#theres this bizarre black and white logic in this movement

[captainimprobable]

might as well put this here as well as insta: if you support hamas, and see them as a resistance group, block me immediately. If you read this post and instantly get offended and assume this means I don't support palestinians, feel free to block me as well. Hamas is a terrorist group who have SAID MANY MANY TIMES that they exist to murder jews. Palestinians are an innocent group of people who deserve good lives. Hope this helps <3

[shoujoboy-restart]

I'm mostly speaking of a multitude of communities that get together in a attempt to block change for men I view as positive, that believe society is feminizing men and making them weak and having bizarre reinterpretations of "traditional values, when I say "men made these beliefs" I'm talking mostly about the revival of these beliefs within a conspiracy that claims society doesn't hold these beliefs anymore(which it does, we just have more legal freedoms so is not like the president can tell women to the kitchen and men to not suck dick).

my attempt here is to tell men "just because that dude doesn't call you a toxic male like the a-hole feminist, doesn't mean he doest want you to be one" because toxic men are successfully turning these destructive beliefs into a false counter movement to a society that doesn't exist.

The same thing is done by conservative women(trying to bait women but entertaining men and being tokens porpusefully or not) where they claim society is something it's not while thinking pop culture is a legal precident.

i get from where you are coming from so I think should have worded myself better or give more from were my perspective comes from, while i think society is responsible for giving men and women(in general, not every individual) many toxic and destructive behavior and beliefs, like a virus, theres this a bizarre strain of it, that claims it doesn't exist anymore but it should come back, so individuals not even in actual politics uses this to convince the next generation into pushing for reverting to something that's never really gone way but just lost influence.

does that make sense? I don't think individuals are responsible for these beliefs society has, but I also see how it's being personified by individuals for a false sense of a grass roots movement.

I have a similar logic when it comes to colorism, society as a whole has it, in the case of the USA it was perpetuated by white racists, but now these years the most agregious cases of it are done by the black community itself, so for me, we now need to first address how it's happening on the inside to them go outside. you can't scapegoat to society when your are allowing society to influence you and then create a new generation that will perpetuate the problem in a cycle of just complaining about a issue in big scale but causing in a small-scale that keeps growing into big scale

which in a example is how alpha males claim to hate gold diggers, while claiming women as a whole are naturally materialistic and only stay with a guy because of his riches and when she finds someone richer they are gonna go for that dude so they need to become extra workaholic, have less friendships with men and inherently have even more resentment towards women out of thinking they are never truly in love with you as a person but as a resource.

they create a problem, make a false solution that only perpetuates the issue and then cause a even worse problem.

hope that made sense lol.

It's weird how I see the word "insecure" generally used as an insult when referring to men but a neutral term when referring to women.