#tfem questions

[verycuntlesbian]

I feel if people don’t want to even scratch the surface of intersexuality when discussing discourse I don’t know how I can ….. like feel about it ? Many people discuss certain discourse and never even think to educate themselves on intersexuality and it’s like you are missing a huge chunk of experience in this discussion ? I’m willing to learn and educate myself but how can I do that when people aren’t willing to do the same ? People discuss the idea that afab intersex tfem people are trans misogynistic in their identity but refuse to even communicate or discuss with said intersex individuals ? Like they don’t even think about how diverse the intersex experience is they hear afab and assume. Being afab as an intersex person honestly just means 99.9% of the time you have a vagina or a vulva. Doctors see that you have that and say you are a female. It has nothing to say about how you look how you are on the inside nothing. This dumbing down especially of like “you can’t be this because you have this genital” has confused me immensely ? Saying that you need to be amab to be tfem just ignores the experience of intersex people ? Some intersex people are amab and yet are raised or socially seen as female. Vice versa with afab individuals. Also the idea that people bring up the terms afab and amab in these spaces is quite ironic as it was used for intersex people because it was what we were ASSIGNED hence the word in the term. When you are intersex and they see you have no “visual abnormalities” they ASSIGN you a sex based on what they see. This is why it’s heavily prevalent to intersex people because we are ASSIGNED a gender at birth. Also genitals don’t equal like how the body produces hormones ? An intersex amab person can produce more estrogen than me or any other afab intersex person ? My last note before I close this off is I dislike heavily that people speak on this on the internet and just ….. don’t go outside of it to educate further before speaking ? Queer people DO NOT need to be some queer scholars don’t get me wrong but if you’re going to post about a topic is it not common sense to not only educate yourself using merely the internet ESPECIALLY social media as your knowledge ?

Closing this off as I’ve yapped too hard I fear 🙏🏻 tried to make this make sense but ! This isn’t an attack on anyone or anything like if you personally believe like as yourself being a tfem that afab people even if intersex can never be tfem than that’s YOUR OPINION like it’s not WRONG or RIGHT because it’s just how one thinks. I’m free for any educational discussions on this or any comments but please for the love of all don’t speak over voices 🙏🏻 if ur not tfem don’t speak on tfem issues like you are same goes for intersex in this situation. My apologies if any of this is “aggressive” or “uneducated” this is my own experience as well as my own questions

[pretty-kitten-paw]

Do you have any idea how tired the trans women on this app are.

From pedojacketing, callouts, reports from "allys" and bans from staff, harassment both in activity and private, assumption of equal ignorance, nit picking transfeminist language, the exodus of black transfems, isolation unless internal community created, misunderstandings escalated always, ableism as a defamatory weapon, fear from actual allys in response, no safe venting, terf bait radicalised our oppressors, lack of identity, oversexualisation of misogynistic traits, undersexualisation of those consenting, kink=moral compass, the food thing, the eggshells stuck in our foot from the ones that broke

So. Fucking. Tired.

[blanketfortz]

practice ^_^

[desolatesekai]

PERSONAL PROSEKAI QUEER HEADCANONS 11/20: transfem bi akito 🥞 credit and rb to use

[blorboresidue]

haruka having a normal cisgender time as always

[sunshine-of-my-shoulder]

Is it a good time to mention that I only started shipping 0309 because 0610 is my milgram otp and I hated 0306/0310/0609/0910 so I shipped these 2 fruits together to get them out the way

[officialspec]

can you pleeeeease post your dm sexuality/gender hcs on here.... 🥺 i don't have a twitter but i wanna know. it's like a pandora's box to me now i'm like scratching at the door. let me in

heres the link 2 the thread (mild spoilers btw) ill post a transcript under the cut for ppl who dont have twitter

first off i think laios relationship to sex is super removed for like 50 reasons without even getting into his actual sexuality

he grew up in a place with very repressed ideas about sex and has a lot of fear about asserting his presence in situations

his special interest takes precedent over any social interactions he has and the level of closeness he feels towards people

he has a hard time figuring out his feelings towards other people both bc hes autistic and bc he has freaky deviantart fetishes that make sex in his mind a very abstract concept <- this one is me projecting mostly

that aside, i feel like gender-wise hes attracted to ppl so infrequently it may as well be entirely case-by-case

the idea of him being gay appeals to me from the 'raised with traditional values he Does Not fit into/hasnt begun to question it yet' perspective, i lauve characters who put a lot of stock into performing a role thats expected of them and fail miserably for unknown (gay) reasons

