#they are listening to us about stuff even if they arent fixing everything; side eyeing the current skin bug in sn
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Wait wydm not enough slots, i thought polls had at least 10? Also the region is called Wishfield as a whole, its bigger than just Florawish. (Which is very confusing do they even mention that in the story much? I didnt realize until i was looking at the photo expedition stuff)
Lilith and pigeon tend to be my favorite styles, but Umbrosa (which may be the new wasteland) is what im most curious about. It still wasnt great in SN, but im hoping that theyve been listening to us about representation and have done a better job of researching, especially now that they have a chance to start from scratch. Im not holding out hope its perfect mind you, but still.
so considering I've seen a lot of people theorize that florawish is based on lillith kingdom's fairytale aesthetic...
i didn't have enough options to include Wasteland but if that was your first choice you don't deserve to be happy
anyway my answer is Pigeon w/ Cloud a close second. I know most ppl in tbe Western fandom hate how almost every suit is Cloud but I personally love it bc I love xianxia shows and books so much.
However, Pigeon won out for me because I think Pigeon and Lillith styles work very well together. (North Kingdom would also work very well with both of these styles!!)
#i think knowing that people have thrown a stink over wasteland in both ln and sn#and stuff like the hillchurls sumeru and natlan in genshin#there is a CHANCE we might get a better job done this time around.#they are listening to us about stuff even if they arent fixing everything; side eyeing the current skin bug in sn#and we can definitely put pressure on them to fix their shit. infinity nikki is way bigger than their already market breaking games#theyre no longer a niche dressup game. theres going to be a lot more people yelling this time
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mihashi/hamada: listen literally any ship that isnt abemiha or tajihana is a rarepair for this manga which deeply sucks if u arent a fan of either of those ships but i dont think this pairing even has a tag like these two are childhood friends hamada starts a cheer sqaud for the baseball team mihashi plays on theyre generally pretty close (its been a while since ive read the start of the manga but im pretty sure hamada also got mihashi into baseball in the first place? like hello??) n then theres like one fic in their platonic relationship tag so đđ
Nokiami : (spoilers for the game) all the fan stuff ive seen for the game is painfully straight unless its focusing on the two ships where one character is canonically gay n in love with the other (protag of the sequel game with his gay bestie i forgot the name of n yuuko/fei) n ami is usually just drawn on her own BUT theres a lot of canon subtext between nokia n ami mostly as a result of not much actually changing based on if u play as a boy or a girl regardless nokia to some extent likes ami she flirts with her talks about their relationship as if theyre already dating theres a scene that parallels a m/f couple in the game that plays exactly the same between ami n nokia with two other characters saying something along the lines of ah young love during a mandatory side quest ami gets offered an implied sex doll that looks exactly like nokia (weird story there the quest ends with it being heavily implied that the people that take the dolls end up having their organs harvested while their minds are stuck in a digital space called eden unaware that theyre not in the real world) n she has to think about it before declining the offer nokia's character arc is working to become a strong leader n reliable friend cause she wants to stand next to ami instead of relying on her theyre childhood friends but forgot about it ok i need to explain a bit more of the story so like as kids ami n nokia along with three other characters met beta testing for eden n one of them ended up getting eden syndrome to make sure theyre all able to leave safely (theres a thing called eaters that if u get eaten by put u in a coma cause theyre storing the contents of ur brain in them) n a guy who wants to use the eaters to get to the next stage of evolution removes their memories of the incident so years later as teenagers ami nokia n arata (one of the childhood friends important to the story but not to the ship) become friends again n reunite on eden where ami ends up getting eden syndrome but in a funky way cause she was logging out as she got eaten so she has a cyber body that over the course of the game deteriorates n at the end of the game ami basically dies right as everything is being fixed all the victims of eden syndrome are no longer comatose but ami is cause yknow kind of deteriorated too much n it happened right in front of nokia's eyes as she reached out for her hand so they could go home together n nokia cries for the only time in the game cause of that but ive genuinely never seen any fan stuff of them interacting so despite them being teased romantically n built up as being really important to eachother theres nothing not even like nokia with takumi (boy protagonist) im submitting it specifically as nokia/ami just cause i like wlw ships more if u want to do it neutrally protag's surname regardless of gender is aiba sorry if this is incoherent its been like 6 months since ive played the game
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Megumi x FR
â˘Megumi aged upâ˘
Megumi X Cheerleader
âWarningsâ{Smut, degradation, hard dom, dacryphilia, spanking, drinking}
A/N: Megumi thinks you're pretty much an airhead since you're a cheerleader so he tries to take advantage of that but ends up falling for you
Your body drops letting him see those tight safety shorts all the cheerleaders wore, it's like you were all made for slutty clothes. It was pretty hot but for some reason he never looked at the other girls, only at you. It was probably because you werent like the others, you were so naive, so innocent and such an airhead. It was fun teasing you, making fun of you for getting simple answers wrong and tugging at your skirt even though you hated it.
"Megumi" he looks up seeing your bright eyes and large smile, "Hey" he says with a nod as you sit down in front of him, "so whatre you doing here?" You ask while opening a bottle of water. "You left this at class" he shows you a white book covered in stickers making you blush beet red. "G-give it!" You rush to grab it but he pulls it back, wrapping his arm around your waist.
So close! Megumi was super good looking! One of the hottest guys at the campus in fact but this wasnt important. "Give it Megumi" you say but he doesnt, only holding you down with a smirk. "I was being nice but now I'm kinda curious" and worry fills your mind. "D-dont" you say but he opens it and looks through the pages.
"What's this?" He asks as he looks through the pages filled with notes and drawings of buildings with measurements, but arent you in arts? He notices you looking away, you gave up? That's weird, you never gave up. "Dont worry about it, its nothing" you say while taking the book back and grabbing your stuff. "See you later" you leave making him shocked, so personal things like that make you pissed? How fun.
"C'mon" his fingers graze against your thigh making you curl up, "Leave me alone" you whisper, your hand pressing against his chest. "Why? You're always flirting with Megumi so why cant I?", "I-I dont flirt with him" you mutter feeling your blood boil. You talked to Megumi yeah, but it was because he was always being a dick or when you needed help with assignments but that was it. "Hey" both of your heads turn and the guy is sent flying across the hall.
"M-megumi" he looks at you with a look hes never given before, worry, "Are you okay?" He asks in a softer voice too. Is he okay? "I'm fine" you whisper, fixing your bag and taking your sweater out of it to wrap around your waist. "What the fuck Megumi" he hears from on the ground, "I may be a douchebag but I'd never touch a girl if she didnt want it" he says then grabs your wrist, pulling you down the hallway. Uh oh.
"You're so fucking stupid" he says as he pushes you into an empty classroom, "So fucking naive and you cant even stick up for yourself" you look down at the floor but he tilts your face up, grabbing your cheeks hard to make you look into his eyes. "When something like that happens do anything to stop it, because if you dont, bad shit will happen and I'm not alw-" he stops but you both know the end of that sentence making you blush a soft pink.
"I'm sorry" you whisper and as your phone buzzes you pull away, "Thank you, if you're still here by six maybe I can take you to eat somewhere" you leave in a rush as he looks at his hand. Hes getting too close, way too close.
You dance to the blaring music, holding a plastic red cup in your hand filled with who knows what. He watches your body move, holding a bottle of beer and listening to Yuji ramble about girls and which ones hed like to sleep with but it was Yuji, he never got any girls unless Sukuna was taking over his body.
"But my first one would have to be Y/N, I mean just look at her, shes got an amazing body and I'd love to hear her scream my name" he clenches the bottle tight feeling his anger build up, almost overflowing but he calms himself down. "Eh, shes not that special, total airhead" he says then leaves to a different room, Yuji could do whatever he wanted, it didn't matter because he didnt like you that way and never would.
He watches as he walks up to you and suddenly hes walking towards you as well. Your eyes glance back slightly shocked as arms slowly wrap around you but your widened eyes soften. "Megumi" he smiles hearing his name come out of your mouth, "Hey Beautiful" and you blush, you've been told it often but the way he said it sounded so meaningful and honestly it was the first time you've ever liked being told it.
Time passes as you both dance and talk, giggles filling whatever silence there is and soon enough you and him are drunk, muttering things into each others ears, sitting on his lap, his hands holding your skirt down to make sure no one sees anything and your arms wrapped around his neck. "Why're you so pretty?" He whispers as he leans into your lips, barely touching them making you slightly mad. You wanted to kiss him but he wouldnt get close enough, wouldnt let you get close enough too and you could feel your need building up.
"You want to kiss me?" he whispers into your ear and you drunkenly nod with a small giggle. "So drunk arent you" you lean into his lips but he stops you, "Gimme a kiss" you mumble but he shakes his head.
"Sorry Princess but you're incredibly drunk and I cant just do that to you" he says, trying to make you feel better but all you do is grumble and whine. You were worked up, he had a massive boner and it got you horny too and all you wanted was to please him.
"Your place or mine?" He asks after some time of walking but finds you asleep, "I guess mine" he says then heads to his.
You nuzzle into his chest as his arms wrap around your body, "Megumi" he looks down but you're still asleep making him smile. You looked so peaceful but the shared smell of liquor was making it less comforting. Maybe he should wake you, it wouldnt be good to sleep like this. But then again you didnt have any clothes and you needed to sleep.
You turn around and his slightly intoxicated self heightens the feeling of you pressed right up against him. He whispers your name into your ear, making your eyes open slightly, "Hm" you hum out, you start sobering up and he whispers something into your ear making you turn red.
"P-pervert" he chuckles as his hand rub your side, you were soft but goosebumps were forming which was cute. So shy and so innocent now that you're sobering up. His eyes close again feeling sleep take over him but your grinding against his crotch keeps him from it. "Stop it" he says but you dont, "Play with me" you mumble and as his hand runs up your body you expect him to tilt your face to kiss you but instead his hand wraps around your neck, grabbing it with a bit of force eliciting a gasp from you.
"Take your clothes off, say Red to stop" he mutters in a lower tone and you nod fast, he sounded irritated and you didnt want to make him angry. Once your clothes are off you look back, turning red, seeing him naked as well with only his hipbone and down covered. He smirks seeing your eyes take in the sight, you knew he worked out but you didnt know he was this strong.
"Want a kiss now?" You nod fast as your eyes shine and he smiles, "Take it then" you rush to kiss him making him chuckle at your eagerness, he pulls you onto his lap, looking up at you slightly as his hands rest on your backside, grinding you against him slowly. Tiny, soft moans escape your mouth feeling his hardness rub between your folds, "Megumi" you whine out into his neck.
"I have con-", "No, want you" his mouth goes dry and he lifts you slightly, "You want me?" He asks earning fast nods. "Like this?" A gasp fills the room as he pushes in a single finger, "N-no, want you" he chuckles against your neck thinking of endless ways to tease you but the main thing he wants is for you to beg so, he doesnt remove his finger, he pushes it in and out slowly, not doing anything only making you angry.
"Please" he leans into your ear and bites it slightly, "What do you want?" You shake your head earning a spank. "Tell me" he says but you shake your head again earning another one making you hiss and whine. "Please Megu- ah!" You cover your mouth as he delivers another spank but it's harder this time.
The process goes on, him asking to barely receive an answer and none are what he wants, he sighs then pulls your hair back as you softly cry, "One last chance" he growls out slightly, "Y-your cock, please" he pulls you down onto him making you whine and sob into his neck.
"Such a naughty girl arent you?" He asks as he guides you on him, you felt like actual Heaven, your insides were nice and tight, warm and you were sucking him in so nicely. You nod as tears fall down your face making him twitch, "Fuck me, you're so perfect" he growls into your ear, insults coming after of him telling you how needy you were, that you were just a hole to him, a cumdump, something to use making more tears fall down your face but you loved it, something about being put down like this made it feel so good.
You move your hips to his movements feeling yourself about to break and as it's about to crash he keeps you still. "Try to come without me again and I wont be very nice", "Sorry" you whisper, leaning into him more, feeling soft, mushy and needy.
You both go again and the insults slowly turn into compliments, he moans as you clench around him and you whimper, "Come" he says and your body shakes, immediately at his demand. He thrusts up into you hard making you sob out into the room, "Shh Baby, I've got you" he whispers, hands rubbing your back, pulling you as close as possible and leaving soft kisses on your head.
"So perfect for me, such a good girl. Everything I said isnt true, okay?" You nod with soft cries and he kisses you softly, too rough for the first time and definitely not the right time but you were both definitely sober by now. "I love you" he suddenly says making you stop crying, "I love you too" and he stands. He always said hed never date, especially with someone like you but here he is, confessing his love for you and needing you more than ever.
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This is the last ask ill send because im honestly tired of this whole thing
I dont know why you brought up the anon hate you got when thatâs no part of the discussion. Even if it isnt your intention, youâre making yourself out of to be the victim when you arent. You say you want to get better but each time something gets pointed out you get on the defensive. I dont know why you decided to bring it up, but now that you have: Piama is indeed whitewashed on your drawing. âWarm lightingâ doesnt change peoples undertones like that. Compare it to Piamaâs last two cgs if you really donât believe me.
