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this scene in Rebel Resolve 🤭 let's ignore what happens next <3
#star wars#star wars rebels#star wars fanart#swr fanart#kanan jarrus#grand inquisitor#swr#rebels#inquisitor#fanart#art#digital art#digital painting#painting#my art#artists on tumblr#dark side#rebel resolve#jedi#sith#et cetera#they're just have a polite conversation
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another fun little thing I recently discovered: if you don't rat them out, you can actually find the crow and venatori lovebirds from that one runaround quest in treviso hanging out together in the grand necropolis! (apparently pearl has an uncle in the mourn watch who's taking them in for now and they're planning where to go next. crow lovebird seems. less than elated by all the skeletons but very happy to be with bae lol)
I think you have to finish either (or possibly both?) emmrich's loyalty quest and all the mourn watch side quests to find them, they're sitting at a little table up past the stairs at the beginning of the level just off the eluvian point that's broken earlier in the game
#dragon age#dragon age: the veilguard#dragon age: the veilguard spoilers#dragon age spoilers#you can also find curio and keepsake again and have such wonderful little conversations with them#especially as a mourn watch rook. get in lucanis we're going to visit the in-laws. they have hilarious dialogue specifically for you fhsajk#also a screenshot cannot capture the way lucanis says 'I hate this place' at that. there's no heat in it whatsoever.#he's just a man resigned#you can report to curio and keepsake about the little side quests you do around the necropolis#and rye sounds SO overjoyed and excited to be their new favourite little guy lmao finally the favourite child!#they're literally like 'oh what a polite young watcher it's so wonderful to see good manners in this day and age😊'
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the thing about gaeltacht courses is that most people are really nice but then there are just one or two whom you'd rather walk into the sea than talk to for one minute longer
fortunately the sea is quite close by so when the upper beginner/lower intermediate european student starts making edgy jokes about the troubles and repeating what random comedians have said about brexit, you can do exactly that
#personal#if i'm going to have conversations about politics here they better fucking be in irish#so at least they're worth something#if they're not then how about we just. don't
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Randy is a very funny character to me because once to get to Azure, every interaction pre-chapter 4 is just him doing something silly, then the game cutting to his inner monologue for him to be like "oops I felt happy for 0.01 seconds too long better feel indescribable shame and guilt for the next hour!"
#also he's doing that one “no I do not want to join your found family stop asking me about my dad.”#except it's just a polite conversation he's having in the middle of the day#at least he has some good humor about by cold steel 3#like... he's not quite there yet#he still says they're almost like family#not that they are family#but he's getting there#it's also kinda sad to realise all of his cannon interests are like fleating plesures#also laughing and pointing at him whenever he calls Lloyd his partner who is very attractive#like#boy do you hear yourself?#a real “he's even bisexual” moment#trails from zero#trails to azure#randy orlando
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you guys ever get tired of friends who only talk about themselves? how do you respectfully tell them off?
#personal#like i love them but also im sick and tired of hearing them talk about themselves#every conversation feels like im interviewing them bc i leep asking them questions and they just answer#but there's no turning the convo back to me#it's like 'hey how r u?' and they're like 'oh im not doing so well like life sucks'#and I'll be sympathetic and ask them why and then they start ranting about 70 different things#AND IT'S ALWAYS A VAGUE RESPONSE SO I HAVE TO KEEP ASKING QUESTIONS#and they act like they dont want the attention but it's obvious they want it#and even once they're done with their storytelling they dont even bother to ask me how i am or anything#and it's pissing me off these days bc i feel like i dont even matter to them; im just some person they can talk to about themselves#it's like they don't give a shit about me at all#if i ask them what their fav colour is theyre gonna tell me it's purple and then move on from that topic#at least ask me what my fav colour is!! instead of not even caring...am i even ur friend or what#im so sorry for the rant guys but... if anyone knows to politely tell these kind of people off please lmk#i need to tell them respectfully before i lose my mind and start yelling at them
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as I am replaying origins -- a game which, to be clear, I love very VERY much -- I can't help but feel that people do don the rose coloured glasses on it a bit specifically when it comes to the range of dialogue options you're actually given to work with at any given time (something I've seen my fair share of silent vs. voiced protagonist discourse about over the years *smokes tired cigarette in survivor of a decade of DA tumblr*). like... there are a couple of situations where you're given a decent range of responses, but the vast majority of the time you have about three dialogue options, and often they're presented sort of like 'polite/bland/unprovoked near-cartoonish levels of assholery'. arranged like, y'know:
I am [BLANK]. It's an honor to make your acquaintance.
