#specifically masc/butch/stud who is tall

[no1heyyyyyyyy]

Why is it so hard to date this young?? I'm on the apps and I'm trying sooo hard to meet someone who wants what I want (long term monogamous relationship), 18-20 years old, A SAPPHIC, has a job and/or goes to school, a top/top leaning switch, is emotionally stable, and has consistent communication AND behavior. Like, if you live in GA and fit the above criteria PLEASE HMU. I'm tired of coming across people who want to waste time and don't know what they want. As someone who is so used to taking care of others, I'd like to be taken care of for once.

[k3n-dyll]

"Masc shortage this" "Masc shortage that"

Have you perhaps considered that there isn't actually a masc shortage and that a lot of you just don't acknowledge mascs/butches/studs that don't fit your strict definition of what a masc is?

A lot of people - self-proclaimed 'femmes' specifically - refuse to acknowledge the fact that they just want a very specific type of masc! Y'know, one that passes a paper bag test that's really tall and doesn't cut their hair higher than their shoulders. Y'all don't want mascs that have a few layers of fluff on their bodies, or ones that consider a lot of stereotypically 'masculine' roles to be a part of their identity. You don't want a masc or a butch or a stud that's nonbinary in any way, you don't want a masc that has fem friends, you don't want a masc with stretch marks or pubic hair or one that doesn't want to dom you all the time!

Not only that but y'all would be shocked by the amount of stories I've heard from my masc friends (including my own fucking girlfriend!) about 'femmes' who lack a sense of personal space and consider them 'free to touch' simply because they think they're hot!

If you have limiting requirements and an utter lack of boundaries, you're bound to have an equally limited dating pool <3