#speak english to the people around them offline

[snarp]

The weird ways 15-to-25-year-old fiction writers use the English language because they don't read OEL books; they learn plot/scene structure from episodic serial narratives that are drawn out for years (usually not purely text-based) and/or require digging through auxiliary materials to piece together important details; learn words and phrases from video content without seeing how they're spelled/formatted in text......... This Will Have Consequences.

[theoldlesbianwithcats]

nanshe fest anon here, haha let me invent a callsign .... how about Rio :)

i totally relate to what you mean when you said you are not able to distinguish between the "lesbian" and bisexual experience shared in that interview. things like this hindered my ability to understand what my sexuality even was, since i cant relate to either of them. then i read "lesbian books" and dont understand how they can have sex with men without a mental breakdown. i had a mental breakdown about my sexuality when i was pressured to marry, tried DIY conversion therapy on myself but when i faced with the option of even touching a man sexually, death seemed better because how could i live like that? theres no way. of course this made my mental health worse but not to trauma dump - i am ok now, so dont worry.

the anon who talked about strap ons was also very insightful. the focus on strap-on contributed to me developing a severe sense of dysphoria around my genitalia with this depression that i would never be able to have a "real" sex life.

this is why it is so important for lesbian experiences to be heard, i think the queer spaces are making things worse for us, particularly when we are young and vulnerable. also i am from a non-english speaking country, where homosexuality is still criminal so i could only turn to these spaces for support. i think even in countries such as the US, its the same for a lot of lesbian girls in rural towns... they turn to these spaces for help online since its so scary to be a child in a violent homophobic family. maybe they get helped because its worse than nothing. but also it can screw with ur mind a lot. my dream lesbian event would be to hear from more lesbians of color who grew up outside west europe/us/canada... i had to leave my birth country to be able to have a future. but i feel so awkward to be the only lesbian of color in the room 99% of the time. its not that the white women are cruel, dont misunderstand me, they can be lovely and supportive. but it adds an extra level of alienation, because so many times in my country people would call homosexuality as a white persons invention. of course i know that lesbians exist elsewhere but it would be nice to see that in person at these events!

-rio

Hi again, Rio! :D

Yeah it's messed up that even in the "lesbian community" we think we're freaks so we don't even dare talking about our experience! I grew up in a small town and I remember discreetly reading sex ed books for teens at the bookshop for any info or positivity about lesbians, instead I would only find a paragraph telling me it's a phase. So tumblr was my lesbian safe space back in 2010, for example the "it gets better" campaign really helped me when I was bullied in high-school (unfortunately now that charity pretends they have no idea what a lesbian is...) Now the lesbian content is awful and lesbophobic everywhere, offline and online.

And I feel you about lesbian books, I finally got around to reading one I bought years ago because it was recommended to me and it was about two "lesbians" leaving their husbands for each other... We need book lists with actual lesbian rep!

All the strap-on stuff invading lesbian spaces is so weird yeah... A few minutes ago I clicked on a blog because she was talking about wanting to finger a woman while having acrylic nails, which made me go 🤨 and while she called herself a lesbian, it was obvious she wasn't, it was all talk about c*ckwarming and deepthr*ating ("but it's only for strap and girlc*ck, if you're a man do not interact!!!!" 🤪) I don't know if you had sex already but let me tell you that you are not lacking anything and no real lesbian will think you need a sex toy to be a complete partner and have real sex, she will only want you as you are. I mean, my ex-gf and I never even considered trying a strap-on and we definitely thought the sex we were having was real and amazing haha

About meeting lesbians of color, maybe you can find events on Instagram? I wondered why I never saw many women of color at lesbian events in Paris until I learned that black women preferred creating their own events and advertising them on Insta! Maybe you can also find an organization for LGBT refugees? Hopefully you can meet lesbians there :)

[moondrunklesbian]

Out of curiosity, how would I, an able bodies feminist, help support feminism centered around disabled women? (English is not my native language, I’m sorry for mistakes) I notice there is a large portion of feminism that does not consider disabled women’s voices and I want to help

Hey anon, thanks for asking this! I'm planning on writing some informative posts on this topic after I've spoken to some more disabled women about what they want and need from feminism.

I'll make a tag for these posts and hopefully the tag will be searchable on my blog.

Here are some things you can do (the order isn't based off of most important, its the order I thought of them in):

Listen to disabled women when they're talking about disabilities, especially about their own experiences. This one may seem simple, intuitive, and easy to do, it doesn't mean it isn't important.

If you are planning an offline meet up, pick an accessible venue when possible so disabled women can attend. This is things like buildings with ramps, elevators, easy to get to, if the building doesn't have a ramp make sure people are able to get in without using stairs, if it doesn't have elevators make sure it's on the ground floor etc. Ideally don't make this an afterthought, make this part of the planning process

Don't speak over us when we are having a discussion. Also related, ask for clarification instead of assuming what we mean. A lot of us have limited energy and I know I've personally not entered some discussions I wanted to because of this

Stop using ableist slurs. If you already aren't awesome, if you want to go a step further call out the people you see who do use them.

Uplift our voices. Online this can be things like sharing our posts about disabilities, sharing resources, posting resources, asking questions to further understanding. Offline this can be things like not speaking over us, directing the conversation back to us, just talking with us

This isn't a complete list and these may be things you're doing already. If anyone wants to add to my list please do so and I'll reblog your additions or post them if you'd rather send an ask

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People on TH have reading comprehension for two fucking minutes I beg. Nobody is excusing bigotry, that’s why we’re saying to BLOCK them and move on. The reality of the situation is that people are fully allowed to like and dislike what they please, nobody is actually legally forced or obligated to support every identity as long as they aren’t being violent about it or going out of their way to assault and murder people. They DO have the freedom to practice their religion, ideals, beliefs, etc. regardless of how you feel about it. That is not excusing bigotry, that is stating a fact. Nobody is saying you have to like it. Nobody is saying you have to agree with it. Nobody is saying you can’t block the person to get them out of your life. What we ARE saying is that you can’t shut people down, censor them, harass them, and expect them to change their views or conform to fit YOUR standards. Nobody is going to change their mind and side with a group that is actively harassing them. I see this mentality so much on Twitter/X, people will harass, doxx, threaten, and just generally try to cancel people, and it’s unacceptable. The hate mob mentality of trying to tear down others is so fucking stupid. You’re just as much bullies as the people you claim to be fighting against, but you’re blinded by the sense of moral superiority. You aren’t superior, and you’re sure as hell not moral either if you think what you’re doing is justified. You are hurting people, too.