Even if you arenât affected, you need to be able to recognize it without poc having to tell you in order to be a good ally. I wouldnât want a straight friend that lets people make homophobic comments about me in their presence and then hear them say âit doesnât affect me so i couldnt tell it was homophobic so thats why i didnt defend youâ. If you arenât able to recognize it then youâll inevitably repeat the same rhetoric. Racist rhetoric is everywhere and spewed every single day so you cant expect poc to be with you all the time and take you by the hand to tell you whats racist or not. Those are the reasons why you need to learn how to identify it by yourself, be listening to poc, by developing critical thinking skills, by not surrounding yourself with only white people. If not thereâll be more unchallenged asks such as one i saw recently that pinned poc that complained about yet another white route âstupid because they dont get that lovestruck releases routes by demandâ. As if we have no concept of nuance.
No one is obliged to accept an apology, especially after what happened. I dont know where you got that idea from, especially when it concerns something that hurts people this deeply. And I didnât point it out what happened just to be petty, I pointed it out because it isnât an isolated event but a pattern of behavior of unchecked racist comments. That was simply the worst case: It was handled poorly, considering mod viv herself never apologized and again, swept it under the rug. The apology I saw from mod wrath was vague, didnt address the situation directly, was posted on this blog so no one knew what was going on, and was later deleted. So yeah she can apologize ten times and it still doesnât mean we have to accept it. Especially if itâs that catastrophic because it looks like its more about saving face rather than feeling remorse, even if she did feel bad. Youâre too eager to call it just âa mistakeâ and pin me as the unreasonable one.
And I want to ask you, have you truly seen with your own eyes an interaction where someone said to the other âif you like vinca youâre racistâ and was completely serious?Or have you heard it from someone else saying that they were told that? Because considering that other anon watering down a wocâs criticism of lovestruck as âshe doesnt like white people or this blogâ then yeah i wouldnât trust anything else coming from their mouths. People are getting too pressed over the millionth white woman in the app. Hell even if it happened, itâs probably what, one, two people? But youâre lumping all of us together as if its been a wave of saying that. The valid criticism surrounding Vinca is interconnected with Naharaâs release (one of the few dark-skinned women in the app) considering people kept saying theyâd rather have a Vinca route when Naharaâs was announced. Theyâre not even willing to support it just because they want Vincaâs and that sends a message to voltage. So it simply doesnt boil down to âwell its a difference in personalitiesâ. Im gonna go as far as to say that if a woc had the same attitude as Vinca, people wouldnt be frothing at the mouth for her or theyâd delve into the realm of fetishizing (as some people are bordering the line with Piama). But thats a whole other topic. And since people want to act stupid: all of the white characters in lovestruck are white because voltage made them that way. They couldâve quite easily made them a poc, but they rarely do. Think about what that means then, if youre really trying to defend yourself by saying âwell they put out whats popularâ
Lastly, you should really evaluate the content and beliefs you put out when racist people are still comfortable following and interacting with you. This is why i want this discussion to be public: your followers need to read this and apply it to themselves. Because considering the amount of anon hate you said you got yesterday towards the other blogger, theres a bunch of your followers who need to get off their phones and learn to care about other people and stop being racist assholes.
Believe me, Iâm tired of it as well.
I brought up the anon hate because I didnât want you to wonder why I was posting your asks in this form.
And no. Piama is not whitewashed. I took a dropper tool and took the color directly from her sprite, and if youâd looked at my blog, you wouldâve seen that I sent screenshots as proof in response to that ask. But you obviously didnât, so Iâll send them here again. (1. Without lighting. 2. With Lighting.)
If you still donât believe me, youâre welcome to call me on Discord and Iâll share my screen and show you the entire process. And as an artist: Youâd be fucking surprised what lighting does to colors.
Well, yes, I need to be able to recognize it indeed. The thing is: I canât always. I try my best on this, and there will be moments and issues that will come up, mistakes I will make because Iâm not perfect and not a machine. And in those moments, Iâd love to have a friend that affectionately slaps me and says âJD, that was shit.â So I can apologize and notice it the next time. I have had multiple friends be transphobic to me in certain ways. Iâve informed them about it. They apologized and havenât done it since. Weâre still friends to this day. I do try to educate myself on racism and put in some work. I donât expect POC to do all the work for me and explain to me how to be an ally correctly, and still - I hope they help me just as I help my cis friends with trans stuff. I canât magically change all my behaviors and overcome internalized societal racism with the snap of a finger. If I could, I fucking would have already done it multiple times. The way it is, Iâm working on it. Again - Iâm sorry I didnât point out the racist comment in the ask. I shouldâve done that, and Iâll make sure to do it in the future.
Youâre right no one is obliged to accept an apology. Youâre right this hurts people deeply. And as I said - Mod Wrath apologized three times, including one on her personal blog which was a lot less vague. Mod Viv also apologized - to the person in question, in private. Just because you didnât see it doesnât mean it didnât happen. And the thing is - if you refuse to accept her apology, thatâs one thing and fully your right. And the thing is: If an apology is not going to make you forgive her, if ten are not, what do you need in order to forgive? Will you never forgive? Will you always argue itâs going to be an apology to save face when you donât know the fact she does feel remorse? How will you see that she does?
I did hear the Vinca thing from a friend of mine. Whom I trust. Because seriously, why would you make things like that up? Who would even get the idea? Iâm against the idea of believing my friends would lie to me for attention or whatever. And yeah, the criticism of that anon was unfitting - Iâve visited the blog they claimed was doing that and I found nothing of the sorts, so that comment was unfitting unless I missed something. I never intended to say that itâs all of you saying that. I intended to say that some people are handling the issue wrong. Iâm sorry it came off that way. I do believe though that itâs peopleâs full right to say theyâd have preferred Vinca over Nahara. I wouldâve preferred Vinca. I still read Nahara tho. However, itâs not yours to dictate which routes other people have to support and which not. I will however agree with you that people should give Nahara a chance - itâs quite the sweet story. And I for my part would enjoy a POC Vinca just as much as a white one. (Also, side note, youâre making it appear as if everyone would either fetishize or rage over her, which is very much putting all of the âwhiteâ fanbase into the same bag, the same thing you critizised me for earlier. Itâs understandable from a psychological point of view, tho, so Iâm not gonna comment further.)
Yeah, Voltage makes the characters white, and thatâs an issue people can only fix by demanding more POC in the ask posts and comments. Which many do, btw. They put out what is popular indeed, they put out what is demanded, and I fucking demand more POC. I want it. They couldâve made so many LIs POC and they havenât and Iâm fucking unhappy about it too! Iâm not even trying to say anything else.
Yes, making this public to arouse thinking is a good policy. The followers need to read this indeed. And we didnât get anon hate for the other blogger. We got anon hate towards us. Tons. Comments that went as far as telling mods to kill themselves. And while I agree with lots of the things you say - some of the ways youâre acting actively spark this type of hate. There is being loud about the issues you face, and then there is calling people racist assholes based on a comment they made instead of talking to them personally and telling them thatâs not okay, giving them the chance to improve themselves instead of always having them stamped as a racist. Just because youâre the one whoâs hurt, the one whoâs morally correct, does not mean anything you say or do is good behavior.Â
You told me I whitewashed Piama when you, with a minute of research, couldâve found proof I didnât. You obviously wanted the internet to see, maybe hoped Iâd get exposed? Could I get an apology for that? And I promise, Iâll accept it because Iâm willing to believe youâre a good person.
Summary of everything:
Youâre right with lots of things.
I behaved wrong and Iâm sorry.
Lovestruck has an issue with racism that we need to change together.Â
Together. Without toxic behavior from any side.
- Mod JD
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i am very excited for refactoring!! i already love the characters. can you tell us more about the main cast? like personality and interests and stuff.
AW YES IM SO GLAD THAT YOURE EXCITED!! i got this ask this morning and it seriously made me want to stay home from school and just infodump. im putting this under a cut since it will probably get a bit long i just kind of wrote down some fun tidbits and etc
mavis
absolute jock-passing nerd. she dresses like she Does Sport even though she did like quiz bowl and whatnot instead.
shes quite chill and thoughtful (its the taurus rising) but gets easily bored and needs constantly new forms of stimulation to stay motivated. she loves a challenge and basically feeds off of that kind of stuff. this really only cancelled out when its something deeply stressful (like being teleported to an entirely new dimension and all that). she CAN settle down into one spot and feel comfortable with that so long as she isnt BORED because GOD FORBID SHES BORED.
mavis likes science but especially astronomy, and despite everything shes actually really into horror movies and the paranormal too. a definite Halloween Enthusiast and also listens to lemon demon dare i say.
whenever shes stressed or frustrated or anxious her knee jerk instinct is to try and joke about it and move on. she isnt really direct about how she feels and whatnot and when she IS its usually via punchline.
silas
silas is probably one of the easiest people to read in the cast. its basically impossible for him to lie or say that hes doing well if he isnt. hes a very honest person and expects that kind of honesty from others also, and it becomes really frustrating for him when people arent direct about how they feel
BECAUUUUSEEEE hes also very empathetic. both of the hao siblings are but he goes about it in a very different way than catriona. hes much more like âI have to know everything about why you are upset or else ill dieâ because if he sees someone sad and doesnt know why it basically eats him up inside until he knows.
hes also a bit of a jokester not about his feelings or anything but just in general! rather than using it as a defense he just really enjoys making people laugh. silas is very sociable.
sometimes he can be a bit of a try hard.... he is really doing his best and i love him. him and lea and mavis all share a need to establish themselves as something greater than they are and his mainly stems from Youngest Sibling Syndrome with a side of boredom with his own life too. mavis and silas really bond over that but silas didnt really take on any escapist tendencies like mavis did. he pushes himself to take action and try many things and considers many paths.
catriona
she has a teddy bear in her room that she hides in a reading cubby because its still important but she feels that her image as Mature and Put Together matters too much to really share that soft side with others. and i think that basically sums her up as a character.
really just needs some fuckin sleep. she is fueled by various caffeinated beverages (her favorites being an overly elaborate coffee order and arizona green tea). shes articulate, but because shes usually running on 4 or 5 hours of sleep she can sometimes miss small details or starts talking faster than her own thoughts+stumbling over her own words.
shes a bit suspicious of other people because shes had her trust tested a lot. catriona is very like kind and warm still though its just that like... you know. if you wrong her its very hard to win her back and she likely wont trust you with anything again.
shes also much more of a âfix itâ kind of person when it comes to problems. she will absolutely provide a shoulder to cry on when you need it but at the end of the day she provides very practical support by trying to provide options. she takes the same approach with her own feelings too.
kirabo
basically like â*softly* dontâ. they are very cautious and dont take a lot of risks unless theyre absolutely sure that it will work out and there will be a benefit. however, theyre still optimistic and theyre always able to see the best in other people and in any situation. not really in that toxic kind of positivity way... but as in like they are able to appreciate the small things and whatnot
^ that world view is basically why they are so into botany. its very precise but its something small that you can really appreciate and see your own success in little by little. they also like arts and crafts.
they are incredibly diplomatic despite their initial virgo stubbornness. theyre really open to other perspectives and theyre very patient/understanding. kirabo and catriona are basically opposites in this respect and so they balance eachother out a lot here.... they are like bestest buds.
they are very big on like Emotionally Productive Self Care. kirabo WILL put on a face mask and will be like âdont @ me i am chillinâ. and they will be like âenough is enough i am going to knit a fucking scarf a secondâ. they just have a lot of little hobbies to keep them busy like that because they are super fidgety. anxious energy... the mercury-ism
minka
absolutely hates being underestimated in any capacity. minka is fully aware of her intelligence and capabilities and expresses no qualms with it whatsoever. alot of her insecurity ends up lying in her social life and etc. shes just been through a lot and really just wants to share her passions with other people.
really likes to decorate and APPEARS messy but is super organized. she has that sort of âchaotic orderâ thing going on where she can locate something even if its under a huge pile of random stuff. she has lots of stickers and lots of color-coding methods too.
will do the âare we there yetâ thing and the âwhy? why? why?â thing. mostly out of curiosity to see how far she can go. she is always so curious about how far she can go with everything. so once she finds company she basically never wants to be alone. shes very talkative and inquisitive.
a baby bi.... she is still figuring it out a little though
lea
a little >:3c and i like love that for her. she has a lot of charisma and energy and those are things that she really NEEDS TO HAVE with being a video game streamer and all but deep down shes just really mischievous and playful too.
i consider her a vriska by technicality. she has a lot of issues revolving around her identity and how people perceive her because so much of the time she deals with people projecting an idea of what shes like onto her. so alot of her thing is allowing herself to just be rather than feeling like she needs to put on a show.
