#was thinking abt this bc I was thinking abt ur honeymoon LOL

[theloveinc]

he went to africa so see yuuta but i think that's the only time it mentions him being out of japan, but he does travel all over japan ik that much as well if this is any helpful..

YES you’re so right, idk how I managed to forget that!! It honestly helps confirm whatever in my head is making me think that gojo is somewhat … “well-traveled” even if it is the only evidence we have…

Tho it would be interesting if it’s the only other country he’s been… but yes, so helpful, and thank you!!

[mxltifxnd0m]

sam with a teenage daughter is so funny in my mind, like he’s so overprotective of her like that’s his baby so when she comes home with a bf he tries to be intimidating but realizes the bf is actually a decent person so he relaxes and he comes to u panicking like “how tf do i act our daughter has a bf?!?!!?!” and ur obviously a bit weary bc its ur daughter’s first bf but overall its not the end of the world (unless he hurts her bc then all hell would break loose, literally) and he asks u a bunch of questions abt ur teenage years n boyfriends n after a bit he’s like “okay enough” n plugs his ears.

anyways he’s definitely such a crybaby on her wedding day, presuming she stays with her first bf him and sam form a close bond and at the end of the aisle he’s like to the bf “take care of her” and it’s such an emotional moment. i feel like he’d also give her a piece of jewellery as an heirloom and then when the honeymoon car is abt to leave he cries again bc that’s his baby and he loves her and doesn’t want her to get hurt, and he’d definitely give his grandkids pictures of u n him and tell ur embarrassing stories to them and u do the same and neither of u ever live it down, u n him also tell embarrassing stories abt ur kid to ur grandkids and no one ever lives it down it’s a never ending cycle of embarrassing stories and that becomes a tradition to live on

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ommgg sorry 💽 anon i just checked my inbox 😭😭 but AHHH IM OBSESSED WITH GIRL DAD SAM AND THIS IS JUST SO AOIHFA;IFIHFOA YOUR BRAIN I LOVE IT SO MUCH

the thought of sam having a teenage daughter is so funny to me because he's so out of his depth when it comes to the fact that his little girl isn't so little anymore and even though he wishes that his little girl would stay little, he loves the fact she's growing up to be a wonderful human being. like he was in awe when of her when she was born and he couldn't fathom the fact that he helped make this fragile human being and seeing her grow into a perfect mixture of you and him, well it makes him tear up at the thought

LOL sorry i went off on a tangent there, but YES hes very protective of his daughter, but i think he eases up as she gets older but he'll always be protective of his kid and so when he meets his little girls partner or bf, he doesn't have to try and look intimidating (his height is already a factor and he's still running and working out so he's still broad and built) but when he learned more about her partner, he's like damn, they're actually a good kid and they start to bond as she brings them over more and more.

LMAO the thought of him coming to you and panicking about his little girl dating is so funny and you kinda just look at him like, 'we have girl talk all the time, its nothing new to me' but you humor him when he asks questions and you knew that he'd regret it when you tell him how you were as a teenager.

OMG sam would be a crybaby on his little girl's wedding day and just be in awe of how grown up his daughter is. i really like the idea of the family heirloom and the embarrassing stories because let's face it sam is a little shit and will not miss the opportunity to tell embarrassing stories about his daughter, because at the end of the day, she's still his little girl

[pandemique]

answering lovely asks i’ve just found when clearing my inbox below the cut 💛 there are some here i shed a tear to and some that i cried like an actual baby over :’D i can never overstate how meaningful ur words are

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tumblr user drownedddddd u should know i pull up this ask to read it every time i wanna feel better... literally i could just like.. stub a toe and be like ok time to read that one ask. anyway HAHAHAHA lovely people like u are really what make up my blog, i can’t thank u enough 💛

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i kin them <3

/J but i think theyre so adorable!!!!!! so smol 🥺😭 why apple, do u like them?

and thank u so much <33 i hope ur day is as chad as the coqui

hari?!??????? hari??? hari </333............ no i dont know how and why u would be so kind but i’ll treasure this ask forever omg :”) and i could say the same about u too sm.. i like to tease u for being a dream kinnie but i mean that in all the sappiest ways with how much positive impact u make and how much love u have, thanku so much for being u hari <3 now gimme a minute im gonna go like cry

OZ!!!!!!!!! <333 <3 <-this is me whenever i see u open ur mouth :))) oz thats the most meaningful thing idk what ur saying.... thank u for all ur sweet & hilarious & big brain words we’re lucky to have u here <3

ish nonnie ive said before all anons are automatically in a polycule with me !!! maybe its time for a honeymoon instead ??? (and have an amazing day too <33)

i love how sweet u are :> i’m honestly still kinda rude to my own style (lol) its reassuring to know u like it!!

darling i think that’s just bc its george LMAO thank u for the sentiment though :D <3

yeah this is the one that made me baby-cry HAHAHA 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 flowernon ur really the moon that shone through my dark days. i’m proud of u as well for growing into a person who is both so tough yet so full of love, and for doing what i thought was impossible, which was making me proud of myself too. thank you. 🌺💛

