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[diamondluxesugar]

Why am I having so much trouble attracting a good SD? I keep getting all these men who are interested in a quick fuck for $200 and not a big baller that is going to treat me how I deserve.

Analyze yourself. 

How are you presenting yourself? What clothing are you wearing? How are you speaking? What does your hair/make-up look like? Are your nails done? Where are you spending your time? What are you spending your time doing? It’s easy to say that you want a big spender, but it’s harder to put yourself in the circumstances to actually land one. 

Take a look at what you’re currently doing and then figure out how to adjust it to create the circumstances more in line with what you want. 

[strawberripoppins]

January Has Been Good To Me, With Only 3 Days Left Let’s See What Else I Can Do! February I See Youuuu!! 🤗🤗🤗

[techsugar]

Writing my goals for the latter half of this year here:

•Finish internship

•Network (with/without sugaring) to land a swe career job

•Pay off cc debt

•Learn about stocks, invest *smartly.* I did some crazy investing for the first time earlier this year right before GME blew up and when Robinhood was doing that shady shit. Lost $ lol. Definitely want to get back in but wiser and with a plan.

[strawberripoppins]

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If He’s Old Enough To Ejaculate, He’s Old Enough To Calculate. 🅿️eriod!

[blorbosexterminator]

Any thoughts on the new Pedro poem?

I once again can't claim to understand Pedro's mind haha (every time he posts something I'm posessee by this Ben Afleck picture lmfao) but I do find the poem interesting. I can't say whether I have definite thoughts per se, but there are a couple of things that caught my interest that I can share with you!

Disclaimer though, other than my general lack of insight into Pedro's brain, those notes are posted in Spanish, a language I don't speak, with no translation from his side, so anything I say can simply be a misunderstanding resulting from a mistranslation.

I suppose I'd say I was say my interest was mostly caught by the Parisian title, indicating in my opinion to those thoughts concerning the first few episodes in Paris, and by the common motifs he uses: the spiritual creature, the mirror, and the good story.

I think we might assume the spiritual creature here, at least partially, is either Berlin himself, or his reflection to himself. It's pretty neat, the first part, how it goes that the spiritual creature can neither be too spiritual or too unspiritual/worldly, how it can neither be too moral or too immoral. Whether that's what he meant or not, I find it something you can easily say about Berlin: as a character inside the narrative and as a person inside the story, Berlín definitely has an internal coherence that can't exactly be judged in accordance to an external system of morality, or even spirituality. The geyser addition is pretty cool too, even though it's one aspect I'm unsure of its meaning, but metaphorically geysers are usually put to indicate someone or something that ruptures or has an eruption due to pressure and/or repression. Something we could also generally say about Berlin, especially in the first two seasons, the way he's this perfect surface of something constantly threatening to erupt.

The addition of "And a mirror" is my favorite though. Mirrors are definitely an obsession Pedro and I share haha. But yeah. Pedro generally uses Mirrors a lot when speaking about Berlin (and maybe generally). Off the top of my head, during the early days he often attributed this overwhelming reaction to the character of Berlin to how the character held up a mirror to people, something interviewers usually mention as well, how Berlin isn't only a catalyst sort of mirror to the characters around him, but to the audience too. He also used to when describing the relationship between Palermo and Berlin. And I'd also add that one of the character's most interesting and most violent scenes from the second part of the series was literally set up in front of mirrors (as far as I remember, the only scene reminiscent of that was Palermo's mirror scene as a set-up to also one of his most rapturous moments). Whether intentionally or not, there is definitely something that can be said about this repeates aspect of the show that intersects mirrors with violence, especially in the context of Pedro's not here. The mirror is brought twice and both in the same context: be prepared of what will be reflected back at you. In the first part, it's put together with the geyser. The creature is both a geyser AND a mirror. And one must be careful looking at that mirror, look at that reflection, in all genders (? Couldn't totally get the part with en ella. En ello. En sí. The best I could perceive is the affirmity of the creature that in all shapes shows nothing but itself in the end.)

