#this has just been in my head cuz my dad loooooves using that excuse to justify himself hurting other people with his toxic ways | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

jellycreamjammedart · 1 year ago

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Lmao u have no right to be mad after spatting and sneering at people the immature excuse of "this is how i am and theres no changing that, so take it or leave it" and people actually choose to leave it

#nobodys perfect and youre not expected to be so #but if you have issues or flaws that are a detriment to you and/or those around you especially relationship wise #then you DO have the responsibility of finding the means and help to work on these things to IMPROVE yourself into a better version of you #crossing your arms and stubbornly claiming “this is how i am” is just an immature response to ppl calling you out and #vocal refusal to put in any effort not only to improve yourself but the relationship you have with them #and you expect people to just... accept snd take it when its clearly detrimental or making them and/or you miserable?#if you wont put in any effort to better yourself and your relationship then why should them?#no one is obligated to stay by your side if that makes them miserable and you dont care about trying to help make things better #it goes both ways #jellycream speaks #this has just been in my head cuz my dad loooooves using that excuse to justify himself hurting other people with his toxic ways #feel free to reblog tho

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