#tupad

[ephai]

Victoria dalaw

[energyzsolutionz]

TUPAD NA PANGARAP

[endorphinized]

agapaw ta mpakalika k pio poly agapaw tous random tupades p poulane karpouzia mesthn mesi tou dromou kai sou kovoun k kommati gia n dokimaseis

[rayven-yvonne]

Q#1: Does anyone deserve a second chance?

To me, it depends. It depends on the person.

WARNING: Could contain Filipino words and foul words :>

What are second chances?

Second chances are chances given to a person to own up to their mistakes. Whether it is a torn-up relationship, friendship, situationship or an experience with a person that made you loose trust in them.

Is it worth it give a second chance?

For me, yes. It IS worth it to give a second chance. Giving a second chance can give you a peace of mind. Forgiving them can remove the harsh voices in your head that causes all the distress and hatred towards that person. It can make you stronger as an individual. Giving second chances can make you learn the mistakes you've made in your past relationships and grow as a better human.

Pero. PERO. Kailan ba dapat magbigay ng second chance?

When is it advisable to give a person a second chance?

Ask yourself first these questions:

• Has that person owned up to their mistakes?

• Is that person willing to change for the better?

• Do you care about that person a lot?

• Why are you willing to give them a second chance

• Is your relationship with the person worth having time for again?

Pag ang karamihan sa sagot mo sa mga question na 'to is no or you're not sure, it's the best na wag mo na or wag mo muna siya bigyan ng second chance. Kasi paano ka? Paano yung nararamdaman mo? Pag binigyan mo siya ng second chance tas di niya tinupad, sinong mabibigo? Diba ikaw?

Always. ALWAYS. Consider your feelings first. Ikaw ang nagdecide, ikaw rin ang masasaktan sa huli. Pag nasaktan ka ba nyan uli, i-coconsider pa ba nyan yung feelings mo? Hindi. Either gago yan and/or tanga ka, beh.

Who are acceptable to give a second chance?

If that person was really close to your heart and the reason of them leaving you didn't affect you too much, then it's okay. But if that person was very very VERY close to your heart, but shattered it into pieces and left you without any pity, then years later you find them on their knees begging to give them a second chance, it's better to not give them.

Observe nyo yung red flags ng tao rin. Wag maging bulag.

How to know na willing yung person na magbago?

Mag-real talk kayo. Talk with them about sa misunderstandings na nangyari sa relationship ninyo. How did you two end ba? Ano-ano yung mga pagkukulang na nagawa ninyo sa isa't-isa? Try to understand both points of view. Then conclude it. Are they TRULY WORTH IT ba na bigyan ng second chance? Nakikita mo ba sa kanila, sa mga aksyon nila, na willing sila magbago para sa'yo dahil they care for you, they truly love you, and gusto niyang masalba ang nasirang nakaraan?

So binigyan mo na ng second chance, what can you do para hindi maulit yung dating nangyari sa inyo?

Well, make promises. Make promises about sa mga ugaling babaguhin ninyo para sa isa't-isa. Syempre, kalakip ng mga promises na yun, tupad-tupad din pag me time. Promise are meant to be MADE not BROKEN. You want to fix the relationship because you have faith in the person. Anong sense ng pag-ayos mo sa relasyon pag hindi karin mag-eeffort na ayusin? Ano? Iiyak ka nalang? Girl, that's not how life is, okay? Pag sinabi mo, panindigan mo. Do NOT be one-sided, sis.

Eh pano kung, paano kung ekis siya sa lahat ng factors para sa second chance? Paano kung hindi narin siya willing na masave yung pinagsamahan ninyo?

Well, it's time na para matanggap na hindi na kayo magiging yung dating kayo. Just accept the past and move on. Accept mo nalang na wala na siya sayo. Kahit na anong iyak na gawin mo at galit na maramdaman mo, hindi mo na maibabalik ang nakaraan. Nangyari na eh. The past is the past. What you only care about is the present and the future. Let those past relationships and experiences serve as a lesson for you para baguhin yung mga pagkakamali mo. KNOW YOUR WORTH!

Heartbreaks should make you a better person, beh. Let time heal you, love <3 Me and the several people who are currently going through a breakup and trying to move on are with you, babe <3

So, does anyone deserve a second chance? For me, yes. Everyone deserves a second chance but NO ONE EVER DESERVES A THIRD CHANCE. That's a different story.