You can call me [BLANK].
How dare you speak to me. Fuck you and your family back five generations. I'm going to rob your mother's grave before your eyes.
(sometimes if you're real lucky you get the secret extra 'Something else/I'm bald/but I'm a dwarf!' option)
I'm not at all saying it's worse in that aspect than the other games (Dalish Inquisitor 'Who's Mythal' just entered the chat), but I do think it's worth considering that this might be a bit of a franchise original sin that has been present since the beginning, as indeed it is in most rpgs because making rpgs is real hard, and you notice it more with the dialogue wheel format than when the responses and questions you can ask are all laid out in a list together
#sometimes you also have 'sane and relatively polite' and then two different flavours of cartoonish assholery haha#or 'three barely rephrased versions of the same sentiment'. listen. It's hard to make a game sometimes you just need to get the player#through to the next part of the conversation I understand that perfectly haha#dragon age#I personally like the clarity the dialogue wheel gives you as to what is a question that'll loop you back#to uh the trunk of the conversation tree as it were and what responses move the conversation along and make those unavailable#you basically just have to feel the vibe on that in origins sometimes and it stresses me out even now#(also nice to know when you've flirted with a companion it's always sad to ninjamance someone and then have to crush their dreams lol)#but I absolutely see how some people might prefer the list layout and see the whole line their character will be saying#the dialogue options you get before facing uldred especially are. fucking wild tho#I think they're trying to do a whedonesque deadpan comedy exchange with the crazy guy (which like sure it was a different time)#but especially if you're a mage and just witnessed the devastation of everyone and everything you've ever known... weird vibe!
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i really do wish at least one of my family members had a normal perspective on politics. not in the sense that any of them have bad takes persay but just that literally none of them approach the broad concept of Politics in an effective manner
#nightmare.personal#my dad i have learned is incapable of having two way conversations which is endearing but unproductive#my mom has given up on politics which isn't really helpful either#my sister is a vocal leftist but also afraid of geopolitics which makes sense so i don't mind that#and my brother formulates really strong opinions that i don't know if he's ever researched#they're not bad opinions necessarily they're just like. where did you do the thinking part did you just assume like#republicnas are stupid so im not that. like i don't know it's complicated#i need to be able to talk with fucking someone in my family but we're all so goddamn dysfunctional at the talking thing#neg
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i hate that i had to compile articles and data for my mother to read to prove my point on why the romani people are used as a scapegoat and they're not actually our enemies :/
#the xenophobia is so fucking bad here it makes me so angry so so angry#people don't even realise far right political parties always use minorities to grow their base#it's frustrating#i'm a bit worried for our next elections now that our government has fallen#i was listening to the guy that's head of the party that's more right wing and he was doing so well talking about how we need a romodeling#in our economy and justice and how we have too much tax burden and then he started bringing immigrants and minority groups into the#conversation ☠️#mind you this is the same political party that had a political plan of nine (9) pages in the last elections (even a kid in school writes#more than that for an assignment)#the same party that contradicts their own propositions#the same party that has had a bunch of scandals but thinks they're high and mighty talking about corruption#and people still defend them which is actually scary#anyway sorry for the rant i'm just done being european and done with our shit show of clowns as politicians#and disappointed to see my country follow the trend of other european countries
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First year student: "This book says hellenistic sculptures have 'baroque-like, pathetic forms'? What does that even mean?"
Me: "Oh, yeah... Yeah it's all just like... They tried really hard to go for realism. Like they have facial expressions and there's limbs everywhere. Pathetic is a good word but I guess you could say it's more dramatic in the modern sense of the word? Wait a second, you'll know it when you see it-"
*shows gigantomachy*

*shows laocoön group*

Her: "Oh. Yeah. I'll know it when I see it."