The second usage of the mirror is also linked with violence, both preceding and following it. The spiritual creature-if it becomes flesh, has nails that kill you when caressed. Then the affirmation that this clarification comes from looking at the mirror. Then it's a sort of cause and effect to the first mention. In the first, it says that one must be careful looking into that mirror. Then here in the second, it goes, if he is Not prepared (I love that it's called a gift, too! That insight.) that looking into the mirror can result in him tearing apart the one he pretended to love. The specific use of pretense in the same line as the mirror is very, very interesting. What can you see when you look at a mirror? The truth, presumably, one that you might not have liked to know (especially if you weren't careful and prepared), yet are now forced to see . There would be no more room for pretense, a visceral reaction would including tearing down those involved in the pretense.

I think there is a chance this involves or alludes to the storyline with Berlin's third wife. The line fully goes "If you're not prepared for such gifts, on a bad afternoon, you can tear the one you pretended to love." We know from the preview that the show starts on a bad day for Berlín, I think the narration starts with "There are somethings that can turn a terrible day into a wonderful one." Or something of the sort. Then clarifies that even though love (and theft) are one of those things, this wasn't the case because his third wife had just left him, so that might some subtext of the storyline. Or maybe it's about the "miserable man" that Berlin points a gun to his head, whoever that is!

Third thing is the "good story" which I can't say strikes any particular chords with me. Its first mention, in the 2 part, "If someone finds a good story, let him put it to use. Let him steal it on the spot. But in return, he has to make it his." Just sounds on the same wavelength as T.S Eliot's good artists steal and make something better or different with it." But I have no idea what it means in this context or if Pedro is particularly influenced by that line of thought. And while I can link this to Berlin, I don't know if that would be me reading too much into it or if it has anything to do with what Pedro meant.

The other time it's mentioned, it's in the last part. Which is the part most reminiscent of his other poem. And I generally think is the part most embodying Berlín's gang and their line of thought. The beings in between two worlds, who decided to chose that fate, and who deserve a good story.

[disc0blisters]

It's a well know truth that if you can't be thin, you must make your friends fat 😊😍❤ #home #love #food #foodporn #bake #sweets #chocolate #cake #tiffin #homemade #yum #health #lol #sugargoals

[kcatwrite]

Tapos na celebrations. Back to regular programming na. 😁😁😁 Diet and daily exercise na ulit. Brown rice, whole wheat bread, veggies and fruits na ulit. More okra! Hahaha! Less sweets, less sodas and juices, green tea instead of coffee (will try). More water. Last chocolate ko na ‘to, promise (INSHALLAH haha).

God, give me strength and determination to achieve all my health goals this year. Hopefully, bumaba na ang A1C ko sa next lab tests ko. 🙏🙏🙏

[diamondluxesugar]

What age do you suggest you start sugaring? I'm 18 and I plan to spend two years networking for business and then getting into sugaring when I'm 20-21

Phew this is a loaded question and everyone always has differing opinions. I personally don’t think you should sugar until at least 21. You need experience in the real world and with the shittiness that is the male sex. A lot of this experience comes after high school when you go to college or enter the workforce.

For most people, high school is an idealistic little bubble. Even the brain isn’t fully developed when you’re 18. How do you think someone with minimal sexual and life experience will be able to navigate some of the BS that happens? 

[mcbsid23]

"#sisters doing things while their older sister plays softball" Sophia got the really big lollipop from the dollar store. #dollartreefinds #sugargoals🍭 #squadgoals (at Gillette Road Middle School)

[talk2menicee-blog]

My face when someone says they want to spoil me #SugarBaby #DaddyWanted #DaddyNeeded #SugarDaddy #ShowMeTheMoney #Bad #Girl #Good #Time #SD #SugarGoals #SugarTalk #SB

[diamondluxesugar]

How do you sell the fantasy to your SDs?

What fantasy do you mean? I’m really just myself when I’m dealing with men. I’d get too confused if I made up too much lol