^ shes actually probably one of the hardest people to read in the cast because of that. its not that shes not being herself... its just that she feels like she needs to be a pretty altered version of herself. the neptune in 1st struggle. she also kind of tends to have one foot out the door on everything but it makes her very adaptable. pretty much opposite to mavis in that its hard for her to settle down in any sense.
has a scorpio mercury but a libra venus so basically like âgood luck my deep lovecore affections for you will be hidden behind several proxiesâ. also it just makes it to where she comes off very Intense at first as is the scorpio placement way. but really its fucking great and i love her.
trinity
well theyre a scorpio sun AND a scorpio moon aka theyre like âi will know everything about you but you will never know anything about me everâ and also theyre like *rebirth* *rebirth* *rebirth*
despite what the emotional constipation and capricorn rising may tell you they are seriously A Lot. they make very quick decisions based on any instantaneous assumptions that they have so deep down theyre just very emotional and impulsive. AND intuitive which is partially because they are analytical of others but all around theyre mostly guided by like Vibez.
their precognition is kind of like if you randomly started having dreams during the day and only saw them through your left eye. so more than anything they get kind of like... weird deja vu when they talk to people or go to places that theyve seen in their visions.
really they are just like. okay in theory by first impression they would be a vriska but in actuality they are a rose lalonde because like. come on. theres a certain self-aware yet chaotic and dramatic and repressed je ne sais quoi here
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Super5 headcanons part 3
Part 1Â Â Part 2Â Â Part3Â Â Part 4Â Â Part 5
Thank you everybody for saying such nice things of part 2 (as i said i wasnt that confident so it made me really happy to know you liked it) and sorry for taking so long but school is a bitch and almost killed my inspiration. Anyway here comes part 3
Minegishi: i just got out work. Can someone care to tell me what happened?
Hatori: uhh, yeah . sorry
Hatori: i got out of work like an hour ago and came home to find Shimazaki sleeping on MY bed
Hatori: Shibata was already at the gym and shimazaki hasnt waken up so i dont know much more??
Hatori: i dont know either what to do...
Shibata: is he still there? I told him to take my bed!
Hatori: well he clearly didnt...
Minegishi: ok but HOW did you find him exactly?
Shibata: ill tell you later guys. My next class is about to start
Shibata: And dont worry Hatori! i dont think hell wake up anytime soon.
Shibata: You should have seen him carrying the dog! It was cute <3
Shibata: in a strange way
Minegishi: dog?? WHAT DOG?
Hatori: did you just say "carrying"?
Shibata: sorry guys gtg
Hatori: shit WAIT
Hatori: where am i supposed to sleep now? I cant sleep on the couch!
Shibata: you can sleep with me
Hatori: WHAT? NO
Shibata: Do you prefer to wake him up?
Hatori: I pick the right side
Minegishi: No homo
Hatori: fUCk U
Shimazaki wakes the next morning to the sound of someone gagging to his right
"THE HELL IS THAT SMELL? WHY DO YOU STINK SO MUCH?" yells Hatori before letting out a muffled yelp when the pillow Shimazaki threw hits him square on the face
Shibata, probably alerted by Hatoris screams, comes running and asks from the doorframe "Whats going here?"
"THAT BASTARD SMELLS LIKE POOP AND NOW MY BED WILL SMELL TOO" says Hatori while pointing at the man on his bed who is just groaning clearly annoyed at being awaken
"Hmm it was probably the dog" says Shibata pensive and then looks carefully at shimazaki "You dont have more clothes dont you?"
"Holy shit! Thats true. Youve been using the same clothes since then..."
Shimazaki cant understand why it suddenly matters so much to them "No i dont. Now that that has been cleared up can i go back to sleep?"
"You have to change first. Hatoris clothes wont fit you. so take a shower while i search for something to lend you" says shibata and then turns to Hatori "you gotta go now or you are gonna be late. Dont worry todays my day off, Ill wash your bed"
"Thanks man" says Hatori and then quickly discusses something abouy dinner with shibata before leaving the apartment. Shimazaki can only stare. He just wants to sleep.
But before he can turn his back and return to sleep Shibata is already on him hurrying him to the shower.
Shimazaki doesnt like the idea of giving up his clothes to Shibata (he doesnt like letting go of his possesions because Mental eye cant find inanimate objects and he learned early on life how easy it was to lose things) but even he is starting to get nauseous at the smell of trash and he isnt in the mood to deal with it himself
Shibatas clothes fit loosely but they are comfy, besides once he gets out the shower the man has breakfast ready for him (theres still a box of his favourite cereal) and leaves him to his own devices while he does laundry.
By the end of the day Shimazaki has his own clothes back and they are softer than he remembers ("its the softener" says Shibata, "the what?" responds shimazaki)
Minegishi and Hatori arrive later with boxes of take out and they eat together in awkward silence until Minegishi casually asks with a smirk if Hatori and Shibata slept well at which shibata laughs and tells them Hatori is a blanket hogger which in turn makes Hatori complain about shibatas snores.
The childish fight continues and even though Shimazaki doesnt take part in it he listens atently
At the end he returns to minegishis apartment that night and sleeps on the couch. Neither of them uttering a word of what happened.
The next time Minegishi asks him to go grocery shopping he accepts.
This is stupid. This was a waste of his time.
Shimazaki couldnt read price tags or labels and he didnt know what he was doing here or why Minegishi had brought him
At most he could tell apart boxes from cans and the weight of things but he couldnt differentiate whether he was holding a can of tuna from a can of yakitori sauce or 1k of salt from 1k of sugar without having to ask somebody else.
It was even worse when it came to liquids if the milk/juice failure was anything to go by
After the first few failures of trying to pick stuff Minegishi had tried to teach him about couponing and discounts but then again he had to ask him the price everytime and they both soon got tired of it
All he could do was to touch and feel the fruit and vegetables trying to tell apart the riped from the rotten/damaged
Looking for any bump, hole, softness...things Minegishi taught him
It was stupid.
Minegishi could ripen/fix any plant with his powers and they both knew it
This was a waste of time.
He hated every second of this and wanted to go already but Minegishi had been hellbent on him learning at least this and left him in the fruits section to pick whatever he deemed best while he finished the shopping.
And that was what he was TRYING to do when a store clerk had the brilliant idea of addressing him
In his defense they had been almost 3 hours here and he had been done since the first. The fact he didnt even know what the hell he was holding anymore except that it was round and ripe not helping his annoyance.
He turned to tell her to fuck off. He just wanted to intimadate her. Force her to leave him alone.
He may have gone a little bit overboard.
He opened his eyes.
"Excuse me sir. Customers arent supposed to grab the tomatoes with their bare hands. The bags are-AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH"
Her scream could be heard all around the store
Before he could teletransport away the tomato he was holding twisted and tangled its newly grown vines around his hand in a tight grip. (The sight of it clearly didnt help the girl's panic)
"Dont even think about it" hissed a pissed Minegishi when he passed by his side on his way towards the screaming girl.
Minegishi couldnt feel more stupid than he was feeling a the moment.
In his haste to initiate Shimazaki on the path of becoming a civil person he had somehow forgotten the man was actually blind (not his fault it was so easy to forget when you have seen him destroying entire buildings).
He had tried. He had really tried to come up with any way to fix this mess of a trip but it was getting late and they hadnt even started their actual shopping.
So at the end he gave up and left Shimazaki to the only task he thought could keep him busy and at the same time allowed minegishi to keep track of the mans position anytime while he hurriedly finished the shopping. It was a good plan. What could go wrong?
The moment he heard the scream he knew everything could and will go wrong where it concerned Shimazaki.
Thankfully he could feel he was still holding something vegetal (a tomato?) so Minegishi quickly dashed (shopping cart forgotten) to the mans position and the screaming girl.
His first instict had been to go and calm the girl even though he didnt know what had happened but when he realized people were starting to stare he quickly grabbed Shimazakis arm and dragged him the way he came.
"The fuck did you do?" Minegishi asked once they were in another aisle safe from curious stares
"I did nothing!" responded Shimazaki somewhat offended
" As if! What did you do to her? "
"I didnt do shit to her! I was just doing the fruit thing you asked me!" he raised his hand to show the tomato still holding onto it
"And? Why was she even near you?" mineshiki asked while his powers disentagled the vines and took the tomato
"ITS YOUR FAULT APPARENTLY WE ARENT SUPPOSED TO PICK THE FRUIT"
"Huh? What? I always do-THATS NOT IMPORTANT! Why was she screaming?!"
"I told her off"
"What? People dont scream like that when someone tells them off, even when you..." Shimazaki was clearly hiding something "How did you do it exactly?" minigishi asks with narrowed eyes
"....i may have opened my eyes"
"Your eyes?" minegishi stares increduously "whats that- oh" hes about to ask what was that supposed to mean when he remembers Shimazakis bottomless eyes caused by his physic powers. He may have gotten used to his hollow stare but he still remembers what he felt the first time he saw it. The girls scream finally making sense "You never open your eyes unless you want to threaten someome...did you want to threaten a simple clerk?? "
"No"
"Then?
"i just forgot!" shimazaki huffed
"You...forgot?"
"YES CAN WE GO NOW?" irritation lacing the mans tone
It was that moment that Minegishi realized this trip was taking a bigger toll on shimazaki than he (and probably even the man himself) anticipated and sighed.
"Yeah, i was almost finished anyway lets find the cart"
Shimazaki silently followed.
They finished the shopping without any further accident and while they waited in line to pay something caught minegishis eyes. It was just what he needed.
There was a row of cheap aviator glasses hanging in display.
After some considerantion he grabbed one of the pair with the mirror lens kind and handed them to a now calmer Shimazaki "Here, put this"
Shimazaki who had been following Minegishis movements asked curiously "whats this?"
"Glasses. In case you forget to keep your eyes closed again people wont be able to see your eyes. Put them on and open your eyes. i need to see if they fit and if they'll work"
He miraculously did.
The frame was thicker than it was supposed to be for these kind of glasses (a crude imitation of the stylish kind people wear in magazines) but they fitted and the mirror lens hid perfectly shimazakis glowing irises(?) (Hell never know)
"How do they feel?"
"Strange"
"You could wear them only when you are out in public. They are cheap. Ill buy them and you can do whatever you want with them"
Shimazaki took them off and when it was time to pay he handed them to minegishi
Once outside shimazaki at first refused to teletransport the bags back to the apartment but complied once Minegishi told him he would force him to help carry the bags all the way if he didnt do it AND promised to buy take out to eat.
Minegishi thought the glasses had been left forgotten in the bags but the next morning while he was getting ready to work he noticed they were laying folded on top of a sleeping shimazaki
When Hatori and Shibata inevitably asked about Shimazakis new glasses(that he now used all the time) minegishi told them about what was now deemed as the "supermarket incident"
The next times they went shopping Minegishi stayed all the time with Shimazaki and kept teaching him about vegetables and any thing that came to his mind.
Once they finished (everytime quicker than the previos) it became Shimazakis job to drop the goods at the apartment in exchange of picking what they were going to eat that day
It wasnt exactly what Minegishi had planned but it was a progress (or that was what he thought until Hatori complained about tripping on shopping bags that suddenly appeared in the middle of the hall whenever Shimazaki dropped something there)
Shibata was annoyed because even though they all agreed Shimazaki was behaving nicer the others didnt still believe him about the whole puppy ordeal
so that, coupled with the nagging feeling he had left after washing shimazakis clothes and after hearing about the market incident made him come up with a plan
"A mall trip?? What for?" hatori asked perplexed
"He has just one shirt"
"So?"
"He has been wearing it since we were together, actually i dont remember him wearing anything else ever"
"Thats his problem!"
"HIS JACKET HAS BULLET HOLES " replied shibata getting impatient with how much it was taking Hatori to understand
"He probably likes it that way??" said Hatori still not getting it
"Actually ive been thinking the same. I noticed the bullet holes too" finally came Minegishis voice from the receiver. He was was working at the moment because if they wanted to do this he had to work a double shift to free one day. "I dont think he has anything else"
"See? Minegishis with me!" exclaimed thriumohantly Shibata which only made Hatori roll his eyes
"Fine! i get it! Ive seen the bullet holes too...but i dont get why does it have to be us?"
"Because we are his friends" easily replied Shibata causing Hatori to frown at this
"Are we really? When has he done something for us?" hatoris tone suddenly turning serious "You are literally asking me to spend one of my few days off shopping clothes with MY MONEY for a guy who wanted to kill me mere months ago?"
"We dont know that" said shibata
Hatori trew him a glance that clearly was supposed to mean 'you gotta be kidding' "Look, do we even know if he likes us back?"
At this both men kept silence until shibata dared to speak "he is wearing the glasses"
"God forbid me for forgetting those damn glasses! Guys, im just saying we are already doing so much for him for nothing! why do we need to do more?"
"Because thats what good people do" came Minegishis response and shibata nodded firmly making hatori huff. He was gonna regret this.
" fine! But do we even know if hes gonna like what we buy? If hes gonna even wear it? As you said we had never seen with other clothes"
"Thats why we are gonna take him with us!" said Shibata, glad that this was finnally getting somewhere
Hatori turned to look at the phone "didnt you said you believed shopping stressed him?"
"Mmm these last times had been better" said minegishi
"What if he actually doesnt care about the clothes or-"
"He does" replied Shibata and Minegishi in unison making Hatori stare confusedly
"How do you know?"
Shibata thought back to the hesitance he noticed on shimazaki when he handed him his clothes but didnt think the man in question would like it if he went and tell this to the others and was debating this when minegishi spoke again "Ive noticed someone has been using my softener and i doubt its the plants"
Hatori frowned and then sighed
"You both have settled your minds dont you?" hatori asked and then grumbled when an unison "yes" was heard
"Do you realize we are working with a lot of 'maybes' and 'probably'?"
