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tbh-entp · 6 months ago

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My ENTP dad's employees told him the reason why I'm single and not birthing grandkids is that he raised me to be too independent and not take shit from men because he treats my INTJ mom so well.

and i know they didn't quite mean it as a positive because this came up in comparing photos of the grandkids and them tell him why he's got none... but it's a little twisted because what they're saying is that their daughters aren't being treated well...?

#also dad doesn't know i'm currently dating a man just over 20 years older #(I'm almost 30 #fully formed frontal cortex #very stable job and multiple degrees thank you)#but dude treats me so well as do i him #also it's not going to last so much longer as he's moving away #but still like #imma meet a forever person #i want kids #i'm not suffering for being independent #also i get pursued #not necessarily by who i want #but i'll be able to pick #the one who i fit with best and treats me well #this isn't about me actually #these employees of my dad... their daughters? I hope they're ok uhhh #and that they're not like totally dependant #and that they're happy #because whats being described here is seems like a negative trade off #grandkids early in life for subjugation of daughter vs daughter who takes less shit and has the kiddos later #them menz better be treating them well #mine #entp #personal

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