You do realize that forcing people to choose between conforming to your views and ideologies, or being run off of the internet, is problematic right? The world isn’t yours to rule. You don’t get to decide what’s right and what’s wrong, and you don’t know what is going on behind the screen on the other side. Many countries across the globe are still LGBT-phobic and being openly gay, trans, etc. will get someone literally dragged out of their house and shot in the street. Many people live in LGBT-phobic homes and openly showing support or identifying as LGBT can get them put out onto the street. Just because someone is English speaking doesn’t automatically mean they’re North American and even if they are, they aren’t guaranteed to be safe to support LGBT people. Yes, obviously bigots exist and they’re bad people, but karma comes around without your interference.

You do also realize that people who are LGBT-phobic still exist offline, and you aren’t going to be able to block and report them to get them out of your life, right? Be thankful some of them openly advertise it, because many don’t. You could interact with someone offline for years who loathes your guts and wishes harm upon you every day for the way you identify, or the religion you practice, and you would never know the difference if they weren’t open about it, because believe it or not, it’s possible to be courteous to people you despise.

All you are doing right now is encouraging people to be stealthy about their hatred. You aren’t getting rid of them, you aren’t changing their mind, you’re just teaching them to hide their beliefs and intentions which means they’ll end up hurting MORE people in the long run.

Signed, a fucking tired trans person.

Not the least obeisance made he; not a minute stopped or stayed he; But, with mien of lord or lady, perched above my chamber door—

Perched upon a bust of Pallas just above my chamber door— Perched, and sat, and nothing more.

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Rambling about Ben 10 and the English language for ~800 words

In March 24th of 2008, Latin America faced a significant problem: the newest DVD release of popular cartoon series Ben 10 had been released, and it did not feature a Spanish dub. This limited access to the majority of the population, since most of them did not speak English. It was a real problem, I swear. Many people were affected! One child in particular suffered most of all… Me. It was me. I was the main victim of this crime. Seven year old me was absolutely obsessed with Ben 10 and I watched the DVD episodes on repeat most days. When I got the season 3 disks, I was confused to see that they did not have an option for translated audio. However, they did have Spanish subtitles available, and I had the determination to continue watching the show on loop. The result of this was watching every episode of season 3 and then later 4 over and over, day after day, listening to English audio while simultaneously reading Spanish subtitles. At some point, one simply starts understanding what they’re saying. 

The image of a child learning a new language out of sheer determination to keep watching one particular cartoon show is pretty funny, which is why for the most part I only bring it up to get a laugh out of people. Going deeper into it, though, it is not hard to see that it actually ended up being a pretty important event in my life. It’s not that the experience of listening to the explanation for how Ben 10 suddenly unlocked Upchuck of all aliens to eat a giant robot in the season finale had a profound impact on me, though the season’s Ghostfreak arc did fuel my continued obsession with the show. It’s that it’s hard to imagine how different of a path my life would have taken if I had never learned to speak English. This is, of course, almost entirely due to the Internet. 

I’ve almost never been in a position where knowing English has been necessary offline, but online it’s a different story, with basically every popular website requiring you to be able to at least understand English, even if not fluently speak it yourself. Without access to this mass of information, I would be a very different person right now, considering that being limited to only what I learned from people and institutions around me would leave me with significant gaps in knowledge. I may have questioned less about how this society works and what is expected of all of us. I would imagine my political views, while still strongly anti-colonialist, would emphasise anti-capitalism less. 

A more personally dramatic change would likely be my lack of exposure to the concept of being transgender. Queer topics are simply never discussed in Puerto Rico, unless by way of disparaging comments and jokes. I would likely still know next to nothing about them had I never learned English and gone online to stumble across information by myself. I might still be occasionally wondering what’s wrong with me in the rare moments of introspection before returning to my default state of running on autopilot, which went on for years which I now genuinely struggle to remember most of. I would also never have met the people that went on to become my friends. What would have happened had I graduated high school in that state and had no one left to talk to, to confide in, to ease my loneliness with? What would have happened had I never met Shahnaz, the person I’m closest to in this entire world, who knows me better than anyone and is the only one I trust to talk to about my deepest issues? They’ve shaped my life in so many ways that it feels impossible to imagine a version of myself that never knew them, never knew her.

Being able to understand this language has, looking back, been a vital part of my development into being the person I am now. It let me consume media I would otherwise have missed out on. It allowed me access to information and perspectives that I may never have been exposed to had I been relying exclusively on what I learned from people and institutions locally, or even limited to Latin American internet, leading me to question more about the world, the society and systems we live under, and myself. It even made me able to connect with people who I otherwise would have had no chance of talking with, some of whom would go on to become close friends and have significant influences on me as a person. Hell, I’m now even planning on living in Scotland, a fully English-speaking country. That’s certainly going to bump up the amount of use I get out of the language. While I may sometimes have a few complicated feelings when it comes to the use of the language due to colonialism, I’ve never regretted knowing it. Being bilingual has widened my perspective on pretty much everything and allowed me to connect with some amazing people. Most of all, it let me watch Secret of the Omnitrix over and over and over again, and that shit is still cool as fuck. I’m gonna go watch Ben 10 again now.

[akkrosu]

@majestictortoise Has somebody else caught me awkwardly lurking around spam-liking everything they post because I don’t do Tumblr the way it was probably intended? Because that must be the only way anyone can possibly know who I am. Well, thanks anyway!

Five things I like about myself? God, I hate this already, thank you very much. I’ll try, and right now I’m really glad I know pretty well what I’m good at, so there’s that.

I am undoubtedly good at languages. I don’t tend to put it like this often because it makes me self-conscious, but I think it means something when you study Applied Linguistics and are better at the foreign languages you study than 95% of the people you study with. I speak English pretty much as if it were my native language, various Spanish professors have asked me if I have family in Spain (which I don’t), and I am twice as fast at reading Chinese texts than my classmates after a year of studying it. And it’s both because I have a natural understanding of how languages work and because I actively put in the work and have the motivation to fully engange in a language.

I like learning. I always want to learn more. There’s this great German word, “wissbegierig”, that basically means “greedy for knowledge”, and I 100% subscribe to that idea. It doesn’t even matter if I’m interested in the topic or not—I soak up new knowledge like a sponge. And I’m also pretty good at remembering it.

I am nice. I like helping people. No matter if I know a person or not, if I like them or not—if someone so much as mentions needing something or not being able to do something, I will jump at the chance to offer my help. I once tutored a classmate in music theory even though she had never been nice to me after being in the same class for 7 years and even though I knew she would basically never talk to me again afterwards, just because I wanted to help her. I am terrible at accepting I can’t help someone, and will spend ages trying to figure out another way to offer my help. I guess a lot of things in the world could be better if people helped each other out more.