[febeishart]

To my Papa

I will write this in Hiligaynon because I can express my feelings more ( translation online is available)

To my Papa, pasensya kay wala ko sa tupad mo sang galain pamatyag mo pa. Kung kabalo ka lang pa nga ga hinulsol gid ko kay nagpa Korea ko. Mas gin una ko akon kaugalingon. Kis a may mga tiyempo na galain akon buot sa imo, kabalo ko akon sala kay nga a nag amo ko sini.. Pa pasensya man kay nag join ko diri lain nga church. Gasagi sa ulo ko sbung na indi ko gusto mag attend didto. Dako man nabulig nila sa akon pero indi ko gusto magka utang na loob naman kag mag expect sila sa akon. Pa kadamo sang akon gina panumdom, ikaw pa kamusta ka da? Bisitahi ko pa sa damgo ko. Pa kabalo gid ko nga biskan ano nga relihiyon man ara diri sa duta pag abot dira palareho lang tanan. Pa nahidlaw nako simu Pa. Guide us Pa. Tapuson ko akon gin suguran. Kayanon namon Pa.

Palangga ka gid namon Pa. Nahambal ko na tanan sa imo asta sa ulihi. Gapasalamat ko Pa kay ikaw akon naging Papa. Blessed gid ko katama Pa. Love you Papa ko.

[ligaligmikeortega]

6,000 Boholano Workers Receive P29.2 Million in Government Aid through TUPAD Program

6,000 Boholano Workers Receive P29.2 Million in Government Aid through TUPAD Program A total of 6,000 underemployed, self-employed, and displaced marginalized workers in Bohol have received a combined P29.2 million in government aid through the Tulong Panghanapbuhay sa Ating Displaced/Disadvantaged Workers (TUPAD) program, according to the Department of Labor and Employment-7 (DOLE-7). Regional…

[djd95]

August 18, 2024 7:06AM

-Nasa kapilya na ako para tumupad sobrang antok na antok pa pero kakayanin namin organista ako ngayon ay hindi guro po

August 18, 2024 9:17AM

-Kakauwe ko lang galing tupad - nung pauwe ako kanina para kong tanga na parang ang lungkot lungkot ng pakiramdam ko. Hindi ko alam tapos bigla ko lang natanong sa sarili ko na - kung yung pag sasabi mo ba sakin ng "Mahal mo ko" eh kapag nasa good times lang ako kasi bat ganon? Pakiramdam ko kapag hindi na tama yung nagagawa ko or hindi na yung gusto mo yung nasusunod laging hiwalay yung gusto mo or kaya huminga? I don't know sobrang daming nag sisink in na mga bagay sakin simula kahapon hanggang ngayon and sobrang bigat nya sa pakiramdam. Naalala ko nanaman yung hinihingi mong assurance... hindi ba dapat ? Ang assurance hindi lang sa isang tao mang gagaling kasi parang ang unfair? Gusto mo you take it first bago ka mag bigay ng sayo? Ganon ba talag yung pag mamahal? - Naiintindihan ko naman na ako to and nasaktan na kita ng maraming beses from the past pero ano to? Tinanggap mo ko ulit para iremind sakin lahat ng nagawa ko sayo noon. Hay. Pasensya na ngayon ko lang na put into words lahat ng nararamdaman ko - grabe yung realization ko na I'm holding everything pala on the back of my mind na para lang hindi na tayo mag away, na para lang hindi na masira yung araw natin, na para chill nalang tayo, na para okay lang tayo kahit pala sobrang sakit na hinahyaan ko nalang at pinipili ko nalang maging okay. Tama ka nga nakakaubos - sobra palang nakaka ubos.

August 18, 2024 5:12PM

-Okay lang yan nathan, kaya mo to ha. Kayanin mo kasi wala ka naman pedeng pag sabihan ng lahat ng nararamdaman mo. Okay lang umiyak, okay lang na mag pahinga, itulog mo nalang ulit to tas pag gising mo kahit pakiramdam mo kulang ka - ilaban mo nalang ulit. Baka talagang binigay sya sakin ng Ama ulit kasi para maramdaman ko na hindi talaga ako para sa kanya kasi wala ka namang akong naidudulot kundi stress at pagod lang. you're living your life again so baka mas better na wala ako, na hindi ako para gumulo sa isip mo. I'll leave it here. Hahayaan ko munang ikaw ulit yung maging parte ng buhay ko - wala eh. Wala na akong mahihingahan ng bigat ng lahat ng nararamdaman ko. Thank you.