"Maybe" said the voice from the receiver and Hatori could swear he could hear minegishis smirk
"C'mon man! We have done worse than this" said Shibata happily clapping Hatoris back
"Ugh FINE That bastard better be grateful" grumbled Hatori
This part forced me to think of shimazakis past and now i made myself sad (this isnt the first time he wears glasses)
So the market incident and the glasses scene was stuff i thought about since i started these and was really excited to write it. I hope i did them justice .
I didnt realize how much longer part II was compared to part I so i think part III ended in a nice middle ground.
Haha i again didnt reach the scene i planned to reach(the prank) and at this pace this thing will have 6 parts. Someone save me
Anyway hope you like it and for those of you who dont know I am writing a Teru-centric fanfic about his decision to visit his parents and the aftermath and ill appreciate it if you could check it out (link here) and tell me what you think or at least share it so more people can see it because tumblr sucks and wont let me do it.
See you next time
#mob psycho 100#mp100#shimazaki ryou#minegishi toshiki#shibata hiroshi#hatori nazomu#mp100 spoilers#manga spoilers#i think that tag doesnt apply here#super5 headcanons#nie's writing
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Pixiefeathers and/or pixietown pls
this is long cause it includes both so throwing it under a read more yay ~
pixiefeathers ~
Who offers their jacket when the other is cold?they both do this tbh? they both come from a rather cold part of the world so they are both used to the cold to some degree, and they always want the other one to be warm if they even as much as mention how cold it is, so yeah
Who giggles uncontrollably when the other playfully picks them up?mads will just scream tbh lol. but shes also so used to getting picked up and carried to places and kit does it all the time so whenever mads manages to do it to them, thats always a surprise tho. so kit
Who compliments the other in front of everyone?both do this honestly, cause they love the other one so much and everything they do and everyone else needs to hear it too so yeAH
Who is more likely to tell the other a pun and what is the otherâs reaction to the pun?i feel like im gonna end up saying both to a lot of these lol, but yeah, both. and more often than not when puns are in the play, the other either just super deadpans it, or just freaking loses it. there is no in between no matter the quality or the context of the pun
When one of them has a bad day, what does the other do to help cheer them up?this works very much for both of them, but theres a Fort de Cuddle getting build in the dorm room, they watch whatever they feel like they need that day (ranging from animal videos to their favorite movies and everything in between), theres sweets and cookies and tea and just all around chill times with all their favorite things, just between the two of them
If they got to pick what one another wears for a day, what would one another wear?aaaaah honestly with this pair i dont think theyâd change much of anything from what the other normally wears, tbh? their usual clothes, but the others favorite set of them i guess. like âoh i love how you look in this shirt pls wear itâ or âthese pants make your butt look great PLSâ or what have you. that, and just making sure the other one is comfortable in whatever they wear ~
Who introduces their partner to their family first? How does it go?this could be either or really, but i wanna say kit does it first? knowing that their family is small and sparse, they just. kinda wanna do it before it gets even smaller, you know? plus i feel like while kit doesnt have the best relationship with their family, mads really doesnt either, and she would honestly just hold out on the introduction for as long as possible cause âhngg no kit you really dont wanna meet them i swearâiâd say it would. probably go as well as youâd expect. especially if anyone says anything bad about kit or dear lord deadnames them, mads WILL fist fight them. she will throw down. no you dont do that you sack of shit, family or not. so... yeah take your pick on how well this interaction goes hmm
In a coffee shop AU, who would be the coffee shop employee and who would be the customer?well i mean we have this already, it kit who works part-time in a coffee shop and mads is the customer (plus bonus fellow co-worker luke who wants these two to date already gdi)
When they sit side by side, do they touch one another? For example, does one person has their arm around the other, do they sit holding hands, or linked arms, ECT.if they are in a place with just the two of them, they cuddle tho. leaning against each others shoulders, just a pile of smol bodies tbh. arms here and there, wherever they decide to land really. around one another if one needs hugsother than that, they just. sit pretty closely by? like, shoulders-glued-together close. they both have their reasons to not be super touchy feely in the public, but for stuff like reassuring the other or just making sure everythings fine and whoever keeps making those eyes at you can fuck off, there is hand holding yay
What is a small thing that one another does to make their partner happy?i mean they do a lot of things (as in anything they can tbh), but one thing they definitely both do is give little gifts like way too often? âoh hey i saw this at the mall and i had to get it to youâ âhi i know you dont like getting gifs but i got this custom made for youâ âyou need a break, im gonna pay that coffee for you, lets goâ. just little things like that, it doesnt always even need to be anything of monetary value, its really the thought that counts like. every single time with these two
What would they do to celebrate their one year anniversary?i dont honestly think they would do anything really different from what they usually do when they are together? they are both too anxious and exhausted to really go out to celebrate in a big manner, and they want it to be more of a private thing tbh. so like. its probably gonna be a pizza party with fave movies and as many strays as luke is willing to bring to the room at once
When did they know that loved each other, and when did they first tell each other that they loved one another?i mean. as love love its. a complicated thing. but the âi love youâ has been honestly thrown around since a very early stage of their friendship? ofc at first as a friendly gesture, but its not like they are afraid to say it tho. as to when they first told each other, i feel like no matter the route (as in if its rival roommates or not), its after the first tournament when its first thrown around. its like a heat of the moment thing, you know?as for loving one another uuuuuuuuh. i mean as a demi mads goes through some heavier shit and kit helps her through all that and shes like âoh heck i like youâ which eventually turns into âhecK I LOVE YOUâ and well. kit is aro so mmmm
Who likes to give the other hugs from behind followed by a kiss?i wanna say they both do this? ofc after verifying with the other that its okay tho! as pda isnt comfy for everyone woo
Who would make a playlist for the other person? What would be featured on the playlist?i wanna say kit? they would probably be more confident of pulling a list together knowing that mads will love literally everything, while mads knows what kit listens to but isnt. super confident in putting together something that they would like? if she does this tho, she asks help from luke. or nate if hes involved in this timeline lol
Who would bring their partner on a romantic date under the stars?kit. mads might be the more romantic of the two, but she doesnt want to force any of that on kit cause boundaries are important. but kit knows that mads is a sucker for this stuff (also it lights up their heart when she goes âoh my god this is like one of my fanfictionsâ whenever they do something like this) and tries to expand their horizons by doing this stuff they arent so familiar with, but they know their gf likes tho
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pixietown ~
Who offers their jacket when the other is cold?luke, definitely. first of all, madsâ jacket doesnt fit him lol, and luke is a gentleman aaaaaa
Who giggles uncontrollably when the other playfully picks them up?well i mean. the day mads manages to pick luke up is probably the day she dies tbh. tho mads doesnt giggle. she yells. she fucking yells luke put her down pls she didnt asked to be picked up
Who compliments the other in front of everyone?luke. definitely luke. mads would yell and scream about his music stuff tbh, but luke does like. ALL THE COMPLIMENTS. just look at his cute gf he aint gonna hide the love yo
Who is more likely to tell the other a pun and what is the otherâs reaction to the pun?just straight up luke tbh. depending on the quality of the pun, mads either throws one back at him, or just deadpans him. most days its the second one tho
When one of them has a bad day, what does the other do to help cheer them up?its usually mads with the bad days tbh, and luke knows theres two ways to fix it - play her songs, and bring kitties
If they got to pick what one another wears for a day, what would one another wear?if mads gets to pick, luke is gonna wear his d&d gear (assuming she knows about it). luke is gonna make her dress as arielle the mermaid princess
Who introduces their partner to their family first? How does it go?luuuuuuuuke. like mentioned above, mads isnt. really comfortable with the idea tbh mmmmand yeah iâd say it goes pretty well in the end? like i have no doubt that lukes parents are nice people and luke holding mads close to a princess level in his eyes yyyeeeah thats gonna go through really well lol
In a coffee shop AU, who would be the coffee shop employee and who would be the customer?same as before, luke is the employee and mads is the customer ~
When they sit side by side, do they touch one another? For example, does one person has their arm around the other, do they sit holding hands, or linked arms, ECT.i really wanna say luke just. has restless hands lol. not in like a dirty manner, but he needs to be holding something at all times - and most of the time it happens to be mads, so his arms are constantly around her given the chance. and mads just takes it and leans into his shoulder cause hes soft and warm and yay
What is a small thing that one another does to make their partner happy?mads leaves luke little love notes wherever she can. luke sends her custom playlists and makes her mix tapes
What would they do to celebrate their one year anniversary?recreate their first date? also depending if mads knows about what lukes original plan was to woo her (with the stalker angle), hes gonna lay it all down on the table as a goof, cause hey, she kinda deserves to learn it after theyve been dating for a year, you know?
When did they know that loved each other, and when did they first tell each other that they loved one another?i feel like luke throws it out first tbh. he works out his feelings faster than mads (also cause mads is probably. more thinking it just as a stupid crush cause ugh hes a cute nice musician i love him so much on the aesthetic level, you know), and those feels make themselves very clear after he starts working on really wooing her after kit gives him an earful about his ways lol. mads comes afterwards, when luke starts building all this up to the love letter confession, and she realizes that damn i have real feels for this boio, lemme show it to him. and as the saying it. mmmm after she is officially initiated to hidden block? like âoh my god im so happy youre here now ilyâ âwait luke yOU WHATâ â..i love you?â cue internal screaming cause he means it
Who likes to give the other hugs from behind followed by a kiss?luke. shouldnt be too much of a surprise lol
Who would make a playlist for the other person? What would be featured on the playlist?this isnt really a surprise either, its definitely luke. he puts together madsâ favorite songs, some of his own songs, and combination of the two aka some covers hes been recording of her fave songs
Who would bring their partner on a romantic date under the stars?luke, once again. he knows romance is a weak point for mads, and he wants to deliver with that ~
#asagao!mads#asagao!kit#pixiefeathers#pixietown#yay for sweet beeeeans <3#i love both of these pair so much oh gosh oh gee#coughedfeathers#thank you for asking! <3
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relationship klance
we always talk about pre-relationship klance like what about the actual relationship ya feel
to start off they absolutely get together in the dorkiest way possible like its either 100% sappy or 100% embarrassing and by accident there is no in betweenÂ
they did that fanfic corny scene where lance was about to confess and keith realized before he even finished his sentence and just goes for the smooch
except its terrible theres too much teeth and their noses crash into each other its just a messÂ
its also both their first kissÂ
even after they both confess its takes them like a week to get up the courage to ask each other out bc theyre both nerds
lance plans on trying to keep it small bc he thinks keith doesnt really want anything big and cheesy
keith plans on absolutely making it as cheesy as possible bc he thinks lance would prefer big and cheesy to small and ordinary
they literally plan to ask each other out on the same damn day
keith asks hunk to make lances favorite food for lunch and asks pidge to hook up the projector so they can watch an altean romcom they wont understand anyway but catch keith trying to take notes during the fluffy scenesÂ
hunk and pidge tease them to hell and back but theyre really happy for them so they go through with his requests
lance and keith both keep looking at each other during the movie wondering if theyâll be like that at some point and blush throughout the whole damn thing
everyone else thinks its so so so fucking cheesy but oh my god hunk and shiro are so happy for them bc its been a long time coming
at dinner they sit extra close to each other and casually brush fingers. theyre obviously blushing throughout the whole thingÂ
its just a week of blushing okay
lance gets so happy and smiles so wide when he realizes its his favorite food that keith just stares with a soft expression and when lance meets his eye they both blush but keith doesnt look away as fast as he used to bc he can have thisÂ
after dinner they walk to the map room to look at the stars bc its become their thing and lance has had Enough with the brushing hands so he offers keith his palm and keith fucking swoons when they interlock fingers
they both planned to ask each other out at the star deck so obviously both of their plans crash bc after a weird silence where theyre BOTH thinking hard and turning into blushing, fidgeting, and sweating messes they turn to each other with the same glint in their eye
they say it at the same timeÂ
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and then they turn into giggling messes with fond looks bc if this isnt foreshadowing how amazing theyre relationship is gonna be than idk what isÂ
ROMANCE ENSUETH
in the beginning theyre just really really really nervous still bc theyve both been pining for a long time and dont wanna mess this up
when they start out, lance initiates most of the physical contact first like hand holding, putting his arm around keiths shoulders, that sorta thing bc keith is so fucking nervous and was never good at expressing himself but he eventually initiates it to he loves seeing how happy lance looks when he does
theyre both flustered messes but keith is really bad
they dont kiss yet bc theyre practically walking nervous systemsÂ
they hold hands a lot tho lance has soft hands bc of his skin care routines so a lot of times keith will just idly play with lances fingers because it calms himÂ
keith rubs his thumb on the back of lances hand and lance fucking dies every time
lance still makes fun of keiths hair but it dies down little by little bc hes always wanted to play in that dang mullet tbh
one day keith catches lance just intensely staring at his hair and before he can even ask whats up lance asks if he can do his hair
theyre both messes when lance gets behind and starts playing in keiths hair but eventually lance just gets distracted with it and keith finds it really soothing. moreso than he thought itâd be
it becomes a reoccurring thing. lance will run his hands through keiths hair and keith just loves it so much it feels so nice
it started on the couch in that lounge room they have but one time hunk walked in and keith was practically passed out with his head on lances lap and he felt so embarrassed bc it feels really intimate and they both would rather keep stuff like that in their rooms so they do
whenever they go to a planet keith tries to look for things he thinks lance would like. hes not good with words so he tries to express himself through other means
the first time keith gave lance a gift from a planet it was a cat plushie bc its pretty fucking obvious lance likes cats
its redÂ
when keith gives it to him he stares at the ground and just like thrusts it out to him bc hes so nervous and lance takes it slowly, cautiously, and when hes stopped astral projecting into another plane of existence he kisses keith on the cheek bc he love love loooovvveess it
he names it keef and cuddles it all the time. keith always just stares like >:0 bc its really cute and he loves his boyfriend so much but also bc oh my god are we gonna cuddle like that someday omg lance is my boyfriend ohmy go d holl y s hi
he falls down the rabbit hole often
lance on the other hand loves bears and loves anything that he thinks could represent them like heâll just point out two rocks side by side or some shit to hunk and be like âthats gonna be me and keith one day :) <3âł and hunk juts pats him on the back
DONT EVEN GET STARTED ON SEEING OTHER COUPLES IN PUBLICÂ
whenever theyre planet side and lance sees a romantic couple he squeezes keiths hand (bc theyre already holding hands they never stop) and gets this fond and hopeful look on his face
lance wants every planet they meet to know keith is his boyfriend (he never gets tired of saying it) so whenever theyre at diplomatic functions and they have to talk to the aliens, heâll always bring it up somehowÂ
it ranges from âso it must be difficult fighting this warâ âyeah but having keith by my side helpsâ to âour planet welcomes you young paladinâ âthanks and also heres my boyfriend keith the red paladin you know the right arm of voltron? that guy? yeah thats my boyfriend. my boyfriend is the red paladin his name is keith. weâre in a relationship. did you know that? its great im so happy omg this food is so good btw did i mention im dating keith and that keith is my boyfriend?â
lance still flirts sometimes but he never actually wants it to go anywhere. at first this makes keith a little disoriented and he mopes but then they talk and Communicate and lance says that he just likes to flatter people bc it makes them feel good and stuff and so they work it out. so lance still flirts but only a little and not as strongly as he used toÂ
speaking of communication, in the beginning theyre talking fucking s u ck ed theyâd misunderstand each other and it would result in sadness and venting to their respective besties but the third time they get shoved in a room and told to just âtalk it outâ they realized that they really need to be more open/clear about stuff
eventually they get really good at talking about things to each other. their problem wasnt that they wouldnt talk to each other it was that they just couldnt understand the other so they work on getting to know each other better and it really helps and works out so so great
they both have issues, lance with his self esteem and keith with his abandonment issues and they know that the other cant fix it bc thats not what its about but they definitely help.
