#tbh the poddkhao fandom is the only fandom i feel comfortable in

[gunsatthaphan]

I agree with everyone else tbh... it gets very disturbing which is why I have a hard time following some BL content creators or fans because.. some take it so so far. When people sent Gun death threats because they thought he was the reason Toey and his bf broke up. People getting mad at Saint for acting Zee instead of Perth (Which is just wrong on another level because after what happened in 2018... Y'all just forgot about that??) Or when Max said he had a girlfriend and people were trying to find out who his gf was so they could doxx her because they only wanted Max and Tul to be together and the very disturbing going on with Sam and Yu too...

Some people get so obsessed with the fan service and shipping the actors like they fail to acknowledge that the actors are people themselves and they are much more than the characters they play in shows. One of my friends is scared to come out because they're afraid to be fetishized, and its so sad. The level of possesiveness some of these people have is so so scary. Personally i find it okay to think a moment between the actors is cute! For example, they hug (idk) "Aww, that's cute! You can see they're close" or

they're holding hands "Aww, they're holding hands. They obviously feel comfortable with each other to do that! Cute!" And then we should leave it at that... It's a scary world knowing that 2 males can't just be close friends without being heavily shipped or having the fear that people close to them will get threats...

And yes Thailand needs to cut the shit with the fanservice because they take it seriously. They encourage people to ship the actors together, and honestly I would feel traumatized if I as stuck in that position of choosing between to be myself or keep my fans happy..

Hi Jason and thank you for sharing!! I agree with everything. 

This whole debacle is why I not only rarely follow any bl fans to begin with but also some actors. And I know they’re the victims and obvs this doesn’t apply to every (bl-) actor but the invasive things that some people do (like the ones you listed) is off the charts and it ruins the experience of watching these shows for me. Which is so dumb because there’s not even a correlation??? But people just can’t stfu and can’t separate fiction from reality and that just ruins it for me. So I mostly stay away from the actor’s sm accounts too. 

And I agree, I like seeing actors/actresses be close with each other; it shows that they have a good connection and work well together and that’s just nice to see. But I also could not handle being in such a position FOR SURE lmao. I think I would be corrupted for life lol. 

xxx