August 18, 2024 10:53PM

-Nathan, kaya mo to. Matulog ka lang tas huminga ka ng malalim tas bukas okay kana. Valid yung feelings nya kaya hindi ka dapat nasasaktan ng ganito. Dapat lagi kang tumitingin sa positive diba? Tanggapin mo nalang ulit lahat tas move forward. Sanay ka naman dito diba? Okay lang yan. Kaya mo to nathan. Hinga lang ha. Tapos pag tulog mo dapat okay kana pag gising mo ha. Laban lang kakayanin natin to.

[dan6085]

Here are some of the top government and NGO anti-poverty programs in the Philippines:

1. Pantawid Pamilyang Pilipino Program (4Ps) - A conditional cash transfer program that provides cash grants to poor households to improve health, nutrition, and education, especially of children aged 0-18[2].

2. Assistance to Individuals in Crisis Situation (AICS) - Provides emergency assistance to individuals and families in crisis situations to help them cope with their immediate needs[2].

3. TUPAD (Tulong Panghanapbuhay sa ating Disadvantaged/Displaced Workers) - A community-based (municipality/barangay) package of assistance that provides emergency employment for displaced workers, underemployed and seasonal workers, for a minimum period of 10 days, but not to exceed a maximum of 30 days, depending on the nature of work to be performed[2].

4. AKAP (Ayuda sa Kapos ang Kita) - A new program in the 2024 national budget that will provide a one-time financial grant of P5,000 to 12 million poor and low-income families, benefiting around 48 million Filipinos[2].

5. Microfinance Program - Aims to develop a policy environment supportive of basic sector initiatives dedicated to serving the needs of the poor in terms of microfinance services, rationalize existing government programs for credit and guarantee, utilize existing government financial entities for the provision of microfinance products and services for the poor, and promote mechanisms necessary for the implementation of microfinance services[1].

6. Comprehensive Integrated Delivery of Social Services (CIDSS) - Provides social services to the urban poor, women, children, youth, persons with disabilities, the elderly, and victims of natural and man-made calamities[1].

7. Livelihood programs - Provide livelihood assistance and skills training to the poor and disadvantaged[1].

8. Socialized housing - Provides affordable housing to the urban poor[1].

9. Scholarships and training grants - Provides scholarships or training grants for microfinance staff and officers, and selected beneficiaries[1].

10. Community organizing for microfinance, livelihood and micro-enterprises training services[1].

11. Savings mobilization and incentive programs[1].

12. Information and communication systems such as baseline surveys, development monitoring systems, socioeconomic mapping surveys, organizational assessments, and other similar activities[1].

13. Legal and other management support services such as registration, documentation, contract review and enforcement, financial audit and operational assessment[1].

14. Information dissemination of microfinance technology[1].

15. Bagong Pilipinas Community Assistance and Rice Discount (CARD) - A program that provides rice and financial assistance to poor and vulnerable beneficiaries, including senior citizens, persons with disability, solo parents, and indigenous people[2].

16. Magna Carta of the Poor - Guarantees the rights of the poor to adequate food, decent work, relevant and quality education, adequate housing and the highest attainable standard of health[4].

17. Batang Busog Malusog (BBM) - A program that aims to address malnutrition among children, to be launched by the Presidential Adviser on Poverty Alleviation in line with the celebration of National Nutrition Month[4].

18. Local Poverty Reduction Action Plan - To be rolled out in 2024, this plan will be mainstreamed in all provincial development and fiscal framework plans and comprehensive development plans of cities and municipalities[4].

19. National Anti-Poverty Action Agenda - A comprehensive document focusing on combating poverty in the country, addressing social, economic, ecological and governance dimensions[3][4].

20. National Poverty Reduction Plan - Currently being formulated by the National Anti-Poverty Commission[4].

These programs are implemented by various government agencies, local government units, and in partnership with NGOs and the private sector. The National Anti-Poverty Commission (NAPC) serves as the coordinating and advisory body for the implementation of these programs[1][4].

