#some of yall just wanna be biphobic them act like bi people are calling you biphobic for nothing

[frogsare-friends]

hey! hey, you! yes! you! being les4les is fine! be les4les! go for it! i totally get it, i'm bi4bi! it's nice having partners that understand your experiences! lesbians and bisexuals can and do have different experiences! and it can be frustrating when people say you're biphobic for being les4les! but there's a difference between "i'm les4les bc i want to only be with people that understand almost all of my experiences and/or i want to avoid any opportunity for someone to see me as my agab" and "i'm les4les bc bi women will always cheat with men and aren't really into women and are only into trans women bc they think they're really just men" like, there's a HUGE difference there. the first one is so absolutely perfectly fine! the second one is biphobic! also, for people to say every and/or most bi people dating trans people see them as their agab not only is that a biphobic thing to say, but you're actively ignoring how many trans and enby people are somewhere on the bi spectrum! and yes, bisexuals and lesbians have different experiences, but guess what? that doesn't just mean bisexuals don't understand lesbian experiences firsthand, it means lesbians don't understand bisexual experiences first hand either!