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[daybringersol]

Staring at you in autism /silly

Please tell me about mouthwashing

omg. okay. so. its about these five people stranded on a space ship after they hit an asteroid. they go insane. its really trippy and everything and theres some SERIOUS topics handled (SA, violence by caretakers, alcoholism, suicide, unreality, cannibalism, gore and more, probably). the story is told by skipping forward and back in time, in little episodes. theres basically no traditional jumpscare (i can tell you when they happen if youd like), its all in the ambiance and the imagery. i never managed to finish it because theres this one ‘level’ im stuck on (the graveyard one, if anyone knows what im talking about), but i watched the end of a lets play to not miss anything. god its so fucking good. you get so attached to the characters. god.

[soleilapproves]

i love ur sukuna fics so much arghhhh <3

Thank you so much 🥰

Nanami may be my favorite but writing about Sukuna is just so much more fun lol.

Also, I’ve been trying to get out of the boxer!sukuna bubble (I just want to try something new), and I’m glad my new fics are getting good reception :)

[solaireverie]

Why is no one talking about the song choice Lando put over his Carlando post? It's so gay and sexual and it feels like them coming out as a couple?

everything lando does is gay and sexual 🤷

(some of the lyrics of the song lando chose)

… right. they totally fucked.

[brevityisthesoulofbitch]

☁️ 🍓

☁️- this is a question that gave me some trouble, but in a good way (also sorry this took me so long to answer) I always considered myself to have a type like lots of people do.

But after coming more into my own realized spent a good portion of my life thinking that it was about waiting for My Type to arrive and anything less than what was constructed in my head would fall short and that they would just show up. It’s common for people to say , “well it’ll show up when you stop looking for it.”

This is false...at least for me. I want people who fascinate me. Who I can’t get enough of. Who engage with me in honest and completely radically vulnerable ways.

And that’s cultivated. And discovered-in all sorts of places. Looking back at my attractions and relationship history, it’s checkered and varied and the only common denominator is I was drawn to their passion.

Anybody can have that and what follows next is based on circumstance, the work put into it, and all sorts of varying factors.

It’s very cliche, but my type is anybody living as authentically as they can and that really turns me on lol

((Also Will Graham is my type.

And Viggo Mortensen.

And Neil Gaiman))

🍓- have one tattoo currently. Had it for nearly five to six years now. Full left forearm and it’s in Broadway Font that my college graphic designer roommate helped me discover (going through endless amounts of text. god bless her and the work she wasn’t getting done those nights), it says ‘brave’ in those huge fantastical letters and I can assure you if you ever wish to test the universe slap that as large as you can and see what happens next lol. I love it. It’s my first and I got it for a variety of reasons that may or may not sound similar to everyone else who has ever tattooed ‘brave’ onto their body. The font was chosen because I am absolutely and irrevocably in love with F. Scott Fitzgerald and The Great Gatsby and have been for a very long time. Though his truly best work is and will always be me to me, ‘The Crack Up’ a series of essays and non-fiction from Fitzgerald nearer the end of his life. I will mourn the unfinished ‘The Last Tycoon’ for far longer than is necessary. I later found out that makes me dark academia trash, but at the time of the tattoo I was unaware of this terminology and even now-I am admittedly dark academia trash, even if I feel ‘too old’ for the name. This affront to the universe will eventually have green coming off the letters like a glowing light in tribute to Gatsby & the Green Light at the End of the Dock. His reckless pursuit is something, stupidly or irrational as it is, is something close to me. All the rest of my tattoos had to wait for personal reasons, but are all text and about nearly as bad as you might predict if you’ve made it this far in reading this lol; a collarbone piece that is ‘do not go gentle into that good night/rage rage against the dying of the light’, something from Tolkien, a quote from Gaiman who is one of my largest inspirations, and a Hamlet quote (the dream role though writing takes up most of my time now). I also said I would get a tattoo with this old lady in Texas at a shop in Austin called Mom’s.

She’s going to be thrilled I called her old.

But she is.