I say thank you a lot. This seems like a small thing, but I think it’s so important to say thank you if someone does something for you, small and mundane as it may be. It makes the other person happy, they know you appreciate them, it’s just great for an interpersonal relationship.

When I do things, I do them right. Even if it’s just listening to someone speak or loading the dishwasher. This often means I am slow at getting stuff done and tedious about the process, but everything I do, I get perfectionist about it until it’s just the way I want it. So if someone asks me to do something, they can be assured I’ll do everything they wanted and often more. Even if that often means they are asked a hundred seemingly tiny things about the task before it’s actually done. But I really like looking back at what I did after I finish and seeing something well done, something I’m proud of.

Thank you, I feel mildly uncomfortable now. Then again, it’s important to talk about what you like about yourself sometimes instead of drowning in self-pity thinking about everything you’re not happy with. So thank you for tagging me! Forgive me if I don’t tag anyone, I’m too much of an online (and often offline) loner who doesn’t know people. It was fun doing this though!

[dwellerinroots]

Tagged by: @dirty-bosmer These are so neat, thank you..! c:

• Do you play an instrument?

Used to play the violin, used to play the piano. I still think I've got the hands to do the latter, it'd be nice; but one day I'd love to become a master of the vuvuzela.

• Favourite book characters?

Questions like this are like pulling your own teeth and make no mistake. Since @dirty-bosmer, who tagged me, chose the luggage, I'll add Rincewind because a person who is unquestionably a coward and kind of a failure trying his best is important. (Little me would've gone Red Sonja with no hesitation and less chill.) Possibly Shriek from the very known novel the Dungeon Volume 2.

• What’s your star sign?

Virgo! ♍

• Favourite colour schemes?

Earth-tones. I like green in dark and light shades, blacks and stormy greys, all the shades of soil. Occasionally, add some river blues and cloudy whites, and we're done! Oh, and naturally - the brass of a talon in mid-flight. (Classical antiquity colour schemes as well, really...)

• Naps or long sleep?

I stare in my void-eyes, sworn to Vaerminerinmenrnin. I cannot remember the last time I have 'long slept.' What is 'long sleep.' It sounds lovely, but bewitching. I would like one 'long sleep' please.

• What languages do you speak?

Just the two, English and the one that sounds like Sussian.

• Dreams/aspirations?

Short-term, to lead by example and have certain offline friends and family understand that there are things they can do to make their lives better. Longer term to decouple them from the constant incorrect information that is in their life. Short-term personal, I'd like to travel a bit more and see friends who I've had to leave behind. Long-term personal... Creative efforts, also love, also sleep. I mean, there's not much else, is there...

• Long hair or Short Hair?

Short hair on me because otherwise my entire head becomes an orb of hair. I love both on other people, but think long hair is cooler because too much swords & sandals pulp fantasy instantly makes me think long hair... cool...

• Tea or coffee?

Is this even a question, I'm in the land I am now, it's coffee, dark nectar of the gods. I do like taking tea, don't get me wrong, but it's like a pleasantry, whereas the flavour of dark coffee is the absolute best. Just fantastic.

• Bring a book character to life or go into a fictional world?

Another tough one, for me... I'll go weird, but not too weird, then. I can't recall if it was called Diadem or the Diadem series, but there was a young adult fiction series that had crystals/gems == magic power, but really I just liked the shiny stone descriptions. Shiny rock, good. What, you say, staring, sounds like you could pick something more adventurous sure, but right now I just want magic minerals.

Tagging: Since I just pushed one of this, this one is open - please feel free to join in if you want, and if you're not interested, or want to do it at a later date, go right ahead with that, too! They're very fun though, so you're welcome around any time..!

[talkingbeesonlinetutor]

How to Learn Bengali Language and speak fluently

Technological systems are very developed in the whole world and because of this, learning any language like Bengali is now very simple. Bengali language courses for all skill levels, from novices to experts, are available on a variety of internet platforms. 

Websites such as Babbel, iTalki, and Duolingo offer structured interactive courses in vocabulary, grammar, and pronunciation. For people who want to learn Bengali informally by repetition and hearing, YouTube channels and Bengali language podcasts are also excellent tools.

The Best Way to Learn Bengali Online

When people mix multiple methods for a deep and knowledgeable experience, then this is the best way to learn Bengali online. Although language apps offer structure, they will greatly enhance conversational skills when used in conjunction with live engagement. 

While applications help students practice vocabulary and sentence structure, many students find that booking sessions with native Bengali speakers on sites like iTalki or Preply allow them to practice speaking spontaneously. 

Learning a language becomes more pleasurable when students practice with native speakers because they feel more at ease with common phrases and cultural quirks.

How to speak the Bengali language: Basic Tips

Learning a few keywords and training your ear for the distinctive sounds of Bengali are requirements for learning the language. Beginners may find it difficult to pronounce Bengali words correctly, but you can become more accustomed to the sounds by practicing and concentrating on popular phrases. 

Practice every day by saying them out loud and attempting to use them in casual discussions. You can educate your ear to the rhythm and tone of the Bengali language by watching Bengali films, listening to Bengali music, or watching Bengali news programs.

Learning Bengali Language Online: Benefits and Options

You may learn from an Online Bengali Class at your speed and from any location with the great flexibility of online learning alternatives. Students can modify lessons to fit their schedules and lifestyles with the use of apps, websites, and online tutors. 

To make studying enjoyable and interesting, a lot of apps provide interactive activities, tests, and flashcards. Additionally, Bengali language websites frequently include cultural insights, allowing you to learn the language while also comprehending Bengali customs, festivals, and daily life.

Finding Bengali Language Classes

Both online and offline Bengali language programs are available and given to individuals who are interested in taking structured instruction. Bengali classes are available to non-native speakers in a number of community centers, cultural institutions, and language schools. 

From simple vocabulary to intricate sentence patterns, classes are available online on platforms such as Udemy and Coursera. If you would rather learn in a classroom, search for nearby colleges or language schools that provide Bengali instruction.

Bengali Learning for Beginners

Beginning with basic grammar principles, vocabulary, and greetings is usually helpful for novices. Although Bengali's writing and pronunciation may make it challenging for English speakers to grasp, it gets simpler with consistent practice. 

