#the silence in black and white

[observernumber5]

I can survive.

[sansashton]

you’ll never guess what my favorite band is right now

[burying-brightness]

i've been waiting for so long to hold you in my arms embrace forever my sweet girl

[jngsite]

͏ ͏͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏𝗐𝗁𝖾𝗇 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗍𝗁𝖾 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗋𝖺𝗂𝗇 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝖼𝗈𝗆𝖾𝗌 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗉𝗈𝗎𝗋𝗂𝗇𝗀 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝖽𝗈𝗐𝗇

͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗍𝗈 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗐𝖺𝗌𝗁 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝖺𝗐𝖺𝗒 ͏ ͏ ͏𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝖼𝗋𝗈𝗐𝗇 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗒𝗈𝗎 ͏ ͏ ͏'𝗋𝖾 ͏ ͏ ͏𝗍𝗁𝖾 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗄𝗂𝗇𝗀 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗈𝖿 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗇𝗈𝗍𝗁𝗂𝗇𝗀 ͏ ͏ ͏ 𝗇𝗈𝗐

͏ ͏͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏ ͏𝗄𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗈𝖿 𝖾𝗏𝖾𝗋𝗒𝗍𝗁𝗂𝗇𝗀

[fairuza-amputechture]

Niki FM // Hawthorne Heights

[cogbreath]

i think a major thing in regards to kink and racial aspects and dynamics is the fact that white people particularly are used to their every desire and comfort and pleasure being prioritised whether they are consciously aware of it or not.... like unfortunately the situation is that most of them believe that kink exists in some sort of bubble.

for example many would not think twice about the implications of wanting to have "taking bbc" be a necessary part of their personal humiliation or transformation or degradation kink. they already live under conditions where they have to put in active effort to be anti-racist. so ofc it never occurs to them that perhaps maybe we are asking them to think critically about the origins of their kinks and why the dynamic might be dubious if not outright racist.

to them its a matter of kink shaming because white pleasure and white comfort comes before respecting black people as humans. this is the way society has functioned for centuries. so of course why would they ever think that there might be more behind the fact that they enjoy raceplay fantasies? because to them its just that, a fantasy. they have never had to question why or how that came be.

Seriously, i implore you to all really really think critically about the way you think about black people sexually, how you want to treat your black partners, and if that may have implications or backgrounds to it that you don't recognize. you need to understand that there are very real reasons behind the fact that we want you to question why it sexually pleasures you to have racial power over us. its not at all the same as for example someone thinking its immoral or repulsive to enjoy kinky sex. we are literally just wanting you to recognise that our people have a history of sexual abuse tied with our history of racial abuse.

like if you have a kinky dynamic with a black partner, are you taking care to consider the implications of why they might not be okay *at all* with being referred to as your slave sexually regardless of the way you intend it? or being whipped? For reasons outside of the fact it doesn't turn us on, but rather that its something that for us, for our people, are things that were used to abuse us?

are you taking care to educate yourself about the history of sexual abuse in racism and slavery? do you actually know that cuckolding has racist roots? have you researched that? do you know how our people were and have been exploited and abused sexually throughout history not just with slavery but minstrely and so on? Did you ever take pause to think about the history that may lie behind raceplay and how maybe, just maybe; that us finding an issue with that kink is not us shaming anyone or trying to suppress anyone's sexuality?

learn to understand *why* we have every right to not feel okay with the fact people get off to the racial abuse and exploitation and dehumanizing of us, regardless of if its just "fantasy" or "roleplay". think about why your first reaction is to claim that your sexual freedom is being stifled, why you think your right to pleasure comes before our right to NOT be treated like this and to NOT view you as a safe person to be around for openly and proudly getting off to it.

[kariiimm]

You took the best of my heart and left the rest in pieces

[twilightfairie]

nothing hurts like you do, like the way you say i love you ꪆ୧

[toasty-with-jam]

The reception of the black silence Thats that and...This is this

[gothicbutcher666]

⋆˖⁺‧₊☽ ℌä𝔵𝔞𝔫 (1922) 𝔡𝔦𝔯. 𝔅𝔢𝔫𝔧𝔞𝔪𝔦𝔫 ℭ𝔥𝔯𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔢𝔫𝔰𝔢𝔫 ☾₊‧⁺˖⋆

[darkbluepassion01]

Couple

[walczewski]

© Jan Walczewski

[skadario]

n o i r b e n c h

[miraculouslumination]

The audacity to be like "there's a problem with racism in transandrophobia discussions" while also unironically using the term "transandrophobia truther(s)"