#there is no inbwtween

[pr-fae]

Anyways here are my OCs, Linus and Ed (Edna), Pirate Kings and Captains of The Dreadnought. They are 40, flirty, and thriving with their ship full of other idiots. Ed enjoys telling people she was kidnapped 22 years ago just because and Linus has to clarify she infact was the one who broke onto the ship and then refused to leave ❤️🫰

[fred-the-dinosaur]

i absolutely should not do nanowrimo

i have no working laptop i have writers block on my many wips i have LESS THAN NO TIME and if i commit to a long term consistent thing i will probably end up in hospital again

AND i keep starting new things i cannot finish.

AND my aforementioned laptop is DEAD so i am going to have to do it on one of the typewriters

im going to bollocking do nanowrimo i can fucking feel it

[pup-pee]

DONT B SO JUDGEMENTALLLLLL

theyre going through smth

he gets it

JLA ((1997)) #63

[britts-galaxy-brain]

Seeing that post on Lily yelling to get her way and how that clearly doesn't work for many others reminded me of my family. My spoiled ass cousins growing into maladaptive adults and getting arrested at young ages and how my brother got into a HUGE fucking fight with my dad and broke a shit ton of things in the house because he yelled back at my dad. The fight only broke up because my mother and I forced our way inbetween them. Imagine if I were to start yelling in that situation, I would have possibly been killed by my dad- even if unintentional. My brother wasn't swinging at me and pulling him away from my dad still gave me a nasty bruise for a week.

Yes, yelling and fighting can work in some situations but those are so few and far inbwtween it's far more dangerous to use that advice everywhere and clearly it can be taken to such an extreme where YOU become the abuser and Lily doesn't see it that way because she refuses to. Anyone who wrongs her are abusers so she justifies it ... it's haunting.

^^^^^

I've genuinely wondered if any young person has ever followed her advice and gotten expelled from school or hurt somehow.

Her "advice" is extremely dangerous and painfully, ignorantly simplistic.

[chenyuvale]

Look at me in the eyes you do not like akio from revolutionary girl utena. Holding your head inbwtween my hands yes he is cunty but dont !! Dont fall for the trap!!

(Referring to ur tags)

but the edit tho,,what did he do what crimes did he commit,,,

[bigman5318008]

building is HAAAARRRRDDDDD wellnot really it's just Annoying tubbo and I made a little cobblestone platform so we don't set anything on fire. we took a break for lunch inbwtween which was nice. tubbo brought sandwitches. I got TURKEY AND CHEESE!!!!!

[magnoliamyrrh]

oh also i didnt know this but apparently. jewish and southeast euro (balkan) in particular along w some irish children and eastern euro children in america were also. systematically taken away from their parents and families to be "turned white" "civilized" "assimilated" and to be "saved" by white american women who thought their parents were backwords and couldn't raise their own damn children. and they wanted to "civilize" these kids too to later send them back to their communities and through them, civilize the community. and i dont know how it was at those schools but i presume not much better; and balkan and jewish children also at times shared schools w native american children. but. reading and hearing, god, hearing the stories of the amount of physical and psychological torture, actual torture, these kids were put through is so fucking vile; and at most native american "schools" at least rates of sexual abuse of children were inbwtween 97%-100%. this country is built on such fucking evil after evil after evil

[child-of-the-amis]

“Hi Nooooooodles.” She said inbwtween fits of giggles. “Love.” She squealed and they continued to play together.

“I think it’s safe to say we’ve lost them.” He whispered.

“Sir. My. Daughter. She sick. Please help.”

Ferre walked in smiling at the man and his daughter, “Hi, I’m Dr. Combeferre,” he introduced himself, “What are her symptoms?” He asked the man. He took out his stethoscope, “Hi sweetie, I’m going to use this to listen to your heartbeat and then you can listen to it too, ok?”