Learn commonplace expressions such as "hello," "how to ask questions," and "how to introduce yourself." Daily practice will increase your self-assurance and knowledge of the language's structure, which will facilitate the transition to increasingly difficult discussions.

Learn to speak Bengali language: Practical Steps

Try mixing or combining Bengali into your everyday life to help you learn the language. Practice by thinking in Bengali whenever you can, utilizing brief sentences about your day, and utilizing Bengali terminology for around things. 

Bengali Language Classes Near Me

Look for nearby cultural centers, colleges, or language schools that might provide Bengali language programs if you're interested in receiving instruction in person. These courses frequently offer more individualized engagement and a more immersive learning environment, which can be especially beneficial for better pronunciation and grammar comprehension. 

Some community centers and libraries may even provide free or inexpensive beginning programs, providing students with additional options in their neighborhoods.

Engaging in Bengali Conversation

One of the best methods to get better in any language, including Bengali, is to practice having conversations. Locate an instructor or language partner who can assist you with speaking practice. 

You can practice in a casual, laid-back environment by enrolling in Bengali conversation sessions offered by numerous online resources. Learning Bengali idioms and slang with a companion also helps you have more fluid and natural-sounding discussions.. 

Bengali Learning Resources Online

There are many online resources available to assist you in learning Bengali, whether you're searching for interactive language tools, classes, or free materials. Well-known language-learning applications such as Tandem, HelloTalk, and Duolingo offer interesting lessons and practice chances. 

There are several YouTube channels devoted to teaching Bengali at all skill levels. Learning Bengali literature, music, or cinema can also improve your comprehension and appreciation of the Bengali language by acting as a linguistic and cultural bridge. 

Learning Bengali can be made accessible and pleasurable by incorporating these resources into a regular practice regimen. Every step you take towards becoming fluent in Bengali, whether it is through formal instruction, informal practice, or cultural immersion, advances your proficiency.

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How To Get Certified In French Language

There are millions of individuals studying French every day all around the world, so you’re not the only one who has always desired to pick up the language. It makes sense, too as the language of France reflects a rich past and culture. You can travel the globe with the French language, visiting North America, Europe, Africa, and even the Caribbean islands. Numerous institutions offer French language courses online and as well as in offline mode. You can adapt the French language to your level of comfort. With a few hours to spare each day, you can use online learning to achieve your certification while staying home.

Why Take French Classes?

A challenge like learning a new language can help you interact with people of all backgrounds and transcend linguistic and geographic barriers. It can also help you see the world from other perspectives. These arguments are particularly valid when studying French. First of all, learning French exposes you to a vast network of people across continental boundaries who speak the language. French is the sixth most widely spoken language in the world, spoken by little more than 300 million people on Earth. After English, it is the primary language of 29 nations, which is the highest number. These thorough French language guides can be used by instructors and students to develop their beginner, intermediate, and advanced reading, writing, and comprehension skills.

Advantages of Attending French Tree to Learn French

Speaking, understanding, reading, and writing French will probably be required if you want to apply for a job in a French-speaking nation or if you want to enroll in a French-speaking educational program. Learning a new talent may assist you in showing your creativity, challenge your thinking, and ultimately reveal new aspects of yourself. It’s not unusual to learn a new language, like French! Learning French can have a good impact on your life for several reasons. French Tree provides

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A French language course that focuses on understanding vocabulary and concepts. Additionally, you will study grammatical principles to improve your proficiency in French. You’ll be able to compose a range of texts once the course is over. You’ll get help from French Tree to speak French fluently. Learn French to the fullest and ace the major language tests, including the DILF, DELF, DALF, DCL, and TCF.

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Get Your French Language Certificate Online at French Tree

French Tree concentrated on elements that increase your chances of getting hired and give them additional promises. One of the platforms for learning French is called French Tree. The courses are offered online by us. Our French language course in Delhi are available exclusively in both offline and online formats, so you can choose how you wish to study the language. It is possible to become certified. Obviously, obtaining a French certificate is not a requirement for employment or academic admission, and it may also be a great way to have a tangible record of your own accomplishments.

It is preferable to enroll in an exam preparation course rather than trying to prepare for the French examinations independently, regardless of your proficiency level, as each exam has unique features and approaches that might be challenging to learn and comprehend on your own. Finally, to increase your chances of success, it is advised that you study before the French tests. This is even more true for the DALF C1 and C2, as well as the DELF B1 and B2. The approach plays a crucial role in these exams, which include written and oral production tests.

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[mygainyear2024]

Day 3 Portimão - pottering

Despite waking up super early due to the late afternoon coffee yesterday, I didn't leave the apartment until well after 9.30. First stop Village Fitness, about a 5 minute walk away, if I don't go around in circles! A one month membership costs €80 and the receptionist assured me the instructors would speak in both portugese and english. I had a tour and thought it would be my choice, but I wanted to check out another gym later in the day.

Next stop, chasing the coffee and Pastel de nata recommendation of one of the waitresses at the restaurant last night. I did a bit of googling and wasn't certain I'd completely understood "at the Continente and Delta Coffee". I had a hunch I'd be going to a wholesaler and there'd be no cafe present, which was true despite the word "saloon" being on a door. I did find Continente, which was a supermarket with a Coles style cafe serving Delta coffee inside. The galão was pretty shitty but the warmed Pastel de nata was passable. The trip meant I got to walk across the Ponte Velha and river to Ferragudo and enjoy the views and the sunshine. Many people have confirmed the weather here was crap last week, but today was wonderful. I also saw the largest birds nests I've ever seen and then noticed them in many more places.

I had a lovely chat to a Canadian couple outside a closed travel agent. We were in search of information about local bus cards, however the office had closed well before the 1pm siesta. They were in the Algarve last year and highly recommended the Saturday markets at Lagos. After spending ages in the larger supermarket as planned, trying to get google translate to work offline, I came home and had a feast of prawns and reduced caramel easter eggs and booked the train and a boat cruise in Lagos for Saturday.

Later in the afternoon I checked out the second gym option (which also had a much larger sister gym in the opposite direction to the way I'd walked), even though they were cheaper at €65 they could not guarantee any english translation in the classes.

So I've committed to Fitness Village and did a 45 minute TRX class with Ricardo, who is quite entertaining, followed by a 10 minute ab class. Then I promptly came home to struggle with the cork in the bottle of rose purchase which sadly is overpowered by notes of turps LOL! I did buy 2 more bottles today, so I'm hoping one cheap bottle of wine on this trip makes it to the "OMG wine is so cheap (and not nasty) in Europe" list!