unlike lance, keith knows who he is and is confident in his abilities so he tries to help him in that aspect
unlike keith lance has always been a people person and is family oriented so he tries to help keith slowly get overcome it
theyre both really good for each other. they cant âfixâ each other obviously but they help one another out so much and it means a lot
they have their first kiss like two months after they got togetherÂ
it was after a battle and no not a deadly one you heathens a really really awesome one the teams all smiles and lance pulled a cool move at the end when they formed voltron and they saved a planet and everyones soooo happy and when they get back to the castle lance bolts to keith and just spins him around in a hug smiling and laughing and they smooch
its the best thing theyve ever experienced
they dont stop kissing after that. catch them giving each other little pecks all the timeÂ
at this point they arent as nervous as when they first startedÂ
after long battles theyll just kinda fall into each other
they dont do it in public/in front of the team but they cuddle a l o t
keiths two favorite places are in the crooks of lances neck and on his chest to hear his heartbeatÂ
lance likes to kiss keiths forehead bangs in the way or not if he thinks his man needs some smooches heâll give him some fucking smooches
the first time they fall asleep together (i mean literally fall asleep not anything nasty pls dont sexualize these boys) locks in for both of them that This Is It ya know
theyre cuddling in lances room keith wearing his jacket and has his face smooshed against his chest lance is playing in keiths hair and his lips are lightly touching his forehead
its after a diplomatic meetingÂ
theyre both really tired and keith thinks he should probably go back to his room but they both feel too comfortable and everything feels so nice so he doesnt
lance likes listening to keiths voice and vice versa so theyre literally just saying nonsenseÂ
theyre voices drift off into a comfortable silence and eventually they both fall asleep
keith wakes up first and hes confused but then he looks up at lance and how peaceful he looks when hes sleeping and just stares
lance wakes up a little while later and meets eyes with keith but then he notices keiths unruly bed hair and the small spot of drool by keiths mouth and almost criesÂ
its the best sight either of them have ever seen and at the same time they both think to themselves that they wouldnt mind waking up like this for the rest of their livesÂ
#this is so fucking long god im so sorry but i have FEELINGS OKAY#voltron#vld klance#Voltron legendary defender#lance#keith#babbles
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can u hear me screaming about having to answer 90 questions at once from canada. can u cel. can u.
Sophia Cervantes
1. Does your character have siblings or family members in their age group? Which one are they closest with?
sophias got 2 siblings, an older sister named abigail and a younger brother named felix, but shes closer to felix than abigail bc 1) hes more fun and 2) hes in school to be a doctor and is willing to help her sometimes when superhero-ing goes less than well
2. What is/was your characterâs relationship with their mother like?
it was okay? like her mom was encouraging about anything she wanted to do and she was the one to actually try to help sophia whenever her daydreams started manifesting as illusions but she didnt do a lot to stop her dad whenever he got on the âyou need to do betterâ train.
3. What is/was your characterâs relationship with their father like?
her dad was always trying to push an intense sibling rivalry onto his kids and up until college he succeeded. but saying stuff like âyou got an A- on this test? [sibling] got an A+ on theirs, and you can do better than themâ just kinda fostered a lot of bitterness towards him for all of his kids so its not really the best relationship.
4. Has your character ever witnessed something that fundamentally changed them? If so, does anyone else know?
i dont know about fundamentally but she probably saw something happen on the news and thought â... i could do something about thatâ and then started superhero-ing. itd probably be when chime came into the picture that she started stepping up her game so that she could like. actually fight physically her powers arent exactly combat oriented.
5. On an average day, what can be found in your characterâs pockets?
pocket lint and her trusty kazoo and thats all thatll fit womens pockets are stupid
6. Does your character have recurring themes in their dreams?
not that i can think of?
7. Does your character have recurring themes in their nightmares?
nah dont think so
8. Has your character ever fired a gun? If so, what was their first target?
shes not a gun person she doesnt fight to kill she fights to arrest and bring to trial
9. Is your characterâs current socioeconomic status different than it was when they were growing up?
she grew up pretty well-off and thats why she and her siblings were pushed so hard to succeed and she and felix at least are probably still financially dependent on their dad so? probably not? she trying to break away from that but shes still in law school so its Tough to do that
10. Does your character feel more comfortable with more clothing, or with less clothing?
she goes for practicality and comfort so it really all depends on the weather. she doesnt like crop tops or anything like that tho so definitely not less clothing.
11. In what situation was your character the most afraid theyâve ever been?
either the first time she confronted chime and was woefully unprepared or the time that she and chime had to work together to fight somebody Worse and it all went to hell both were pretty frightening
12. In what situation was your character the most calm theyâve ever been?
probably when shes alone in her room and she can just let her daydreams go and take her wherever her imagination can create (guest starring daydream construct lenore sometimes but that just makes sophia embarrassed even though she knows nobody else is there to see any of it)
13. Is your character bothered by the sight of blood? If so, in what way?
shes not bothered if its like bloody nose blood but if its like someone is bleeding out on the sidewalk blood then shes bothered, she doesnt like seeing it in huge amounts, it makes her feel nauseous bc she cant do anything to help that she doesnt know how
14. Does your character remember names or faces easier?
names, she cant always recognize someone on their face alone, if she could shed probably be able to figure out who chime is more easily.
15. Is your character preoccupied with money or material possession? Why or why not?
shes probably never had to think about it tbh so not really
16. Which does your character idealize most: happiness or success?
its kinda ingrained in her since childhood to equate success with happiness so thanks dad
17. What was your characterâs favorite toy as a child?
she saw the spongebob episode with the imagination box and took it to heart
18. Is your character more likely to admire wisdom, or ambition in others?
i wanna say wisdom but given how hard shes been pushed since forever shes probably going to look down a little on people who dont have any ambition whatsoever
19. What is your characterâs biggest relationship flaw? Has this flaw destroyed relationships for them before?
shes not great at talking about important issues, whether its something she feels or something that she thinks the other person might feel. she just kinda tries to laugh it all off and hope it goes away eventually.
20. In what ways does your character compare themselves to others? Do they do this for the sake of self-validation, or self-criticism?
probably both. shes probably like âyeS i did better than abigail on this thing fuck yeahâ but then also like âi placed third in the class on this thing im clearly a failureâ everythings pass/fail and the only acceptable place is the Top
21. If something tragic or negative happens to your character, do they believe they may have caused or deserved it, or are they quick to blame others?
shes quick to blame others if it seems reasonable. like say there was some fire. shed probably think âi could have saved more people if i had gone a little fasterâ but shes not going to blame herself for the place burning down, thats the fault of the arsonist, u feel?
22. What does your character like in other people?
she likes when people can debate with her and not just agree. like dont get me wrong she loves being right but she likes being able to prove it even more and when someones debating with her it means theyre listening and not just tuning her out and nodding vacantly.
23. What does your character dislike in other people?
she doesnt like when people have 0 sense of humor like when she does something stupid for laughs (eg: the kazoo) if someones looking at her like shes the dumbest person alive for it then shes gonna get irritated and never want to be around them ever again.
24. How quick is your character to trust someone else?
with all her secrets? almost never youll have to kill her first or find out on your own. to be friends? talk to her for 10 minutes and youre friends
25. How quick is your character to suspect someone else? Does this change if they are close with that person?
if she sees someone acting shifty shes going to suspect them of something even if shes not sure what and keep a closer eye on them. if shes close with that person and is looking at them through the rose-colored lenses (lenore) she might not notice as quickly.
26. How does your character behave around children?
she acts pretty silly and will play games and stuff with them. one time she taught all the younger cousins on her dads side of the family to play the kazoo. she told felix she felt like the pied piper of kazoos as they all paraded around the family reunion annoying the shit out of e v e r y o n e
27. How does your character normally deal with confrontation?
sophias thought process: will words work? yes? use them. no? how about illusions? yes? use them. no? Fists
28. How quick or slow is your character to resort to physical violence in a confrontation?
as quick as necessary but its not usually her first choice
29. What did your character dream of being or doing as a child? Did that dream come true?
she decided pretty young that she wanted to help fix things in the world so law was the goal bc in her mind it combined justice and success
30. What does your character find repulsive or disgusting?
she hates having her hands & hair feel gross if one of them does then she needs to wash it immediately no questions. it doesnt matter if she just got licked by a puppy that hand needs to be washed now
31. Describe a scenario in which your character feels most comfortable.
shes in her room. the door is closed, the only light comes from two nightlights on opposite sides of the room. shes under all of her blankets in the comfy pjs and her pillow is delightfully cool. she lets her mind wander from all the tests papers and responsibilities she has and watches a movie of her minds creation play out not in her head but actually in front of her eyes. shes warm, happy, and calm.
32. Describe a scenario in which your character feels most uncomfortable.
shes out as phantasm, just finished a job, and now the press is there. theyre asking so many questions. shes tired and wants to leave but theyre a mob. shes gotta figure out a way to escape without leading someone back home.
ALTERNATIVELY
shes at a family reunion, just finished a semester, and now her aunts are there. theyre asking so many questions. shes tired and wants to leave but thats rude. then tia asks, âwhen are you going to get a boyfriend?â shes gotta figure out a way to escape without letting her whole extended family know shes Super Gay
33. In the face of criticism, is your character defensive, self-deprecating, or willing to improve?
defensive but willing to improve, shes had Experiences being criticized before but shes always willing to improve anyway
34. Is your character more likely to keep trying a solution/method that didnât work the first time, or immediately move on to a different solution/method?
probably try something different, even if its just slight differences like âthis part is what didnt work if i just change it a little then it should work this time.â
35. How does your character behave around people they like?
shes gonna try to make them laugh. people like to laugh so if she makes them laugh then she Wins bc that probably means they like her. then she can try to impress them in other ways and make them like her more
36. How does your character behave around people they dislike?
37. Is your character more concerned with defending their honor, or protecting their status?
im gonna say honor tho i dont really know how applicable it is? what status does she have
38. Is your character more likely to remove a problem/threat, or remove themselves from a problem/threat?
remove the problem/threat definitely if shes not the target then someone else might be and she Wont Have That
39. Has your character ever been bitten by an animal? How were they affected (or unaffected)?
she got bit by a dog once but it didnt really have much effect it happened when she was old enough to know that she probably did something it didnt like the owner of the dog apologized immediately so she doesnt have a lasting fear of dogs or anything
40. How does your character treat people in service jobs?
she treats them with respect shes not a barbarian
41. Does your character feel that they deserve to have what they want, whether it be material or abstract, or do they feel they must earn it first?
shes gotta earn it and shes gonna Fight for what she wants
42. Has your character ever had a parental figure who was not related to them?
nah
43. Has your character ever had a dependent figure who was not related to them?
nah
44. How easy or difficult is it for your character to say âI love you?â Can they say it without meaning it?
she doesnt usually say it cause she doesnt have anyone to say it to other than family but she sure does think it a lot when she does have someone to think it about. and shes def not gonna say it if she doesnt mean it
45. What does your character believe will happen to them after they die? Does this belief scare them?
she doesnt really know whats gonna happen and thats the scary part. the not knowing. also the fact that shes probably gonna leave some things unfinished and she doesnt want that. thats what scares her.