#helping first years study for their first exams is so much fun#they're so nervous and we keep telling them that it won't be that bad#also they have really fun questions#i like to think i'm helpful most of the time but then they ask questions like “so the agora is basically the forum but in greece?”#and we're like “eehhhhh hmm ähh nooooo? not really? like they're very different but also both a big public square in the city-#-just memorise it like that but NEVER write that down :)“#which is not a straight answer but there's no time for a conversation about how different political systems impact public space#archaeology#antiquity
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nobody on gods green earth annoys me more than my coworkers man
#if i'm being honest nobody on gods green earth annoys me EXCEPT my coworkers#Christ's Sake.#like they're nice or whatever#i like some of them fine#i like all of them find really#but oh my god. i don't want to hang out with copies of me but lord above would it make my life so much easier if everyone at my job was me#this is why k is my favourite. she's basically just like me if i was less polite and more connected#she's also a genius she's great#and she shares all of my complaints#she's safe for now but everyone else. get out. get out of my office i need to work#k only annoys me when she comes to hang out with me at lunch when i'd rather be reading. lunch is my me time.#i don't like spending time with my coworkers because we aren't friends. but i guess i don't mind pretending to have a nice conversation#but we always talk about work. and complain abt it but still#maybe i'm weird but i've never ever wanted to befriend a coworker or god forbid spend time with them outside work#doesn't matter how nice they are. doesn't matter how much they enjoy talking to me. i'm not real. i'm a worksona. you don't know me.
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i have been in community with profoundly developmentally disabled peers and peers with brain damage my whole life, bc i had a childhood diagnosis. i have also been leftist my whole life; my mother was a marxist and raised me that way, and while their politics were absolute dogshit, they were lefty dogshit.
my entire life, i have seen leftist educators throw mentally disabled people away as "lost causes" because they couldn't engage with the material the way it was being presented. leftist outreach and education does, genuinely, have a massive lack of accessible material. to be blunt, people are not interested in retrofitting their leftist outreach to be accessible to people who learn best through episodes of sesame street.
as in, i have repeatedly faced outright laughter and cruelty over the idea that this could be a priority. or even something that we consider doing at all.
"people who are that mentally disabled don't need to know about these things," the kindest interpretation goes. ("people who are that mentally disabled don't interact with the world, anyway, they're all in institutions or monitored 24/7 by their parents," the uncharitable underlying assumptions go. "they wouldn't be a worker who needs a union. or a library attendee. or a member of the community garden. or a volunteer at the food bank. or or or")
the people i have seen this hurt the worst, over and over again, are profoundly mentally disabled people of color whose lack of access to accessible antiracist education is causing real danger in their lives. institutionalized disabled people of color who have learned racist ideology and behaviors from white authority, whether they were adopted by white families or incarcerated in care institutions run by white staff. who are treated lower than garbage by leftist educators, who view them as "lost causes," as unworthy of time and effort and attention, as deserving of their abuses because they... what... internalized the abuses that make up every aspect of their lives since birth?
i see people saying things in this conversation like "disability isn't an excuse for racism or transphobia or whatever, people have the obligation to improve themselves." oh, believe me, i have seen again and again how many privileged disabled people utilize their disabilities to punch down on others, try to escape accountability for their punching down by citing disability. but individual weaponization of identity is just that: weaponization of identity.
the power structures at play are what they are. it is a noble and admirable goal to want leftist outreach and education to be more accessible to all. if that is truly your goal, you must eventually reckon with the existence of people who do, actually, really need it presented in a picture book. or an episode of bluey. or a conversation where you only use examples of people they know in real life, using things that happened to them personally. the existence of people who cannot grasp forms of abstract reasoning, who need information presented as rules, or as guidelines, or as categories. the idea that yes, fully grown adults who need daniel tiger to explain racism to them are human beings who not only deserve access to that very thing, but who also deserve to be a part of leftist spaces and benefit from leftist organizing. are people for whom it might be INTEGRAL they get to be a part of leftism. are victims of racism themselves and suffering without access to antiracist spaces and community and support.
and you will need to reckon with the abject cruelty of your peers who laugh and mock the very idea of this. you need to reckon with the fact that a lot of people you respect, a lot of leftists doing genuinely good work, will respond to this by making fun of the people you're serving, even outright telling you their violent fantasies about these people. that is the experience of organizing in leftist spaces for profoundly disabled people. that is why so many of us burn out so fast. there IS a structural problem with mentally disabled people being seen as disposable and not a part of community. and it is EXTREMELY present in leftist organizing and outreach efforts.
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#went out to dinner with my mom and her husband and he told us about biden bc he got a news push notification#and we talked about politics and trump for a while#and then i said well at least we got some good news this week because the icj ruled israeli as an illegal settlement and apartheid state#and he just grimaced and turned away and exited the conversation while i had to explain to my mom what the icj is#they came back from holidays a week ago and told me about all the great israeli restaurants they went to#i swear its in one ear and out the other#they're almost patronizing me like thats so great that you have something you care about#but also think im stupid for it#to be fair i was just telling them about the stickers i bought and explained animal crossing#watched them losing interest and thinking its weird but still kept going lmao eat autism hyperfocus shit#so i guess im to blame for losing credibility here
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Once upon a time I had two women come up to me to tell me about Jesus while I was outside eating lunch by myself. One of them gave me a short spiel about how awesome Jesus is and then asked if I had any questions.
