#think sll together it'd be about 200ish. basically an entite paycheck for me.
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Really thinking about legally changing my name now. I was waiting for... Reasons. Some real some just because I didn't feel like I could but like. You know.
#Elias howls#this is my.one negative post#the downside is I don't even know how my oarents would react. I really just want to change my first name. my middle and last are fine but#if i change that then they have to face im real about this trans thing and I don't think either of them want too. Like even on hormones I f#el as though they assume I'm playing pretend. I'd like to potentially change my gender marker too. Im not sure if theres more special requi#and its just. i mean i know it costs way less here than other places but its so fucking confusing to navigate changing your name they make#t so hard.#so many forms. so many things to update. constantly. and like i shouldn't need a lawyer but theyd know what i actually need but i do have#lawyer money at fucking all. i ahould probably just wait longer. but i really dont. having my legal name be my deadname feels bad and espec#ally now when i have a beard and sound how i do.#i dont know. j dont know. i dont know. desperately trying to be positive but this is something ive wanted to do for years and now especiall#i. might try sending my mom a text about it. i dont know. i really don't. i kust wish i had supportive fsmily. im so fucking jealous of peo#le with supportive parents#think sll together it'd be about 200ish. basically an entite paycheck for me.
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