Peter Brennan
1. Does your character have siblings or family members in their age group? Which one are they closest with?
theyve got some cousins that are around their age but nobody particularly close.
2. What is/was your characterâs relationship with their mother like?
their mom is supportive of their endeavors in sports and in academics but hopes that their being nonbinary is just a phase and forgets a lot so thats. something
3. What is/was your characterâs relationship with their father like?
their dad loves going to peters track meets and cheers The Loudest no matter what happens peter could lose and hed be like âyoull get em next time sportâÂ
4. Has your character ever witnessed something that fundamentally changed them? If so, does anyone else know?
like before idk if this is âfundamentallyâ but when they were little they were reading some comic book about The Flash and it was storming outside and they saw a tree get struck by lightning and thought it was the coolest shit ever so they decided âi wanna be like the flashâ and thats how they got started with track and science together
5. On an average day, what can be found in your characterâs pockets?
their phone, a coin for decision making, and at least 1 pen
6. Does your character have recurring themes in their dreams?
they dream about flying a lot
7. Does your character have recurring themes in their nightmares?
nah
8. Has your character ever fired a gun? If so, what was their first target?
theyre a kid they have not fired a gun ever
9. Is your characterâs current socioeconomic status different than it was when they were growing up?
 theyre still growing up
10. Does your character feel more comfortable with more clothing, or with less clothing?
more usually, its basketball shorts and hoodies for this kid
11. In what situation was your character the most afraid theyâve ever been?
any time jessie drags them into a haunted house at 3am and makes spooky ghost sounds then claims âit wasnt me dudeâ
12. In what situation was your character the most calm theyâve ever been?
theyre in a car and its raining and the sound of it is just nice to hear
13. Is your character bothered by the sight of blood? If so, in what way?
only in the sense that it means somebody is hurt usually
14. Does your character remember names or faces easier?
it takes peter like at least 3Â interactions with somebody to remember them unless it was something crazy
15. Is your character preoccupied with money or material possession? Why or why not?
not really cause again they probably didnt have to think about it too much
16. Which does your character idealize most: happiness or success?
happiness definitely
17. What was your characterâs favorite toy as a child?
they were big into webkinz their fav was the mini golden retriever
18. Is your character more likely to admire wisdom, or ambition in others?
ambition bc that ambition can be like âim going to find bigfootâ and thats way more fun than wisdom
19. What is your characterâs biggest relationship flaw? Has this flaw destroyed relationships for them before?
theyre like 14 they havent had a relationship but probably just immaturity would be their biggest flaw at this point
20. In what ways does your character compare themselves to others? Do they do this for the sake of self-validation, or self-criticism?
validation i think
21. If something tragic or negative happens to your character, do they believe they may have caused or deserved it, or are they quick to blame others?
if its their fault/their idea theyll take responsibility and theyll only take the blame for someone else if theres some kinda Bigger Consequence if it was the other persons fault but otherwise? theyre gonna blame someone else
22. What does your character like in other people?
the ability to have a Good Time
23. What does your character dislike in other people?
when theyre unable to keep up with them in any sense of the word whether thats intellectually orÂ
24. How quick is your character to trust someone else?
pretty quick if they made a good impression
25. How quick is your character to suspect someone else? Does this change if they are close with that person?
theyre not too suspicious in general tbh so regardless of whether theyre close or not theyre not gonna suspect people too much
26. How does your character behave around children?
they dont
27. How does your character normally deal with confrontation?
âhey man can you maybe relax a littleâ
28. How quick or slow is your character to resort to physical violence in a confrontation?
theyre not violent theyre just speedy so theyd probably run away first
29. What did your character dream of being or doing as a child? Did that dream come true?
theyre still dreaming of going into science and theyre Making It Happen
30. What does your character find repulsive or disgusting?
thick layers of dust on things so like in a room that hasnt been used or touched in a year and theres like an inch of dust on every flat surface and theres cobwebs everywhere theyre just Disgusted
31. Describe a scenario in which your character feels most comfortable.
theyre in front of a camera with their best friend talking about science and whats happening in whatever it is theyre doing and then seeing what happens
32. Describe a scenario in which your character feels most uncomfortable.
someones flirting with them. thats it. they dont know how to react so they just kinda laugh uncomfortably and try to bail
33. In the face of criticism, is your character defensive, self-deprecating, or willing to improve?
always willing to improve
34. Is your character more likely to keep trying a solution/method that didnât work the first time, or immediately move on to a different solution/method?
depends if its an actual problem that needs solving or if its just an experiment theyll try something else if its an actual problem but if its an experiment theyll keep trying the original method so that they can gather data
35. How does your character behave around people they like?
extremely clingy and boisterous needing a break after interacting with them is probable
36. How does your character behave around people they dislike?
peters gonna act like normal but kinda pointedly exclude the people they dislike and hope they Get The Hint
37. Is your character more concerned with defending their honor, or protecting their status?
uh the school has an honor code for a reason? its gonna be respected no cheating in this house
38. Is your character more likely to remove a problem/threat, or remove themselves from a problem/threat?
remove themselves but the threat is usually a chance for ghosts and like fuck peters gonna try to move a ghost
39. Has your character ever been bitten by an animal? How were they affected (or unaffected)?
not bitten but they got scratched by a cat when they were little and now they dont like them very much and then their dog also got scratched by a dog once so when theyre out running and they see a cat theyll make a pretty wide berth to Stay Away
40. How does your character treat people in service jobs?
with pleases and thank yous their lives are hard enough dammit
41. Does your character feel that they deserve to have what they want, whether it be material or abstract, or do they feel they must earn it first?
earn they train and study hard all the time they deserve to treat themself for that
42. Has your character ever had a parental figure who was not related to them?
nah
43. Has your character ever had a dependent figure who was not related to them?
nah
44. How easy or difficult is it for your character to say âI love you?â Can they say it without meaning it?
they tell their dog that they love him every day and they mean every word of it
45. What does your character believe will happen to them after they die? Does this belief scare them?
if they die theyre coming back as a ghost and haunting the shit out of jessie bc they probably got killed by another ghost in some haunted house that he dragged them to
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6 Gradations Every Person Must Take To Successfully Move On From A Breakup
We is in conformity with our freshman dormitory and hit it off almost immediately.
She was so goddamn beautiful.
She had long blonde hair that collapsed off her shoulders in waves, large-scale, beautiful eyes that accommodated a soft and caring expres and this smile that lit up whichever area we happened to be in together.
As striking as her physical grace was, that wasnt what constructed her special to me.
I was addicted to her personality.
She has this acces with the world.
I cant truly explain it, but shes improbably magnetic.
People like being around her, and I required( involved) her to be mine.
Ill hop-skip the gory items, but we started dating mid-freshman year.
It was fireworks from the start.
Those fireworks popped and sparkled in my president every day for the next two years while I was around her.
She was magical.
Slowly, though, I think we both began to realize the fireworks had been blinding us from the underlying problems of our personalities.
We didnt communicate well, and we brushed bigger editions under the table.
Those big concerns evidenced themselves into insecurities within the relationship, and they turned into inessential contentions âthats beenâ easily avoidable.
I abruptly realized it had reached the point of no return.
Neither of us was happy.
There was a different gleam in her eyes.
The once soft and relentlessly caring seeings appeared more guarded and cold.
Im sure she saw the same event when she seemed back at me.
I cant speak for her, but I stopped cherishing her.
Long story short, we intent things.
In the months that followed, I fell down to incredibly dark places.
The world seemed a little less beautiful.
I was going through the healing process, and I ended I needed to take the time to look inward and start moving concepts happen for myself.
Here are five theatres of keep moving and making become that I went through.
I hope they can help someone else fight with sorrow TAGEND
1. Mourn.
The firstly nave notion I had after the breakup was I wasnt is expected to be upset.
Some machismo propaganda that had been tossed my road seemed to spread the relevant recommendations through my conscious that I was okay.
I didnt need her, and there was nothing to be sad about.
The world moves on.
Boy, was I wrong.
The more I stifled the fact that I missed her and that I was pathetic about the end of things, the worse it got.
It would come out when I booze and when I was alone, even if I was consciously trying to stop it.
Heartbreak is like ending a drug addiction, and youâre in the retirement stage.
My advice is to let yourself mourn the loss.
Be sad.
Dont let the passions build up to a hazardous point.
Think of curbing spirits like including air to a balloon thats already been inflated.
Eventually, its bound to pop.
Listen to some psychological music and be overdramatic about it.
The more you let your ardours come to the forefront, the more you will learn about yourself.
Oh, and cut off all contact with her.
You may think you can be friends, but you cant.
There is too much emotional baggage.
2. Recline on your support system.
Im going to be blunt here: No one actually demonstrates a f* ck about your heartbreak.
Really, its not a malicious thing.
People will be empathetic and empathize with you, but they dont truly care since they are dont genuinely understand.
They may understand the sorenes from a previous anguish of their own, but every tie-in is so unique in and of itself that the healing battle should be self-directed.
However , now is the time to truly figure out the people you can trust to lean on for this sort of stuff.
First, lean on your family.
They have been there for you as long as youve been alive, and they have a lot of knowledge with passion that they are willing to talk about.
I grew so much closer to my family in my mourning process because I was truly dedicated to fostering such relationships in my life that werent with her.
I found out a lot about my family and a lot about who my true-life acquaintances are.
They are all damn good people, and they had my back each step of the way.
Exercise with your best friend and family.
Go out to eat, get drunk with them and talk to them when you feel like you need to.
They may not truly understand, but theyll listen.
That makes all the difference.
3. Identify problem areas and focus inward.
Were you a greedy motherfucker during your relationship?
Were you insecure and jealous? Did you put yourself before her?
Whatever it is, illustration it out and work on improving it.
This is your time to fix the things about yourself that you arent proud of.
Start improving them.
Before you work on giving your nerve to someone else, focus inward.
The first step to solving a problem is identifying and admitting the fact you have one.
4. Take care of yourself.
Exercise, and sweat the negative sentiments out.
Set a fitness objective( a exalted one) and affected the gym, champ.
The iron and asphalt will be your brand-new lover for the time being.
Bedetermined to not f* ck this relationship up.
It is not simply will help you feel better( trust me ), but youll also have tangible results to depict for the progress of your recovery.
Youll take a look back at your initial exalted point and be appalled at how close you are to achieving it( if you havenât already ).
5. Have fun.
Just because youre sad, that doesnt aim the whole world has disappeared( although it may seem like it has ).
One of the most important lessons Iâve learned throughout my process is while youre in your chamber love bad for yourself, âthe worldsâ remains on passing out there.
So mourn, but dont mope.
Explore. Eat good meat. Drink good beer.
Listen to good music. Get to concerts. Take a cook class.
Be a productive and contributing member in the world.
This is the time to reinvent yourself into whoever you want to be.
Make that reinvention awesome.
6. Make go.
Anger seems to be an automatic reaction to a breakup.
I think its natural to be angry at your ex in one way or another, but dont stay angry.
One of the most difficult steps of moving on is looking back at such relationships through a positive lens.
Dont regarded the breakup against her.
Remember the good times, and take the bad times as lessons.
You two undoubtedly had great times together.
They are eternally embedded in your identity, so remember how she taught you to love.
Its going to be tough to see her in the world without you by her side.
Youll certainly see it when she picks herself up and gets back out into the dating world.
Embrace it.
She deserves to be happy as much as you do, and facing her brand-new affair with acrimony will exclusively make it harder for you.
Let someone else love her the mode you couldnt.
Let her run. Give her live her brand-new life without you.
If âyouve beenâ desired her at all, you owe her this. Maybe your courses will span again one day, but dont count on that thought.
For now, she is out of your life.
Dont make it harder on her or yourself by chaining yourself to the believed to be get her back.
Sheâll respect you for that, and sheâll income the kindnes when you lastly stop listening to Death Cab For Cutie and start dating again.
There is no reason to flush with hatred when you think of her.
She accompanied some amazing ages into your life, so appreciate them and respect that you two âil be goingâ your separate ways.
One somewhat cloudy sphere of this process is reading how to not cover her in a perfect light.
Remember the relationship ended for a rationale, and both parties are to blame.
Well, there you have it. These are not all-encompassing.
Butlike I said, every situation is different.
Hopefully, these terms can help person out there.
It will injure, but its a part of life.
You eventually turn into a better being after you expend some time understanding of yourself.
You become more empathetic to peoples inner combats because you know how hard you are fighting your own.
( Oh, and try not to have sex with her. That certainly screws everything up .)
