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Peace in our Time
Peace In Our Time
Мир
שלום
سلام
शांति
和平
Paix
Pax
Paz
平和
Frieden
All we need to believe in for peace in our time
…is love
Aman
평화
Ukuthula
Ειρήνη
Síocháin
Rauha
Alafia
Hoà bình
All we need to believe in for peace in our time
…is Love
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UKUNQOBA!!!: D.E.A. TURNED BACK IN "PHILLY" AS PSYCHIATRIST DR. MUHAMAD RUFAI M.D. IS FOUND NOT GUILTY, VICTORY TO ATTY PAUL HETZNECKER: AN ANOTHER VICTORY TO THE CHAPMAN LAW FIRMS, RESEARCH AND INVESTIGATION UNIT.
After a lengthy legal battle, Dr. Muhamad Rifai, MD a prominent Pennsylviania Psychiatrist was found NOT GUILTY acquitted of drug trafficking charges by a federal jury in Easton, Pa.(1) Dr. Muhamad Rifai, MD works in Easton, PA as a Psychiatry Specialist and has 28 years experience. He is a board certified in Addiction Medicine and graduated from University Of Aleppo, Faculty Of Medicine in 1996. Dr. Rifai completed a residency at University of Virginia.
!ukuthula! Traditional Zulu Peace Prayer Ukuthula Ukunqoba kulomhlaba wezono (Victory in this sinful world) Igazi lika Jesu linyenyez’ Ukunqoba (The blood of Jesus brings victory.)��Ukuthula kulomhlaba wezono (Peace in this sinful world) Igazi lika Jesu linyenyez’ ukuthula. (THE BLOOD OF JESUS BRINGS PEACE) “IF YOU DON’T FIGHT YOU WON’T WIN“ !!Ukubonga!! NORMAN J CLEMENT RPH., DDS, NORMAN L.…
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ChopLife SoundSystem, Mr Eazi & Ami Faku - Wena Lyrics
ChopLife SoundSystem, Mr Eazi & Ami Faku - Wena Lyrics Hayi wena Bugijimi izolo Bheka nou Sewu'yandazi today Umama wayendiyala Wathi mntanami Uzulumkele Hayi wena Bugijimi izolo Bheka nou Sewu'yandazi today Umama wayendiyala Wathi mntanami Uzulumkele Ngoba wena uyaz Akekho Ofana nawe Apha elizweni Wena uyaz Akekho Ofana nawe Apha elizweni I just wanna know what's on your mind Baby, I have been loving you long time, no, no Right now I'm ready to kick it down Sendakhetha ukuthula Ndibaleke Phela awundazi kahle Sendakhetha ukuthula Ndibaleke Phela awundazi kahle Sendakhetha ukuthula (sendakhetha ukuthula) Ndibaleke (sendakhetha) Phela awundazi kahle (phela awundazi kahle) Sendakhetha ukuthula (sendakhetha ukuthula) Ndibaleke (sendakhetha) Phela awundazi kahle (phela awundazi kahle) Ngoba wena uyaz Akekho Ofana nawe Apha elizweni Wena uyaz Akekho Ofana nawe Apha elizweni I just wanna know what's on your mind Baby, I have been loving you long time, no, no Right now I'm ready to kick it down (ready to kick it down) Read the full article
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Here’s the Ukuthula essay exactly one (1) person asked for! (@dredfulhapiness I luv u and thank u for urging me to talk about things nobody else cares about)
Ukuthula kulo mhlaba wezono (Aleluya) igazi likaJesu linyenyez’ ukuthula
Usindiso kulo mhlaba wezono (Aleluya) igazi likaJesu linyenyez’ usindiso
Ukubonga kulo mhlaba wezono (Aleluya) igazi likaJesu linyenyez’ ukubonga
Ukukholwa kulo mhlaba wezono (Aleluya) igazi likaJesu linyenyez’ ukukholwa
Ukunqoba kulo mhlaba wezono (Aleluya) igazi likaJesu linyenyez’ ukunqoba
Induduzo kulo mhlaba wezono (Aleluya) igazi likaJesu linyenyez’ induduzo
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Peace in this world of sin (Halleluja) the blood of Jesus brings peace
Redemption in this world of sin (Halleluja) the blood of Jesus brings redemption
Praise (gratefulness) in this world of sin (Halleluja) the blood of Jesus brings praise (gratefulness)
Faith in this world of sin (Halleluja) the blood of Jesus brings
Victory in this world of sin (Halleluja) the blood of Jesus brings
Comfort in this world of sin (Halleluja) the blood of Jesus brings
Let’s start at the very beginning, shall we?
