??#she hasnt said a word :)
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