#tertiaryspec culture

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tertiary attraction culture is not realizing you're aplatonic cus you have alterous attraction, and the alterous attraction looking kind of like a combination of romantic and platonic. "why don't i ever feel just platonic about people" well, cus you don't have it(or very little. still figuring that out)

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[aesthetic-attraction-culture-is]

Hello! This is a culture-is blog for aesthetic attraction!

Like all other culture-is blogs, please start all asks and submissions with "aesthetic attraction culture is" or some variation, such as "aroace aesthetic attraction culture is," "mlm aesthetic attraction culture is," etc. Feel free to be as vague or descriptive as you'd like! You can talk in the tags too if you want, I don't mind - submissions are very encouraged!

This blog is currently only run by one mod, Zen, who uses he/they/it and neopronouns.

Have a nice day, and don't forget to take your meds, water, and a break!

Avatar and header description: the aesthetic attraction flag, which consists of equal-sized bars from top to bottom which are light pink, pink, hot pink, dark pink, white, dark orange, orange, light orange, and yellow, and a circle over the middle five stripes (hot and dark pink, white, dark orange, and orange) which have light reddish-brown, reddish-brown, dark reddish-brown, reddish-brown, and light reddish-brown. End ID.

Other similar blogs! @tertiaryspec-culture @alterous-attraction-culture-is @tertiary-attraction-culture-is @demi-alterous-culture-is @queercutlureis @orientedaroace-culture-is -- dm me or send me an ask if you run or know of similar blogs, I'd love to add more!

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tertiary spec culture is not knowing how to explain what feelings you have for you best friend, but just knowing you have Feelings for them

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Tertiary-spec culture is taking a while to even realise your experiencing attraction

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Greyalterous Greyromantic culture is idk if it's a crush or a squish and I always get the two confused.

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platonic-spec culture is missing the infatuation that comes with getting a new squish

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Tertiaryflux culture is being a-tertiary for so long you forget about it

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Tertiaryspec culture is getting so fed up with all these yknow bots invading our tags /vent

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tertiary aspec culture is just existing. attraction said no.

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Tertiary Attraction Ask Game!!

Big shutout to the arospec ask game by @romo-aro-culture-is for general inspiration and also some of the specific questions I borrowed for this!! (also I'm not making it a "rule" but please send asks to whoever you reblogged this from ty)

1: What types of tertiary attraction do you experience?

2: How would you describe your identity?

3: What made you realise you feel tertiary attraction?

4: Do you have a “type” in attraction?

5: Do you like to label your tertiary attraction?

6: What made you decide to use your current labels? [If applicable]

7: What is one thing you wish more people knew about tertiary attraction?

8: What is you favourite type of attraction to experience?

9: What is your least favourite type of attraction to experience?

10: What is one object/colour/symbol you associate with [x] attraction? [x can be replaced w/ a specific type or generic!!]

11: Most underrated form of intimacy? [if applicable]

12: Favourite character that has tertiary attraction (canon or headcanon)?

13: When was the first time you experienced tertiary attraction?

14: Do you have a queerplatonic partner? Do you want one? [if applicable]

15: Tell us your best tertiary attraction joke/pun

16: Tell us about a moment you enjoyed experiencing tertiary attraction

17: How do you feel about the label tertiary attraction itself?

18: Are there any alternatives to the term tertiary attraction you like? [if applicable]

19: Have you ever told someone you had a swish/squish/mesh/ext on them? How did it go?

20: Bonus – ask me anything about my tertiary attraction!

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tertiaryspec culture is being utterly baffled at your own attraction when it happens

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artist aestheticspec culture is not being sure if it's a swish or if it's artist envy

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~Intro/About~

Welcome to Tertiary-Spec Culture!! This is a "culture is" blog for those on the spectrum side of tertiary attractions (so labels like grey, demi, flux, cupio, ext)

This is also secondarily a place to spread general information for + about those of us who label our non-rose attraction past allo-/gender terms!!

(other similar culture blogs!! @queercutlureis @alterous-attraction-culture-is @orientedaroace-culture-is @tertiary-attraction-culture-is @demi-alterous-culture-is @cedural-culture-is @aesthetic-attraction-culture-is @caedspec-culture-is)

~About The Mod~

I'm Mod Eventide (She/They) and I'm a white aestheticflux hetroplatonic aroace genderqueer gal!!

~Submission Rules~

• Start all culture is asks w/ the appropriate identity(s)!! For example Demiplatonic culture is, Bi Cupioqueerplatonic Culture Is, and ext

• Don't send anything NSFW or the likes :)

• Please try to use tone tags

• Also add tws to the beginning of your post if you know of any that apply!! This greatly helps me to mod better + faster

• Don't send or tag me in Donation or Flag Combo posts/requests, but do feel free to tag me in anything else about tertiary attraction

• Friendly reminder that I'm just one person + will not know everything!! Feel free to ask questions about the tertiary spectrums but I might not be the most help ^.^

~DNI~

I block pretty liberally, but overall it's just standard dni criteria that will get you blocked including any queerphobia (like being anti; mspec lesbians/gays, lesboys, fae/faer pronouns, aphobic, ext ext), proshippers, and those who's blog are primarily discourse especially around systems + trans people!!

~Tags~

#behind the blog - posts like this + other updates about how the blog is being run

#not culture is - anything that isn't in the "culture is" format

#tertiaryspec culture - the culture is posts :)

#mod eventide rambles - talking about my own experiences w/ non-rose attraction

#rainbow of attractions - other tertiary attraction posts that might not necessarily be (explicitly) tertiary-spec

#.flag spam. - post that are primarily or only non-rose flags

#tw [X] - how I plan to tag sensitive content!!