[daybringersol]

How did top surgery go/if its happend ? if so I hope you make a safe and healthy recovery

weirdly well !! barely had any pain, was able to go eat at a café the next day, barely took any meds. tbh the worst part of it was waking up from the surgery (anaesthesia made me really nauseous), having to sleep on my back and how itchy the bandages are. having some parts of my skin that i dont have any sensations in feels really funky, but i can already tell the nerves are reconnecting. i was intimidated by the drains before the surgery, but it’s actually really easy to do (and mess-free!). i should be able to get them removed soon ! tbh my recovery process is NOT typical, im just built different i think

here [link], if you want pictures & more info !

[daybringersol]

Youre cool and fun Juno I like you :3

thank yoouuuuuu i needed thatt 🙏

[daybringersol]

this isnt in the ask game but im curious anyways

a song that reminds you of someone who comforts you

or if thats too convoluted, a song that comforts you

Gonna go with a song that comforts me in general, cuz I know you got a whole playlist of songs that remind me of a person that comforts me.

Here, you even get two.

[daybringersol]

Hi! I'm the coiner of the cpunk flag, I was told you made a userbox with it but I don't see it anywhere on your page just on that users pinned post, we moved from wateryourgender (the blog we originally posted it on) to archival-arrival and fantasy-store (more active on cpunkwitch).

If it was Infact you that made the userbox we want to let you know we're fine with edits using our flags but prefer to be tagged and/or linked for credit, og blog at best otherwise usually tagged on fantasy-store.

Not upset or anything just info! (Light hearted)

- blue

alright, no problem, wait a sec !

edit : done, tagged the og account :D

edit : so, didnt look enough on the first one i tagged you in, so i tagged you one batch of userboxes that didnt have the cpunk flag in it, im trying to find the one that actually has it in it (i remember it was a request, someone asked me to do it, most likely by asks)l but tumblr often deletes my posts for some reason, or make them impossible to find. gonna keep looking but its possible that post doesnt exist anymore. if youd like, i could repost it with the credits @cpunkwitch (tagging so you see this)

edit : found it [link] !! turns out i had already credited you in it ! if youd like, i could still add the @ of the og account :D

[daybringersol]

Hello! Thanks for reblogging the askgame! Your ask is~

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Feel free to answer any other prompts if your interested!

If you could have a 60 second conversation with any jrwi character (either them being transported to the real world or you being transported to the campaign world for 60 seconds). Who would it be and what would you say?

Hmmm.. Had to think about it… With only 60 seconds there’s not much I can say so I need to be strategic about this.. I don’t think there’s anything I could say in 60 seconds that’d change someone’s mindset, so I’d probably more have to go with something that’s fun. I think I could convince a character I’m God just by how much ‘secret’ knowledge I have of them. My pick for this would be.. Chip JRWI. I will be the beginning of a cult in Mana and there’s nothing anyone can do about it.

[daybringersol]

if asexuality or aversion to sex comes from trauma, that is absolutely something a therapist and you are supposed to address, that's not queerphobia and equating it to conversion therapy is kinda disgusting and queerphobic itself lmao

That is not what I said in the slightest, to a point where im questioning if youre asking me this in good faith at all. Please actually read and/or reread the words I typed before accusing me of things like this. My initial post was not even worded in a way that was vague enough to be misinterpreted this way.

If you still don’t understand how misguided you are, here is my attempt at putting it more clearly :

Yes, aversion to sex and/or romance and lack of sexual/romantic desires can come from trauma. Therapy can help that, if you find the right therapist. However, from my own experiences, I can tell you that the way a lot of therapists approach this is at best, ineffective, and at worst, downright retraumatizing. If sex and/or romance makes you uncomfortable, being convinced to take part in sexual/romantic acts without you having desires for it or being downright averse to it is a recipe for disaster (for most people). It just puts you into more non-consensual and traumatizing positions. That is what exposure therapy is, and that is what most therapists have tried (and sometimes succeeded) to do to me. Horrible experience, would not recommend to anyone. This approach tries to cure the symptom instead of the issue, and is deeply based in ace/arophobia (seeing “fixing” a lack of attraction as more urgent and important than addressing the source of the issue, the actual trauma).

