#transparencyheals

[jaythegent]

It amazes me how sometimes the only way people can lift themselves up Psychologically, is by pushing you down Verbally..

I’m starting to believe more and more people like this, simply need proper affection given to them.

Someone didn’t pay them honest attention when they were younger | wasn’t given the right definition of love when raised or similar scenarios, I believe. People who are so defensive or can be overly offensive really just needs someone to hold them; you’ll be amazed who may just breakdown in your presence if you are REALLY willing to be their outlet or access point for help.

Some of us, really just need to be heard, and aggression and/or violence is their only way of getting what they’ve been robbed of.

I don’t know, i just love people too much to allow what’s eating them up inside, to consume them when I can be of any service to their process of healing..

[quianalynell]

Behind this smile is a woman who has been beaten by her husband, kicked while pregnant, committed to an institution for attempted suicide, sexually abused by her stepfather for 10 years and yet I still have a reason to smile. It is never to late to find your worth and your purpose and turn your life around. #timetoheal #helpsomeonethoughyourstory #transparencyheals #eachoneteachone #survivor #wemustdobetter #weoweittoourbabies

[jaythegent]

What is your, WHY?

Everyone has something to say, but WHY should we hear you? Here’s mine:

[jaythegent]

Dear bro & sis..

I wonder if you're just as quick to post a "God is so good" status, when He tells you to give up the very thing you told Him NOT to take away.. 🤔

Don't act like that's not you.. 😒

We'll have a whole list of things that we don't mind giving up, because we've been hurt too long by it and/or we're sick of it:

(like pain / being heart broken / depression),

but all the while, still hold on to a couple things that He wants the MOST and we'll find illegitimate excuses for why they aren't as bad as we know they are to us and for us..

NOPE! ❌

It's those VERY things that you try to hide from Him, is what He wants you to be just as willing to give up. It's that lustful attraction that keeps you broken mentally and psychologically.

It's that addiction that you are being in denial of, like you don't think it won't kill you.

It's that pride that'll leave you weary and can ultimately have you faint and defenseless..

What you continue to CRAVE, is what God wants to SAVE you from! 🙏🏾

[jaythegent]

SO WHAT?!

So you've messed up...

(Who hasn't)

So you may not have followed through like you said..

(Forgive yourself)

So you've found out you're not Superman/Superwoman..

(About time)

So you've had to make a decision that wasn't easy..

(It's life)

What I'm saying is, is you and I are just alike. We both carry blood in our veins and our deepest of secrets and thoughts are covered in flesh.

You even may have failed, but I've come as a friendly reminder to assure you that:

IT IS OKAY!

As long as you're alive, you still have opportunities to make it right, from this moment forward. But only YOU can do that. Stop feeling sorry all the time, as you've noticed it doesn't change anything.

Start this year with weights lifted and release yourself from past decisions that resulted in results that were self afflicted.

YOU CAN MAKE IT! We both can, so I'm down to fight with you..

..Let's fight, and Win together.

[jaythegent]

So many of us wear the mask so well, that we grow accustomed to it’s perks while we secretly deny the pains that we hide behind it. If you are hurting, then don’t say that you’re good. If you are in need of deliverance then don’t say you are free.

Don’t continue to be in denial, and while allowing yourself to die early because the facade is what’s more attractive than your faith.

Your faith grows, when you’re able to tell the TRUTH about where it is presently and God can start to deal with the wounds and scars that our cycles have had us go around and around in..

#TransparencyHeals and can lead you to wholeness but you first, must be willing to let go of the representative you sit before your honest self.

Quite frankly,

Some of us are dying because we keep lying.

The truth may and can hurt, but once it’s out you can heal. Which is more important to you?

#ManInTheMirror

#WomanInTheMirror