Sources

[1] REPUBLIC ACT NO. 8425, December 11, 1997 - Supreme Court E-Library https://elibrary.judiciary.gov.ph/thebookshelf/showdocs/2/4057

[2] House vows continued funding for poverty reduction programs https://www.congress.gov.ph/press/details.php?pressid=12831

[3] CDA Joins NAPC, Others to Update National Anti-poverty Plan https://cda.gov.ph/updates/cda-joins-napc-others-to-update-national-anti-poverty-plan/

[4] PBBM to NAPC: Synchronize anti-poverty programs with LGUs https://www.pna.gov.ph/articles/1204681

[5] Republic Act No. 8425 institutionalizing the Social Reform ... https://www.fao.org/faolex/results/details/en/c/LEX-FAOC152486/

[llwosyl]

Naalala ko yung cute na baby boy nung nag pa pay out kami sa TUPAD siguro 2yr old pa lang. Super cute, bigla akong nagka baby fever. Tas napa chant ako na mahal ang gatas 😭.

[jinarf]

hutdon daw nako ang kanon pero wa nako gi hurot 😁, di daw ko pwede mag selpon pero tupad mi niya nag selpon ko 😁 rule breaker yarn HAHAHAHA

[laagansabukid]

TRAINING TOOLKIT FROM DOLE/TUPAD IN COORDINATION WITH TESDA/CTEC, PESO &...

[pannaginip]

Through a so-called “people’s initiative”, a petition proposing amendments to the 1987 Constitution has resurfaced and is being handed out through communities inside and outside of the National Capital Region.

This recently circulated petition insisted that the country should open its economy to foreign investors for further growth and development.

In Quezon City, recorded footage showed how the petition signing was being discussed while making promises about financial aid, medication maintenance and livelihood support.

Carmelita ‘Ka Mameng’ Collado of Urban Poor Coordinating Council – Quezon City and ALSA-Diliman slammed the petition, noting that it misleads urban poor communities especially those seeking assistance from government programs like TUPAD and Assistance to Individuals in Crisis Situation (AICS).

[Making such promises to sign for charter change goes beyond violating the rights of the underprivileged. Let’s not underestimate the intelligence of the marginalized in favor of these interests. We are aware of the economic crisis; let’s not use AICS and TUPAD as deceit for charter change.] Ka Mameng stressed.

Ka Mameng also reported several congressmen would make use of AICS and TUPAD to garner public support for the said petition.

[As congressmen, they should explain how charter change is done right, not exploiting the plight of the poor. They have earned enough; it’s time for them to be honest] she added.

[This is an effort by the Marcos-Duterte administration to deceive people into signing for charter change, which is also alarming for data privacy and personal information] said Kabataan Partylist (KPL) NCR spokesperson Kyle Lura.

2024 Jan. 7

[kinaadmanblogs]

Jeepney is a Cultural Icon.

It was first used by the American Military during the Second World War as a form of transportation. After the end of the war, it is not just the infrastructures in Manila that was devastated, but also the transportation system which was consists of cable cars, tranvias, and train systems.

The masses needed a solution for the mass transportation problem to support the rehabilitation of Manila, and Charaaaaann, the ingenuity of Filipinos gave birth to now we know as the Hari ng Kalsada, ang Jeepney.

The disregarded American and Japanese jeepneys was acquired by small business-minded Filipinos (We now called small-time operators) was repurposed as to be used as mass transportation, not just by the people, but also with goods that helped the reconstruction of then devastated Manila.

The original design of Military Jeeps was so plain, definitely to serve its purpose in the Military, to partially conceal it from the enemies. Which was not the type of Filipinos! We really love colors, festivals, etc. so as Maximalists, we put all the bleng blengs or the designed not just for aesthetic purposes, but to give a new identity for the jeeps. From being Military-purposed vehicle into a Localized mode of transportation, and now as a cultural icon.

Jeepneys also houses a small community inside it that look after each other. “Manong ang bag mo gina kuot sang tupad mo” or “Palihog gani sang bayad”, and the most iconic one, the almost oratorical piece of “Manong Lugar lang Kuno” if the driver didn’t hear the battle cry of a passenger that somehow missed his or her destination.

