#strugglingtoloveyourself

[serino137]

I feel like this needs to be said because it isn't

When someone hypes someone up about an insecurity that the person themselves isn't confident about, it's not being hypocritical.

Hyping someone out about something that you yourself don't like on yourself isn't being a hypocrite and it's not a bad thing. It just means that you're struggling to love yourself the way that you love the insecurity on someone else.

It just means that you haven't learned to accept that insecurity on yourself, and that's ok. We're all learning and growing in our own ways.

It's ok to love something on someone else but for some reason not like it on yourself. You're human. You're complicated. It's ok.

It's ok to see someone with hip-dips and believe that they look beautiful but look at your own hip-dips and think "I wish I didn't have these. " It's ok to see someone with acne and hype them up about their skin but feel insecure that you have acne. You're not being hypocritical. You're not being a bitch. You just see more beauty in others than you do in yourself and that's ok. You're learning to love yourself but struggling and that's ok.

Learning to love yourself when you're struggling to is ok.