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How Stress Ruins Your Social Life- How To Maintain Healthy Relationships with Offers in Stressful Situations.

How Stress Ruins Your Social Life- How To Maintain Healthy Relationships with Offers in Stressful Situations.

January 24, 2017

We all wish that we could have this equal and manageable balance in our lives. Where work is at an easeful and controllable level, we have an abundance of time to spend with friends and family. Housework and chores only take a tiny fraction of our day and everything remains orderly. So where left with just enough time to do something which helps us unwind. However, the harsh reality that the unexpected happens, work escalates, our friends and relationships fall apart and in a matter of time, something breaks in the house. Stress, is our natural react to what is going on. When we feel stress, it is our internal guidance system telling us that it cannot cope and things should be resolved. With stress, we often feel tired yet have this urgency and frustration-taking place at the same time. With a stressful situation, comes stressful thoughts. The more we focus on those stressful thoughts the more we create. It is a spiral. The mind, cannot handle its feelings. In result, we may lash out on others around us. However, we will only lash out on those close to us, because we believe that they will be able to help us handle what is going on. Which makes us feel worse about ourselves. So how can we maintain this and keep have healthy relationships with others. In today’s clarity, blog we will be exploring just this.

Firstly, it is so easy focus inwards too much; we are too caught up in what is going on in our minds and our lives. We fail to recognize that offers, and that what we say and do will a have an effect on them. The people around us are able to recognize when we are stressed naturally, or they are themselves in stress and unaware what is going on with you. So naturally, we have to express what is in outwards. Our minds create any excuses, no matter how insignificant it is to express. Either through anger, sadness, frustration, passive aggression. Anything, this is what causes the conflict. The key is, to move slowly and mindfully when stressed. Take a breather before doing anything with someone else, and express if it feels right how you feel. In addition, ask them if everything is fine. When we're stressed we move so high passed, since subconsciously we want to get everything done. Therefore, we may begin moving, talking and acting out quicker. We become reliant on our immediate thoughts and feelings, which cause the anger and upset. Which is not wrong, it is natural. Therefore, it is expressing that anger.

A good way of expressing that is through making erratic movements. Whether that is writing very quickly, topping across the room anything, which works to get what, is inside outside. Be careful when doing this, you do not want to destroy or do anything which will heart enough person. Find an outlet, even if it is in something we regularly do. Like mopping quickly. Also, to express how you feel emotionally to feelings, remind them of that you are human as well as them and you require your own space to deal with it. This is important for if you are stressful behavior has upset someone, apologies and take a piece of humble pie. Also, mindfulness, being aware of the self and your actions. Spending a few second making breaths.

In a stressful situation, it is good to spend time with others. In addition, doing something, which will cause you to laugh. That is why it is important to have that one friend with a great sense of humor. Because laughter also realizes those stressful and unpleasant feeling. Having hugs, which will cause you to feel better. All of these release endorphins, which combat those stressful thoughts.