Community inside a transportation system is not new to us. We had the term “Kabangka” that was referred to someone who shared a boat together during the Pre-Hispanic era of the Philippines, and also, the Baranggay system was also named after an ancient transportation mode.

Indeed, as of now, Kalesa has the crown as a National Transportation along with several icons such as Sampaguita, Kalabaw, Lechon, but the undisputed “Hari ng Kalsada” that embedded inside the Filipino minds and hearts.

If it is illegal to destroy a mansions owned by the hacienderos that was built by, Labour Exploitation, Private Armies, Government Corruption, and the Biggest Deforestation in Negros Built. (Description by Doc Raniel) But, ending the reign of an actual Cultural Icon (Culture is the People, the Masses, the Livelihood, the Community) is somehow okay for most of us especially those who are in power?

Jeepneys has its own cultural identity and value, we should work to preserve it. It is meant in the streets, not in museums.

#NoToJeepneyPhaseout

[heyncsngre]

#TOTGA

Ngayon ko na napatunayan na ang TOTGA (The One That Got Away) ko talaga ay si Reniel. Sobrang click naming dalawa, unang beses pa mga lang naming magkita naging komportable na agad kami.

Nasa J2 kami noon, tapos yung friend na friend ni peyt e naglalaro din. 5 silang taga-electron at isa si reniel doon, magkatalikuran kami ng upuan. Nagkaayaan mag-5v5, STI vs ELECTRON sa LOL. tapos nung medyo mainit na yung laro kasi sobrang galing nyang maglaro at eguls kami (Diamond ba naman kasi sya tapos kami ang pinakamataas lang e platinum) kaya nasakal ko sya. Simula noong nakakasama na namin sila maglaro hanggang sa nagkayayaan na lumabas-labas then ayun nagkaligawan na.

Sobrang click namin ni Reniel, masasabi kong sobrang komportable ako sa kanya. Hindi ako naging sino kay reniel, sobrang felt like home talaga ako kapag sya ang kasama ko. Syempre hindi naman din kami perfect pareho, may pagkakataon na nagkakatampuhan kami, nagkakainisan, pero ayun nagkakabati din. Meron pa nga na nahuli ako ni reniel na nagsinungaling sa kanya e hahahaha. Hindi ako nagpahatid sa kanya kasi pinka reason ko e ayaw ko muna magpahatid pero ang nireason out ko sa kanya ay may tupad ako, tapos biglang inabangan nya pala ako sa terminal namin tapos nakita nya ako nakapila at pinicturan nya pa ako hahahahah nung nagkita kami tinry nya akong hulihin kung magsasabi ba ako nang totoo pero knowing me guys, hindi talaga ako nagsabi nang totoo, hanggang sa pinakita na lang nya sakin yung pic nya tapos boom HAHAHAHA nahuli na ako, inamin ko na din. Ramdam ko na sobrang inis nya, pinagsabihan nya ako pero mahinahon pa rin. Nakipag negotiate sya na ayaw nya ng ganun, sorry talaga reniel. I didnt feel anyone lang talaga that time.

Kung halimbawang may next life, at magkakaroon ng pagkakataong pagtatagpuin kaming ulit, sisiguraduhin kong hahanapin ko siya, pero sa panahon na yun sisiguraduhin ko ding hindi ko na sya masasaktan. Deserve lahat ni reniel lahat ng kabutihan sa mundo. Napakabuti nyang tao.

Pwede naman akong ibad mouth ni reniel dito kasi hindi ko naman malalaman. Pwede niyang isisi sa kaartehan ko bakit hindi natuloy yung something samin, pero mas pinili nyang manahimik at hindi ako ibad mouth behind my back kahit na 2 beses ko na syang nasaktan.