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Super5 headcanons part 3
Part 1 Part 2
{{Yeah im posting it again because very few people have seen the original post and Im a simple human that craves validation, so please if you like it reblog it. I doubt ill do it again but just in case i put a nifty tag so you can block it}}
Thank you everybody for saying such nice things of part 2 (as i said i wasnt that confident so it made me really happy to know you liked it) and sorry for taking so long but school is a bitch and almost killed my inspiration. Anyway here comes part 3
Minegishi: i just got out work. Can someone care to tell me what happened?
Hatori: uhh, yeah . sorry
Hatori: i got out of work like an hour ago and came home to find Shimazaki sleeping on MY bed
Hatori: Shibata was already at the gym and shimazaki hasnt waken up so i dont know much more??
Hatori: i dont know either what to do...
Shibata: is he still there? I told him to take my bed!
Hatori: well he clearly didnt...
Minegishi: ok but HOW did you find him exactly?
Shibata: ill tell you later guys. My next class is about to start
Shibata: And dont worry Hatori! i dont think hell wake up anytime soon.
Shibata: You should have seen him carrying the dog! It was cute <3
Shibata: in a strange way
Minegishi: dog?? WHAT DOG?
Hatori: did you just say "carrying"?
Shibata: sorry guys gtg
Hatori: shit WAIT
Hatori: where am i supposed to sleep now? I cant sleep on the couch!
Shibata: you can sleep with me
Hatori: WHAT? NO
Shibata: Do you prefer to wake him up?
Hatori: I pick the right side
Minegishi: No homo
Hatori: fUCk U
Shimazaki wakes the next morning to the sound of someone gagging to his right
"THE HELL IS THAT SMELL? WHY DO YOU STINK SO MUCH?" yells Hatori before letting out a muffled yelp when the pillow Shimazaki threw hits him square on the face
Shibata, probably alerted by Hatoris screams, comes running and asks from the doorframe "Whats going here?"
"THAT BASTARD SMELLS LIKE POOP AND NOW MY BED WILL SMELL TOO" says Hatori while pointing at the man on his bed who is just groaning clearly annoyed at being awaken
"Hmm it was probably the dog" says Shibata pensive and then looks carefully at shimazaki "You dont have more clothes dont you?"
"Holy shit! Thats true. Youve been using the same clothes since then..."
Shimazaki cant understand why it suddenly matters so much to them "No i dont. Now that that has been cleared up can i go back to sleep?"
"You have to change first. Hatoris clothes wont fit you. so take a shower while i search for something to lend you" says shibata and then turns to Hatori "you gotta go now or you are gonna be late. Dont worry todays my day off, Ill wash your bed"
"Thanks man" says Hatori and then quickly discusses something abouy dinner with shibata before leaving the apartment. Shimazaki can only stare. He just wants to sleep.
But before he can turn his back and return to sleep Shibata is already on him hurrying him to the shower.
Shimazaki doesnt like the idea of giving up his clothes to Shibata (he doesnt like letting go of his possesions because Mental eye cant find inanimate objects and he learned early on life how easy it was to lose things) but even he is starting to get nauseous at the smell of trash and he isnt in the mood to deal with it himself
Shibatas clothes fit loosely but they are comfy, besides once he gets out the shower the man has breakfast ready for him (theres still a box of his favourite cereal) and leaves him to his own devices while he does laundry.
By the end of the day Shimazaki has his own clothes back and they are softer than he remembers ("its the softener" says Shibata, "the what?" responds shimazaki)
Minegishi and Hatori arrive later with boxes of take out and they eat together in awkward silence until Minegishi casually asks with a smirk if Hatori and Shibata slept well at which shibata laughs and tells them Hatori is a blanket hogger which in turn makes Hatori complain about shibatas snores.
The childish fight continues and even though Shimazaki doesnt take part in it he listens atently
At the end he returns to minegishis apartment that night and sleeps on the couch. Neither of them uttering a word of what happened.
The next time Minegishi asks him to go grocery shopping he accepts.
This is stupid. This was a waste of his time.
Shimazaki couldnt read price tags or labels and he didnt know what he was doing here or why Minegishi had brought him
At most he could tell apart boxes from cans and the weight of things but he couldnt differentiate whether he was holding a can of tuna from a can of yakitori sauce or 1k of salt from 1k of sugar without having to ask somebody else.
It was even worse when it came to liquids if the milk/juice failure was anything to go by
After the first few failures of trying to pick stuff Minegishi had tried to teach him about couponing and discounts but then again he had to ask him the price everytime and they both soon got tired of it
All he could do was to touch and feel the fruit and vegetables trying to tell apart the riped from the rotten/damaged
Looking for any bump, hole, softness...things Minegishi taught him
It was stupid.
Minegishi could ripen/fix any plant with his powers and they both knew it
This was a waste of time.
He hated every second of this and wanted to go already but Minegishi had been hellbent on him learning at least this and left him in the fruits section to pick whatever he deemed best while he finished the shopping.
And that was what he was TRYING to do when a store clerk had the brilliant idea of addressing him
In his defense they had been almost 3 hours here and he had been done since the first. The fact he didnt even know what the hell he was holding anymore except that it was round and ripe not helping his annoyance.
He turned to tell her to fuck off. He just wanted to intimadate her. Force her to leave him alone.
He may have gone a little bit overboard.
He opened his eyes.
"Excuse me sir. Customers arent supposed to grab the tomatoes with their bare hands. The bags are-AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH"
Her scream could be heard all around the store
Before he could teletransport away the tomato he was holding twisted and tangled its newly grown vines around his hand in a tight grip. (The sight of it clearly didnt help the girl's panic)
"Dont even think about it" hissed a pissed Minegishi when he passed by his side on his way towards the screaming girl.
Minegishi couldnt feel more stupid than he was feeling a the moment.
In his haste to initiate Shimazaki on the path of becoming a civil person he had somehow forgotten the man was actually blind (not his fault it was so easy to forget when you have seen him destroying entire buildings).
He had tried. He had really tried to come up with any way to fix this mess of a trip but it was getting late and they hadnt even started their actual shopping.
So at the end he gave up and left Shimazaki to the only task he thought could keep him busy and at the same time allowed minegishi to keep track of the mans position anytime while he hurriedly finished the shopping. It was a good plan. What could go wrong?
The moment he heard the scream he knew everything could and will go wrong where it concerned Shimazaki.
Thankfully he could feel he was still holding something vegetal (a tomato?) so Minegishi quickly dashed (shopping cart forgotten) to the mans position and the screaming girl.
His first instict had been to go and calm the girl even though he didnt know what had happened but when he realized people were starting to stare he quickly grabbed Shimazakis arm and dragged him the way he came.
"The fuck did you do?" Minegishi asked once they were in another aisle safe from curious stares
"I did nothing!" responded Shimazaki somewhat offended
" As if! What did you do to her? "
"I didnt do shit to her! I was just doing the fruit thing you asked me!" he raised his hand to show the tomato still holding onto it
"And? Why was she even near you?" mineshiki asked while his powers disentagled the vines and took the tomato
"ITS YOUR FAULT APPARENTLY WE ARENT SUPPOSED TO PICK THE FRUIT"
"Huh? What? I always do-THATS NOT IMPORTANT! Why was she screaming?!"
"I told her off"
"What? People dont scream like that when someone tells them off, even when you..." Shimazaki was clearly hiding something "How did you do it exactly?" minigishi asks with narrowed eyes
"....i may have opened my eyes"
"Your eyes?" minegishi stares increduously "whats that- oh" hes about to ask what was that supposed to mean when he remembers Shimazakis bottomless eyes caused by his physic powers. He may have gotten used to his hollow stare but he still remembers what he felt the first time he saw it. The girls scream finally making sense "You never open your eyes unless you want to threaten someome...did you want to threaten a simple clerk?? "
"No"
"Then?
"i just forgot!" shimazaki huffed
"You...forgot?"
"YES CAN WE GO NOW?" irritation lacing the mans tone
It was that moment that Minegishi realized this trip was taking a bigger toll on shimazaki than he (and probably even the man himself) anticipated and sighed.
"Yeah, i was almost finished anyway lets find the cart"
Shimazaki silently followed.
They finished the shopping without any further accident and while they waited in line to pay something caught minegishis eyes. It was just what he needed.
There was a row of cheap aviator glasses hanging in display.
After some considerantion he grabbed one of the pair with the mirror lens kind and handed them to a now calmer Shimazaki "Here, put this"
Shimazaki who had been following Minegishis movements asked curiously "whats this?"
"Glasses. In case you forget to keep your eyes closed again people wont be able to see your eyes. Put them on and open your eyes. i need to see if they fit and if they'll work"
He miraculously did.
The frame was thicker than it was supposed to be for these kind of glasses (a crude imitation of the stylish kind people wear in magazines) but they fitted and the mirror lens hid perfectly shimazakis glowing irises(?) (Hell never know)
"How do they feel?"
"Strange"
"You could wear them only when you are out in public. They are cheap. Ill buy them and you can do whatever you want with them"
Shimazaki took them off and when it was time to pay he handed them to minegishi
Once outside shimazaki at first refused to teletransport the bags back to the apartment but complied once Minegishi told him he would force him to help carry the bags all the way if he didnt do it AND promised to buy take out to eat.
Minegishi thought the glasses had been left forgotten in the bags but the next morning while he was getting ready to work he noticed they were laying folded on top of a sleeping shimazaki
When Hatori and Shibata inevitably asked about Shimazakis new glasses(that he now used all the time) minegishi told them about what was now deemed as the "supermarket incident"
The next times they went shopping Minegishi stayed all the time with Shimazaki and kept teaching him about vegetables and any thing that came to his mind.
Once they finished (everytime quicker than the previos) it became Shimazakis job to drop the goods at the apartment in exchange of picking what they were going to eat that day
It wasnt exactly what Minegishi had planned but it was a progress (or that was what he thought until Hatori complained about tripping on shopping bags that suddenly appeared in the middle of the hall whenever Shimazaki dropped something there)
Shibata was annoyed because even though they all agreed Shimazaki was behaving nicer the others didnt still believe him about the whole puppy ordeal
so that, coupled with the nagging feeling he had left after washing shimazakis clothes and after hearing about the market incident made him come up with a plan
"A mall trip?? What for?" hatori asked perplexed
"He has just one shirt"
"So?"
"He has been wearing it since we were together, actually i dont remember him wearing anything else ever"
"Thats his problem!"
"HIS JACKET HAS BULLET HOLES " replied shibata getting impatient with how much it was taking Hatori to understand
"He probably likes it that way??" said Hatori still not getting it
"Actually ive been thinking the same. I noticed the bullet holes too" finally came Minegishis voice from the receiver. He was was working at the moment because if they wanted to do this he had to work a double shift to free one day. "I dont think he has anything else"
"See? Minegishis with me!" exclaimed thriumohantly Shibata which only made Hatori roll his eyes
"Fine! i get it! Ive seen the bullet holes too...but i dont get why does it have to be us?"
"Because we are his friends" easily replied Shibata causing Hatori to frown at this
"Are we really? When has he done something for us?" hatoris tone suddenly turning serious "You are literally asking me to spend one of my few days off shopping clothes with MY MONEY for a guy who wanted to kill me mere months ago?"
"We dont know that" said shibata
Hatori trew him a glance that clearly was supposed to mean 'you gotta be kidding' "Look, do we even know if he likes us back?"
At this both men kept silence until shibata dared to speak "he is wearing the glasses"
"God forbid me for forgetting those damn glasses! Guys, im just saying we are already doing so much for him for nothing! why do we need to do more?"
"Because thats what good people do" came Minegishis response and shibata nodded firmly making hatori huff. He was gonna regret this.
" fine! But do we even know if hes gonna like what we buy? If hes gonna even wear it? As you said we had never seen with other clothes"
"Thats why we are gonna take him with us!" said Shibata, glad that this was finnally getting somewhere
Hatori turned to look at the phone "didnt you said you believed shopping stressed him?"
"Mmm these last times had been better" said minegishi
"What if he actually doesnt care about the clothes or-"
"He does" replied Shibata and Minegishi in unison making Hatori stare confusedly
"How do you know?"
Shibata thought back to the hesitance he noticed on shimazaki when he handed him his clothes but didnt think the man in question would like it if he went and tell this to the others and was debating this when minegishi spoke again "Ive noticed someone has been using my softener and i doubt its the plants"
Hatori frowned and then sighed
"You both have settled your minds dont you?" hatori asked and then grumbled when an unison "yes" was heard
"Do you realize we are working with a lot of 'maybes' and 'probably'?"
"Maybe" said the voice from the receiver and Hatori could swear he could hear minegishis smirk
"C'mon man! We have done worse than this" said Shibata happily clapping Hatoris back
"Ugh FINE That bastard better be grateful" grumbled Hatori
This part forced me to think of shimazakis past and now i made myself sad (this isnt the first time he wears glasses)
So the market incident and the glasses scene was stuff i thought about since i started these and was really excited to write it. I hope i did them justice .
I didnt realize how much longer part II was compared to part I so i think part III ended in a nice middle ground.
Haha i again didnt reach the scene i planned to reach(the prank) and at this pace this thing will have 6 parts. Someone save me
Anyway hope you like it and for those of you who dont know I am writing a Teru-centric fanfic about his decision to visit his parents and the aftermath and ill appreciate it if you could check it out (link here) and tell me what you think or at least share it so more people can see it because tumblr sucks and wont let me do it.
