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i need that LOSER bad
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So yesterday i had to take a shit while watching dunmeshi and it made me realize that they probably have to shit a lot with how much they eat
We know there are toilets on some of the floors but I don't think they're frequent enough on every floor for them to be able to shit regularly (answers 3-5 are my mom's idea)
#delicious in dungeon#dunmeshi#dungeon meshi#tumblr polls#i personally think it's the dog poop method#at least up till the floor where they fight the undine#and after that I genuinely have no idea#in the castle town with the orcs I believe there could be normal toilets with a plumbing system#spoilers!! from now on#and I do think there's proper toilets where yaad is#but the area with the Griffin doesn't seem to have any#and the place senshi was to as a “lad” probably had rooms with toilets appear as needed#but after.. yeah. did they still appear?#for all i know the author has made a mini comic dedicated to this already and I'm wasting my time#kryme yapping
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In every universe Ivan's best explanation of his and Till's relationship will be "hm. well we were fine." and this is them in every universe
#“hm well we were fine” thats basically saying we were aquantences we knew of eachother i asked him about the weather once#do you get it#and then they turn around and do shit like this#*rocks back and forth in my padded room* i wish he would stop downplaying his and tills relationship because he feels like he's not#qualified to even be his friend anymore. or that till doesnt like him in the first place#haha#yeah#alien stage#alien stage till#alien stage ivan#THEYRE CLOSER THAN THEY LOOK ITS SO OBVIOUSSSS well to everyone except them but yeah ok haha#i kinda wanted an excuse to yap about this picture because one till got me drooling two having a man on your arm while reading a#girls magazine is kinda crazy#and just having a man on your arm in general till thats crazy they were cuddling right right#and lukas just sitting there so- *police sirens* SHIT
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I. Spent more time than I planned in making this
#art-strito#shaplin#god this conference is so damn boring#like yeah he cracks jokes sometimes but the thing he is talking about? 💤💤💤#the only escape i have from this is cringefail pathetic bird girl........... /pos#WLEJWKEKWKE love her so much i go back to anger responses. like cuteness agression methinks#gonna shake her like a maraca till she explodes /aff#puts her in a room full of watermelons (it so happens to be the year 2003) /aff /j#lmao#edit; also. did this with my finger. drawing like that is not that bad actually huh
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coping w the election outcome by disabling the bad kids <3
#ant.txt#i have given fabian septicaemia.....#i mean like. he got his eye slashed open and then just stuck an eyepatch over it and called it a day.#no way thats Not getting infected !#in his case it turns into orbital cellulitis which turns into septicaemia which results in various after effects#but like. after the kalvaxus fight my man is Not taking care of himself. neither is his mom....#so he holes himself up in his room when he starts feeling unwell and stays there till cathilda comes home and finds him nearly dead#yeah. hes having a Time
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I sure love when im making vent art but get frustrated cause im not in the good head space or skill level to make it look good >:[[[[[
#anyway im not fineeee#i hate school i am overwhealmwd overstimulated angry and mean#everything is wrong and it sucks and no one gets me gets me#also having feels about being trans and queer and a teen and losing intrest in a thing i live#and i was forced to clean my room and do homework and it fucking sucks#so...yeah im not well rn#gonna get some sleep and get better but its not awesome rn#oh also existential dread of a world where i will have to work till i die or close to it with basiclly no breaks and im already exhausted rn#so it feels like its only gonna get worse with time
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Made the mistake of imagining Kunikida with sleeve garters now I am extremely turned on someone draw this please and thanks
#he’s so sexy and for what#maths teacher? so so so sexy I’d purposefully get some problems wrong so he would yell at me and punish me#yk how in the old days they used to whack your palms with a ruler or stick? Yeah#he could do that to me and I’d be on my knees begging for more#wow the fuck kinda trauma do I have💀 whatever it is…… I want that man#I want him to use and abuse my body as he wants I want him to rail me hard and fast till all the frustration has left him#dude I am nothing but a toy ok I would just always be ready he doesn’t even need to ask just come in and then come IN ykwim#wow like. imagine him coming home after a frustrating stressful day. he’s about to snap he’s barely hanging on. until he gets home. and you#open the door for him and he comes in drops his bag where he is and pins you against the wall with his hand around your neck#he kisses you hard and fast and then before you know it you’re bent over right there your hands clawing at the wall—#I- oh my god. after he’s done is the first time you speak to him after he got home. dazed and fucked out you go ‘welcome home’#and with them taking off his shoes and grabbing his bag he says ‘I’m not done with you yet’ and disappears into y’all’s room —#oh my goodness I just. I’m just. I am filled with lustful thoughts#specifically for this man in particular WOWZA#bungou stray dogs#bsd kunikida#kunikida smut
