#when i saw it puts transfems in a weird position btw i hope its clear that im saying that in a way that these ideologies are just like

[lowpawly]

tbh i think that some tme lesbos (i am one of these btw) focus too hard on rigidly defining woman vs man while also trying to fit that into trans activism and it just doesn't work. cuz even if you feel like you're being trans inclusive a lot of the logic being followed just inherently leads to putting a lot of trans women in a really weird position. I think its okay to just say you don't have hard answers for all these questions and that lesbianism is just the best way to describe your life experience. smoke a joint suck some boobs peace and love ✌☮

being some kind of trans while also being a lesbian gets you doing some crazy existential philosophizing. like what is a man...what is a woman...what makes them distinct...these concepts both exist and don't exist in tandem...what does my exclusive attraction to the group known as women mean and how do I define it...and the answer is there's no hard answer its all just vibes