#tw transphoia

[enzohotline]

Lil comic :3 (I am going insane)

Also TW for heavy topics and a bunch of venting, pls don't bother if you're not in the right state or don't wanna read all that

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Sorry for the poor formatting, not used to posting anything here or anywhere for that matter so

[cxsmicvega]

"You can't be a system because to be a system you need to SUFFER with CRIPPLING TRAUMA"

"You can't be trans because to be trans you need to SUFFER with CRIPPLING DYSPHORIA"

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"I refuse to use the term traumagenic because it allows fake systems to worm their way into our spaces"

"I refuse to use the term cis because it allows fake women to worm their way into our spaces."

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Like its literally just repackaged transphobia except its towards systems idk how yall are proud of this??? I think you might just hate yourself idk.

im not one for discourse but its actually factually insane how much anti-endo stuff is literally just like, shit I would see a transphobe say but towards systems instead

[magnhild]

PSA about a transphobic rwby artist

ive seen a lot of people supporting this artists work and i did myself until i came across this post by them:

if you respect trans people in the slightest please stop supporting them immediately and share this around so others receive the word

[dirtybiowareconfessions]

So, you don't post character hate but you'll post transphobic things? Weird priorities. Even if their confession wasn't intended to be transphobic, it still is. Intentions don't matter, actions do. And in this case, the action was offensive. But it's great you added a transphobia tag! Maybe you can add a homophobia tag too! Sexist tag?? Sign me up! Or maybe, just don't post anything like that? A comment made out of ignorance can be forgiven as long as they learn from their mistake and do better.

Mod edi here. Long post ahead.

TL;DR: we fucked up, and I am truly sorry. The confession is taken down.

First things first, I am non-binary & demi/pan. I have been here on DBC for a long time, a follower at first, then a mod. What I saw in this blog back when I first found it, what I still want to see in as now, is a friendly place for anyone to explore their sexuality and gender. This is why I joined, this is why I’m still here - for the sake of community in general and my fellow LGBT+ people in particular.

This is why I want to protect our followers, to understand and support everyone.

This is also why I keep fucking up.

I am not outright trans, or gay; I’m always halfway, always coming up with excuses and explanations, always giving people the benefit of the doubt. Reeling in my initial feeling of “this is wrong”.

Maybe they didn’t mean it that way, maybe the OP is trans himself, maybe this, maybe that. I read life stories of trans men who gave birth. I read stories of trans men terrified of those things. There is no universal truth.

But there is compassion.

The negative impact of a confession like the one in question outweighs its possible - theoretical - “positive” impact. For the OP, the subject is likely a fleeting fantasy they might have already forgotten about; for a trans man, it can be a stone in a landslide, the kind of landslide they can’t forget or log out of when it gets too much.

I pledged to be an ally. I claimed to support trans people. And then I fucked up because I disregarded my initial knee-jerk reaction in favor of “maybe they didn’t mean it like that”.

There can be no excuse, and I’m not asking forgiveness. All I can say is that I am, truly, deeply sorry, and I see that post as a mistake.

You, anon, and everyone else who has spoken up - you all are absolutely right to be angry at me for letting this slide, shaking off responsibility with a hand-wave and a warning tag. It’s hypocrysy, and I can’t stand it. How can we do this, claiming technically it’s not against the rules because it’s not “illegal”? I don’t know if I can live with myself as a mod of this blog if we start posting confessions that cause our followers and ourselves so much grief.

Maybe it wasn’t meant as a hateful message, but it left me and Raven both feeling iffy. We have been back and forth on the matter for almost two days now, and I think I’ve made up my mind.

Any amount of joy that confession might bring to someone is disproportionate to the grief it cost. I can’t stand the thought of our most vulnerable followers experiencing the betrayal of us siding with some thoughtless, careless fetishism. These are not the ideals I want to uphold. I might be biased, and there will be people who might call it censorship, there might be accusations of giving in to the pressure, but… the more I think about it, the less I want to set a precedent of betraying my community.

This time, I’m putting my people first.

-edi

[pigeonriot]

the thing that makes my blood boil SO FUCKING MUCH is when a trans person is venting about being misgendered AND THEN A FUCKING CIS PERSON COMES ALONG TO GIVE THEM TIPS ON "HOW TO PASS BETTER" LIKE FUCK OFF

[luckys-last-brain-cell]

“May they rest in peace” they’re unwanted breast tissue, not your beloved grandparents.

TERFs on trans men having parties to celebrate getting top surgery:

Their entitlement to our bodies truly knows no bounds.

[those-pigs-be-flying]

Shit that my PDP teacher has actually said to a classroom of children:

‘God is genderless but we say him because they is wrong and doesn’t make sense’

*shows us a picture of an unborn foetus at 23 weeks* ‘THIS! THIS IS WHAT YOU’RE KILLING!!!’

[gay-but-not-really]

i got anon hate. i have 10 followers. how did i come up on your dash dude?

"im glad you realize youre not actually gay. trans man+ man= straight"

BITCH

my name is gay-but-not-really bc im pan??? not bc im only into men??? the pan flag is literally my pfp???

also, trans men are men,,, if you had a biology education above grade 8, you would know-

blocked, reported, deleted honey

Kisses 💋

[grrrrrrrbarkbarkbark]

Trans women arent repsented in media that much because they are seen as agressive and over the top, not only adding to the terf ideology, but also adding to general misgonstic veiws, this goes double for teams women of color. In this essay-

[electrograins-a-blog]

Data Logs - Null/#2

Warning: This does discuss forced sex reassignment surgery and implied mentions of transphobia.

Null was born intersex yet it was decided at his birth that he would be a male and as a infant was surgically made into one. Zedige nor Zesa’s consent to it does not matter as Zedige’s parents were still alive during this matter; and their did not either. It was a community decision for the future null child to be a male, the sector needed more males in their sex ratio and that was the only reason for it.

Due to his infancy he was never given a mate after being declared a null and unfit to produce help produce healthy eggs. The sector believe that changing his sex was a failure due to this fact.

However, Null was enraged when he learned he was not a biological male. That even his sex was taken, messed with and forced upon him just like everything else in his life. He feels disgusted that the pure reason he was turn to a male was due to a sex ratio decline of males and that’s it; and when they saw no use for him in even that account was tossed away.

[magnhild]

^^^^^

PSA about a transphobic rwby artist

ive seen a lot of people supporting this artists work and i did myself until i came across this post by them:

if you respect trans people in the slightest please stop supporting them immediately and share this around so others receive the word

[magnhild]

oh also if you agree with what they've said here and/or refuse to stop supporting them please unfollow me :)

PSA about a transphobic rwby artist

ive seen a lot of people supporting this artists work and i did myself until i came across this post by them:

if you respect trans people in the slightest please stop supporting them immediately and share this around so others receive the word