#theres fucking people online who accuse me of shit i didnt do or dont believe in all the time on here now and i dont think they

[terraliensvent]

multiple ppl close to kinah were able to verify that they were in the hospital recovering when the attempt happened. all of those ppl could not collab and lie so one person could get “extra attention” in ur words. Im frustrated with terra staff aswell but that doesn’t mean its ok now to call someones suicide attempt fake so ur feelings seem more valid. I find that extremely sickening. U have zero evidence or good reason for doubt or else u would have vented about it already. all u have is ur feefees. u do need therapy. And mod pls stop validating baseless speculation on smth so serious. what happened 2 people needing proof for claims like this

alright yeah im deleting kinah asks now

first off i dont think that people should just believe whatever they read on the internet, because you dont know who these people are irl. again, thats not to say that you shouldnt give support where you can or that you should make public callouts saying that it was all fake when you dont know for sure, BUT at the same time theres a level of speculation regardless because its the fucking internet. people are wild, people are strangers, and there is a non zero chance that people could have lied. just because people have a level of speculation on something they read online, that doesnt mean they need therapy and it doesnt mean theyre a bad person, it means they have a brain. if YOU want to believe it without a shadow of a doubt then thats fine, and if other people have some doubt thats also fine, just dont go out of your way to fucking bother people because thats just unnecessary.

second off, i need proof for accusations like “so and so is posting feral” or “so and so is an abuser,” saying things like “the way that kinah bounced back into cs makes me speculate” isnt an accusation.

the views of the anons i post here arent reflective of my own views, and if something is a problem i give my own input on it in my response. when i created this blog i didnt want to delete asks because i feel like that controls a narrative and makes me an unreliable narrator when it comes to these discussions. if people want to talk about things like this, i didnt want to force silence because thats not how you hold a discussion.

as an additional note: anons have been becoming increasingly aggressive in my inbox, whether its towards one another or towards myself. i implore all of you to stop being so aggressive, stop making assumptions, and stop playing this holier than thou card. so much of the art and cs community is made up of people who will virtue signal and place themselves on a moral pedestal and my inbox is the last place for that. if you want to rant and complain, go ahead, but stop acting like youre better than each other because you have the Correct Opinion on everything and believe everything you read on the internet.

my final thoughts on this are as follows: there is a non zero chance that everyone is lying. is it a small chance? sure. does this mean we should spread the narrative that it was all fake? no. are you a horrible person who should die in a fire because you dont 100 percent believe that the attempts were real? no, but also dont go out of your way to be an asshole because of that belief. i think we should all publicly operate under the assumption that the attempts were real. if you want to privately speculate, go fucking wild. could kinah going back into cs and making stuff for terras possibly be bad for their mental health? maybe. but also, its none of our business. and thats what im ending this topic with, a lot of this shit really is just none of our business and i think you all give way too much of a fuck about someone who you will never know irl.

i dont dislike kinah, in fact i actually really liked them when they were on staff for terras. but at some point we all gotta throw our arms up and say why is this taking up so much of my brain power when this person is just someone i follow on fucking toyhouse.

we are done with asks about kinahs attempt now, unless anyone has important info or something new to say im deleting them.

[radkindoffeminist]

i sometimes make the mistake of wasting my time and energy trying to reason with ignorant males™ in dumb comment sections because eventually they might open their eyes, right? No. All i get is those men telling me misogyny barely exists anymore and that the world is in favor of women. That misandry is a bigger problem. Im as respectful as possible but all i get back is this deafening ignorance. "Cat calling is just words" "Nothing is stopping women from doing what they want" "women are loved unconditionally and men arent" theres no helping those people.

previous anon about ignorant men online here i just wanted to share one occasion that deeply scared me. Someone had written a comment about their brother who found an unconscious girl in the bathroom at a party. He left and didnt even tell anyone about her because he was "worried he might be accused" of doing something to her if he even tried to help. The hundreds of men agreeing with his actions sickened me. Replies varied from "im not responsible for some drunk chick" to "they want equality, they get it" as if women also leave potentially hurt men to rot all the time. The hatred those men must have for women they dont even know was overwhelming. They said not trying to help would be "safer" for them as men, they wouldnt risk ruining their life just because some chick got too high or drunk. Treating women like some kind of other species, as if it isnt your duty as a civilian to provide first aid to someone who potentially needs it. It scares me to think some of those men have women in their lives who trust them. Sometimes i dont know how to deal with these things anymore, but i know im not alone. Sorry for ranting, ignore this if you want and be safe <3

Yeah, just don’t bother with men. Best you’ll get is men admitting that maybe misogyny is a problem but not recognising how deeply it affects women or how systematic it is or say that everyone struggled with gender-based bullshit.

The ‘men aren’t love unconditionally’ bullshit always fucking gets me. Men are loved unconditionally! Women stay with men despite them not helping them and instead dragging them down. Women stay with men through ill-health. Women love men basically unconditionally. But men don’t love women. Men love that women labour for them and that’s why they stay. It’s also why they’re much more likely to leave when women get sick -they’ve lost the person who’s laboured for them and so why would they stay married? If anything, it’s men who are loved and empathised with unconditionally while women are loved so long as they can provide the things men want (ie: sex and household labour). But they act like it’s the men who aren’t loved unconditionally because they ‘have’ to financially provide for the family and that’s the condition on their love.

It’s just a misrepresentation much like every issue which MRAs bring up is: argue something with just enough truth behind it that people believe it, while then completely ignoring the shit that women are going through to make it seem like a ‘men’s issue’ rather than either a societal issue or a complete non-issue because they’ve actually twisted the truth. Other good examples are men’s mental health which ignores that male suicide is higher due to the methods used, that women are more likely to have mental health problems, and that mental health is ignored society wide so it’s not just a men’s problem and men getting child custody which is lower because most couples agree to women getting the children out of court because, you know, women spend more time looking after children and men are actually more likely to win a child custody case if they fought for their kids but they don’t.

Men are disgusting when they do shit like this. And also, they’ll do this saying that they’re trying to get out of the possibility of being falsely accused and hence they’re protecting themselves, but then mock the shit out of women who do things to prevent them from getting raped! They’ve convinced themselves that false accusations are everywhere and made by everyone when they’re literally fucking not. No one is going to accuse you of anything because you found a girl passed out and it’s disgusting that he put the possibility that he’ll get falsely accused for trying to help the girl who passed out/telling someone else that he found her over the possibility that someone takes advantage of her state and rapes her. And you’re right: if the roles were reversed, women would go and get help because we actually care about people’s welfare! So it’s not a case of ‘equality’ but rather men justifying why they do shitty-ass things.

Men are awful people with zero empathy for others. They only care about themselves and the issues that they personally face. Don’t even try explaining how shitty the world is for women to them because they’re write it off as individual bullshit and never systematic oppression.