Me: "Well, you're interrupting my lunch, so right now I'm thinking about food. Can I eat Jesus?"
Her: "What? No!"
Me: "Well, at least you're not Catholic. Come back when you have a deity I can eat and then we can talk."
They ran off pretty quick after that. Basically what I've found is that the weirder you are, the quicker they are to leave you alone.
#usually I'm pretty kind in these situations#and just explain that I'm happy with my religion and have no interest in converting#and that they're wasting their time#but I did not like that they decided to interrupt my lunch and I did not like the two on one power dynamic#and I had already tried the 'no thanks I'm Jewish' at the start of the conversation#You get a polite 'no' once from me#after that I'm just going to try to make you increasingly miserable for wasting both of our time
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how do you think Aaron and reader who are married, react to both being called ‘Agent Hotchner’ and they both answer? That’s so cute, I could just imagine Derek smirking and Rossi having a proud dad moment
the hotchners
AHHH I LOVE THAT cw; bau!reader, established relationship, typical cm case talk, playful banter/fluff 🥰
"The unsub is devolving, they’re getting more reckless," Derek thought aloud, clicking his pen in hand. "He dumped the last victim in a public place, rather than the usual, secluded spot."
"They're losing control." You inputted in agreement, your eyes darting across the conference room table to him.
Aaron leaned down on the table, still standing, but with his palms pressed against the surface. He was next to you, and this stance allowed him to be ever so slightly closer. Your heart warmed by his proximity, as any displays of affection were at a minimum when in the field. You were happy he was just close by. "The next victim will probably be someone they can’t control-"
"Agent Hotchner?" A voice came from behind, hindering the conversation.
"Yes?" Both of you answered swiftly, out of habit, though it was a new habit for you. Your tickled eyes met Aaron's, your nose scrunched up slightly in amusement.
Derek grinned, swiveling back and forth in his chair in observance. Rossi raised his hand to his mouth casually, concealing a chuckle.
The voice in question, one of the local police department's officers, even hesitated himself, as if he didn't know which Hotchner he were to rely the information to.
As soon as you and Aaron got engaged, the discussion of whether or not you'd take his last name was on the table. To avoid confusing situations like these, or to prevent any reputable prejudices. It was rare, but every so often you received grimaces from bystanders, both in the field and in the office back home. Marrying your boss? Either tremendously romantic or something to be frowned upon.
But in the end it was unanimous; you wanted his last name, and as did Aaron. It was even more important to him. A symbol of a bond he couldn’t wait to share with you; an acknowledgment of the life you were about to build together. You and him. The Hotchners.
"Uh- sorry to interrupt. The victim's fiancé is here for their interview. They're waiting in interrogation." He stammered, his gaze switching between the two of you.
"Thank you. We'll send someone in shortly." Aaron replied, politely dismissing the officer. He kept his trained demeanor, but you could hear the laughter underneath his voice.
As his footsteps trailed away, you nudged Aaron, humorously bumping your shoulder into his upper arm.
He kept his gaze on the files laid on the table, his lips spread in a soft smile as he slowly shook his head.
"Wipe that smirk off your face, Dave." He didn't even need to look up.
"Hey!" Dave commented, his tone light as he spoke. He held up his hands in surrender, but that didn't diminish from the proud gleam in his eyes; it also happened to be the same one he had adorned on your wedding day. "I didn't say a thing."
"Oh, but it's written all over your face." You quipped also, raising an eyebrow in his direction.
"Just when I thought the two of you couldn't be any more married." Derek rolled his eyes, playfully as his lips pulled back into a grin. "What's next? Have you mastered the art of the ‘yes honey’ yet, or is that still a work in progress?"
"Please, that was perfected before we got married." Aaron remarked as he relaxed his posture, straightening up. He flashed a smile in your direction, speaking over Morgan's cackle. "Isn't that right, honey?"