Ukuthula is a Zulu prayer written during the apartheid in South Africa. It’s a song of peace, and of victory when victory seems nowhere in sight. It’s written and performed in the call-and-response style, which is especially popular in South Africa. The caller sings first, usually a lone voice set apart, and then the rest of the chorus joins in in haunting solidarity with the caller. It’s beautiful. It’s one person standing up for what they believe in, and, in doing so, giving multitudes of others the courage to do the same. It’s a prayer for peace, redemption, praise, faith, victory, of comfort in this world.
I can’t speak for anyone else but myself, but I’m a firm believer in the idea that some works of art can find their way into your life in exactly the right moment. And after the year we’ve had, I feel even more strongly about it.
On November 16th, 2019, one of the counselors at my school took his own life.
Coming to school that next day was an experience I don’t think I would be able to describe if I wanted to.
My first class was choir. After discussing the events that had taken place the night before, my choir was given the rest of the period to spend in solidarity. Whether that meant talking with each other, doing homework to distract ourselves, or just being together. But we couldn’t do that. We needed to sing.
So we sang.
We marched out to the common area of our school, joined hands, and sang.
Ukuthula.
Usindiso.
Ukubonga.
Ukukholwa.
Ukunqoba.
Induduzo.
Ukuthula.
I don’t think I need to tell you it didn’t sound good. It was teary and voice crack-y and heartbreakingly solemn. Almost eerie as the caller’s voice, shaken with tears, echoed alone through the space, then was followed with the power of a 50-voice choir.
On the darkest of days, hope and beauty can still be found in community and music. Those two forces have the power to heal things that seem unrecoverable. And with everything that’s going on today, music is more important now than it ever has been. While it can’t fix all of our problems, it can show us what’s most important. What’s most important is our humanity. That we’re all the same, under everything.
That we’re all in this together.
#suicide mention#ukuthula#filed under: what about nascar#this was so cathartic wow#i think this pretty much explains why i'm missing choir so much recently#it's the turmoil!#i wasn't going to post this (bc who cares?) but it's the only thing i've written and finished in over a month so i'll take what i can get#also apparently it's really tiring to write 400 words after not writing for a while? weird#anyway i'm gonna conk out now
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Just checked my high schools choir Instagram for the first time in weeks and I MISSED WORLD PEACE DAY WTF
#my post#!!#saw a video of this years choir singing ukuthula#;( I miss it#I sang along w the video dhskhd
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Isahluko 4
Sizohlala sibhekile futhi silindile, sithule emoyeni futhi sifuna ngenhliziyo ehlanzekile. Noma yini esehlelayo, akufanele sihlanganyele ngobumpumputhe. Sidinga kuphela ukuthula phambi kukaNkulunkulu futhi sibe nokuhlanganyela okungapheli Naye khona-ke izinhloso Zakhe ziyokwambulwa kithi. Umoya wethu kufanele uhlale ukulungele ukwahlukanisa futhi kufanele uzimisele futhi ungathambi. Kufanele sikhe emanzini aphilayo phambi kukaNkulunkulu, amanzi aqeda ukoma komoya wethu owomile. Kufanele silungele ngezikhathi zonke ukuzihlanza ekuzazini ukulunga kwethu, ukuzithwala kwethu, ukweneliseka kwethu ngathi, nokunganaki kwethu, ngakunye kwakho okuzalwa yisimo sethu sobusathane. Kufanele sivule izinhliziyo zethu ukuze samukele izwi likaNkulunkulu, kufanele sethembele emazwini Akhe ngenkathi siqhubeka nezimpilo zethu. Kufanele sizwe futhi siqiniseke ngezwi lakhe siphinde sithole ukuqonda izwi Lakhe, sivumele izwi Lakhe libe ukuphila kwethu. Yilolu ubizo lwethu! Sinqoba kuphela lapho siphila ngezwi likaNkulunkulu.