See you next time
#mob psycho 100#mp100#shimazaki ryou#minegishi toshiki#shibata hiroshi#hatori nazomu#super5 headcanons#nies spam
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6 Gradations Every Person Must Take To Successfully Move On From A Breakup
We is in conformity with our freshman dormitory and hit it off almost immediately.
She was so goddamn beautiful.
She had long blonde hair that collapsed off her shoulders in waves, large-scale, beautiful eyes that accommodated a soft and caring expres and this smile that lit up whichever area we happened to be in together.
As striking as her physical grace was, that wasnt what constructed her special to me.
I was addicted to her personality.
She has this acces with the world.
I cant truly explain it, but shes improbably magnetic.
People like being around her, and I required( involved) her to be mine.
Ill hop-skip the gory items, but we started dating mid-freshman year.
It was fireworks from the start.
Those fireworks popped and sparkled in my president every day for the next two years while I was around her.
She was magical.
Slowly, though, I think we both began to realize the fireworks had been blinding us from the underlying problems of our personalities.
We didnt communicate well, and we brushed bigger editions under the table.
Those big concerns evidenced themselves into insecurities within the relationship, and they turned into inessential contentions âthats beenâ easily avoidable.
I abruptly realized it had reached the point of no return.
Neither of us was happy.
There was a different gleam in her eyes.
The once soft and relentlessly caring seeings appeared more guarded and cold.
Im sure she saw the same event when she seemed back at me.
I cant speak for her, but I stopped cherishing her.
Long story short, we intent things.
In the months that followed, I fell down to incredibly dark places.
The world seemed a little less beautiful.
I was going through the healing process, and I ended I needed to take the time to look inward and start moving concepts happen for myself.
Here are five theatres of keep moving and making become that I went through.
I hope they can help someone else fight with sorrow TAGEND
1. Mourn.
The firstly nave notion I had after the breakup was I wasnt is expected to be upset.
Some machismo propaganda that had been tossed my road seemed to spread the relevant recommendations through my conscious that I was okay.
I didnt need her, and there was nothing to be sad about.
The world moves on.
Boy, was I wrong.
The more I stifled the fact that I missed her and that I was pathetic about the end of things, the worse it got.
It would come out when I booze and when I was alone, even if I was consciously trying to stop it.
Heartbreak is like ending a drug addiction, and youâre in the retirement stage.
My advice is to let yourself mourn the loss.
Be sad.
Dont let the passions build up to a hazardous point.
Think of curbing spirits like including air to a balloon thats already been inflated.
Eventually, its bound to pop.
Listen to some psychological music and be overdramatic about it.
The more you let your ardours come to the forefront, the more you will learn about yourself.
Oh, and cut off all contact with her.
You may think you can be friends, but you cant.
There is too much emotional baggage.
2. Recline on your support system.
Im going to be blunt here: No one actually demonstrates a f* ck about your heartbreak.
Really, its not a malicious thing.
People will be empathetic and empathize with you, but they dont truly care since they are dont genuinely understand.
They may understand the sorenes from a previous anguish of their own, but every tie-in is so unique in and of itself that the healing battle should be self-directed.
However , now is the time to truly figure out the people you can trust to lean on for this sort of stuff.
First, lean on your family.
They have been there for you as long as youve been alive, and they have a lot of knowledge with passion that they are willing to talk about.
I grew so much closer to my family in my mourning process because I was truly dedicated to fostering such relationships in my life that werent with her.
I found out a lot about my family and a lot about who my true-life acquaintances are.
They are all damn good people, and they had my back each step of the way.
Exercise with your best friend and family.
Go out to eat, get drunk with them and talk to them when you feel like you need to.
They may not truly understand, but theyll listen.
That makes all the difference.
3. Identify problem areas and focus inward.
Were you a greedy motherfucker during your relationship?
Were you insecure and jealous? Did you put yourself before her?
Whatever it is, illustration it out and work on improving it.
This is your time to fix the things about yourself that you arent proud of.
Start improving them.
Before you work on giving your nerve to someone else, focus inward.
The first step to solving a problem is identifying and admitting the fact you have one.
4. Take care of yourself.
Exercise, and sweat the negative sentiments out.
Set a fitness objective( a exalted one) and affected the gym, champ.
The iron and asphalt will be your brand-new lover for the time being.
Bedetermined to not f* ck this relationship up.
It is not simply will help you feel better( trust me ), but youll also have tangible results to depict for the progress of your recovery.
Youll take a look back at your initial exalted point and be appalled at how close you are to achieving it( if you havenât already ).
5. Have fun.
Just because youre sad, that doesnt aim the whole world has disappeared( although it may seem like it has ).
One of the most important lessons Iâve learned throughout my process is while youre in your chamber love bad for yourself, âthe worldsâ remains on passing out there.
So mourn, but dont mope.
Explore. Eat good meat. Drink good beer.
Listen to good music. Get to concerts. Take a cook class.
Be a productive and contributing member in the world.
This is the time to reinvent yourself into whoever you want to be.
Make that reinvention awesome.
6. Make go.
Anger seems to be an automatic reaction to a breakup.
I think its natural to be angry at your ex in one way or another, but dont stay angry.
One of the most difficult steps of moving on is looking back at such relationships through a positive lens.
Dont regarded the breakup against her.
Remember the good times, and take the bad times as lessons.
You two undoubtedly had great times together.
They are eternally embedded in your identity, so remember how she taught you to love.
Its going to be tough to see her in the world without you by her side.
Youll certainly see it when she picks herself up and gets back out into the dating world.
Embrace it.
She deserves to be happy as much as you do, and facing her brand-new affair with acrimony will exclusively make it harder for you.
Let someone else love her the mode you couldnt.
Let her run. Give her live her brand-new life without you.
If âyouve beenâ desired her at all, you owe her this. Maybe your courses will span again one day, but dont count on that thought.
For now, she is out of your life.
Dont make it harder on her or yourself by chaining yourself to the believed to be get her back.
Sheâll respect you for that, and sheâll income the kindnes when you lastly stop listening to Death Cab For Cutie and start dating again.
There is no reason to flush with hatred when you think of her.
She accompanied some amazing ages into your life, so appreciate them and respect that you two âil be goingâ your separate ways.
One somewhat cloudy sphere of this process is reading how to not cover her in a perfect light.
Remember the relationship ended for a rationale, and both parties are to blame.
Well, there you have it. These are not all-encompassing.
Butlike I said, every situation is different.
Hopefully, these terms can help person out there.
It will injure, but its a part of life.
You eventually turn into a better being after you expend some time understanding of yourself.
You become more empathetic to peoples inner combats because you know how hard you are fighting your own.
( Oh, and try not to have sex with her. That certainly screws everything up .)
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6 Gradations Every Person Must Take To Successfully Move On From A Breakup
We is in conformity with our freshman dormitory and hit it off almost immediately.
She was so goddamn beautiful.
She had long blonde hair that collapsed off her shoulders in waves, large-scale, beautiful eyes that accommodated a soft and caring expres and this smile that lit up whichever area we happened to be in together.
As striking as her physical grace was, that wasnt what constructed her special to me.
I was addicted to her personality.
She has this acces with the world.
I cant truly explain it, but shes improbably magnetic.
People like being around her, and I required( involved) her to be mine.
Ill hop-skip the gory items, but we started dating mid-freshman year.
It was fireworks from the start.
Those fireworks popped and sparkled in my president every day for the next two years while I was around her.
She was magical.
Slowly, though, I think we both began to realize the fireworks had been blinding us from the underlying problems of our personalities.
We didnt communicate well, and we brushed bigger editions under the table.
Those big concerns evidenced themselves into insecurities within the relationship, and they turned into inessential contentions âthats beenâ easily avoidable.
I abruptly realized it had reached the point of no return.
Neither of us was happy.
There was a different gleam in her eyes.
The once soft and relentlessly caring seeings appeared more guarded and cold.
Im sure she saw the same event when she seemed back at me.
I cant speak for her, but I stopped cherishing her.
Long story short, we intent things.
In the months that followed, I fell down to incredibly dark places.
The world seemed a little less beautiful.
I was going through the healing process, and I ended I needed to take the time to look inward and start moving concepts happen for myself.
Here are five theatres of keep moving and making become that I went through.
I hope they can help someone else fight with sorrow TAGEND
1. Mourn.
The firstly nave notion I had after the breakup was I wasnt is expected to be upset.
Some machismo propaganda that had been tossed my road seemed to spread the relevant recommendations through my conscious that I was okay.
I didnt need her, and there was nothing to be sad about.
The world moves on.
Boy, was I wrong.
The more I stifled the fact that I missed her and that I was pathetic about the end of things, the worse it got.
It would come out when I booze and when I was alone, even if I was consciously trying to stop it.
Heartbreak is like ending a drug addiction, and youâre in the retirement stage.
My advice is to let yourself mourn the loss.
Be sad.
Dont let the passions build up to a hazardous point.
Think of curbing spirits like including air to a balloon thats already been inflated.
Eventually, its bound to pop.
Listen to some psychological music and be overdramatic about it.
The more you let your ardours come to the forefront, the more you will learn about yourself.
Oh, and cut off all contact with her.
You may think you can be friends, but you cant.
There is too much emotional baggage.
2. Recline on your support system.
Im going to be blunt here: No one actually demonstrates a f* ck about your heartbreak.
Really, its not a malicious thing.
People will be empathetic and empathize with you, but they dont truly care since they are dont genuinely understand.
They may understand the sorenes from a previous anguish of their own, but every tie-in is so unique in and of itself that the healing battle should be self-directed.
However , now is the time to truly figure out the people you can trust to lean on for this sort of stuff.
First, lean on your family.
They have been there for you as long as youve been alive, and they have a lot of knowledge with passion that they are willing to talk about.
I grew so much closer to my family in my mourning process because I was truly dedicated to fostering such relationships in my life that werent with her.
I found out a lot about my family and a lot about who my true-life acquaintances are.
They are all damn good people, and they had my back each step of the way.
Exercise with your best friend and family.
Go out to eat, get drunk with them and talk to them when you feel like you need to.
They may not truly understand, but theyll listen.
That makes all the difference.
3. Identify problem areas and focus inward.
Were you a greedy motherfucker during your relationship?
Were you insecure and jealous? Did you put yourself before her?
Whatever it is, illustration it out and work on improving it.
This is your time to fix the things about yourself that you arent proud of.
Start improving them.
Before you work on giving your nerve to someone else, focus inward.
The first step to solving a problem is identifying and admitting the fact you have one.
4. Take care of yourself.
Exercise, and sweat the negative sentiments out.
Set a fitness objective( a exalted one) and affected the gym, champ.
The iron and asphalt will be your brand-new lover for the time being.
Bedetermined to not f* ck this relationship up.
It is not simply will help you feel better( trust me ), but youll also have tangible results to depict for the progress of your recovery.
Youll take a look back at your initial exalted point and be appalled at how close you are to achieving it( if you havenât already ).
5. Have fun.
Just because youre sad, that doesnt aim the whole world has disappeared( although it may seem like it has ).
One of the most important lessons Iâve learned throughout my process is while youre in your chamber love bad for yourself, âthe worldsâ remains on passing out there.
So mourn, but dont mope.
Explore. Eat good meat. Drink good beer.
Listen to good music. Get to concerts. Take a cook class.
Be a productive and contributing member in the world.
This is the time to reinvent yourself into whoever you want to be.
Make that reinvention awesome.
6. Make go.
Anger seems to be an automatic reaction to a breakup.
I think its natural to be angry at your ex in one way or another, but dont stay angry.
One of the most difficult steps of moving on is looking back at such relationships through a positive lens.
Dont regarded the breakup against her.
Remember the good times, and take the bad times as lessons.
You two undoubtedly had great times together.
They are eternally embedded in your identity, so remember how she taught you to love.
Its going to be tough to see her in the world without you by her side.
Youll certainly see it when she picks herself up and gets back out into the dating world.
Embrace it.
She deserves to be happy as much as you do, and facing her brand-new affair with acrimony will exclusively make it harder for you.
Let someone else love her the mode you couldnt.
Let her run. Give her live her brand-new life without you.
If âyouve beenâ desired her at all, you owe her this. Maybe your courses will span again one day, but dont count on that thought.
For now, she is out of your life.
Dont make it harder on her or yourself by chaining yourself to the believed to be get her back.
Sheâll respect you for that, and sheâll income the kindnes when you lastly stop listening to Death Cab For Cutie and start dating again.
There is no reason to flush with hatred when you think of her.
She accompanied some amazing ages into your life, so appreciate them and respect that you two âil be goingâ your separate ways.
One somewhat cloudy sphere of this process is reading how to not cover her in a perfect light.
Remember the relationship ended for a rationale, and both parties are to blame.
Well, there you have it. These are not all-encompassing.
Butlike I said, every situation is different.
Hopefully, these terms can help person out there.
It will injure, but its a part of life.
You eventually turn into a better being after you expend some time understanding of yourself.
You become more empathetic to peoples inner combats because you know how hard you are fighting your own.
( Oh, and try not to have sex with her. That certainly screws everything up .)
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