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#my blog so imma post what i want#but I've been thinking abt two of my aus both to do with the second game fjhchgc but i don't think I've mentioned this one before soo#i like the idea of sera making an ai of my s/i just like she did with the others yeah it breaks my canon but idc#my s/i was always like an older sister figure to sera so why wouldn't she make my s/i too n of course her ai is shipped with heat c:#my other au revolves around the big incident basically sheffers isn't the only demon in that room#so ob is still shot but not fatally he's still bleeding out tho cause bros been shot but anyway sheffers leans down to do his whole#people are just tools thing my s/i either heard the shot n ran to see what was going on or she was there anyway but either way she kicks#sheffers straight in the face to get him away from ob n basically tries her best to stem the bleeding n keep him alive sera sees n hears it#as she does in game but in this version sheffers n my s/i become demons but while sheffers is just a ravenous creatute who slaughtered n ate#everyone in the facility my s/i is hell bent on protecting ob she basically stands guard over him like a guard dog n gets into a vicious#demon brawl with sheffers once he's devoured everyone else n has set his sights on ob n my s/i#she keeps him away till he's gunned down but cause my s/i shows no threat n is just ob's guard dog rn she's subdued n taken for studying#ob is taken for medical treatment cause he's barely hanging on n was one of the only two survivors from the incident#my s/i basically becomes his demon wifey n is pretty much glued to his side#they both still work for the Karma society but it's more to make sure seras safe then anything for the organisation itself#i do also like the idea of heat n ob meeting iyfyjfjhf#shut up rattie no one gives a shit lol
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I had multiple dreams last night.
I had a bf </3
someone in my family got bit by a zombie </3
some guy made me explain narrative structure to him </3
#ameera speaks#1 expanded) it was someone ik in real life 😔 which sucks soooo bad anyway he was at mine and we were watching a movie in my bed on my#laptop < (loser behaviour) and okay so im lying by referring to him as my bf bc we were just friends in the dream but then he started like#acting well intimate and i wasnt not into it so i was like hey whats going on here and we had a talk and then i had to sneak him out of my#house. dream 2) zombie apocalypse im in my room my nephews and nieces come in and i usher them out. the world is the samw just + zombies.#like think covid when it was dire but schools were still open? (my dream was a commentary on the countries failures to manage covid) so i#usher my neohews and nieces out and i make a comment to my sister in law like ooh im scared one of them got bit and my nephew was like some#girl bit me at school today and i told his mum and i stayed in my room and like an hour later i rang her like whats the update#and she was like oh yeah and came into my room to find my journal on zombie stuff and sge was like should i just cut off his arm and i was#idk try but if that doesnt work youre gonna have to... and she was SO CASUALLL !!!! and as she was leaving she started like picking things#up off the floor and i made a comment like your sons dying and youre sweeping and she was like way harsh tai and i woke up#that one was a commentsry on covid and also how i might be too mean to my sister in laws sometimes#3) i was in a library with friends researching smth and some asian guy sits on our table turns his back to us and talks to his friends.#then he starts playing music loudly from his phone and i move back to my table and as im walking he stops me and starts talking to some#girl on the table next to mine who he knows and is like hey i have an assignment due where i have to write a compelling narrative from my#own life ur clever can u help and she was a stem girly and went highschool with me and she pointed at me like ask her she does english#and he was like no u just tell me and she started helping him but i felt the advice she was giving was.. bad. so i interrupted like dont#you think that you should do __ instead and we had a discussion about it till i woke up. < that dream was a commentary on how useless my#degree is and how i wish it wasnt useless
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thank you, rio, for coming home during this ✨trying time✨
#i said ‘welcome sick’ before pulling this and got results lmaooooooooooooooo#man today is just not my day (aside from this pull) ಠ‿ಠ#my expectations: getting to pack my stuff with my wfh-ing bro lurking in the bg#my reality: my bro is apparently playing wfh hooky(?) and i actually have more bs to pack than i thought so i just. ಥ‿ಥ#i wanted to slack and tl today but it’s apparently not in the cards for me lmfaooooooooooo#also today marks the official end of my solo habitation life :( i’m sure glad i recorded the lxl dances while i could lmaooooooooo#the idea of trying to blast thumbs up no hime at full vol to record the dance while my fam chills in their rooms surrounding my own is just.#ughhh that’s tooooooo terrifying to even think about (ʘ‿ʘ)#the only thought that’s scarier than that is the idea that my dogzo and catjiro plushies may get delivered on the same day as moving day…#…and i haaaaateeeee that that may actually end up happening ಥ‿ಥ this is the one time i don’t mind delayed shipments frrrrrr#if life is still able to bestow mercy upon its sufferers… please delay my shipment till monday. pls. ಥ‿ಥ#man this sure got off topic. what was i supposed to talk about again? oh yeah. gacha rolls. lol#just honeypre things
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"Please, I highly doubt there is anyone out there that I could actually date and be happy with."