Manje imiqondo yethu iqotho ngokwedlulele, sikhuluma kalula futhi senze ngokugagamela futhi asikwazi ukulandela uMoya. Inamuhla ngeke libe njengesikhathi esedlule; umsebenzi woMoya oNgcwele uya phambili ngesivinini esikhulu. Kufanele silizwe ngokwemininingwane izwi likaNkulunkulu; wonke umqondo nomcabango, wonke umnyakazo nokuphendula kufanele sikwahlukanise ezinhliziyweni zethu. Akukho esikwenza phambi komuntu noma ngemuva kwakhe okungaphunyuka ekwahlulelweni phambi kwesihlalo sikaKristu. UMoya oNgcwele usiqondisa endaweni yokuhlangenwe nakho okujulile, futhi ngalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho sisondela ekuqinisekeni ngoSomandla.
UNkulunkulu wezulu nomhlaba uvule amehlo ethu omoya futhi izimfihlakalo zilokhu zembulwa kithi. Funa ngenhliziyo ehlanzekile! Zimisele ukukhokha inani, yana phambili ngayo yonke inhliziyo yakho, zimisele ukuzithiba, ungabe usaba nomhobholo, landela uMoya oNgcwele futhi uthokozele izwi likaNkulunkulu futhi umuntu omusha womhlaba wonke uyobonakala. Isiphetho sikaSathane siyophela phambi kwamehlo akho futhi intando kaNkulunkulu iyokwenzeka. Zonke izizwe zomhlaba ziyoba ngumbuso kaKristu futhi uKristu uyobusa njengeNkosi emhlabeni kuze kube phakade!
Umthombo: IBandla LikaNkulunkulu USomandla
#uNkulunkulu#insindiso#Iqiniso#Izwi likaNkulunkulu#UNkulunkulu USomandla#IBandla LikaNkulunkulu USomandla#ivangeli#Amazwi KaNkulunkulu USomandla
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Awungivumele ngingakhulumi okungingi, kuphela nje ngithi UKUTHULA MAKUBENAWE, NGEGAMA LENKOSI UJESU KRESTU AMEN🙏🙌💖 (at Leslie, Mpumalanga, South Africa) https://www.instagram.com/p/CTpYfjtMkVW/?utm_medium=tumblr
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LACEY CHABERT, JON COR AND BRITTANY BRISTOW STAR IN A STORY ABOUT ADVENTURE AND UNPREDICTABILITY OF LIFE AND LOVE IN ‘LOVE ON SAFARI,’ A NEW ORIGINAL MOVIE PREMIERING JULY 28 ON HALLMARK CHANNEL
Lacey Chabert (“Party of Five,” “Moonlight in Vermont”), Jon Cor (“Dark Matter”) and Brittany Bristow (“Love Blossoms”) star in “Love on Safari,” a new, original movie premiering Saturday, July 28, (9 p.m. ET/PT) on Hallmark Channel as part of the network’s annual “Summer Nights” programming event. Busy and reserved Chicago web designer Kira’s (Chabert) plan for a relaxing vacation in Scottsdale is derailed when she learns she has inherited Ukuthula, a beautiful animal reserve in South Africa and must travel there for the reading of the will. Upon her arrival, she meets the handsome park ranger Tom (Cor) who is the exact opposite of her accounting (and bland) steady boyfriend. Along with Tom and Ally (Bristow), the reserve’s other ranger, Kira explores Ukuthula along with its majestic animals: zebras, giraffes, hippos and elephants, and she unexpectedly begins to not only fall in love with Ukuthula, but with Tom as well. Kira is conflicted and faced with a difficult decision: either sell the reserve to a ruthless competitor, which would jeopardize Ukuthula’s future as well as the livelihood of its local villagers and the well-being of the animals, or leave the safety of her life in Chicago and risk everything for this new world. When Kira sees the villagers and children from the school her uncle built she realizes that sometimes she must get lost to learn the way, and in the end, it’s up to her to decide what ultimately makes her happy.
#love on safari#summer nights#poster reveal#press release#lacey chabert#hallmark channel#hallmark movies#news
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UKUNQOBA!!!: D.E.A. TURNED BACK IN "PHILLY" AS PSYCHIATRIST DR. MUHAMAD RUFAI M.D. IS FOUND NOT GUILTY, VICTORY TO ATTY PAUL HETZNECKER: AN ANOTHER VICTORY TO CHAPMAN LAW FIRMS, RESEARCH AND INVESTIGATION UNIT.