[foreignlanguageinstitutedelhi]

Learn English Speaking Online

English is one of the most widely spoken languages in the world, and it is also considered the global language of business, education, and diplomacy. As a result, many people around the world aspire to learn English speaking to improve their communication skills and broaden their opportunities. However, learning to speak English fluently can be a challenging task, especially for non-native speakers. In this article, we will explore some effective ways to learn English speaking and improve your communication skills.

Practice, Practice, Practice

The key to learning English speaking is to practice as much as possible. You need to speak English regularly to become more comfortable with the language and build confidence. Try to find opportunities to practice speaking English every day, even if it's just for a few minutes. You can practice with friends, family, or colleagues who speak English or even find language exchange partners online. The more you practice, the more fluent you will become.

Watch English Movies and TV Shows

Watching English movies and TV shows is a great way to improve your English speaking skills. It exposes you to different accents, vocabulary, and grammar, which can help you learn how to speak English fluently. Try to watch English content with subtitles to help you understand the language better.

Listen to English Music and Podcasts

Another way to improve your English speaking skills is to listen to English music and podcasts. Music is a great tool for learning English because it can help you learn new words and phrases, and it is a fun way to practice pronunciation. Listening to English podcasts is also a great way to improve your listening and comprehension skills.

Join an English Speaking Course

If you are serious about learning English speaking, then joining an English speaking course can be an effective way to improve your skills. These courses are designed to help you learn the language in a structured and systematic way. They provide you with opportunities to practice speaking English with other learners and receive feedback from experienced teachers.

Use Language Learning Apps

There are many language learning apps available that can help you learn English speaking. Apps like Duolingo, Babbel, and Rosetta Stone offer interactive and engaging ways to practice speaking English. They provide you with exercises and games that help you improve your vocabulary, grammar, and pronunciation.

Surround Yourself with English

To learn English speaking, it's important to surround yourself with the language as much as possible. This means immersing yourself in English-speaking environments, whether it's by traveling to an English-speaking country or by joining English-speaking communities online. The more you expose yourself to the language, the more you will learn and improve.

In conclusion, learning English speaking is not an easy task, but it is definitely achievable with practice and dedication. By following the tips mentioned above, you can improve your English speaking skills and become more confident in your ability to communicate in English. Remember that the key to learning any language is to be consistent, patient, and persistent, and with time and effort, you will see significant progress.

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Top-rated IELTS online coaching in Bangalore - Start Your Preparation Today

Pronunciation, fluency, coherence, grammatical range, and accuracy are the key components of the IELTS speaking test.  Do you want to know how to raise your IELTS band score? If the answer is yes, then we can assist you in getting ready for your IELTS test. Aspire Global Education offers IELTS online coaching in Bangalore in addition to helping aspirants with IELTS coaching offline. The IELTS exam is divided into four main sections: Listening, Writing, Speaking, and Reading. 

The Speaking test starts with an  interview between the test-taker and a qualified examiner that lasts around 11 to 14 minutes. The speaking test comprises three parts, Introduction and interview, Individual Long term and two way discussion. This blog will help you to ace your IELTS speaking test. 

Tip 1 : Be an active listener 

You will speak roughly 85% of the time during the test. Rest of the time you pay attention to the researcher's inquiries. If you don't listen to the examiner actively, you won't be able to provide accurate answers. It is very important to  practice active listening using the following strategies:

Pay attention to keywords - It's highly important to pay attention to the questions being asked by the examiner. Pay attention to the questions being asked by the examiner and attempt to analyze the key words. 

Do you believe that allopathic medications have surpassed ayurvedic ones? Speaking about ayurveda and allopathy will indicate that you did not pay attention to the examiner. The key words in this case is "Surpassed" by allopathy medicines.

If you didn't hear a question clearly the first time, don't be afraid to ask the examiner to repeat it. Just keep in mind that once or twice is fine.

You can ask the examiner to explain a word to you if you didn't understand it.

If you need more clarification, say "so what you are asking is…" after the examiner's question.

The best way to get ready for Part 2's extended round topics is to also listen to podcasts, TED talks, radio/TV shows, etc. so that you have enough information to discuss any topic in two minutes. The best strategy for acing this portion of the speaking exam is to come up with ideas after listening to a podcast, talk show, or audio clip on a particular subject. You can get ready for your speech by coming up with ideas after listening to a podcast about your favorite place. 

You can make a mind map using questions about a particular topic like, What types of landscapes are available in India? What is your favorite landscape? Why is it your favorite place ? 

You are welcome to talk with the researcher about the subject after a lengthy translation. You should be able to defend your position, provide examples of your solutions, and make comparisons between historical and contemporary situations in this section of the exam. For instance, in the third section if the topic is  food, you might inquire about people's eating patterns, the distinction between healthy eating and junk food, or how food is produced. 

Create a list of potential questions using the above-described brainstorming technique, then tailor your responses to each one. Take note of what other people have to say about the cuisine. To put it simply, if you want to raise the bar for fluidity and consistency, listen and reflect.

Tip 2 : Try using lexical words

It is very important to know more synonyms of various words to use in your speaking test. Don't just memorize a list of challenging words and use them at random during the speaking test. Create lexical fields on frequently asked subjects to increase your vocabulary and improve your test-taking performance. 

Google some words and idioms related to the chosen subject. Try incorporating them into your everyday speech. By following these methods You will be able to demonstrate a wide variety of lexical resources and raise your rating for this criterion as a result.

Tip 3 : Try using more English words

Speaking in our mother tongue is very easy and convenient more than other languages. However, speaking in English more frequently will help you improve your language skills and increase your chances of passing the IELTS speaking exam. The first step in learning is to think in English, begin by thinking of frequently used words in English, then move on to phrases, then think in full sentences, and finally have conversations about a topic in your head in English. 

You will soon be able to master the ability to think in English if you practice doing this regularly for at least 30 minutes each day. By doing so, you'll be able to get rid of some common grammar mistakes, particularly ones involving word order, and raise your grammar band.

Yes, it is extremely important to answer your questions with confidence, but it's also crucial to do it with clarity. Contact Aspire Global Education that offers IELTS online coaching in Bangalore can help you achieve your desired exam score.

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Common myths about the IELTS exam debunked

Introduction You've probably heard that IELTS is a difficult test, or that it's only for English-speaking countries. But these are just some of the myths about this popular English language proficiency exam. In reality, you can get certified in one country with a single score, and there are plenty of study materials out there to help you prepare for the test! Let's debunk some of these myths:

Myth No. 1: IELTS is one long essay question

The first myth about the IELTS test is that it's one long essay question. The IELTS test is made up of four sections: reading, writing, listening and speaking. The listening section is a 10-minute interview with a native English speaker who asks you questions based on a topic they've chosen. You'll have to answer these questions in your own words using examples from your own experience or knowledge (so no research required!). Implementing preparation tips for IELTS would help you to do better.