Gojo doesn't exactly remember how he, Suguru, and Shoko got into such a conversation, but here they were anyway.
Suguru grinned at his friend, "really Satoru? The world is a big place, maybe you just haven't met them yet."
"Yeah," Shoko started, "they could be anywhere. You may even meet them today."
Satoru scoffed and stood up from his desk. His chair being pushed back as he held his arms out.
"Fine! Watch this!"
He closed his eyes and took a deep breath
"If there is a god out there, please let the love of my life that i will spend eternity with and love till my last breath and even in death fall into my arms right this very instant!"
After a few seconds, Gojo smirked, "see? Nothing happened!"
Shoko sighed, "thats not what i-"
There was a sudden crack in the ceiling. The floor shaking slightly as if someone was thrown right onto the roof. Which was when the three sensed a cursed spirit and a sorcerer fighting just outside. But before anyone could move, the ceiling gave way and someone fell right into Gojo's outstretched arms.
"Oh wow, nice catch," you said as if you weren't thrown so hard to the point that your body went straight through the roof.
Gojo couldn't keep his mouth from falling open as he continued to stare at your smiling face.
Both Suguru and Shoko snickered at the sight.
"Looks like your prayer was answered after all, Satoru."
"Huh? Prayer?"
You glanced around the room before you felt Gojo's grip tighten around you causing you to look back up at him.
"Marry me."
"...hah?"
#jjk#jujutsu kaisen#gojo#gojo x reader#satoru gojo x y/n#satoru gojo x reader#gojo x y/n#gojo x you#gojo satoru#satoru gojo
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I wish I had found and brought my Prismacolor pencils with me, because a semi rule I have with the Ralia characters is that their colors have to match with them
It sounds weird but the reason why is because I originally would draw and color these characters with Prismacolor pencils, as I only got into drawing almost entirely digital around the end of high school, years after I stopped drawing these guys
I’m trying to give a character a new fur color, but I don’t know what to change it to because I don’t have my pencils for options
#I honestly don’t know where I put them in my room#but all I know is that they aren’t in my dorm with me#and I am not buying another 48 or 72 pack when I’m not really even going to use them much#I just need them for reference#*sigh*#I guess I’ll ask whenever I can if someone can bring them up here for me#and for my brother to find them#since I can’t go back till November#anyways yeah#the struggle#hopefully I don’t get too attached to whatever color I choose here#Ralia#art stuff#art struggles#prismacolor#random stuff
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I mean like. Not to bring the mood down but... you guys know that's because American media is everywhere right? Like the world is unable to avoid some version of American accent on a regular basis. Of course ppl find it easy to mimic. This is absolutely not restricted to ppl in the UK, its really common for ppl who learn English as a foreign language to have perfect 'American actor' accents (cause the reason everyone's so good at the American accent that's expected of them as actors is cause at large there's little distinction between regions in the 'Hollywood accent' that ends up on TV and films and stuff. You guys have massive regional differences in pronounceation, but what makes it on to TV (in 9/10 cases) is a very standardised version of American English.)
But yeah. It's not just actors lol. Most British ppl can speak in a passable american accent, as can loads and loads of people worldwide. I'm not saying this to be like 'you should feel guilty! 😡' but it does always stun me when Americans are unaware of the impact their country has worldwide on all versions of English (and even on use of native languages. Many countries are using English more and more over their native languages and dialects , and yeah, historical colonialism has had an impact there.)
