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pookies say hi
HEY LADIES :((((( I LOVE THEM SOOOOOOO MUCH PLEASE TELL THEM THAT
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i have a question that's rlly personal and it's totally okay if you don't want to answer!! I've recently been reeeeeally drawing away from the way I was raised (baptist) and I have never felt freer, but I'm also so scared all the time. how do you deal with the fear of not knowing things? idk how to word this but it's just an awful feeling and I don't know how to cope 😭
The fear of the unknown is one that I think effects most ex religious people at some point in their lives. I have definitely experienced it.
In the baptist tradition, everything seems so sure. You know The Truth about life, death, the beginning of time, and how it all will end. You know your purpose and you know you are guaranteed a good afterlife.
So leaving it means that suddenly everything isn’t so certain. Now you actually have to wonder, “what happens after I die?” and “what is the meaning of life?”. This can be extremely difficult to deal with, especially if you don’t have a good support network behind you- which most don’t.
As for how to deal with it, I can only really tell you what helped me. For me, it was very helpful to learn about life beyond the religion I was raised in. I was isolated from a lot growing up so learning about different perspectives on life from people of varying backgrounds (religious and non-religious) was really helpful. It helped me realize that with these sort of questions, everyone makes their own answers. Answering some of those questions for myself helped alleviate some of my worries, and accepting that nobody has all the answers took care of the rest.
But how you approach this will likely be very individualized so take what you find helpful from what I said and discard what isn’t. I absolutely do not mind answering these kind of questions so feel free to send them in whenever, especially if this didn't answer your question sufficiently. Follow ups are always welcome.
#if you wanted this answered privately let me know and I'll delete it#religious trauma#ex christian#apostate#ex baptist#fear of the unknown#ask#answered#long post#stubbytoes
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and if u had any more pics of him and Luke looking extra boyfriend i would not object 😌
Bestie ofc!!! I love them so much 😌
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can you help me find that picture of tom where he looks like he has a secret and he's about to burst and tell everyone ?? I'm so sorry idk how to better describe it
The only one I could think of was this😂😂 our classic spoiler king
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ooooo show me your homescreen!!!! i probably won't ever change mine either I'm too proud of her and she took like 3 hours 😌
this is she i am very proud of her 😌
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omg i just started watching outer banks like a week ago I love it
ITS SO GOOD!!!!
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omg i love capybaras too 😭😭😭
THEY ARE SO CUTE AND CHILL!!!!!!
In my hometown there was lots of them, the cars would wait for the to cross the street while the babied capybaras were after the mom capybara
THEY ARE JUST BIG HAMSTERS
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@g0lden-cth queen deserves it 💗💗💗
omg her header on her mobile theme is GORGEOUS I’m obsessed with harry’s hands!
send me a 💗 and I’ll compliment you/your blog/a friend’s blog
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i like fake vines too :) here are mine!
Omg prettyyyyyy🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
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MOON LOOK MY GIRLS GOT A LITTLE PLAYGROUND TO PLAY ON!!!! THEY'RE BEING SO BRAVE EXPLORING IT!!!! and last pic just bc look at her
OHHHHHH MY GOD!!!!!!!! A LITTLE PLAYGROUND FOR THE GIRLS BC THEY ARE INSANELY SPECIAL OMG :((((((((((
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Too warm outside for socks, but too cold for shorts. Halloween leggings and flip flops today!
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i tried to paint my nails and it ended with me rearranging and deep cleaning my entire room
🎵how did we end up here🎵
LMAOO I LOVE THAT!! That’s literally what happens to me all the time 😭
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LEYLA PLS I'M LISTENING TO THE YSIJWA PLAYLIST AND I HAVE WHIPLASH Y ARE WE GOING FROM DREAMS BY FLEETWOOD MAC TO 7 RINGS KGFJGSJFXKGC
vampirerry said FUCK emotions.................IM MY OWN BITCH NOW!!!!!!
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SKSOSMISMSIAHUS BESITE I LOVE YOU SO MUCH MWAH 😘
i love how everyone on this website interacts with each other in ways that are so socially impermissible irl. how did we get here
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canna and Canterbury bells!!!!
Not me forgetting about the ask post I rb earlier and wondering if I was having a brain bleed.
Canna: Do you have any tattoos? - Yes! I have 11 in total. I have three for the kid, two for my siblings, two for my dad, and one for my mum. The rest are silly stupid tattooed. Canterbury Bells: Do you have any piercings? - Also yes! I have my nose pierced, four piercings in my left ear, and five piercings in my right ear.
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omg just watching fireworks and stuff 🥺🥺
but i was the anon earlier who said we're twins for our bios <3
AHHH i got it then!! you came off anon 🥺 i hope you’re doing well!!!
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