from his perspective tho i dont think he would ever really label himself anything. hes going to pride parades in the shirt+shorts Ally Fit to clap for his friends

hes also 'cis by indifference' imo... i love tmasc laios hcs it just doesnt mesh w his personal history to me. i do think hes got some kind of therian gender thing going on (not trans or nb but a secret third thing) but i cant see him changing anything abt his appearance/pronouns to accommodate that post-canon. hes just doin his thang

falin is in a similar boat for gender. i LOOVE tfem falin but the village repression thing has been bugging at me so i dont think i subscribe to it anymore (canon purist sorry) BUT if u hold that hc i am clapping and cheering regardless

instead i was propagandised to a while back and i LOVEEE the idea that being fused w a male dragon and the residual traits she has after being revived have given her a type of gender euphoria she didnt realise she was missing. a little boygirl swagger if u will

sexuality-wise i also dont think she would care to label herself, shes a lesbian by virtue of only being interested in One woman and zero other people. without marcille i do think shes still exclusively attracted to women, and i like to imagine she might experiment around a bit during her travels post-canon (pre-relationship). hearing abt it might put marcille on the news though

marcille is very simple That is a transfem lesbian. she cant get pregnant, shes obsessed w being femme and all that combined w her half-tallman struggles to be seen as 'properly feminine' by elf standards reads very transfeminine to Me. also her bookboy crush REEKS of comphet its not subtle

i think a more comfortable marcy might have the space to experiment w being elf butch like her manga boys but thats mainly self indulgence for me. utena could have saved her

senshi is gay his whole thing is abt not being able to perform dwarven masculinity to a proper standard (soft hearted, not as strong or rugged as his peers) which is like gaycoding 101. also hes a bear. homosexuality be damned by boy can work a grill

adding onto this i rly think senshi got some type of euphoria from being an elf in the changeling chapters. he was feeling himself so much i think he was using it as an outlet to have fun being a little fem and fruity without needing to justify it. do u understand

i dont have any particular opinions abt him gender-wise beyond that. his bulge is an essential part of his character design but i also saw a transmasc senshi a couple days ago that made me nod my head thoughtfully so i could go either way

chilchuck is cis and bisexual this is just canon. not even just his old man crush on senshi altho i do think thats very funny but they put his ass on a cover themed like hes in a dating sim with all the men and women in the cast and then slapped it in front of a chapter called "bicorn". i simply cant pass up that kind of overt signaling. its so fucking funny what else is there to say truly

izu to ME is a transmasc aroace lesbian (this one has the least basis in canon i just know it to be true) shes a little genderfluid with it nd uses he/she i think. i like to imagine she consistently uses masculine personal pronouns to refer to herself either way tho (boku, ore)

i think izutsumis gender/sexuality is entirely secondary in priorities to her body dysphoria. she has a lot of learning and acceptance 2 do before that kind of self discovery is on the docket and in my mind eschewing gender on some level is part of that. get sillay

shuro is cishet but at least he feels bad about it. next listen listen to me i dont think he would ever actually examine this but i need u to put on ur tin foil hat with me for one second. i think estrogen could have saved her. i have more thoughts on this but im not gonna propagandise too much on this post just know that im right

kabru is a transmasc bisexual this is also practically text. his whole thing of being treated like a doll by milsiril to put in pretty dresses, plus i think it would be pretty easy for him to stealth in the west since tallmen are seen as inherently more masculine than elves

(i also think changing genders is just more common for elves. theyre androgynous enough that it wouldnt be hard and like who in their right miiiiind would be the same gender for 500 years. dwarves too)

i think he started presenting as male socially in the west but didnt need to consider medical transition until he moved to a more mixed culture where other races might see him as a woman

i dont have to explain the bisexual part. have u seen him

namari is a butch bisexual this is just canon straight up. shes not transmasc but i think the default settings for dwarven women is like 4 years of T regardless. shes a hit at all the local cruising spots despite her renfaire nerdisms i know this

and just bc im thinking abt em kiki and kaka are identical and kiki is tfem :} theyre both attracted to women but kaka is a sub so i forgive him

THATS ALL 4 NOW theres a lot of characters so i cant have thoughts abt all of them at once but i hope this was good. im right about everything forever as per usual