But in the last few decades things have progressed way way faster and that, is thanks to the impact of anglo/american/ect lead capitalism. I'm in no way dismissing the impact the UK has on this, but in recent years, its the US that is largely pushing that train .While the UK and several English speaking commonwealth countries are very involved in this kind of capitalist imperialism, there's a reason that more and more people are speaking American English. Not one of the many UK dialects, not Australian English, or NZ English. Across the world more and more people are increasingly speaking in the same standardised american dialect that's in so much of the media you export. Hollywood based media, with that standardised accent/ dialect and the standardised 'normal american life', has a stranglehold on the world and I just find it crazy that a lot of you guys don't even know.
It's stupid stuff like. So many countries are importing american cars and are widening their roads/ changing town planning to account for it (this is less of a thing in the UK but I see it more and more when I travel). Its the food becoming avaliable everywhere. Its the influence that for profit healthcare has even on countries with socialised health systems. Its houses being built to account for American style appliances. Fashion trends. Worldwide, everything is slowly evolving to be closer and closer to this 'American standard' which honestly? I really don't think actually represents the lives of real American people either. You've been turned in to products, the system has taken an unrealistic snapshot of 'American life' and it's being sold to you all day in day out, but it's also being sold to the rest of us. It's being pushed on us all.
Kids in the UK go through phases of talking only in American accents. Anyone born later than the 90s is carrying round 2 sets of spelling and vocab, cause we're all so used to the American way, that you barely know which one you're using half of the time. In the UK we have always had really strong regional accents yeah, and dialects differ between areas that seem tiny to you guys, I know. But like. Those dialects are being lost cause all UK accents are evolving to become closer to this standardised american and yeah not great, but at least we share a language! US American society is largely rooted in the same foundations as UK society, largely we have the same flaws! But oh my god. What about the rest of the world.
It's global. This impact continues to be seen, steamrollering ahead, in places that had completely different starting points. UK culture isn't that dissimilar to that of the US, so we aren't losing nearly as much as cultures that had something completely different. So much is being lost.
Languages and dialects and everything else is just being wallpapered over so we all meet the same ideal of the 'American life' and it's not even real! It's just a product based on how ppl were actually living in the US, manipulated until it's the most marketable mould. You guys are victims of it as well but like. It's based on your culture so you don't lose as much if you conform to it. Just like how in the UK, if we conform, we lose more than US, but nowhere near as much as countries that had languages, dialects and cultures that were so so different to UK/US culture. The less like the US, your starting point, the more there is to lose.
And look. I said it to start with. I'm not having a go. That's not what this is. But you guys really need to be aware, you need to make an effort to understand the impact that this plastic Hollywood american culture is having on the rest of the world. You need to actively look for it, and make an effort to not pay in to it. Because when Americans see other cultures represented in media and say its not relatable, when you guys go on holiday and make no effort to learn local customs, and try and pay in dollars and spend your time abroad like you're still in America, when you see cultural differences and immediately argue that the American way is better and of course everyone should have giant cars and never dry laundry outdoors and live in American style homes, without any kind of critical thought. Just 'this is how we do it so why wouldn't everyone else do it this way. This is the only way. The American way is obviously best.' When you guys do that you are individually feeding in to this absolute bulldozing of cultures (including American ones!) to allow for better marketability.
It isn't any one individual American citizens fault that things are the way they are, and you guys are victims of the same system, but you need to have some self awareness when it comes to the fact that as individuals you are unknowingly, helping driving this forwards and as individuals, there are things you can do to limit your personal impact (and no arguing that you have no culture is not it!!! Being all self deprecating doesn't do shit. Take some responsibility and accept that individual Americans didn't create this system, but currently, individual Americans really are doing their bit to keep promoting it, to keep pushing it on the rest of the world.
And I've already rambled for an age so I'll stop here but I just want to make clear as an ending note here, that this really isn't about piling on Americans and being all 'boo it's all America's fault. They should apologise. Their culture isn't worth anything.' Not at all this is the opposite of that. The fact that millions of Americans have been convinced you have no culture, all while a mimicry of American culture is plastered on to the rest of the world, and while you as individuals are encouraged to help that happen, often without even realising what you're doing; is a crime. You've been wronged, as have we all.
