#soft achillean

[gendervesp]

Soft (Nonbinary) Achillean

Just a flag mainly for nonbinary man likers who feel a part of their aspect is soft. This could be their preferred aesthetics, the pronouns or labels they use, how they express love etc.

It's just being a soft, nonbinary man lover. But you can opt to use it as just a soft achillean flag or replace nonbinary with a gender label more specific to you. Likewise, you can replace achillean with toric/nblm/mln etc Whatever floats your boat.

Soft (Nonbinary) Sapphic

Flag for nonbinary woman likers who feel a part of their aspect is soft. This could be their preferred aesthetics, the pronouns or labels they use, how they express love etc.

It's just being a soft, nonbinary woman lover. Like above, you can opt to use this flag as just a soft sapphic flag or replace nonbinary/sapphic with whatever term that's more preferred by you.

These flags were made specifically with nonbinary people in mind but feel free to use em even if ur not nonbinary. Do what you want, these are mostly just about being soft and gay as fuvk.

No flag meanings, and these were coined December 29, 2021 on my Instagram account (gendervesp)

[lavend3r-stardust]

I want to get to know him better. I want to know what he loves, what he likes and doesn't like. What makes him hard, what makes him cum again and again, what brings him to tears as he's sprawled beneath me. I want to know what makes him arch into my touch while I kiss him, what makes him beg for my mouth while I play with his cock and slowly stroke him off. I want to know what makes him feel good -what makes him moan louder for me and have those breathy whimpers hitch in the back of his throat- if my hands are better than my lips or if he wants me to fuck him into the bed until he's a sweaty, pathetic mess. I want to know every inch of his body like the back of my hand. I want to know how I can claim him as mine and mine alone

[alterouslyinlove]

anatomy of a boy: a guide written by a boy who is very smitten with other boys (i like boys a lot)

boy tummy. good to use as a pillow. squish squish. also very kissable

hands!!!! so holdable so biteable etc etc hands are the best part of the body change my mind

lips. for. well you know😊😊😊

HAIR TO PLAY WITH I WANT TO PLAY WITH BOY’S HAIR AUGH SO FLUFFY

boy chests. flat, large, anywhere in between, they’re all great!!! especially boy tits i love you so much

collarbones. this one’s for my beloved she likes collarbones and frankly i have to agree with him

BACK. i am not elaborating

guys i’m running out of ideas i didn’t think this far ahead

shoulders bc i do get distracted by them ok (/j) shoulders are very gnawable looking

that’s it give me some other SFW ideas in the notes if you want no pressure /gen

[hyacinthnova]

There's something about being a man in love with another man that just feels so right. Like something inside of me is being healed as the pieces are coming together. I love witnessing and sharing masculinity in a romantic context. It's gentle and calming and reassuring.

[moonlightsapphic]

Look, I just need you guys to understand how important queer coming-of-age forbidden romances on internationally accessible platforms like Netflix is, especially to youth in countries where homosexuality still hasn't been legally decriminalised or socially accepted.

That was a mouthful, so let me explain. You, a white American adult with a liberal family, may not relate to a fictional anxious teen Swedish prince grappling with strict familial and societal expectations versus his first love. You may not find anything special in a bunch of queer British teens discovering themselves and figuring out complex relationships that are honestly rather simplistic, in retrospect. It might be a little too trite for you. Like, just a little vanilla without any extra drama. Perhaps corny—cringe, even. Too wholesome.

But you know what that is to me, a desi queer young adult? It's representation, in an unlikely place. My country certainly isn't making movies or shows where I see my secret relationship between me and my girlfriend portrayed. I don't see that happening in the next couple of decades, either, sadly. But you know who’s telling our stories? Alice Oseman. Lisa Ambjörn, Lars Beckung and Camilla Holter. Through fictional storylines that might seem kind of boring to you, I am finally able watch my lived experiences play out on screen.

American media has done such a disservice to queer coming-of-age stories. I want to scream this from the rooftops. Y’all, I’m glad to see more out quirky queer side-characters—I can’t get enough of them—but why is it so rarely their story, in sharp focus, about how they found themselves? I want to know how they overcame internalised homophobia. When was the moment they knew? What is the cost they have to pay for being out? For not being out?

And no, I don’t want it to be dramatic. I don’t need to see violence or betrayals or victorious kisses in public, really. I’m happiest with the teenagers behaving like real teenagers. Innocent, vulnerable, nervous. I want it to be heartfelt, and excruciatingly slow, and authentic. I want to see the small wins and the subtle losses. The quiet mental toll of how much you have to give to a queer relationship—especially your first queer relationship—and how hard that can be to separate from your Identity itself.

Give me that "am I gay?" quiz and genuinely crying at 3:00 AM because you're in a rabbit hole about LGBTQ+ rights in a country where you actually don’t want to be gay and you don’t even know if you “count” anyway. Show me that moment where you're going back and forth from forbidding yourself from seeing the one person that sees and understands you and it's to protect your mental and physical well-being but it's driving you insane. Give me ALL THE YOUNG ADULT BI+ AWAKENINGS where one person strolls into your life and changes everything. No, it’s really not the same as most cis-heterosexual insta-love movies out there, even if it looks that way to you. It doesn’t even cut it close.

The happy ending, the acceptance is only what I can dream of, not what I can expect. The wholesomeness is actually radical to me.

No, we’re not past the need for basic star-crossed queer romances. For most countries in the world (including for many white American teenagers!), we need them as much as ever.

[prettyboysmlm]

aaaaaaaa boys with soft tummies !!!!!!!!!!!! so cute and squishable !!!!!!!!!!! i love u so much !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[the-local-puppy]

What if we went to the library and read our favourite poems to each other and then kissed in the moonlight.... jk jk

unless

[effeminateebony]

A fulfilled life seeking peace and ease.

[haewrin]

♡ can you feel my heart ੭ @wiotas

[thepileofclothesonyourdesk]

non queer girls are like: Of course im an ally! I love fetishizing gay men!!

[lavend3r-stardust]

Stomach kisses right above the waistband of my boxers make me feral. like damn, do that again please

[alterouslyinlove]

what if we listened to music with each other and sat rlly close together bc the cord from the earbuds isn’t long enough

[hyacinthnova]

Hugging him isn't enough anymore, I need us to fuse together and become one single blob of gay comfort

[autistic-partisan]

achillean flag + stimboard

💙 / 💙 / 💙 🤍 / 💚 / 🤍 💙 / 💙 / 💙

[angelst4t]

having almost polar opposite aesthetics but being oh so similar in personality >>

[effeminateebony]

Self Care for Colored Boys