Myth No. 2: You need to be able to write perfect English to succeed You don't need to be a native speaker to pass the IELTS.

It's a listening and reading test, so your accent won't affect your score as long as it isn't too strong. Your writing doesn't even count towards your final grade -- all they're looking at is how well you can understand what the examiner says during the speaking section of the exam.

Myth No. 3: The examiner won't understand what you're saying if your accent isn't perfect

You might be worried that your accent will hinder your ability to communicate with the examiner. It's true that some people have a more difficult time understanding accents than others, but if you speak clearly and at a normal speed then there should be no problem for them. (Read More: 7 best tips to improve IELTS Reading)

The IELTS examiners are trained in order to understand as many different types of English as possible. They do this by listening carefully to what each candidate says, using their experience and knowledge of English accents from around the world. If there is any doubt about what was said by one candidate over another, then both candidates go through additional training before taking part in group tasks or speaking tests together later on during their coursework period (see Myth No 4). Myth No. 4: There aren't enough study materials available for this exam

If you're looking for a way to prepare for the IELTS exam, you'll be happy to know that there are plenty of IELTS resources available online and offline. You can find a number of free resources online, or buy books and study guides from Amazon or other bookstores. If you prefer one-on-one coaching, there are also many IELTS coaching centers that can help you prepare for the test in no time at all! Don't believe all the myths about IELTS tests, or be afraid of taking them! IELTS is an exam that measures your ability to use English in an academic or professional setting. It's not just a language test, it also assesses your ability to communicate effectively and appropriately with people from different cultures.

The IELTS exam is based on rote memorization.

While the IELTS exam does require you to memorize certain vocabulary, it's not a test of rote memorization. Instead, it tests your ability to use English in real life situations and improves the vocabulary to communicate with others using the language. You can only get certified in one country with a single score. You can get certified in many countries with a single score. You can also get certified in more than one country at once, if you want to. In the past, the IELTS exam was only available in select locations and languages. However, this has changed over time as more countries have become interested in using it as their official English proficiency test for immigration purposes or university admissions. (Read More: A guide to improve your IELTS Listening score)

Conclusion

If you're looking to take an IELTS test, don't let these myths scare you away! The truth is that the exam is designed to assess your ability to use English in real-world situations and can be taken anywhere in the world. You also don't need perfect grammar or pronunciation if your score reflects what's important: being able to communicate effectively in English no matter where it comes from.

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Stolen - Lando Norris x Reader (Chapter Two)

2.9k words, rated E for everyone :)

Lando’s voice, amplified by the TV speakers, echoes around the humming Red Bull garage. “I’m fine but I’ve been better. I can say that I’m not in perfect condition, I’m not gonna lie. Some work to do mentally of course. I talk about that a lot, and mental health and mental strength is very important. I’ve not been sleeping that great and so on… not ideal and I’m feeling a bit sore, but I’m not the guy in the worst position after Wembley. I’ll work on it, I’ll make sure I’m in the best shape possible, and I feel like I can still go out and focus on what I need to do, and that’s the main thing.”

Your mind races as you listen to the boy plastered across the many screens revisit his experience at Wembley. He sounds awful; something about his cadence making it even more obvious that he is really, truly shaken up. The wavering pitch, awkward pausing, fumbling for words; everything about the way he presents himself is serving as a brutal reminder that being physically unscathed is no indicator that harm was not dealt. Even as the interview moves past the topic of last week’s Euro Final, you notice the shift in demeanor and your heart aches. You worry that bringing the watch to him is a bad idea, that it could prompt unbidden memories and disquieting feelings. You understand how big of an event Silverstone is from your dad’s tangents alone, especially for an English team with an English driver, so you reevaluate whether your decision to come was selfish, one made solely to alleviate your own sentiments of guilt rather than to verily right your believed wrongdoings.

On the journey to Silverstone, your dad had made multiple attempts at lessening your stress, even opting for variations of the if he steps out of line I will put him right back in his place father speech. Unfortunately fruitless, your father’s attempts mean you remain just as anxious as when you had first discovered that you managed to obtain a stolen wristwatch.

You’re not sure whether it’s the crisp morning air or your nerves that sends chills across your flesh, but your attempt to ground yourself subtly doesn’t go unnoticed by your dad as he passes you in the garage.

“Time is ticking,” he informs you, a smirk playing on his lips. “No pun intended.”

You roll your eyes in an attempt to downplay your apprehension, but your voice gives away any and all signs of the false confidence you hope to portray. “Can you do it for me?” you plead.

“I can’t just stroll on over to the McLaren garage without an invitation or proper reason, especially not a couple hours before free practice starts. It doesn’t look good.”

“It’s not like me walking in there instead would look any better,” you retort, gesturing to the Red Bull logo plastered across the chest of your black polo. “Your branding isn’t what I would call subtle.”

“Look, the McLaren team are a good sort. They’ll help you out if you just explain the issue and show them the watch. I’m sure Lando will understand too, he seems like a pretty nice bloke,” your dad reassures you.

Sighing, your eyes meet the floor, fingers intertwined with each other as you fidget incessantly. Before you can speak up in further defiance, however, an additional set of footsteps grow nearer and you freeze at the voice which speaks up.

“Christian, how much longer until our media slot?”

You lose your breath momentarily, locking your gaze onto your shoes as you wait for the person to pass by.

“About five minutes, Max,” your dad replies. “We were just about to head over.”

When you hear the footsteps grow fainter, you risk looking up, thankfully being met with only the observance of your father. You don’t even realize that you’ve tensed your body until your dad points it out.

“Relax,” he says. “He’s not going to say anything here, especially not on a race weekend.”

Nodding, you feel your shoulders ease up but you remain quiet.

“Anyways, like I said, our media briefing and interviews start soon and we’re after McLaren this weekend so they should already be back in their garage,” he says, realizing that you still appear troubled by the task ahead of you. “I promise you, everything will be fine. Just go over there and I’ll meet you back here when we’re done. The quicker you head over, the quicker you’re done with it and we can all move on." With that, your dad walks away and you reluctantly leave the Red Bull garage, adjusting your shirt as you straighten up.

You take a brief glance at your phone, turning it off after you try one last time to keep the picture of the boy imprinted in your mind. Eyes darting rapidly, you attempt to scan the paddock for anyone looking remotely like him while you make your way towards the bright orange and blue indicators of the McLaren garage.