[oopsallsad]

so fucking dissociated right now.. at least my parents have gine to bed so i dont have to deal with those fuckers

[dianaburnwood]

your askbox either has the most profound hitman related questions or just dicks no inbwtween

It’s either 

or

[chibi-chibi-moon]

I know sleeping too much is bad but god do i actually feel rested for once

[clockwise-works]

Ok so like heres my thoughts. Unless I'm mistaken, and please correct me if I am, it isn't really said whether or not Link recovers his memories inbwtween games, right? So if we go with the mindset that Link only had 1 memory for each Champion, and Like 12 for Zelda, and THATS IT... well, isn't that kinda fucked in a way? Isn't that kinda messed up?

Like he's an amnesiac, he's got only a handful of memories, and the MAJORITY revolve around Zelda. And not even in "this is someone who was SO important to him he was able to recover them easier" NO, ITS THE OPPOSITE. He can recall the Champions scenes with just vague things that relate to them, whereas for Zelda he NEEDS the Slate's pictures.

Tangent aside, with Link ONLY having memories of Zelda, isn't it fucked up to insinuate that the rest of Link's life is meant to be in service of Zelda? That he loses his agency and just becomes Zelda's bodyguard simply because that's all he remembers? That he's not allowed to remember anything else BUT Zelda, he HAS to be with her, he HAS to fix any messes she may be involved in. He's EXPECTED to finish the job Zelda and Rauru failed to do, expected to live the rest of his life doing what his monarchy tells him to do cause he simply doesn't or can't remember anything else. For as "nice" as Zelda seems to be towards him, it unfortunately jut comes off as a power imbalance.

And unfortunately this fucks up Zelda's character. I don't want to think the team behind the game meant for this, but by leaving Link's memories vague, it can only naturally lead to this thought process. Zelda is now unfortunately written as someone who's willing to use an amnesiac, and with his lack of dialogue and in general loss of individuality, Link just can't be his own person. Zelda just... expects him to finish the job, and its supposed to show just how cool Link is, just how badass this man is for losing his arm and still fighting.

But it doesn't. Instead, to I and maybe others, it reads as Zelda, a monarch who has an entire landmass devoted to her WITHOUT QUESTION, just expecting him to do it because he has to. That's all he knows. Protect Zelda. That's his life. That's the majority of his memories. It's... well fuck it feels like conditioning in a way, Link being conditioned to do this. The other races, their Sages, TWO OF WHICH ARE CHILDREN, expected to mindlessly follow Zelda because "its for the greater good."

Like what!? In like BotW wasn't the tragedy of Zelda, Link, Mipha, and Revali THAT they were so young??? Urbosa and Daruk DIRECTLY comment on that! Wouldn't you think Zelda and Link of all people, people who know what it's like to be expected to be children soldiers to not want that for this new generation? To ACTUALLY improve how things run and not make the same mistakes as before?

Because now they're basically just repeating the Champions but slightly different words. Divine Beasts are now Secret Stones. But the overall message is the same. Following in the pasts footsteps and assembling a team to fight "evil", just as their ancestors did...

ISNT THAT WHAT GOT THE CHAMPIONS KILLED?!?! By following their ancestors actions to A TEE, by underestimating their opponent they fuck up and Hyrule suffers for 100 years. And then with all her Wisdom, with his big brain iq, Zelda and Rauru FUCKUNG DO THIS AGAIN. THEY UNDERESTIMATE THEIR ENEMY AND PEOPLE DIE. That is, shit that just straight up feels like character assassination, not a "tee hee here's a lil flaw this character will overcome."

I was a little all over the place, so forgive my insane ramblings, but all my thoughts I've been letting stew kinda all just came out at once.

I feel like Zelda does not recognize that her actions have consequences, which is. A very bad attitude for a leader to have, and seems to extend VERY far back in the Hyrulian royal family. You're also very right about them seeming to think that Ganondorf was too far beneath them to do any real harm. They thought they were being clever, but they failed to recognize that he can be very dangerous if he wants to be. This is entirely in a "good for her" way towards Ganondorf btw. So basically I am shaking Zelda by the shoulders and screaming "WHEN WILL YOU LEARN!!! WHEN WILL YOU LEARN THAT YOUR ACTIONS HAVE CONSEQUENCES!!!!"