[pjsk-headcanons]

tsukasa is a cis guy but every trans person he meets assumes he's trans too

do they think he's tmasc or tfem? it differs. they've seen the way he eyes dresses at stores, but they also see the way his eyes sparkle upon being called a man. Not to mention that the whole cast has seen him respond to "boy or girl" questions with "im a star" at least once

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[meowtus]

Redactedverse Lesbians!Relationship HCs :3

Obviously, pronouns will be changed to fit said headcanons. If you’re uncomfortable with she/her or they/them being used on speaker characters, please proceed with that in mind!! (Though I don’t think I used she/her all that much 😭)

• Sam & Darlin: Butch4Butch. Very obvious…I’ve been thinking about them a lot smh. Sam’s on the incredibly masc leaning lesbian side. Cmon…the flannel?? Lumberjack-lesbian-ass behavior. They both make me so ill. Darlin’s more of a leather-wearing Butch, but they switch outfits and share clothes every now and then.

• Milo & Sweetheart: Genderqueer Lesbians. Milo uses whatever pronouns, they don’t really have a preference, since they’re leaning whichever way whenever!! Sweetheart’s the same way, essentially. When they’re going out, they’re coordinating to the other. Either they’re both wearing dresses or suits no exceptions☝🏽☝🏽

• Gavin & Freelancer: Genderfluid! Gavin, Enby!Freelancer. Very obvious choice with Gavin, I think. They KILL it in a dress and they make it everyone’s problem. (/j) Gavin’s very fluid identity wise, and adhering to the binary is virtually out of the question. Fem! Gavin could easily put Freelancer into a coma. Freelancer’s more of the middle category, integrating masculine and feminine traits all the same.

• Vincent & Lovely: Tfem! Vincent, Femme! Lovely. Through meeting Lovely, Vincent’s explored so many different things relationship-wise, and expression wise!! They do eachother’s makeup for special events, and the two are giggling the entire way through :3 Lovely’s incredibly supportive throughout the transition and helped integrate fem-leaning clothing into her wardrobe

• Vega: THE lesbian. That’s the headcanon guys. /j Thank you user Vegafan69 for opening my eyes to lesbian Vega—that’s what inspired the lesbian headcanons in the first place 🗣️🗣️🗣️‼️‼️

• Asher & Baaabe: Golden Retriever Lesbian! Asher, Black Cat Lesbian! Baaabe. THEY. THEY. THEY. Asher’s the golden retriever masc of all time, actually. Don’t have much of a backing to this one, but I feel like this dynamic’s also applicable to Lesbian! Guy & Honey

• Blake & Bestie: Highschool Situationship. Lesbian canon event I fear…they definitely were thinking about eachother after they distanced. The first lesbian relationship is always the messiest 😭

• Porter & Treasure: Classic Masc & Femme dynamic. I just think it’s fitting for the two!! BUT in this relationship consider Femme! Porter and Masc! Treasure. ESPECIALLY after that argument from the most recent video…something girlkisser was in the air. Also think Femme! Porter struggles/used to struggle with comphet sometimes and it leaks out conversationally from time to time 💔

That’s all I’ve got for now!! If you have any fem! Speaker HCs yap about them NOWW I need them so bad guys smh

Taglist: @vegafan69 @escapisttt

[lazycranberrydoodles]

hi i don't know if i have questions specifically but want you to know i'm obsessed with your transfem hua cheng and he xuan and that it's super meaningful to me to see other people doing transfem characters and headcanons and I love to see it and love your art so much too so thank you for doing that!!!

yw!!!

hua cheng and he xuan have such interesting relationships to their bodies and powers. to me, trans headcanons not only acknowledge their complex identities within the text, but also add a layer of meaning. plus i just love drawing and writing girls.

more of my thoughts on trans & tfem huaxuan below.

⚠️warnings for: mention of transphobia, canon typical violence, tgcf spoilers⚠️

hua cheng is incredibly metaphorically trans. being born under the star of solitude with a cursed eye, he spent his childhood enduring abuse and covering up his face. (one thing that especially sticks with me for a transmasculine headcanon is that he is smaller than expected for a 10 year old, canonically due to malnutrition). still, he snuck into the army out of a sense of duty (re: tmasc hc, i believe he lied about both his age and his gender to enlist). however, to become crimson rain sought flower, instead of harming others, he wrenches the source of his pain (his eye) out of his body with his own hands. once he removes his eye, instead of dying like a weaker spirit would have, he becomes much more powerful and starts forging an identity for himself. his self-mutilation doesn't just free him from the burden of his cursed eye; he eventually claims blood as his signature. for his whole life, hua cheng has been injured and beaten, but after tong'lu, blood becomes a symbol of his power. his blood rain shows that he does not shy away from brutality and that he feels at home within violence.