The frequency of orange-clad individuals grows the further you stray from the safety of Red Bull’s garage, and you feel your heartbeat begin to increase. Worried that someone would stop you before you could approach the one person you had traveled all the way to Silverstone for in the first place, you quicken your pace.

You’re mere meters away when you spot him. Pushing past a few people while trying to keep your eyes trained on him, you watch as he turns around to talk briefly with the woman next to him.

Huffing, you muster up the little confidence you have and tap him on the shoulder.

His confusion is evident and the blonde woman next to him does not look pleased to have been interrupted. The silence is palpable as they stare at you, expecting an explanation for the abrupt ending of their conversation.

“Hi,” is all you can deliver. You’re at a loss for words while the woman next to him seems to lose what little patience she has with you. Everything you had rehearsed beforehand, gone. Your mind is foggy and your mouth feels dry as you try to compose yourself. “Um, can I talk to you for a second? It won’t be long, I promise.” Your voice breaks at the end and you wish you had never agreed to get on that stupid red-eye to Silverstone in the first place.

Lando offers a look of sympathy and then turns to the woman next to him. “Charlotte, could you just give us a second?”

Pursing her lips and turning on her heel, the woman walks away, heading towards the mouth of the McLaren garage. She’s far enough away that you’re out of earshot, but close enough that you feel her gaze linger as Lando turns back to face you.

“Hey, don’t worry,” he tells you with a smile. “We can take a picture if you want or I can sign some stuff for you.”

“What? No.” You shake your head, mentally slapping your palm against your forehead and forcing yourself to get a grip. Idiot. “Fuck, sorry, that sounded so rude! It’s just-” you rush to explain.

“Oh no, it’s okay!” he stammers. “I should’ve guessed from the Red Bull shirt anway.”

You both share an awkward laugh before you compose yourself and reach a shaky hand into your bag.

“This is going to sound so weird, but I was online shopping for a new watch the other day because I lost mine, and I’m pretty sure I bought the one that was stolen from you. I didn’t know anything about it, I swear. I just...well, here,” you say, offering the watch and its temporary box to Lando.

He looks at you, taking the box only to go wide-eyed at the contents inside.

“I have all the information that I was able to get, but the ad was taken off of eBay and I really wanted to do the right thing and give it back to you. Please don’t be mad.”

“What the hell?!” he exclaims, earning a few looks from people passing by and catching Charlotte’s attention once more. “Sorry, sorry. How did you get this?”

Amused, you laugh quietly while he studies the watch intently. “That was my dad’s reaction too. Basically there was a listing for it on eBay and it was sort of an impulse buy,” you explain. “I didn’t see the news coverage of what happened until afterwards and I felt awful. I’m really sorry you had to go through that, I genuinely had no idea.”

Shrugging, he plays it off. “Nothing I can’t handle.” It’s hard to miss his sudden change in attitude from the interview you watched moments ago and you can’t help but wonder whether he has your or the watch’s presence to thank.

There is a brief moment of silence between you both before he continues. “How much did you pay for it?”

“It was so cheap, honestly,” you say. “Nothing compared to the original price, I’m sure.”

Charlotte, alerted by Lando’s attention-grabbing reaction to being reunited by his watch, returns to where the two of you are standing. “Oh wow, did you find a replacement watch for him?” she asks you, clearly impressed by the apparent likeness.

“No, Charlotte”, he corrects her. “It’s my one. Look.” He hands the watch to his PR manager, who receives it so gently you think she’s afraid it might shatter in her hands. Flipping the watch between her fingers, she studies the small engraving on the underside of the face.

“Oh my god,” she whispers.

Lando nods. “It’s the exact date it was given to me, there’s no way anyone else could know that and make a copy of it.”

You feel the need to justify yourself to her. “It was listed online and I bought it before I knew anything about the situation. I didn’t even really know who Lando was until I saw what happened on the news, I swear.” You anticipate her anger or disapproval, preparing yourself to withstand the lecture you’re about to receive and mentally promising that, as soon as it’s over, you can run back to your dad and tell him you just want to go home.

But it doesn’t come.

“I can’t believe it!” she exclaims. “We all thought we’d never see it again and you found it on accident.” The smile she gives you sets your mind at ease. “Technically, this is a police matter now, so I’ll have to hand it over to the right people, but this helps us tremendously. Did you get any information about the seller?”

You explain the situation to her, about how the listing was taken offline but you have a printout of the messages and address the seller gave you, which you hand her from your bag. She lets you know that someone may get in touch soon to ask questions but not to worry, that it’s only a formality. Eventually, she asks if you’d like to watch free practice from a spot in the mobile hospitality unit, but you politely decline, explaining that you needed to get back to your dad in the Red Bull garage instead.

Charlotte smiles fondly at Lando and presses the brim of his cap down over his eyes. “Come on, you, we have to go and get ready now anyway.”

He takes off his hat, cheeks flushing as he makes an effort to quickly brush the curls lining his forehead, placing it back on and dismissing Charlotte with a wave of his hand. “Okay, just give me a minute.”

Once the two of you are alone, he pulls out his phone. “Do you have Venmo? I’ll pay you back, it’s not fair that you had to waste your money.”

“Oh, don’t worry about it.”

Lando seems unconvinced. “It’s really not a problem.”

“Seriously, it’s all good.”

“Well,” he continues awkwardly. “I have to go, but are you here for the whole weekend or...?”

You shake your head. “Just today. I’m not into Formula 1, I find it a little bit boring.”

“Seriously?! The fastest cars in the world and you’re calling it boring? Why even come to something like Silverstone if it’s so boring?” he feigns offense, doing air quotes as he imitates your apparent disdain for the sport.

Laughing quietly, you shrug. “I have family at Red Bull, so it was basically just luck and convenience that you were in the U.K. this weekend,” you clarify. “I don’t really understand Formula 1, that’s all.”

“Fair enough, it’s not for everyone I suppose,” Lando replies. “So who in your family works at Red–” The end of his question is drowned out by the sound of his name called by an evidently disgruntled, impatient engineer.

He sighs. “I’m sorry, I’ve really gotta go, but, um,” he exhales with a nervous laugh. “I still feel like I need to repay you in some way. Do you want to go get a drink after the race on Sunday? I’m busy for the next few days but Sunday night I’ll be free. Only if you want to, of course, I don’t want to, like, pressure you or anything.”

You laugh, appreciative that the nervousness was shared. “That– Yeah, that sounds fine. I’ll give you my number.”

