#the vibe changed yk and to be Fair I get that esp when you’re dating someone and it’s fresh
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fellas is there a social script for approaching a friend who basically disappeared into the aether after getting into a relationship & if so is there a time limit on when to actually use it send tweet
#half joking but also not really.#idk I still think abt this sometimes on account of ‘I miss my friend’ lmao#but part of me thinks that the ship has sailed/the friendship ran its course#and I don’t want to like. insert myself in a way that feels forced.#the vibe changed yk and to be Fair I get that esp when you’re dating someone and it’s fresh#but after a few months it’s like okay y’all are settled now correct?#I don’t know maybe my perspective is just from someone who never had enough friends that balancing my relationships was a problem after#I started dating. so maybe im not being fair#I thought about being direct but idk how to do that without sounding like a baby about it lmfao#or coming off weird or whiny or clingy#and it’s been like a year now. idk that feels like it’s been too long.#like bringing it up now would be me weirdly trying to revive smth dead#so I just try to let it go I guess whenever I think ‘oh I should text them/send them that’#not out of some weird ‘if they wanted to they would’ think I know there’s a lot wrapped up in being the one who texts first etc#but the vibe of the last few hangouts. idk maybe I was reading too much into it or maybe I was the one acting off#but the interest seemed waning#makes me sad.#I don’t even know if there would have ever been a good way to approach ‘hey im glad you like your partner but it feels like there’s no room#for this friendship anymore’ yk? I don’t know how to express that without feeling or coming across manipulative#it’s 3am lmao I’ve had a hard time falling asleep this week and yeah.#just thinking about things I guess. wondering how much of this was out of my hands#and how much is me continually being a social failure.
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