!ukuthula! Traditional Zulu Peace Prayer Ukuthula Ukunqoba kulomhlaba wezono (Victory in this sinful world) Igazi lika Jesu linyenyez’ Ukunqoba (The blood of Jesus brings victory.) Ukuthula kulomhlaba wezono (Peace in this sinful world) Igazi lika Jesu linyenyez’ ukuthula. (THE BLOOD OF JESUS BRINGS PEACE) !!Ukubonga!! NORMAN J CLEMENT RPH., DDS, NORMAN L. CLEMENT PHARM-TECH, MALACHI F.…
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Zodede classical chorale
This is a music chorale based in Kenya and which I am a member, performing a song known as ‘ukuthula’ enjoy
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UKUZIPHATHA
UJosé Araujo de Souza Ungangisoli ngamagama engingawasho.Cishe njalo ngisebenzisa ukuthula njengolimi,ngokuqiniseka ukuthi inkulumo ikhuluma ijule kunamazwi.Akukho kimi okunamathiselwe ezinsukwini ezikhethekile,ngoba labo abathinta futhi bafanelwe izinkumbulo,zigcinwa enhliziyweni futhi zingokoqobo, nsuku zonke.Nginamahloni, nginamahloni futhi ngiyikho konke abakufunayo.Ekujuleni kwenhliziyo,…
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Ukuthula kulo mhlaba wezono (Aleluya) igazi likaJesu linyenyez’ ukuthula
Usindiso kulo mhlaba wezono (Aleluya) igazi likaJesu linyenyez’ usindiso
Ukubonga kulo mhlaba wezono (Aleluya) igazi likaJesu linyenyez’ ukubonga
Ukukholwa kulo mhlaba wezono (Aleluya) igazi likaJesu linyenyez’ ukukholwa
Ukunqoba kulo mhlaba wezono (Aleluya) igazi likaJesu linyenyez’ ukunqoba
Induduzo kulo mhlaba wezono (Aleluya) igazi likaJesu linyenyez’ induduzo
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Peace in this world of sin (Halleluja) the blood of Jesus brings peace
Redemption in this world of sin (Halleluja) the blood of Jesus brings redemption
Praise (gratefulness) in this world of sin (Halleluja) the blood of Jesus brings praise (gratefulness)
Faith in this world of sin (Halleluja) the blood of Jesus brings
Victory in this world of sin (Halleluja) the blood of Jesus brings
Comfort in this world of sin (Halleluja) the blood of Jesus brings
At the beginning of this year, my choir started it’s journey under the direction of a new director. He had different views and perspectives on many aspects of our music than our last director, so many of us (especially us seniors who’d had the old director for 3 years) were skeptical of him. For our first concert, he gave us this piece. It was easier than most of the other music we were learning, so most of us blew it off as just a quick learn.
It wasn’t until we discussed the lyrics that the significance of this piece really started to sink in.
Peace.
Redemption.
Praise.
Faith.
Victory.
Comfort.
This song was written during the Apartheid in South Africa. It is widely known as their victory song. They sing it when they win football matches, in churches, or even just when they’re in need of a little extra hope.
On November 16th of 2019, one of the counselors at my school took his own life.
Coming to school the next day was an experience I don’t think I would be able to put into words if I wanted to.
My first class was choir. After discussing the events that had taken place the night before, my choir was given the rest of the period to spend in solidarity. Whether that meant talking with each other, doing homework to distract ourselves, or just being together. But we couldn’t do that. We needed to sing.
So we did.
We walked out into the common area in the center of the school and started singing.
Ukuthula.
Usindiso.
Ukubonga.
Ukukholwa.
Ukunqoba.
Induduzo.
Ukuthula.
Needless to say, it didn’t sound good. It was teary. It was heartbreakingly solemn. Almost eerie as the caller’s voice, shaken with tears, echoed alone through the space, then was followed with the power of a 50-voice choir.
But we got through it. Together.
All this to say, music has power to heal. And it still can today. With everything going on, music is more important than ever before. It can’t fix all of our problems, but it can show us what’s most important. What’s most important is our humanity. That we’re all the same, under everything.
We need to remember this.
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UnguJehova wena Siphephelo sam' nguwe Ungumelusi wam' wena Ukuthula kwam' nguwe Ungumthokozisi wena (Ukuphila) Ukuphila kwam' nguwe Ungenzel'okuhle wena (Njalo Njalo) El Shaddai Adonai nguwe #GoodMorningSouth🇿🇦 (at Pretoria, South Africa) https://www.instagram.com/p/CNbtrhUMyWP/?igshid=1t3xwm965s05s
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Hamilton Children’s Choir, “Ukuthula”
Audio and video production by Jamie Drake/Opus 32 Design
Ilumini Ensemble conducted by Zimfira Poloz
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Sex talk within Parents and Kids......