Oh my god, right??? I mean, I'm not surprised, that kind of shit is just par for the course with royalty. They're literally born into a position of absolute power and authority, and told that they deserve it because they are fundamentally better people than literally everyone else, and all these lesser people exist only to serve them. That is the philosophical bedrock that a monarchy is built on. And in the LoZ universe it's a thousand times worse, because now we're also talking the divine right of kings (divine right of princesses in this case i guess), except it is canonically true. The literal canon says that the Hylian royal family has actually descended from a goddess, and that means they get to rule the world forever, and anyone who disagrees with them is pure evil to be crushed.

I mean, don't get me wrong aesthetically I love a good fantasy monarchy, that's just an inherent guilty pleasure of the genre. But I like them being done well. I don't want my fantasy royalty to just be the beautiful well mannered people that wear fancy clothes and sit on thrones. I like them being written as a person in a mandatory lifelong political position, and taking their duty as head of state really fucking seriously. Yeah, they're rich and powerful and live in a cool castle, but the trade off is that literally their entire life is dedicated to the betterment of the kingdom, regardless of what they actually want to do. That's the deal. You get anything you want, but you don't get to be your own person. If you don't want to do the job, then you don't get to have the privilege that comes with it. Honestly, one of the best examples I can think of off the top of my head is Riju; she's the unelected leader of the Gerudo and took the throne as a child... and took her responsibility really fucking seriously. She's been an exemplary leader in all her apperances, and she's clearly dedicated to the idea that being the head of state means serving your people above all else. She's dedicated her life to the wellbeing of the Gerudo, and that makes her an incredibly good person; she's more than earned her position and the benefits that come with it.

...And then we have Zelda, who isn't so good at this. Honestly, I'd say her main problem is just straight up entitlement; not really surprising given her environment. I mean for fucks sake, just look at how the civillians in TOTK treat her; I'm still absolutely horrified by that one sidequest where a research team misheard her instructions, thought she told them to go exploring in their underpants, and instead of refusing or even questioning the situation, they actually fucking did it. Every single one of them stripped naked, and set off to do their job in the manner the Princess had asked them to. A job that included going into monster dens. Now of course this is all silly, because naked people are funny, but if you actually think about it for five seconds, it's actually not funny at all. A group of civilians believed that their ruler ordered them to throw away their weapons, remove all their armour, strip naked, and walk into a monster den. This is outright said to be suicide. And they were actually going to fucking do it, without a single complaint or word of question. And the game's actual response to this is just "wow, it's so great to see how everyone's so devoted to our princess! this is a really heartwarming story". No game, I do not consider it heartwarming that a group of civillians were immediately willing to throw themselves to a pointless, agonizing death for no benefit other than Zelda's amusement. Not that she actually told them to do it, but the misunderstanding spiralling that far says so much about the state of Hyrule, and how much accountability Zelda is being held to. Which is to say, literally none whatsoever. Even when the fake Zelda is raising hell across the country and actively ruining lives, the only response from her apparent victims is to get worried that they haven't been showing Zelda enough devotion which is why they must have deserved this torment, so the only response is to dedicate even more of their lives to her service! Nobody questions her, nobody even gets angry or scared that she's seemingly hurt them. They just grovel at her feet.

The point I'm making here is that Zelda has spent years in an environment where literally everyone tells her that she is the most important person in the world, she deserves all the power, respect and riches, and she could never do anything wrong. That would go to anyone's head, and let's be real here... the game never even suggests that Zelda's tried to get people to take it down a few notches. She isn't worried about the mindless worship, she's perfectly okay with her country being a goddamn suicide cult. And you can see the entitlement coming across in her actions during the game - she has the four sages swear that their entire races will dedicate themselves to serving the Hylian royal family, and specifically their still-unborn descendants will take up the role to do her dirty work. She thinks it's perfectly reasonable to ask people to sell their unborn children into her service, and there's nothing ethically dubious about making demands of people who haven't been born yet, with two of them still being children when they're ordered to take up arms. And I realize it's a serious situation, but the game doesn't acknowledge this as being a morally grey action; the new sages are swearing to dedicate their lives to the glory of their god-ruler, how could anyone find that alarming?