And America is not the problem. The problem is imperialism and it didn't start with you guys. It started in Europe, and Europeans, particularly British ppl, have a responsibility to push back and be self aware, take some fucking responsibility and not inadvertently keep feeding in to that system, just as you guys do. The US didn't start the fire, imperialist capitalism is a fire that started burning long before the United States was even considered, but its on all of us, to do what we can to not feed that fire. And right now? You guys are the face of it.
This idea of what America is, is the face of imperialistic capitalism, and that means that even if you don't mean to, you guys are feeding that fire more so than the rest of us. You're responsible for spreading it, more so than the rest of us. And if you don't step up and take responsibility, accept that you're gonna get it wrong sometimes and you need to try to do better; if we don't all do that. There will be nothing left. They'll paper over it all, the lives of real Americans just as much as those in Scotland and India and the Netherlands, and 100 other cultures, that are at risk, thanks to this fire, that's currently, largely coming from America.
So yeah. It's absolutely not just on you guys and ppl who act like there's no racism or wealth divide in Europe or anywhere else for that matter are complete idiots, however, this Americanisation of the world (and I hesitate to call it that. Because its not a representation of real American lives. Its simply wearing an American face.) Its real. It's happening.
And we don't tell you about it to make you feel guilty (those of us who aren't dicks at least) ,we are telling you. We are kicking up a fuss. Because it isn't fair. It's not right and while individual Americans ignore that and refuse to take responsibility where they can (small apples. We aren't asking for you to call a violent revolution in our names. Just take some time to learn about the rest of the world. Stop assuming America is always right and examine your biases. When you find them. Stop personally pushing them.) , while that is happening, as individuals, you are contributing to this. It's not even altruism. This system is hurting Americans too. It's hurting us all. All we ask is that you do what you can to not personally contribute, and keep an open mind, be aware. That's all any of us can do.
when a british actor does an american accent everyone’s like “i didn’t even know they were british until they were on colbert.” but when americans do a british accent everyone’s like “they’re supposed to be from east cocksford but their glottal e’s are north dicksford. shameful.”
#so yeah sorry to rant but honestly#I'm so tired of ppl refusing to take responsibility on every side of this#imperalistic cruel capitalist regimes going 'well hey. at least we aren't America. this is their fault.'#meanwhile. Americans contribute to the bulldozing of their own cultures to make room for a capitalist monster wearing them as a mask#and if you call out any Americans or make them aware of something they are doing individually that isn't helping. it's either#refusing to see/ accept their own bias. or just as bad! yes! just as bad!!! america is beyond help. there's nothing worth saving#nothing we can do. that's bullshit and making stupid excuses like 'oh our schools don't teach us to respect other cultures'#'we don't know how.' fucking learn! try! that's all anyone asks of you. nobody cares about your schooling. school is shit for working class#ppl in most countries!#you think the english curriculum is any more balanced? we're subjects of a colonial empire. it's propaganda and its not even competent!#i don't think the average American understands how many more hours of schooling they get vs a lot of places. I'm not saying it's right#but teaching time? you guys have longer school days and you stay in school till youre older. our national curriculum ends the year we turn#16 in the UK. year 11 finishes in June. you can leave school 2 months shy of 16 to get a supermarket job. (and many working class ppl do)#and our government still pat themselves on the back and say its eqv. to high school finishing at 18 in other countries. like for context.#i haven't had a geography lesson since i was 13. my last english lesson? i was 15. that's completely normal here. so yeah. the#'our schooling was shit so we can't use Google to learn a bit of geography' falls pretty fucking flat. sorry.#they should have done better by you but they didn't. join the queue. do what you can and take some fucking responsibility now#the only way out of this is for us all. American and otherwise. to do what we can. be self aware. try to be better. keep learning#because if you fall to apathy? capitalism wins. if you believe the propaganda? capitalism wins. if capitalism wins we all lose#the system is designed to wear you down so you're too tired to remember that it doesn't have to be this way.#that's been happening for decades and it's why things are such a mess now. the only way out. is remember there is a way out#climb towards it. do what you can. it seems like low hanging fruit. it doesn't look like enough to change anything.#but there are more ppl being hurt by this system than those benefiting. 99% of us. if everyone picks an apple. that's a lot!#that's a fucking lot! keep going even when it seems like you aren't making progress. make your voice heard. vote. don't passively support a#system that's on its way to destroying you. destroying us all. do what you've got to do to live. but don't forget that all the things that#seem like they don't matter? really really do matter once you add up everyone's contributions. you can't control other ppls actions only#your own. but your contribution matters. your vote matters. your voice matters. join the union. educate yourself. stay curious. question.#the informations out there go online learning 1 thing. challenging 1 bias is better than all or nothing. i dont have time to learn anything#small apples. low hanging fruit. the oceans made up of billions of drops. the longer you don't try. the longer you've no chance of success#we can do better. we can absolutely all do better.