Also, no. If someone doesn’t feel like fixing their trauma for any reason, nobody should push them to. A therapist can absolutely inform the patient on the benefits of doing so, but trauma work is incredibly hard, very much a long-term thing, and can put the patient in an extremely vulnerable headspace. It’s the mental equivalent of breaking a bone to set it right again. For an abuse victim who just got out of that situation, it is completely understandable for them to want to enjoy their new-found freedom and joy as much as they can, for as long as they want. Pushing them towards trauma work without the right environment, mindset or literally anything else they feel might make this not the right time for it can cause further damage, especially knowing how the current psychiatric institution works.

Asexuality and aromanticism, however, do not come from trauma, or any other neurological differences. It might be affected by it, and people with life experiences similar to aro and/or ace people are welcomed in the community (for exemple, sexual and/or domestic abuse survivors that are sex/romance averse), but it is not caused by it. Most therapy settings are not informed about asexuality, and assume it is a symptom of a underlying issue, that needs to be fixed. The same kind of exposure therapy that I talked about earlier is often used to “cure” aro and/or ace people, putting them those same non-consensual and traumatizing situations. That is conversion therapy, and medical use of coerced corrective rape. These therapists are, often with methods similar to gaslighting (and I use the original meaning of the word here, not the diluted tiktok version of it), convincing people to do sexual and/or romantic acts that they have no desire to do, to fix an issue that doesn’t exist, with the explicit goal of making someone not queer. Please explain to me how that is not conversion therapy.

Other forms of arophobia and acephobia are prevalent in psychiatric institutions as they are today, tho I wouldn’t call most of those conversion therapy. You only need to look at the notes on my post to see what I’m talking about.

I genuinely hope that this is a formative experience for you, and that in the future, you learn to actually read what is written before you send messages like this. Have a good day.

[daybringersol]

merru christmas

merry christmas ! i went to church (only for the choir) and didn’t spontaneously combust !

[daybringersol]

🌻

ive been thinking about pillbugs.

[daybringersol]

I saw ur allo aro wallpaper

Do you do other wallpaper? Could you possibly do a non binary one? Tyyy

Of course !

Here :

Art by, in order, Noelle [link], the Museum of New Zealand Te Papa Tongarewa [link], me and me again.

[daybringersol]

i just wanted to say i saw your post about the moral ocd thoughts you get that sound like straw men by conservatives and i just felt so seen. i’ve only recently gotten diagnosed with OCD and even less time spent in therapy for it and i just thought this kind of stuff was normal for me to think every second of every day and that i was making up my moral OCD and was taking away resources for other people with OCD and it’s just nice to see someone post about it, acknowledge that it’s moral OCD, and break down that no, this is not in fact how the world works and i am deserving of the care im getting

so thanks, from a random person on the internet

Thank you so much for sharing that with me, it’s the reason I posted it in the first place <2

[soleilapproves]

thank you for feeding us 😭😭😭

i hope you had a great holiday and enjoyed your wellness trip!!!

just wanted to say i love your fics so much 😭😭 i just love reading about sukuna and your depictions are so good!! I’m so glad i found your blog when I did because i’m obsessed!! Especially with boxer!sukuna and mechanic!sukuna 😼 love ex-convict!sukuna too tbh, excited to see where all these stories lead 🫶🫶

AAAA of course, I’m glad I’ve been keeping you full.

I had a great time during my break, thank you! I hope you also had a good time during the holidays! (If you don’t celebrate Christmas then I hope you’re just doing well in general haha)

Thank you soooo much for reading my fics. I get a little self conscious cause I know Sukuna’s characterization in my fics can get a little too fanon, but reading your feedback helps me feel more confident about my work :)

I have LOOOTS of fun stuff planned. Thank you for being a loyal reader 🫶

[soleilapproves]

Hiii! I recently discovered your stories and I love them all so much 🥹 I literally binged them all in one sitting lol

No pressure at all but if you feel inspired to I would loveee to see more of burnt out reader x ex-convict Sukuna. It doesn’t have to be smut ofc esp since it’s against ur request rules but I would just love to see where their characters go from here.

Thank you!! No pressure again. I look forward to reading any stories you plan on writing!

Thank you so much, anon! Im glad you enjoyed reading them 🫶

I actually have a really good ex-convict!sukuna fic / drabble (?) in the works but I haven’t been able to finish it because I’ve been reeeaaaally busy this month 🫠

BUT I do plan on uploading SOMETHING before the year ends.

Keep your eyes peeled 👀

(p.s. no pressure felt. Only love)