#the silence in black and white

[fruitbatfanclub]

happiness is seeing hawthorn heights at p&h’s with lots of eyeliner on.🖤

[poprocklyrics]

Hey rise and shine And open up your eyes To give this world some color Shine on diamond eyes Separate the space Between love and lies

The Transition, Hawthorne Heights

[observernumber5]

I can survive.

[sansashton]

you’ll never guess what my favorite band is right now

[cogbreath]

i think a major thing in regards to kink and racial aspects and dynamics is the fact that white people particularly are used to their every desire and comfort and pleasure being prioritised whether they are consciously aware of it or not.... like unfortunately the situation is that most of them believe that kink exists in some sort of bubble.

for example many would not think twice about the implications of wanting to have "taking bbc" be a necessary part of their personal humiliation or transformation or degradation kink. they already live under conditions where they have to put in active effort to be anti-racist. so ofc it never occurs to them that perhaps maybe we are asking them to think critically about the origins of their kinks and why the dynamic might be dubious if not outright racist.

to them its a matter of kink shaming because white pleasure and white comfort comes before respecting black people as humans. this is the way society has functioned for centuries. so of course why would they ever think that there might be more behind the fact that they enjoy raceplay fantasies? because to them its just that, a fantasy. they have never had to question why or how that came be.

Seriously, i implore you to all really really think critically about the way you think about black people sexually, how you want to treat your black partners, and if that may have implications or backgrounds to it that you don't recognize. you need to understand that there are very real reasons behind the fact that we want you to question why it sexually pleasures you to have racial power over us. its not at all the same as for example someone thinking its immoral or repulsive to enjoy kinky sex. we are literally just wanting you to recognise that our people have a history of sexual abuse tied with our history of racial abuse.

like if you have a kinky dynamic with a black partner, are you taking care to consider the implications of why they might not be okay *at all* with being referred to as your slave sexually regardless of the way you intend it? or being whipped? For reasons outside of the fact it doesn't turn us on, but rather that its something that for us, for our people, are things that were used to abuse us?

are you taking care to educate yourself about the history of sexual abuse in racism and slavery? do you actually know that cuckolding has racist roots? have you researched that? do you know how our people were and have been exploited and abused sexually throughout history not just with slavery but minstrely and so on? Did you ever take pause to think about the history that may lie behind raceplay and how maybe, just maybe; that us finding an issue with that kink is not us shaming anyone or trying to suppress anyone's sexuality?

learn to understand *why* we have every right to not feel okay with the fact people get off to the racial abuse and exploitation and dehumanizing of us, regardless of if its just "fantasy" or "roleplay". think about why your first reaction is to claim that your sexual freedom is being stifled, why you think your right to pleasure comes before our right to NOT be treated like this and to NOT view you as a safe person to be around for openly and proudly getting off to it.

[maxidentt]

͏ ͏͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏𝗐𝗁𝖾𝗇 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗍𝗁𝖾 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗋𝖺𝗂𝗇 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝖼𝗈𝗆𝖾𝗌 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗉𝗈𝗎𝗋𝗂𝗇𝗀 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝖽𝗈𝗐𝗇

͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗍𝗈 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗐𝖺𝗌𝗁 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝖺𝗐𝖺𝗒 ͏ ͏ ͏𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝖼𝗋𝗈𝗐𝗇 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗒𝗈𝗎 ͏ ͏ ͏'𝗋𝖾 ͏ ͏ ͏𝗍𝗁𝖾 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗄𝗂𝗇𝗀 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗈𝖿 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗇𝗈𝗍𝗁𝗂𝗇𝗀 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗇𝗈𝗐

͏ ͏͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏𝗄𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗈𝖿 𝖾𝗏𝖾𝗋𝗒𝗍𝗁𝗂𝗇𝗀

[specific-dreamer]

dally: let’s grease [ponyboy] up!

darry: i guess that’s your decision to make huh dal

dally: it’s a greaser decision darrel, ponyboy just notched his first knock out

darry: he’s 14 years old

dally: wtf does age have to do with it? only god and the devil knows what i was doing at 14

darry: his heads always in the clouds and he still got that childhood innocence about him, i’m tryna keep it that way; hell, his dumbass is still naive to fucking racism

dally, flabbergasted: what? how the hell? i got arrested for-

darry: hold on watch this. ponyboy!

ponyboy, who was very much not listening to them: yeah?

darry: how come dally never pays to get in at the drive in

pony, shrugging: he don’t like doing things the legal way

darry: yeah but why? what’s the real reason

pony: there’s another reason?

darry: yes babe. okay how about this, what’s that pin on steve’s jacket? who’s it for?

pony, excited he knows something darry doesn’t (false): the black panthers

darry: uh huh, what do they do?

pony: feed poor kids before and after school

darry: kids that look like us or them? *gestures to the rest of the gang, who are all noticeably not lacking melanin.*

pony, blue screening: what ?

darry: told you dal

dally: oh my god, wtf

darry: you still wanna grease him up

dally: hell no!

*insert brie’s skit outro: this is tulsa 1967!*

[phoenix----rising]

The one who loves the moon,

still loves it,

when it isn't there in the sky.

- The Unsaid Story

[skadario]

a r c h e s

[allthedesiredusernamesaretaken]

" Don’t look for the meaning in the words. Listen to the silences. "

― Samuel Beckett

📷Petr Sojka

[kariiimm]

You took the best of my heart and left the rest in pieces

[ghost-sound]

In my Morticia era. 🥀

[gothicbutcher666]

Cabinet of Dr Caligari / Das Cabinet des Dr. Caligari

[twilightfairie]

nothing hurts like you do, like the way you say i love you ꪆ୧