#still hope my stuff makes some sense. i tend to overanalyze my text until I start to miss typos n stuff

[serysem]

5, 8, 9, and 10 for midlink

5. How do you envision them getting together?

Very bad slowburn. Their relationship started picking up right after Lakebed, when Midna slowly opened up to Link and told him about her people, their history etc. I feel like Snowpeak would be a big point where they got really close during harsh blizzards and Link almost freezing to death. What once might've been a silly crush quickly escalated (literally) and they accidentally kissed. While trying to silence unspoken feelings it just got worse and they confessed in very awkward ways

8. What are their love languages, and how do they show each other affection?

They care so much about the other's wellbeing. Midna takes care of Link's injuries, pats his hair and face, while Link soothes Midna's insecurities and acts like her grounding anchor. They like to hug tightly to feel the warmth/cold from the other

9. Do you see them getting married, and if your answer is yes, what would their wedding look like?

In my AU: Yes, definitely!! Their wedding was a very boring ceremony, mostly just formalities and all the fancy stuff. They were kinda forced into it because society pressured them to get married, and they just went with it because "eh, we love each other so why not"

10. Can you imagine them having any kids and/or pets?

AU again: Yes, 2 kids! They have a son called Viro and a daughter called Miliana. Viro was a shocking surprise because they did not think hybrids were possible, while Miliana was a happy accident. Age gap is 5 years and they both inherited Midna's temper

[pamabrew]

My 30-Day Social Media Detox

I was inside the train today on my way to work at around 6am in the morning. As the first light of the day overpower the darkness so as my thoughts overpowering my sanity. We are now in a generation of “pics or it didn’t happen”, “post or you don’t have a life”. As a social media manager, seeing new trends or what the hell people posts these days is as important as having that cup of coffee first thing in the morning. As someone whose life is married on the socialverse seeing them would be satisfying, but dreading when it’s too much.

Too much in a sense that every time I’m going to open my eyes in the morning I would instantly reach for my phone and check messenger for unread messages, Instagram for new story updates from people and facebook for unseen likes and comments. Not even my email or text messages that might be in need of an urgent attention. Whenever I’m doing something for work or even doing work outside, I would think of putting things on my story first because I feel like if not, people might think that I’m just procrastinating. “People think” “people might say” people, always the people who in reality doesn’t really care-unless they’re your haters, they would absolutely care.

So I was thinking of doing this social media break that some people are doing, some people who just like me are sick enough of everything online. I remember seeing this “My 30-Day Social Media Detox” on my planner. I never thought it’s going to be of good use until today. I wanted to start today. As I’m writing this, I’m calculating things on how the hell am I going to make it right because 1) I check my brands thru facebook 2) I post for their Instagram account, also on twitter 3) we communicate in the office thru messenger so HOW? HOW? HOW?

So for my sanity, I came up with these ways:

1. Facebook now has this kind of setting where you can put preferences on your feed. All you have to do is to click the three dots beside your News Feed, top left. Click Edit Preferences, click Prioritize who to see first. Click the button top right from All to PAGES ONLY then click the pages you want to see first then click DONE. This kind of setting will allow you to see the pages you follow FIRST. This may not work hundred percent but at least this will lessen your views of your facebook friend’s status updates or posts.

2. I want to be invisible at least online so I’ve set up my messenger setting to Turn OFF Chat to everyone and turned off my Availability as well on messenger. That way, people won’t always see me online or won’t even see me online. I don’t want to be rude to them by saying I don’t want to talk to them or I’m not in the mood for nonsense talks so…I hope they would only message me for IMPORTANT/WORK RELATED matters only.

3. On Instagram since it’s almost impossible for me to not look at it, I’ve decided that since I’m going to follow my SM Detox guide religiously, I would only have to turn my Push Notification settings to OFF. I can still view other people’s post or stories but at least I can limit myself from over sharing.

4.Is blogging part of the detox? HAHA! Okay, even if I seldom blog about stuff, this will still be included. Point Blank.

5. Now, is liking, commenting and sharing part of the detox? I would say yes? As for me at least. Not that I don’t like them or don’t care about them it’s just that sometimes, people tend to overanalyze other people and measure their loyalty, awareness and fondness thru likes, comments and shares. I mean just because I didn’t like your post doesn’t me I don’t like you or I think it’s nonsense, it’s just that sometimes I like to admire things in silence. So please don’t get me wrong.

I realized that by doing this I am also giving myself the time to reflect on really important matters in my life. Also, lent is here and probably this is something I can do for Him and for myself. I hope after the 30 days, I still have my followers and friends! Haha! Just kidding! I hope this would somehow make a difference on my inner being, my awareness and how I see things again. I am always on quest for something to improve myself and how I can contribute well to others and to this world. I may sound so idealistic but believe me, I mean every word.

PS. If you want a copy of the Social Media Detox, just send me a message. Don’t worry I’ll consider that IMPORTANT. Hahaha! Or you may get a copy of My Write Life 2018 Planner from Mercury Drug.

Good luck!