He types your details into his phone before apologizing once more, thanking you again, and rushing off into the garage.

——

On Sunday, you let your dad believe he’s the one who convinced you to stay for the entire race weekend, but it’s the promise of Lando’s company later that night and the endearing text messages on your phone that prompts the desire to see this weekend through. You had spent the previous nights on your phone, going through driver and team Instagram accounts, as well as the F1 website, to get an idea of what to expect. Typically, it would pain you to look through motorsport news pages, especially with so many of the reports centering around Max and his vie for the championship as of late, but you manage.

You notice almost immediately while settling into your spot at the back of the garage that the energy does not match your own. You are enthusiastic and eager, while the rest of the team is stressed and rushes around you. Presumably, it’s because race day impacts their livelihoods and paycheks whereas it only dictates your family’s dinner topics, but, nevertheless, your excitement refuses to simmer.

Unfortunately, if it was weird for you to be seen at the McLaren garage before the first free practice, it would be infinitely more suspicious for you to be lingering around on race day, so you were not able to catch Lando at all since your initial meeting on Friday. However, you made sure to message him good luck beforehand, to which he thanked you and expressed excitement for your upcoming night.

“If you need anything, just ask. I’ll be on the pitwall,” your dad says, snapping you out of your whirring mind. He notices your obscure behavior, quick to comment on it. “Is it weird? Being here after so long?”

You nod, shrugging. “Unusual, for sure. So much has changed since the last time I came and watched, but I’m excited, though.”

“Well, it’s always good to have you here.”

Reciprocating your dad’s grin, you silently send him on his way. He exits quickly and leaves you to your own devices. Though, your own devices look to consist of impatiently waiting for the race to start and scrolling absentmindedly through your phone. Ironically, your boredom with pre-race antics appears to create quite the dichotomy against the chaos exuding from the garage you find yourself encompassed in.

Regardless, your attention is regained when frequent cuts are made to the drivers in their cars, and you recognise that the race will be starting soon. You are temporarily startled when the cars begin moving without hearing an official announcement, but quickly realisee that it is merely a formation lap and no one else around you seems to be paying all too much mind to it.

When the cars return to their positions on the grid, you watch eagerly as the lights flash and the announcers begin yelling. You keep your eyes trained on the orange car towards the front of the grid, watching Lando so intently that you almost miss what happens to the cars in front of him.

Your eyes go wide as you watch the events unfold: the Red Bull car out front collides with what you identify as a Mercedes, spinning and slamming into the barrier. Gasps chorus across the garage as the screens replay slowed clips of the crash as an announcement states that the safety car has been deployed. They replay it from every conceivable angle, your astonishment at the severity is present upon your first viewing, but it’s only after the sixth clip that it clicks in your head that the person in the car is Max.

“For the second time this season, Hamilton and Verstappen clash and tangle on the opening lap, but, this time, it is ending in dramatic consequences for the championship leader.”

If you had perceived the pre-race behavior in the garage as chaotic, this was a whole new level of absurdity.

People rush around you while orders are shouted and frustrations are verbalised.

Your dad is angry.

The last time you recall him behaving like this was when your younger sister had broken the wine glasses he had bought for your mother on their honeymoon. You, however, ignore his yelling and remain encapsulated by the TV, releasing a breath you didn’t know you were holding as the events unfolding finally, finally register in your brain.

Car number 33 is in the wall and out of the race, and your ex-boyfriend is inside, silent and unmoving.

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[bogkeep]

there's a thing i find very frustrating with the [gestures vaguely] general online sphere, at least the one i am part of. almost every discourse and public discussion will center around the english language, usamerican politics, usamerican history, usamerican identity dynamics, and usamerican experiences. which makes sense considering how much of the western internet population of note is, indeed, usamerican. there's nothing wrong with that in and of itself, it's not really anyone can help, but, it can get... overwhelming? discouraging? when one culture seeps its way into the Everything. i understand it's not just One culture, usa/america/the english language is Not A Monolith - but neither is any other culture, or country, or continent, or language.

have you noticed how many vicious internet fights are just about words? who gets to call themselves what, as if any one person gets to be an authority on other people's experiences and identity (my lukewarm take is that they don't). i'm not saying words don't hold power and community and pain. they do! language is such a fundamental part of how we connect, across all this space and through all these barriers. but like, my native languages might not even have an equivalent of whatever word we're fighting about this time around. or if it does, it has entirely different history and connotations. it might not be a word i will ever say aloud in dialogue offline. it makes so many discourses seem pointless and needlessly cruel, especially when it is so completely disconnected to my own lived experience. i understand, i am a guest at the english speaking table and i'm doing my best to pay respects to the hosts, but i'm also chained to the chair and can't really escape it, either.

worst of all is how hard it is to like, speak up about things that don't align with a general usamerican perception of Things. there's a big overlap in problems people have across the world, but due to the world being a vast and diverse space with lots and lots and lots of people, the majority of which are not in fact on tumblr or even twitter, things may be Different. even though usamerican dynamics and history and politics are affecting the rest of the world more and more and the internet makes us more globally connected than ever, it does not mean you can always apply How Things Work In USA to anywhere else. when people say, "things work a little differently here," it does not mean they are avoiding the issue or trying to escape accountability, it might just mean that the usamerican framework of thinking about this issue doesn't match up at all and isn't helping anything. or worse, due to things being Different and the Usamerican Framework being held up as the true arbiter of Problem, many people really may believe We Don't Have That Problem Here (<- is probably sitting on a very bad hideous Problem they can't see because the usamerican part of the internet is completely unaware of it and will never bring it up and if anyone brings it up it will get drowned in the cacophony of Things That Happen Outside America Actually. Do We Need To Care About Them? Oh Shit Caring About Everything In The Entire World Is Actually Very Overwhelming And Way Too Much For One Human To Handle).

i have learnt a lot from being online. i have learnt a lot of valuable perspectives, i have learnt a lot about history and activism i never would have otherwise, i have learnt to recognize dogwhistles and stereotypes that aren't present in my offline surroundings, but are useful to know when interacting with the wider world. but it always always always feels like whatever i read and learn about usa and america it carries much more weight and importance and relevance than... the rest. and every time someone speaks up that maybe usa isn't the protagonist of the world, they get yelled at. i mean, a lot of things get you yelled at online, so that's not special. but it's discouraging to constantly have your experiences downtrodden!

i don't think this is going to change anytime soon. but for anyone who has it in them to do so; try to keep an open mind. no experience is universal, and no experience is exclusive.