#that shit was embarassing

[janesurlife]

I spent half my life following different sports, still never understand the hate fans have towards players be it their own fav or opponents. We are seeing the kind of hate lando is getting from Max fans but I am also witnessing an almost vengeful outrage against one of their own cricketers by ICT fans. Like I understand, they lost at home, got clean and sweeped quite shamefully. I am glad that it was by kiwis and not Aussies otherwise I would have to kill myself (jk) but seriously it's not the end of the world. There's no need to abuse Virat especially when today is his birthday like come on guys, let's be mature for a second.

The way I think is that your favourite team or player losing isn't the worst thing that can happen to you, let's be honest it's not BUT losing a game IS one the worst thing that can happen to your favourite team or player so be fucking mindful of it. That's all I'm asking. Criticism is good, hell half my job is criticizing players, it helps them but you threatening their life or their loved ones life isn't gonna do anything to help them. At the end they'll start resenting their own people, their own country and fucking leave. One has already done it, how many more players have to leave the country before you guys understand.

[asweetprologue]

this is so devastating. laois should have just shot him with a gun

[pinup-hippie]

guess who got their tongue pierced (and immediately passed out)

[brodorokihousuke]

GUESS WHAT DAY IT IS

[pissmoon]

'I want to be a part of an edgy/morbid music based subculture but im too much of a soft eared pussy to listen to edgy or morbid music that isnt pop' is, was and will be an embarassing take

[3liza]

yet another fucking coffee shop has opened near my house that is only open 8am-3pm and this time the theme is, self-reportedly, "science fiction", but actually and observably, "star trek and star wars", which apparently means hanging up bad fan art on a completely normal Gentrification Eggshell wall. and having a couple disney franchise toys lying around. if you were coming up with a gag for a sitcom set in seattle this would get cut in round one for being too generic

[wutheringheightsfilm]

do you guys actually mean it when you reblog that goofy "by any votes necessary" post or are you doing it ironically. please say you're doing it ironically

[cloverandstuff]

I love how we all agreed that Till is the kind of kid who would very publicly declare he loves his mommy.

Like, violence or no violence, he loves his mom and he'll be damned if anyone tries to doubt that.

[panakoui]

post canon laishuro prelude :>

[22bananapudding]

an observation

[fraternum-momentum]

fucking kill me

[so-i-did-this-thing]

Do you have any advice for someone who is visibly transitioning in front of people that might not be trans safe? I’m worried regulars at my job or possibly worse, my regular uber drivers will realize I’m trans and have a bad reaction. I’ve considered trying to pass until it’s unavoidable and then transitioning all at once so I’m not recognizable as the same person, but that seems a little too difficult to pull off. (You inspired me to finally start HRT btw! My appointment is in March and despite it all I’m very excited!!)

Congrats on starting HRT! 🎉

So, I'm not going to sugarcoat this one. If the HRT you're starting is T, you'll have plausible deniability for a few months, with folks thinking you've got a cold. After then, all bets are off.

What you need to do is figure out how to protect yourself. Best case is embarrassment from stares and gossip. Worst case is discrimination and violence.

You need to prepare for any of these scenarios. It could mean working pro-actively with HR on a transition plan, being ready to document harassment, to having a new Uber route and even a new job lined up.

Be prepared to lose work. Research the crap out of discrimination policies at your job and within the city where you work. Get a feel for who the allies are at your job. See who the local trans-friendly employment lawyers are. Just in case.

In my case, I faced the most outright harassment when I was visibly androgynous. Like, cross the street just to yell at me levels of harassment. This is where I worry about your Uber drivers. Most people won't look at you twice and they mind their own business, but there is a minority who gets riled up if they can't easily gender you and they will make it your problem.

I transitioned publicly in my music career and lost a lot of gigs because of it. I know people laughed at me and probably still do. It was a small world and I just had to deal with it, so I doubled down on my more manic side, was a big personality, and noisily fought for fair pay, which earned me a lot of respect and made the transphobes look foolish. I dealt with the embarrassment of being a spectacle by making it a point to earn those stares on my own terms. And looking back at it, I actually had a lot of fun, and have a slew of stories of me doing things like standing on chairs shouting and making horrible conductors cry. 😅

But in my ad agency career (80% of my income), I knew I could have a cleaner break post-transition and played it safe. I took a contract job, started HRT, and then left when people started giving me weird looks (about 7 or 8 months). I started my new job stealth (I later came out to make a point), though HR knew I was trans due to background checks and whatnot. There is no escaping your paper trail, and you need to come to terms with that.

So what I'm saying is, a lot is up to you and how you want to handle your transition. There is always risk. Have a backup plan and a backup for the backup. Have an emergency fund ready. Have a safety net and people you can check in with and vent to.

Good luck, I'm rooting for you!

[tomboy014]

Damian: Move aside, Fenton. I need to speak with my nemesis.

Harley: For the last time, I. AM NOT. YOUR. NEMESIS!!!

Danny: Aw, c'mon, Harley. I think it's cute he has a little crush on you.

Cue Damian sputtering and incoherent as he's mercilessly teased out of the Asylum by his brothers. He can never face Harley again.

How did Danny do that?

Danny: I have siblings

[meowmeow1meow]

yess crash that charity event

[magickpancakes]

third drawing of this scrunkly, im not beating the allegations this time

[seldomsee]

ok not to be a hater but

They replaced this really cool moment where Khun recognizes Bam through his vocal tic of calling everyone Mr. or Ms. with this generic line

for no reason that I can comprehend