#aaron hotchner x reader#aaron hotchner#aaron hotchner fluff#aaron hotchner x you#aaron hotch x reader#aaron hotchner imagine#criminal minds#criminal minds x reader#criminal minds x you#criminal minds drabble#aaron hotchner drabble#criminal minds fanfiction#hotch imagine#criminal minds x fem!reader
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#I just wanted to save that clip because it's relatable to me#this is a side of anger issues that people don't see and they don't even associate it with anger issues#in media when a person doesn't speak up for themselves they're just meek. their shaking is nervousness#I get angry like that all the time#I mean it. it's on regular basis. because it has to be small things. there's always something#and I can't point it out in a way that's not a bother to everyone no matter what. it'd be at least a little annoying. but worst of all#I don't *want* to do it politely. My emotional response is to fight. to be accusatory. and that would suck for everybody#so I just sit on it instead. quietly withdraw from the conversation. I simmer in it#I don't have a better way not to blow up
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Hmm. Don't think I said I didn't care. But I also care about being effective. That's what's wrong with me.
Not everything revolves around this genocide. But that's reality. Do you see people talking about the genocide in the linked articles? In other posts like this one? No, because ... other issues exist in the world which are at play in the election.
Btw, Israel is committing the genocide, not Biden. Why are you apologizing for Israel instead of holding them accountable? Seems like not a great thing to do.
Do you think it'll be Republicans instead of Democrats getting away with genocide if you let them win? Because it will be, and it'll be worse.
Do you recognize that? Do you understand that? Why do you think it's only Democrats who are the problem? Are the Republicans perfect, non-murdering saints?
Lives are worth protecting. But you propose to sacrifice millions to do it. And what is your solution?
Literally, WHAT is your solution? What is going to happen if Trump wins? When you set your emotions aside, what is the chain of your logic that arrives at an end to the genocide?
Step 1, you vote against Biden.
Step 2, Trump wins.
Step 3 ...? What? Does Trump tell Israel to stop? Does he sell them more weapons? Do people have more freedom to protest? What does Trump do that will achieve a meaningful change?
Because all I ever see is a revenge fantasy, and there's nothing after it.
So that's what I want to know. What comes after your revenge fantasy that's worth throwing US lives under the bus? What is the forward progress?
Removing Biden is not progress. It's a neutral result. Something else must actively happen to stop the genocide. If you cannot achieve measurable progress toward your objective then your strategy doesn't exist and you've achieved nothing except to inflict pain on people right here in the states.
Zero forward progress + punishing people at home sounds like a net negative result. I'd rather have zero forward progress + same or better at home. Which is why Biden is the answer and not Trump.
I cannot stress enough how important it is that whatever you think of anything else, Trump Cannot Be President Again.
The "rip apart democracy and install an autocrat" group was not Ready for him in 2016. They didn't think he'd win.
They're ready now. They're teeing up for a second Trump president. Whatever your favorite current Thing, it would be worse under Trump, and it is not an exaggeration to say that they're going to try to make sure that they stay in power forever, by any means necessary.
SCOTUS basically just said, "If Trump sends the Army in to murder protestors, that's okay. If Trump assassinates a political rival with the armed forces of which he is the Commander In Chief, that's an official act, and there's no recourse."
Anything he can even vaguely justify as "an official act" - including installing people in the Justice Department to support his coup, including pressuring his VP to support his coup - is no longer a crime.
This isn't just me saying this, btw. Here's Robert Reich, lifelong public servant (and yes, dad of @samreich, since I know what's important to y'all):
Finally, the Republican-appointed justices have given a dangerous amount of discretion to presidents — broad enough, as Justice Sonia Sotomayor noted in her dissent, to protect presidents from prosecution for bribes and assassinations. A president already has the authority under the Insurrection Act to order troops into American streets. After today’s ruling, those troops would be under the command of a person who would almost certainly enjoy absolute immunity for the orders he gives them.
This is unbelievably terrifying.
#anyway#yeah i know no minds were ever changed on a Tumblr conversation#but i realize I've never seen any extrapolation beyond revenge for this thing#what comes after revenge#or is that it? is that the whole story?#all this outrage is utterly useless btw#without a strategy#anyway i don't need a reply#these can be rhetorical questions#i don't expect them to be answered#people are gonna make elections about whatever issue they like the best anyway#which is ultimately everyone's core right#the one thing i wish is that people so upset about the genocide would have a plan about it#you know?#what's the plan past the election? the timeline keeps going#i also wish people would stop treating the lives around them as having no value#the lives of people RIGHT HERE are worth just as much as those in the middle East#they're not people you get to sacrifice#OH WELL#it's ok I'm done#the end#i care. but differently. the way i care demands a strategy and results#if there is no strategy then there is simply no value. because that's how politics works#I'm sure this will get twisted somehow. can't be bothered to mind about it#those other issues are at play xD
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