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[neds-nickerson]

I'm gonna need wedding headcanons for Joe lol and any possibility of revenge groomsmen pranks from the other boys

i am not good enough for pranks ideas but!!

absolutely does not care abt tradition imo. he wants his wedding to reflect him and his partner best and if that means ditching some traditions then yeah ofc he's gonna do that

get his man in a pale blue tux. or something season appropriate but this man is not wearing a black tux.pale blue is just what came to mind first.

honestly? nervous wreck day-of. literally he seems giddy up until the actual day and then hes like "frank i think i lost my shoes and my tie also i think i'm having a heart attack?" and frank's like. bro ur just nervous, its okay. frank definitely has to pull the 'serious older brother' card with this because joe appointed him his best man for a reason other than 'you're the closest person to me and also my big brother'. i don't think joe's the kind to get nervous about things going wrong when it comes to his partner ditching him or anything--he has enough faith in them--but things like the catering company suddenly cancelling or the cake getting destroyed or the place not getting decorated.

he just starts overthinking, man. brain go panic mode.

ive mentioned a first look w the other guys--ned crying if he has one or frank just having heart eyes if he does--but i think joe is the only one who like... 100% needs that first look before the ceremony. it'll help calm his nerves a lot i think. hes just gonna be a smiley idiot when he sees his partner though

deadass okay with any dates but i think he'd probably prefer a summer wedding, maybe on the beach? but he's open to other ideas. has 100% joked about going back to hawaii for either a wedding or a honeymoon as long as he doesn't get another concussion.

absolutely gets pranked by his groomsmen or w/e you wanna call em bc i think joe (and the others tbh) probably is like 'do you wanna be a part of this' regardless of gender. i'm not smart enough to detail what kind of pranks, but he does get pranked. frank is a little hesitant for a minute based on 'idk he seems nervous' the day-of but ends up going along with it. it helps lighten him back up.

this man makes his vows funny but then they get SO mushy. ppl go from laughing abt some joke he made thats between him and his partner bc he tells a lil bit of the story and then he gets all mushy

absolutely the kind of person who has like. specific choreography for the first dance. he wants to show his partner off and also he wants to show off

i mentioned joe in frank’s headcanons, so i have to mention frank here. frank gives the mushiest goddamn speech anyone has ever heard. he has SO much love for his brother and will embarrass him a bit but its all out of love! he’ll call joe out for things that he did growing up, or he’ll comment abt the cringey shit joe was into and did as a young teen, but then he starts talking abt sweet shit and how happy he is that his little brother is happy. he absolutely makes a comment to joe’s partner that “there’s no returns btw, he’s your problem now” but then wrap it up with “but he’s a good problem to have” or something.

joe, post speech, is like. aw man now i regret my best man speech. even if frank isnt married, joe put off writing his own vows to write it. (he wouldn’t change it)

[stozkpile]

sidenote i dont rly get how infatuation is tied to lust necessarily because i can think theyre sooo hot and cool and i would love talking to them and making whoopee but i wouldn't be like "id die w/out u" like ur not my family. yeah i like to see u but abt as much as when i see a friend. and i might just be an asshole but the only time i like to do stuff for other ppl voluntarily is when i know itll reap rewards for me now or later or i feel like i owe them. i guess its all the same, intention or not, but urgh yknow lol i feel bad abt it

my theories here are that maybe ppl crave intimacy especially since ppl arent cuddling their kids or ppl dont get a lot of touch (and therefore oxytocin) so being in-love actually just means ur obsessed w them for bringing you comfort and its like one of the few places u get it from. i am in no need of oxytocin myself me and my brother r big huggers and snugglers and im glad its that way. and thats maybe why im not ACHING for it the way some ppl are. we live in a society i hope yall get the touch u need

the other theory is that i was so conditioned by media my whole life into believing like. marriage for love. and romantic ideals of pining and courtship and blah blah blah. i all thought it would feel a certain way. like when u think abt them u wanna get married to them u dont just wanna have sex?!?!?! marriage is like...bro that shits supposed to be forever. youd wanna spend forever with someone? thats too long. id be like "yeah ill get married w u. but bc i need someone to help take care of my kids and also for the sake of finances" i wanna have kids by GOD i wanna have children so much but damn i dont feel like i need to have kids WITH somebody it just seems more convenient (as in theyd be around). i also dont think love-marriages work anyways it really is more of a social contract than like "omg i love you lets get married" and thats why marriages fall apart bc the honeymoon stops and they never had any conflict resolution skills so everything goes tits up. thats lame.

i dont think i feel romantic attraction i know i like girls but i have never felt the feeling of being in love. maybe im ace and women just bother me the least idk, although ive seen rly beautiful girls and i couldnt stop looking at them? does anyone else feel this way

i mean the idea of being in love and having ur heart race seems so nice but i dont rly think people fall in love i think they just get used to each other? and with familiarity comes comfort? and infatuation is just lust? does anyone have any insight on this :0