this is why i'm always talking about hua cheng's DIY top surgery within the kiln. hua cheng carved up his own body in a way that massively empowered him. he reclaims violence as his own natural habitat, rather than something he has been forced to endure. i think this is very transgender; transphobic rhetoric often labels medical transition as mutilation, but to many of us, that is how we become our true selves. it is a tool to make us stronger.

hua cheng's story is about self-determination. despite his circumstances, he was able to literally brute force fate and luck into his favor with the power of his devotion. i also like to read ghost city (and hua cheng's other miscellaneous acts of good) as a metaphor for disability. to the public, it's dangerous and sinful, but in actuality it is hua cheng's way of 'saving the common people'. ghost city provides safe haven for the undead and their wares, making both the mortal and ghost realms safer. the traditional channel for serving believers is from heaven, but hua cheng forged his own path and refused to take part in its corrupt system. he has a radically different approach to executing his goals, so he is excommunicated and misunderstood outside of the vilified community that he provides a home for (the ghost city residents).

it's important to me that hua cheng is trans -- whether in hualian or hualesbians -- because her story revolves around forging her own path, turning the parts of her body that she hated into sources of power, and defining herself (SHE NAMED HERSELF FLOWER CITY!!!). as a spirit, she hangs around because she wants to be the best version of herself: not out of self-love, but because she is a means to an end (the end being xie lian's will).

beefleaf are literally genderfluid in the text. i personally read shi qingxuan as a trans woman rather than genderfluid because she is 1) more powerful as a woman and 2) does it for fun -- being a woman brings her joy. she begrudgingly turns back into a man when her brother tells her she needs to be more proper. additionally, she was raised as a girl and -- iirc -- doesn't have a problem with this.

he xuan, in addition switching back and forth between male and female forms, also has a very trans narrative. they were literally forced to live the wrong life. his power, similarly to hua cheng's, also comes from their body (eating other ghosts). however, hers is additive. she, to me, is the type of trans person that doesn't see their transition as a loss of anything, only a gain (hua cheng, on the other hand, enthusiastically lost his weakened past self). hua cheng killed the girl he used to be, while he xuan morphed into an unrecognizable, more powerful version of herself. hua cheng purposefully built his ideal self, while he xuan strayed from her AGAB more passively.

i don't think that he xuan would crossdress with shi qingxuan if she didn't want to. even if that was the case, i think their woman-sona is very developed for a guy that reportedly doesn't like it. in my headcanon, she is still in denial by the end of the novel. i think that both his love for shi qingxuan AND the unsettling feeling of gender dysphoria would keep him from dissipating. my final and silliest reason for headcanoning he xuan as nonbinary tfem is that she eats a ton because she's on estrogen and is trying to gain boob weight.

tl;dr: trans women can accumulate power by cutting out their eyes and eating ghosts and i think that's awesome

[verycuntlesbian]

Until I have more of an understanding I feel ….. conflicted on identifying as tfem ? I’ve always felt no one understood my experience except the only other tfem intersex people I know. I think intersex as a label in itself will be okay for now ? I’m not good with conflict and that also means when things are like conflicted so there being so many different ideas on this discussion it makes me overwhelmed and confused and I’d rather just see what the main consensus is ? I don’t believe I will remember any of this I’m not the host so I do not deal with these issues as often or really at all but we do all share a body so it is quite affecting of all of us ?

- I’d do a cool sign off but lord knows if I’ll ever remember my name or who I am

[pretty-kitten-paw]

@tfem-confessions I sent anon critiquing their obvious stance on discourse, on only ever posting things in discourse that line up with their views

Are you really here for all transfems? Or just the ones that agree with you?

Are you here for transfems? Or are you going to rb from known transmisogynists?

Are you here for transfems? Or are you just a copy cat of every other transmisogynistic confessions blog that always pivot to degrading transfems and transfeminine thought?

Answer. The. Questions.