Lets talk about sex baby lets talk about it and push it baby babe push…” Does anyone remember this song? l still remember it playing on radio and one time when my friend borrowed me her Push It Baby record by TLC . Ngangi busy bantu ngicula ngizekelisa lami engangibona kusenziwa ngabanye meanwhile my father who was a wonderful man, was standing by the door watching, well you can imagine the outcome hahahaha. With his eyes directly on me, he said in a calm voice “Kuphushwani ke lapha? Ngibuzela ukuthi lami ngithi uku-understander, l will love for you ukuthi ungichazele.
I tried to explain and justify myself but as you all know parents are much clever than we gave them credit for when we were young. That music too opened the floor for a discussion that contributed tremendously to who l am today. It led to the SEX talk with my father, as hard as it is to believe coming from a women, within my culture its considered taboo for fathers to talk about sex with their daughters. My sex talk with my dad was very worth it and I want to use this platform to pass on that wisdom to you guys.
Why is it so difficult for abazali to have a conversation labantwana babo about this topic. Kwenziwa ngamahloni, yikuhlonipha or is it just fear of the unknown? From an African perspective I know that our culture also plays a significant role in this taboo. Some parents have a belief that when one talks about SEX to their teenagers, then uyabe esemvulele umnyango wokuthi abengunondindwa. Thina sisakhula amankazana ayehanjiswa kubo babakazi or omam’oncane siye hlaliswa phansi siboniswe ngokukhula lendaba zocansi.
However, in this generation that tradition has died off meaning if parents are afraid to rise to the occasion and discuss about sex with their own children, who is doing that?
One of my reasons for writing about this topic is because most parents are not aware that nowadays sex education is done in schools, but it’s not done in depth. This means parents still need to tackle that topic themselves. When is the right time to talk about it as parents and being aware again that nothing is wrong having that conversation with your kids. As uncomfortable as it maybe, parents need to bear in mind that it is better for a child to hear that talk from his or her parents than to get a wrong information from a corrupt alternative source. It’s not only about sex but being an open-minded parent that your child can ask anything without fearing that you will over react and scold them.
I know our culture do hinder us from breaking certain social norms. These norms have been in our society far too long without really benefiting or helping educate our kids to make well informed decisions regarding all things related to sex. We all know that teen pregnancy is on the rise in our society only because we don’t want to adopt progressive methods that can help our kids to make better choices and prevent unwanted pregnancies and sexual transmitted diseases.
For every parent, the age for sex talk with their kids differs, some might want to talk when the child enters puberty, others may start earlier as long as you talk to your child before it’s too late. Bakhula ngokwehlukeneyo abantwana BUT both go through puberty stage where hormones kick in akukhethelekile ukuthi yintombazane or umfana uzwa abadala bethi yistage but how do you address istage which is the most important part of every growing child.
Ukuthula kuletha inyembezi later and asiyekeni lento yokuthi umntwana kumele abengumntwana forever until umzali esekubona yena ukuthi usekhulile. We tend to forget that imizwa lokunye akulindi umzali ukuthi ngesikhathi sakhe sokuthi usekhulile ungabi lenhloni ukuthi umntwana akubuze kanti njalo lawe mzali ungabi lenhloni ukuphendula. Abanye babuye bathi ukukhuluma lomntwana kuzoletha ukungahlonitshwa but let us be honest the moment you don’t have that open dialogue kulapho okuqala khona uhlupho. Having an open discussion lengane yakho kuphakamisa izinga lokuthembana njalo kusondeza umzali lengane eduze.
Uyakhuluma yini, about how wena loyise or lonina lahlangana njani kuphi and yini elibona kungani ngabe lalikwazi before ngabe alikwenzanga or ngabe lakwenza ngcono, those advantage and disadvantages of before or after.
Bangaki abazali namhlanje abathi they wish their parents could have spoken to them about sex and if they did ngabe impilo zabo zabangcono kakhulu and they would have made better choices within their lives. The pregnancy rate within our black society is appalling and way too higher than other races where parents tend to give their children sex education. Laba abamhlophe why is that?..... kubo kungani kunganeno bona kanti kuyini abakwenzayo ngcono ukuze lathi sikufunde.