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Miranda's corpse in there is VILE
#i can accept that.... i can forgive that.... GET HIM!!! COWARD!!!#KILL THEM ALL FLINT!!!!!#abigal will get him in the end.... hell yeah#silver's bear getting him into trouble again.... NOOOOOOOOO#the shogun curse.....#HIS LEG???#vane sitting besides flint.... yeah.... enemies to friends.... it is coming#that was sick as hell vane... i thought they were gonna snipe his chains away but thats trol modern warafare for the times#YEAAAAAHHHH KILL HIM!!!!#silver getting his leg cut for the crew.... a new man.....#or he doesnt do that again lmao#away from MY men.... damn#i think ive seen this film before... (the girls arm shattered in tlou2)#hes gonna get randall's leg....#hes gonna break his teeth man.... let him bite something#peter watching his town go down with mirandas corpse behind him akdbaksnjs#silver waking up in flints room.... the sin and the sea akdjaksnaksl#new quartermaster..... faked it till he made it#AND HE LIES ONCE AGAIN AJDHAJS OOF#only max knows the truth.....#flint is sus... oh no max ajdhaisbsj#will she out him???#THEY GOT THE GOLD YEAAAAHHHH#max has the gold the brothel the bar and knows silver betrayed flint... OOF#talking tag#watching black sails#we're (me) gonna do a pause on black sails to watch opla again bc i finished the manga part it adapts so.... we (me) will be back soon
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had so much cleaning energy this morning and then i stopped to eat lunch and now its all gone and im crashing from exhaustion adhd when i get youuuu
#sooo funny that i didnt know that i had adhd for 23 years and just thought it was anxiety that makes literally everything difficult#like no i cant leave the house today cause i this morning i said it was a chores day so i hvent prepared for going out and i cant without#planning! and yeah my body feels terrible cause it never tells me when im hungry so i dont think about eating and then when it does its too#late and too close to dinner for lunch so i might as well suffer for two hours till then :)#also if im gonna clean i cant have anyone else in the same room otherwise i cant focus and feel weird#genuinely thought all of this was just generalized anxiety disorder cause nobody told me i could have adhd too :)
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This doesn't just have the effect of raising kids who won't respect consent, it also raises kids who will forgive people for not respecting their consent, or simply won't blame the person for it.
My parents loved me and didn't care when I said "no", it was my fault for being annoying. It was also normal. My boyfriend loves me and when I said "no" he didn't listen, but he's not a bad person. It was my fault anyways, somehow.
It has a real documented impact of kids growing up to be in abusive relationships, not just as an abuser, but as a victim too.
I see a lot of posts saying "teach boys about consent".
While that is true, a lot of parents will do that and fail to see how their own actions are the problem.
If you've spanked him, he's less likely to understand consent.
If you've forced him to sit on Santa's lap, he's less likely to understand consent.
If you've forced him to give hugs and kisses to family members, he's less likely to understand consent.
If you've grabbed him in order to force him to sit still, he's less likely to understand consent.
If you've labeled him as "too sensitive" for not wanting to be touched, he's less likely to understand consent.
If you've assumed he's okay with something because he technically allowed it even though he felt pressured, he's less likely to understand consent.
If you're only going to criticize his actions but not your own, it won't work.
#needed to add this because thats what happened to me and my sister#our dad would pick us up and throw us over his soulder and chuck us into our rooms and then spank us#saying no crying and screaming through the whole thing changed nothing#if not the chance to make it worst#actually yeah complaining meant more hits and harder ones till we shut up#recognizing abuse and getting out of it was a challenge as adults and it hurt us badly#tw domestic abuse#tw abuse#tw child abuse#child abuse
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