[illmother]

ೀ ‎‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎‎ ⎯ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ 𝓥𝖆𝖓illa 𝗵𝗰𝘀

A/N: GOT MY PRETTY GIRL AND WAS OBSESSED IMMEDIATELY. like you don’t understand how BADLY i want her to bend me over one of her machine things and finger fuck me til’ i have to rely on said machine to keep me upright.

cw: consists of both sft and nsft hcs, tfem!Vanilla, slight bondage, corruption

— i feel like she’d be the type to cook you meals whenever you’re feeling down or stressed like; oh, you’re feeling upset, tired, unwell? eat. you’ll feel better with a full stomach

— will do anything for you, and i mean ANYTHING. even if she thinks she should be against it ‘cus it’s dangerous and whatnot, she still gives in. after all, she can protect you! she always has, and always will

— if you’re busy and working on something, she’ll cut up some fruits for you, think like those little bunny apples !!

— her actions speak louder than words! she’ll give you a back massage if you’re feeling tense and stressed, run you a bath when you’re done with work, cook you food, she’s basically your perfect housewife!

— OH! and don’t bother wasting your money on mechanics or anything like that. why call someone when you have your wonderful Vanilla up and ready to fix any issues in your home

— DEFINITELY a service top. no doubt. she’ll do whatever you want, you don’t even need to touch her for her to be cumming in her pants. but if you ever wanna top, she’ll be your loud, whiny angel <3

— speaking of cum, she cums LOADS. like enough to paint your stomach white. how does it taste? well, it’s far from bad to say the least, a little bit on the sweeter side

— she’s not a woman of many words, but god is she vocal during sex. like full on moaning, and grunting the filthiest shit right into your ear while you’re riding her, your front pressed against hers while she thrusts up into you like there’s no tomorrow

— GOD i can go on about her fingers all day. like hello?? my girl works on machines and mechanics all day for YEARS. she can reach every single nook and cranny of your sobbing cunt with her skillful fingers

— pretty sucky at aftercare, since she hasn’t had any experience with relationships after being in a deserted lab place (?) for over a decade. so you’ll have to teach her things along the way! but don’t worry, she’ll get it soon enough (for now, she just settles on cuddling up to you after a steamy night)

— that being said, being very very inexperienced in anything relationship wise leaves in room for corruption…

— ALSO her rank up art thing??? bondage?? being restricted?? hello??? are you guys seeing my vision rn…OK HEAR ME OUT-

“Do you like this, Pretty girl?” You questioned, voice breathy as you whispered into her ear. Vanilla could only groan in response, as drool dribbling messily down her chin. Having her arms restricted, while you stroked her eager, leaky cock, each pump of your hand painfully slow to her dismay. “Faster,” She choked out, you’d been teasing her for the past hour or so, and she really couldn’t take it anymore, she needed release, bad. She feels like she’ll definitely break if this goes on any longer. “Please, please, please, let me cum…just this once..” She pleaded, so sinful, so beautiful, you really couldn’t say no at this point…not when she was begging to be ruined by you. “Oh, i’ll make you cum alright.” You murmured, before your movements on her pretty cock grew faster. You’ll make her cum, and you won’t stop until she’s shooting blanks. <3

[circusclowne]

so i have a question about y'all's headcanons (specifically mic) because i've seen a wide range of hcs surrounding her

[ggirlflop]

hallo my friends ! ヾ( ‘ – ‘*) received two asks about my maddiecaitvi headcanons which i replied to this morning ! it was in the very wee hours and i was running on yuri pills and a dream so i messed up the tagging so it flopped Hard.. : \ i wanted to delete and repost it in hopes that more people see it and i can spread the maddiecaitvi agenda even further. ( ˋ⁻̫ˊ) Ψ reblogs welcomed and appreciated ; )

anyway without further ado i bring you part one of my maddiecaitvi headcanons ^_-

oh my yes !! rubs my evil paws together (｀∀´ #) i was trying to respond to the other ask and i think i accidentally deleted it because i can't find it anymore ( (－‸ლ) ) but thank you to both of you for asking , i was so super excited to receive your asks !! i will probably have more thoughts soon and definitely more after act three so keep yer eyes peeled ^_^ erm toxic yuri and nsfw warning.. (；´∀｀) don't expect a lot of horny headcanons from me but this is an exception i suppose.. minors dni . not proofread so have mercy on me. t4t bt dubs ( as god intended ) — tfem ! maddie and caitlyn with tmasc ! vi.

maddiecaitvi headcanons

their relationship is messy and complicated and quite a bit toxic but there's something addictive about it.

you have caitlyn who initially couldn't care less about maddie , only using her as a toy , taking advantage of her lack of experience and her obsession with her. she cares so much for vi yet she views vi and her attraction to him as her biggest weakness. he's not her first lesbian relationship but he's her first butch and she feels out of her depth.

