#sonamy isnt even like my favorite ship or anything but

[reachhforthestars]

Sonic 3 spoilers!!! Talking about the mid credits scene/what people have been saying about it under the cut

feeling like the only one who doesnt want reverse sonamy for the movies </3

or more accurately, fine sonic can have an obvious crush on her but i dont want ‘reverse sonamy’ to mean ‘amy doesnt have a crush on sonic.’ she can be lowkey about it or whatever (like sonic is sometimes in the games/other media) but to me part of Who She Is is that shes this super cool, super strong, intelligent fighter but shes also still a young girl who has crushes and believes in fate and is guided by her compassion, not by her strength or her mission or her love of adventure.

shes such a good character because while she is physically strong and possibly slightly magic, those are equally as important as her love and compassion and care for the world and people around her. preserving amys girlhood is important to me like loving sonic isnt her single defining character trait bc she ‘has to have a crush on a guy’ but it is a main character trait because thats just who she is. a loving person who sees the good in the world and wants to protect it and loves sonic because she sees him as the embodiment of that

[kellodrawsalot]

So I've seen you reblogging a lot about this fujioshi war. But I've been thinking. Why is it socially accepted that men can like girl love but when girls like male love it is frowned upon ? People are crazy

Yes its kind of weird, there is this weird silence when it comes to men who produce Yuri or lesbian porn work, there is also this this silence about male Straight Fudanshi’s who product or love Yaoi work. ( I honestly never see  antis complain about heterosexual men consuming Yaoi work , they seem to get a free-pass ) 

Yaoi fangirls/Early generation Western Fujoshi’s were never populair in fandoms from the beginning, and some part that was to blame to the bad-apples in the fandom. (the yaoi paddles, the ones who screamed your homophobic for not liking this ship!!) but I have been online and involved in fandoms since early as 2004 and I have always notice this double standard. Plenty of fangirls on Deviantart and early days of fanficion who loved straight ships acted insane or crazy too, some of them shipped het ships or paired their own female character with a famous male characters and attacked people for shipping their fave character with someone else. but I never heard anyone judge the ‘’straight/ shippers/  with these bad apples. When I was involved in the Sonic shipping fandom fans were a-okay with strange and uncomfortable  age-difference ships like Tails/Rouge and Cream/Shadow, but the ones who shipped Sonic/Shadow were the ones being called pedo’s  which is just a huge double standard. (Personally I a more of a SonicxSally or Sonamy shipper myself but Sonic fans can get weird on this issue too)

What makes me sad is that Fujoshi’s used to deal with actual homophobic people in the fandom who used their views or religion to bash their fanwork and their fanfiction or even harassing people for the ships they like. I used to get negative comments how wrong homosexuality was sick and that I was disgusting for making that character gay. 

Now we have people who  harass Fujoshi’s who are not ‘’homophobic’’ but harass in the name of gay rights and its a different sort of wrong all together…I discovered this myself when I saw people bashing Fujoshi’s on a Discord of a Komahina chat group I used to be active on. But I notice one big difference, the most of the userswho did this were al very young. So I can only conclude that these young fans just ate up anything they see on tumblr anti Fujoshi’s blogs and want to feel like they do some sort of’’ justice’’ when they attack and harass Fujoshi’s. When no, bashing Fujoshi’s doesnt make you some true warrior of gay rights. Mygay male friends I have spoken too about this, dont care what yaoi is and that women like it or they love the yaoi works themselves too and dont care that the ones who consume it are women. Another irony is that a lot of these anti Fujoshi’s dont realize that a lot of their favorite works are created by Fujoshi’s (Black Butler, Yuri on Ice, every series created by CLAMP. and even open lesbian Mangaka’s like the author of ‘’My Lesbian experience with loneliness’’, is  also a Fujoshi. Its interesting to note that a lot of Japanese lesbian women are Fujoshi’s.  because Yaoi for a lot of women, gay bisexual or straight is a safe way for them to express sexual feelings without guilt or shame. The biggest problem is that the majority of lesbian and heterosexual pornographic works are made by straight men for straight men. Women in porn trough the straight male -lens is not always comfortable for women to see. With Yaoi/boys love, this isnt a problem.

and for those who think Seme and Uke are offensive, Tops and Bottom are terms that are used in the gay men and women community too. 

having said that, Fujoshi also just means a woman who loves Homosexual ships and there is nothing wrong with that.