#well…nonbunary…

[deliinthesky]

Shadowbringers beat my WoL with a big stick and they are tired and sore.

[shatteredrabbit]

1. I use Nonbinary as well as an array of xenogenders like bungender!

2. kyu/fae/bun! (they them as well but i prefer neoprns)

3. I was 15/16 i think!

4. I think I'd tell her that one day she'll never have to wear a dress again if she doesn't want to. She'll never have to put her hair up or sit like a lady. Never.

5. The assumption that being nonbinary is a complete rejection of gender, but also the assumption that it is ALWAYS the "third gender"

6. not particularly!

7. not out to my family, but to my friends they all sort of helped me through it as I got further and further from feeling like a woman, but not wanting to be a man either.

8. nonbunary (a pun mixing nonbinary and bungender >:])

9. not all of them are strictly nonvinary, but many fall under the umbrella!

10. I LOVE Vee from The Owl House, as well as Zooble from The Amazing Digital Circus!!

11. i usually say LGBTQ+ but i also say LGBTQIA+ or when i don't wan a repeat the whole alphabet (/lh) i just say LGBTQ

12. it's always had to explain but for me it's basically just not being a man or a woman

13. i have a heart-shaoed birthmark :]

14. i originally got it from a character of a webcomic i no longer remember the name of, but i also have an affinity for names beginning with 'z'! my original name rabbit stems from my username and an oc of mine, but it's since become a nickname rather than my chosen name

15. not in a relationship!

16. partner or significant other!

17. don't be afraid to explore "weird" and "unnatural" genders!! i was so afraid of being ridiculed i hid who i was and even know i have a hard time being open about certain labels i use outside of an online space

18. typical nonbinary flag! tho i prefer to find ones with slightly less jarring colors (yellow causes eyestrain for me!)

19. it's okay to scream at/into or punch your pillows. but it's never okay to do the same to your friends. if you feel like you're gonna bite everyone's heads off then keep a temporary distance until you calm down. it saves you the guilt and it saves your friends the stress. showers help wash away the physical gunk, which can cause mental gunk. water is important, especially if you've been crying. do not be afraid to step away.

20. now that i think about it, i don't follow any blogs about or for nonbinsry people specifically

21. androgynous with a touch of masculine, but never feminine

22. a) my creativity b) my resilience c) my ability to learn just by poking around

My dear lgbt+ kids, 

Since over 400 of you agreed that it’s Nonbinary November, I decided to do something fun for my nonbinary kids and came up with this: 

22 Questions for Nonbinary November! 

1.Which labels do you use?

2.What are your pronouns?

3.How old were you when you came out to yourself as nonbinary?

4.What’s one thing you’d like to tell your younger self?

5.Is there a myth about nonbinary people that annoys you the most?

6.Is there a nonbinary celebrity you look up to?

7.If you’re out, how did you come out?

8.Is there a gender-related pun you like? 

9.Do you have friends who identify as nonbinary, too?

10.Do you have a favorite lgbt+ character?

11. Lgbt, lgbt+, lgbtqa+… which one do you usually use?

12. How do you explain the term “nonbinary” to people who have no idea what it means?

13.Tell us a fun fact about yourself (gender-related or random!) 

14.How did you find your name? 

15.If you’re in a relationship, how did your partner react to your coming-out?

16.Do you prefer partner, datemate, significant other or something else?

17.A piece of advice for questioning kids?

18.Which flag(s) do you use?

19.Any tips for bad days?

20.Do you have a favorite nonbinary blog on tumblr?

21.Feminine, masculine, androgynous - or none of those things?

22. What are your three favorite things about yourself?

If you’re on the nonbinary spectrum, you can copy those and answer them on your blog (and tag me!).You can do all at once or one a day. Feel free to skip any questions you don’t want to answer. 

I hope this will be a fun way for nonbinary people to share their stories and a way for others to learn more about the nonbinary community! <3 

With all my love, 

Your Tumblr Dad