Mostly is still the above communication within umzali lomntwana.
Bazali asithi ulomntwana oyintombazana usezongena kustage sokuphuhla, istage se-menstruation and those changes emzimbeni wakhe umntwana ufuna ukwazi ukuba leligazi livela ngaphi and wenzani lapho esekuleso stage, she needs to know what to use and how to use that particular thing othi ayisebenzise. Ayikho into ebuhlungu nje ngokuthi umzali wakho acabangele ukuba uzobuza kwabanye or acabangele ukuba uyakufundiswa esikolo and think is not necessary to give a child at least five minutes to discuss anything ngoba elamahloni or ecabangela.
Kulapho ke umntwana asuka ayendinga izaluleko lokuboniswa. Akukhethelekile ukuba ngubani okhuluma laye umama or ubaba, udadewabo kumbe ugogo, lakhona if she is lucky to have labo bantu emndenini. What about those who have no grown ups to talk too or those who have one parent nokunjalo bayakundinga ukuba labo baxhwayiswe ngakho. If you are a single parent kulapho omalume lezinye izinhlobo ezingena khona zikuncende kanti ke lamagroup enkozweni lawo ayasiza.
Kukhona abanye abathi mina ngabe umzali wami gave me a little bit of knowledge or shared his or her own mistakes ngabe lami angizange ngenza the same mistakes and l mean real detailed and informative sex talk not that African style talk that happens when umzali esuke wabona umtanakhe ekhoneni emi lomfana or intombazana ke lapho akusakhulunywa usethethiswa ngakho – I mean HELLO! Uyakhula umntwana vele besizofika isikhathi lapho azoma or azomiswa khona why not prepare her or him for that time.
Umfana kuya fika lapho okuthiwa ubhoboka ivoice and usevuka emanzi that also on its own is a shock emntwaneni uzondinga umuntu azokhuluma laye ngakho njalo. Kufike njalo istage sokuthi ufikelwa yimizwa again udinga ukwazi ukuba wenzani ngakho but unfortunately with our culture and norms uthola ukuthi no one will speak about it. We just pretend that akwenzakali but the truth be told kulapho esizwa kuthiwa umntwana ongumfana usuke wabamba umntwana wa-next door or kanye owangekhaya and also this happens a lot but again sikuthanyelela ngaphansi sithi it cannot happen and sibe labantwana bakhula being subjected to sexual abuse from their own family members that never gets addressed too but this a whole different topic for another day.
Here’s a break down of things to discuss and pay attention to during or after the sex talk:
1. Discuss about condoms and how they are used and why and again providing condoms to your teen children is not about promoting sex bantu but it is about prevention of sexual transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies
2. Taking your daughter to sex clinic so to be told about prevention is not about pregnant promotion but is about ukuqabela isisu esingekho planned. Kungangcono umtshele athi lalapho emitha kube yikuba umtshelile than to start talking about it after the demage have been done.
3. If your child is dating, they should introduce you to the person they are dating, this encourages both of them to be accountable and make better choices because they will honor your trust and not want to disappoint you. It may seem absurd but do you realise that not giving your children “permission” to date wont stop them from dating behind your back. I don’t know about you but I think it’s better for me to know who my child is dating and I can access that he or she is age appropriate or even someone I approve of.
4. Allow your child time to hang out with her friends and do innocent things like go to the mall and watch a movie with friends, have a sleep over at a trusted friend’s house, go out for ice cream. You just need to set a curfew of when they must be back. This is important because your child will feel that you trust them to make good choices in your absence.
Kids who are allowed leisure time will not be easily coerced to have sugar daddies because they will be already familiar with things sugar daddies use to coerce them into pedophilic sexual relationships
5. Share your own experiences, keep the floor open for discussions and future questions and most importantly set child set goals with your child. Ask them to envision what type of marriage they want in the future, what career and to think about the choices he/she personally will make for themself in order to accomplish that. That way children will feel that they are making choices for themselves in life and not you being a helicopter parent. This highly reduces rebellion.
In conclusion asifundeni bazali labazalisi to be open towards those issues we keep undressed towards our kids. l have learnt that nothing is new under the sun and all things that we go through in life it has already happened before and uyazi akuqali ngathi kanti njalo akuzi kucina njalo, is a circle of life.
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