you have maddie who would do anything for caitlyn no matter how despicable if it would put a smile on her face. maddie's a bit dumb , a blind and devoted follower. she doesn't ask questions being one of those people who would rather be willfully ignorant than knowingly causing harm. she's caitlyn's little mutt , she has low self esteem and just needs to feel needed. she puts herself in bad situations because she feels its what she deserves and admittedly she has a bit of a savior complex. she's attracted to people who are more broken than her so she can make herself useful and attempt to fix them or make her feel better about her own flaws.

and then you have vi. vi is slowly losing himself in an attempt to make positive change. all he wants is to be good and take care of his family but no matter what he seems to cause hurt. caitlyn makes him feel whole , no matter what he tries he can't get past the pain of loving her. when he finds out about caitlyn and maddie he's not sure if he's amused or heartbroken. this little girltwink catches his eye though , she could be fun.

at first vi views maddie similarly to the way caitlyn does : as a plaything. he teases her and is mean to her , enjoying the power he holds over her. it's nice to be with someone he doesn't really have feelings for when his feelings for caitlyn nearly ruined him. something about the way she looks to caitlyn for approval and is so sickeningly down bad for her kind of changes that though. he's jealous of her , he starts wanting to be her in some kind of fucked up way which is ironic when maddie herself is trying to emulate vi.

instead of talking about it after an argument they just fuck it out.... vi and caitlyn angrily fucking the shit out of maddie who is just happy to be good for something. caitlyn and maddie both pounding vi at the same time with their girlcocks. caitlyn is big and maddie's small so cait and vi gang up on her a lot. :\ freak secretly gets off on it.

maddie is actually the biggest loser... she'll try to talk dirty or say something degrading and act all dominant but she's crying like a baby , whimpering , begging caitlyn and especially vi to go easy on her. she talks big game but she cannot match it , she's the biggest baby. despite not having any feelings for her initially there's something so pathetic about maddie that caitlyn finds herself growing attracted to.

maddie calling caitlyn commander and vi sir...

baby trapping vi.... maddie self destructing , worried that vi is going to leave. caitlyn's horny ass just wants to breed him.. both of them topping vi desperately because they need him they just need him. vi ending up pregnant but they don't know whether it was caitlyn or maddie who knocked him up. was this on purpose ? maybe ;)

vi getting penis envy from his girlfriends. his little tdick is nothing in comparison even to maddie's. he gets angry and dysphoric and has episodes where he refuses to engage with either maddie or caitlyn physically or even at all sometimes. they never talk about it vi just comes back like nothing happened and is more rough for a little while wanting to be in full control.

both maddie and vi get off to being called faggot and mutt.. caitlyn's not sure how she feels about that...

on a less freaky note , maddie and caitlyn vs both being obsessed with vi's top surgery scars. maddie traces them with her fingers whenever she has the opportunity and caitlyn's always begging him to go shirtless so she can admire them. maddie's not good with needles but caitlyn helps him with his T injections as well.

[dumbdomb]

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✅️ Turn ONs:

humiliating, degrading, and dehumanizing My partner(s). seeing them in zentai or a gimp suit. i like my chest, being spoiled and cared for, being treated gently, depravity, perversion, Cnc, omo, piss, sweat, dacryphilia, medfet, gfd, fdom, blasphemy, denial, scent, primal, terato, sanguine, impact play, whump, fear play, leather, masks/hoods, snuff, necro, horror fantasies, weaponry, stockholm/lima, cute clowns (not scary), kawaii kink, tickling, feet, pegging from the bottom, hypnotism, forced masc (but only for the affirming celebration of masculinity, i don't like the forceful part), being overstimulated to cum multiple times until i'm catatonic and involuntarily convulsive or nearly passed out and totally limp (physically weak)... i love receiving messages about my big, beautiful tits and very sensitive nipples...

❌️ Turn OFFs:

being submissive, switching, topping, straight people, being praised, being called a good girl or good boy, being called mommy, breeding, ovi, impreg, cum, facials, lactation, hucow, Master/slave terms, diapers, scat, rape play, rough or forceful play, pussy slapping, tit torture, age gap, fauxcest, furries (ally, but personal squick), abo, sissies (tfem and not forcefem is ok), anal, the mainstream version of many popular kinks are often done in an unappealing way for me...

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