#took ambien

[succubusjuice]

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[bosspigeon]

they're so real for this

[watermelinoe]

Can you share your thoughts on this common response to whether biphobia exists, that it isn’t ‘structural’? I.e. individuals might feel negatively about us, but that isn’t actually oppression, and the only actual oppression we experience is homophobia.

i don't see how it makes sense to describe our experience as homophobia when we aren't exclusively same-sex attracted. for me, it makes the most sense to describe oppression based on class, not perception. reading invisible women really cemented this idea for me, when she was describing how tools aren't designed for us, how medicine ignores our bodies, how car crashes are more deadly for us. when we're reminded of gender expectations, we perform worse. these things aren't based on someone perceiving us as female and reacting. this is woven into our world.

example: we can all agree that trans men who pass are still oppressed for being female, because oppression is class-based and not perception-based. our social class impacts how we interact with the world, and that's just as important as how the world perceives us. you wouldn't say that transwomen experience misogyny even in situations where they may pass as women, because they aren't female.

we navigate the world as bisexuals, not homosexuals. i've seen arguments that biphobia is a subset of homophobia, and i can rationalize that. but the exclusive same-sex attraction is an important difference, and our being attracted to both sexes isn't insignificant. people insist on dividing our sexuality into two parts, heterosexual and homosexual, but would you really argue that a bi woman who spends her whole life married to another woman without ever being with a man is "living as a lesbian?" just because she's seen as a lesbian? it just doesn't work like that. we don't shut off our bisexuality when it's "not in use" and live identical lives to whatever sexuality we "chose."

i'm not arguing that we experience biphobia AND homophobia, i'm saying that there's overlap - and other people can war over the exact borders if they want - but that there's more to oppression than how other individuals feel about us, situationally. when you look at studies on our quality of life, you can see higher instances of poverty, mental illness, substance abuse, and domestic violence. this is despite the fact that many bisexuals are in other-sex relationships. you could argue that it's homophobia, but i think it's important to distinguish between the experience of being exclusively same-sex attracted and being attracted to both sexes. the bisexual experience is a mixture of being same-sex attracted, but, importantly, being attracted to both sexes. that shapes how we experience the world. we internalize, the same way we internalize being female, and that affects our minds and our health and our overall quality of life (women have higher rates of depression and anxiety and chronic pain disorders and autoimmune disorders).

people think of oppression as someone saying slurs to you based on how you look to them and i think that makes it difficult to conceptualize it being any deeper than that, but our sense of self, as shaped by the world around us, has material consequences.

[0vercastgirl]

Pw pill-induced erectile dysfunction. Join me here. Come think about pete having a broken dick because of his ambien abuse. Imagine the possibilities

[raven]

fucked up to jack off and not even be able to fall asleep afterwards. AND my headache remains. its over for me

[gutsfics]

sure David Gandy is hot but all of the photos yall use of him for ur Ethan faceclaims are always too clean and well put together

he should look like this 👇

[xsaintseraphx]

got my meds changed yet again.

[moonlightretriever]

telling them i can't sleep and them crawling on top of my back expecting them to give me a nice soothing massage but instead they lube up my pussy and shove their cock in and while my mouth is wide open from moaning and screaming they force me to swallow an ambien pill and while i slowly start to feel the effects and stop squirminf so much they coo in my ear "its okay its okay, just relax, let yourself give in dont fight it..."

[slumbering-shadows]

My wellbutrin and my ambien are the exact same shape and size which might become a Problem because 99% of the time I identify my medications by how they sound when I shake the bottle

[ashyblondwaves]

All day long I think about going to sleep. When I’m finally in bed I’m thinking about doing everything else.

[cinematicnomad]

i’m gonna be honest, i have wanted to fall asleep for a while bc jetlag, but i am fighting to stay awake for succession

[transekiro]

im SO tired my whole body just keeps uncomfortably tingling and i cant deal with this shit i fucking hate being without some of my sleep medication

[dzozef]

i was on heavy sedatives when i decided to post my cats on here cause i was just filled with so much love for them 😭

[crowslunasidhe]

It's one of those nights where I took my sleep meds but I still can't sleep and I'm now wondering if I'm manic or if my adhd is messing me up. Cause I do know my mood has been messed up since my period started a few days ago so mania from pms could be a possibility.

Anyways forgive the ramblings of an insomniac.

[fruchtchen]

gym the half day of work tomorrow. 마저스 🙏 give me strength to not innediately go home and put on pajarmas and lay on the floor. give me strength to run minor errands and reward myself by sitting in a cafe to write. amen (a man).

[ur-mag]

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