And her treatment of LInk is particularly infuriating, because let's remember her, the last time she sees Link is immediately after he's been gloom-fucked by Ganon. His entire left arm is dead, and his beloved weapon is destroyed. She saw it happen. He absolutely could have just died right after she was yeeted back in time, because again, he was mortally wounded and in an extreme amount of danger. And even if he did live, he's just had his entire arm ripped off; after everything he's gone through, it would make perfect sense for him to finally hit a breaking point and decide he can't stand to fight anymore. My man's literally died before, and now he's lost his dominant limb, how could anyone be expected to keep going after that? But Zelda never even considers that Link might not be able or willing to fight for her. She treats it as a given that he's perfectly fine, and will do exactly what she wants even if she isn't there to order him around. It's not like he can think for himself, that would be ridiculous. Link is denied any and all agency; he can't even form his own opinions about the main plot or influence it in any way; everything was decided several thousand years ago. He's just here to do as he's told.

It just... all makes me think of that one memory in BOTW where Zelda runs away from Link, and when he catches up to do his fucking job, she greets him by angrily declaring that obviously she's the only one with a mind of her own. That was supposed to be her being way the fuck out of line, and abusing Link to deal with her own frustrations. But apparently TOTK... decided that she was right. Zelda is the only one with a mind of her own. Link's just here to follow her around and swing the sword when she tells him to.

It's just so fucking bleak, I hate this story so much. I love the gameplay, but I'm having a miserable time with the plot, every new development just makes me more frustrated and upset. I'm working on the fifth sage thing right now, and gotta say, absolutely fucking hate how Mineru refers to Link as just Zelda's Human Weapon. Like thank you furry goat lady, I realize that Zelda chose me to be her personal bootlicker, but I sure as hell didn't consent to any of this, and nobody has asked me if I'm actually willing to put my life on the line for this woman yet again.

At least BOTW fucking asked me if I was willing to risk my life to stop the Calamity.

[allyreactions]

jaemin and taeyong :D

I’ve already done Taeyong, so here’s his link

Jaemin -

(Again, another son of mine. Although I am hella whipped for him) Jaemin is pretty playful, so that will translate into the bedroom as well (I literally say this about everyone). I think he’s a dom, but not a hard dom or a soft dom, maybe an inbwtween dom. So like he’s pretty passionate and loving, cause he’s just a very loving person overall, but he’s also pretty ruthless with his teasing. I think his go-to pet names in bed are “baby girl” / “baby boy” for his partner. I also think he’s into light spanking and lots of foreplay.

~ Admin Ally

Send me an idol and I’ll tell you what kinks I think they have

[vonschweetz]

I just had to stand and listen inbwtween a very awkwrd conversation between two of my coworkers right now. They are two very old white ladies. Very southern. Both from like the south. And the two got like HELLA MAD because one of them brought up the Aunt Jemima mascot was gonna change and one no joke said the words “THEY ARE ERASING OUR HISTORY!” Which like... I dont even want to think about the implications about that. THEN they were in agreemant that “all lives mattered” and then for ZERO REASON they brought up ME and MY race! Like WHAT?! They were like “it doesn’t matter if you’re blue or purple. She’s (they actually named me out loud) Asian!” And I was like ?!?!??! I WASNT EVEN THE CONVO! I WAS IN A DIFFERENT AISLE STOCKING AND THEY BROUGHT UP ME AND MY RACE?! WHAT?! I WAS HELLA UNCOMFORTABLE. Now im just like needing a moment to not feel awkward again and just like hiding in the break room because that was hella uncomfortable.

[myyrepsneverbeenworse]

Taylor, thank you for letting me get to know so many people through you. GUYS I MISS AVERY SO MUCH @taylorswift please do a show right inbwtween our houses so we can hug again🥰

[symmrtry]

he feels like u inbwtween