Napakabuti mo reniel, hindi mo alam kung gano mo napasaya yung puso ko. Built different ka. Sorry kung bakit nagkakaroon pa rin tayo ng mutual friend, pasensya na. Sana paunti-unti maka move on ka na. Salamat sa 5 years na pag effort sakin, iba lang talaga ang nakatadhana satin kaya siguro hindi tayo nagwork. Pero nagpapasalamat pa rin ako na nakilala at nakasama kita sa 5 taon. Salamat sa pagpaparamdam sakin na napakahalaga ko, sa paghatid-sundo sakin HAHAHAHHAHAAH ngayon ko na sobrang narealize na sobrang-sobrang sweet ng paghahatid-sundo mo. Minahal kita sa kainosentihan mo at sa mga effort mong consistent. Sobrang swerte ng babaeng mamahalin mo. and for the last time, miss na kita. Miss ko na scent mo BODY FANTASY VANILLA. Paghawak-hawak mo sakin. Mga paghatid sundo mo. Good morning-good night and vent out messages natin. Hindi mo alam kung gaano ako nanghinayang satin, at deserve ko din masaktan kasi sobrang kitang nasaktan. Sorry sa mga kagagahan ko, sorry nag-doubt ako sa kaya mong gawin. Sobrang proud ako kung nasan ka ngayon. N-witness kita from scratch, from senior high to college. Sobrang excited ako at proud sa mga maaachieve mo pa sa buhay kahit hindi na ako part noon. Godbless reniel, hope u find the woman u truly deserve. Minahal kita!!!!!!!

[rosiehrs]

poly relationship with minjeong…. i could be convinced

:(((( what if mag stay lang ko saimong tupad ug mag support sa imong fics

are u giving up on me.. abi ko na in love na ta...💔

[losterthanlost]

July 21, 2023

Hello.

Okay sooo... Finally nagkita na mi ulit sa akong beloved pinsan 😭

Abi nako og tangkad na siya kaayo. Dili ra man diay layo among height. Duol ra sila og height sa akong manghod. So a little over 5 ra siya. Pretty as ever ghapon 💖🫶.

Nagchika-chika sad mi like catchup-catchup. Topic namo about sa iyahang skwela and graduating and about sa internship nila. Tas na-share na pud nako sa iyaha ang about sa akong shifting and loa. So mao na karon balik ko sa first year and mag 2nd year na next sem. Hahays...

Okay... Maging honest lang ko ha. I love her my cousin huhu. Pero since tung last time nako bakasyon diri which is highschool pa mi, nagstart na didto daan na dili na mi kaistorya og dugayay or karang deep jud. Sa mga manghod na ko kaayo mas makasabay-sabay. So karon na istoryahanay namo kay naa jud gihapon nang feeling na pagka miss nako sa iyaha pero naa sad ng mafeel nako na dili na mi jud kasing close sa atung bata pa mi.

Okay ra man cguro ni kay dili man jud mi perminte ga-kaubanay. Normal ra ni oy. Mas isip-bata ra jud ko mao. Hahahaha. Murag obyus kaayo sa akoa na napag-iwanan ko somehow. Or more like, ahead jud siya sa akoa. So mas mature jud siya. Mas gwapo sad ang parenting sa ilaha diri. Nice. 💖

Yeah. Speaking of parenting. Last week pa to mga monday ata, namention sa iyang mama na nagchat daw akong beloved cousin sa iyaha og 'i miss you, ma'. Tapos, ganina while gachika mi namention sa akong pinsan na didto lang daw siya matulog tupad sa iyang mama kay namingaw na daw siya. Dugay-dugay na sad daw siya walay uli-uli. So diri nako naisip na love nila ilang mama. Tapos ako kay dili. Wala koy affection towards sa akong mama. Like dili ko makaingon anang mingawon ko sa iyaha. Or gusto ko magpakiss sa iyaha. Or maski mag-inform sa iyaha kung asa na ko dapit sa akoang biyahe. Dili ko gusto. Grabe. Feeling ko tuloy bad ko na anak.

Pero dili man gud ko bad na anak jud. Ga-care gud ko sa ilaha jud. May pagka depota ra jud sila. Choz. Pero bitaw as in dili ko maka-recieve ug support gikan sa ilaha. Kung naa man koy feeling na sila ghapon akong pwede always maulian if ever ma-failed ko, based to siya sa fact na anak ko nila and obligasyon jud nila na alagaan ko sa ingana na mga times. Pero dili jud siya based sa kung unsa ilahang napafeel sa akoa. Dili jud nako sila stronghold na for better and for worse jud. Mas stronghold pa akong 2 close precious friends pero kay friends ra man nako sila, dili jud sila matawag na stable stronghold. Mas daghan sila og mga manghod. Plus may parent issues sad sila na ilaha. Daghan sad sila ginaatubang.